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idu1:
OK you are nursing student. No one ll pay you 110k.




Fresh graduate of general nursing salary is 50-70k in private hospitals.

For real?

Natural drink is always a better and healthier option in my opinion. This is for both adults and kids.

Fresh fruit juice, yogurt and water.

A native nurse ke?

Which one is native nursing?

^^
Noticed that too

The blog didn't reference the source. I was originally written by Loy Machedo from Quora

Spazwik:
oh, are you allergic or just don't like it ?. you can make with spaghetti

It's actually because of my mum. She showed me a video about indomie or noodles (can't remember which one exactly been a few years) being unsafe to eat and that was it oo. Stopped eating noodles entirely + it's not very nutritious.

Looking forward to trying it with spaghetti

Spazwik:
It's simply spicing up the Normal noodles you know

I don't eat noodles so I was hoping there was something else I could use in place of it.

Thought I might post this here.

http://torontodawah.com/ruling-on-pursuing-sports-as-a-profession-and-earning-a-salary-from-playing-shaykh-saalih-al-fawzaan-and-ibn-qayyim-al-jawziyya/


http://alifta.com/Search/ResultDetails.aspx?languagename=en&lang=en&view=result&fatwaNum=&FatwaNumID=&ID=5637&searchScope=7&SearchScopeLevels1=&SearchScopeLevels2=&highLight=1&SearchType=exact&SearchMoesar=false&bookID=&LeftVal=0&RightVal=0&simple=&SearchCriteria=allwords&PagePath=&siteSection=1&searchkeyword=070079079084066065076076#firstKeyWordFound


About receiving money for games
http://www.fatwaislam.com/fis/index.cfm?scn=fd&ID=793

Thus it is clear that taking football as a profession as it exists nowadays is haraam, because it includes things that are forbidden in Islam, even if playing football is basically permissible.

This applies especially if we realize what is involved in taking football as a profession, such as travelling to kaafir countries to play against international teams. It is obvious to everyone what kind of kufr, evil and sin is present in those countries, and it is also well known that the players are exposed to the temptations of women and desires because of their fame, stardom and wealth.

From islamqa.

Jazakallahu Khyran

Can relate to a few of them.

^^
Jazakallahu Khran for the link

Wa alaykum salam wa rahmatullah wa barakatu

I am not sure what to tell you.

Why does she want you to follow her to the Alfa? What is the Alfa going to do?
Try talking to her about. What are the chances of her actually not paying your fees because of it?

Wa alaykum salam wa rahmatullah wa baraktu sis. If you mean being a professional football player like the ones we see on TV then let the football career fall somewhere else lol.

1) It would be impossible to play football with proper hijab.

2) You will play infront of an audience which will include both males and females and I don't think this is from shyness.

You can always play footballwith other women or your family. I have to say it seems like you care about your health (going jogging) and I admire that.

Modified*
[s]Lexiconkabir is an old moniker. Abdelkabir is the new one.[/s]

Narrated Abu Sa`id Al-Khudri:
During the lifetime of the Prophet (ﷺ) some people said, : O Allah's Messenger (ﷺ)! Shall we see our Lord on the Day of Resurrection?" The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "Yes; do you have any difficulty in seeing the sun at midday when it is bright and there is no cloud in the sky?" They replied, "No." He said, "Do you have any difficulty in seeing the moon on a full moon night when it is bright and there is no cloud in the sky?" They replied, "No." The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "(Similarly) you will have no difficulty in seeing Allah on the Day of Resurrection as you have no difficulty in seeing either of them. On the Day of Resurrection, a call-maker will announce, "Let every nation follow that which they used to worship." Then none of those who used to worship anything other than Allah like idols and other deities but will fall in Hell (Fire), till there will remain none but those who used to worship Allah, both those who were obedient (i.e. good) and those who were disobedient (i.e. bad) and the remaining party of the people of the Scripture.

Then the Jews will be called upon and it will be said to them, 'Who do you use to worship?' They will say, 'We used to worship Ezra, the son of Allah.' It will be said to them, 'You are liars, for Allah has never taken anyone as a wife or a son. What do you want now?' They will say, 'O our Lord! We are thirsty, so give us something to drink.' They will be directed and addressed thus, 'Will you drink,' whereupon they will be gathered unto Hell (Fire) which will look like a mirage whose different sides will be destroying each other. Then they will fall into the Fire.

Afterwards the Christians will be called upon and it will be said to them, 'Who do you use to worship?' They will say, 'We used to worship Jesus, the son of Allah.' It will be said to them, 'You are liars, for Allah has never taken anyone as a wife or a son,' Then it will be said to them, 'What do you want?' They will say what the former people have said.

Then, when there remain (in the gathering) none but those who used to worship Allah (Alone, the real Lord of the Worlds) whether they were obedient or disobedient. Then (Allah) the Lord of the worlds will come to them in a shape nearest to the picture they had in their minds about Him. It will be said, 'What are you waiting for?' Every nation have followed what they used to worship.' They will reply, 'We left the people in the world when we were in great need of them and we did not take them as friends. Now we are waiting for our Lord Whom we used to worship.' Allah will say, 'I am your Lord.' They will say twice or thrice, 'We do not worship any besides Allah.' "

Reported in Sahih al-Bukhari

I would love to apply but can't dedicate 12 months and I don't meet the requirements.

Alennsar:
Ameen and I pray to be there also masha Allah.

In sha Allah

Usernamesucks:
Ameen.

PS: I'm a male ma'am

Sorry

Usernamesucks:
Assalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah. I've been following your posts sis and I must say I'm impressed with your knowledge and commitment. If you're married, your husband is a lucky man indeed. He's given his kids a good mother. If you're single, may Allah grant you a good spouse. May He grant other single muslims(myself included) good spouses. Ameen

Wa alaykum salam wa rahmatullahi wa barakatu.

Wow sis your post left me speechless. I am not even sure how to respond.

Thank you .

Ameen. May Allah grant us and other single muslims good spouses.

Found this to be very comprehensive. Posting because it might help someone else.

100 PRE MARITAL QUESTIONS

What is your concept of marriage?
Have you been married before?
Are you married now?
What are you expectations of marriage?
What are your goals in life? (long and short term)
Identify three things that you want to accomplish in the near future.
Identify three things that you want to accomplish, long term.
Why have you chosen me/other person as a potential spouse?

What is the role of religion in your life now?
Are you a spiritual person?
What is your understanding of an Islamic marriage?
What are you expecting of your spouse, religiously?
What is your relationship between yourself and the Muslims community in your area?
Are you volunteering in any Islamic activities?

What can you offer your zawj (spouse), spiritually?
What is the role of the husband?
What is the role of the wife?
Do you want to practice polygamy?
What is your relationship with your family?
What do you expect your relationship with the family of your spouse to be?
What do you expect your spouses relationship with your family to be?
Is there anyone in your family living with you now?
Are you planning to have anyone in your family live with you in the future?

If, for any reason, my relationship with your family turns sour, what should be done?
Who are your friends? (Identify at least three.)
How did you get to know them?
Why are they your friends?
What do you like most about them?
What will your relationship with them after marriage be?

Do you have friends of the opposite sex?
What is the level of your relationship with them now?
What will be the level of your relationship with them after marriage?
What type of relationship do you want your spouse to have with your friends?
What are the things that you do in your free time?
Do you love to have guests in your home for entertainment?
What are you expecting from your spouse when your friends come to the house?
What is your opinion of speaking other languages in home that I do not understand? (with friends or family)

Do you travel?
How do you spend your vacations?
How do you think your spouse should spend vacations?
Do you read?
What do you read?
After marriage, do you think that you are one to express romantic feelings verbally?
After marriage, do you think that you want to express affection in public?
How do you express your admiration for someone that you know now?
How do you express your feelings to someone who has done a favor for you?
Do you like to write your feelings?

If you wrong someone, how do you apologize?
If someone has wronged you, how do you want (s)he to apologize to you?
How much time passes before you can forgive someone?
How do you make important and less important decisions in your life?
Do you use foul language at home? In public? With family?
Do your friends use foul language?
Does your family use foul language?

How do you express anger?
How do you expect your spouse to express anger?
What do you do when you are angry?
When do you think it is appropriate to initiate mediation in marriage?
When there is a dispute in your marriage, religious or otherwise, how should the conflict get resolved?
Define mental, verbal, emotional and physical abuse.
What would you do if you felt that you had been abused?
Who would you call for assistance if you were being abused?
Do you suffer from any chronic disease or condition?
Are you willing to take a physical exam by a physician before marriage?
What is your understanding of proper health and nutrition?
How do you support your own health and nutrition?

What is you definition of wealth?
How do you spend money?
How do you save money?
How do you think that your use of money will change after marriage?
Do you have any debts now? If so, how are you making progress to eliminate them?
Do you use credit cards?
Do you support the idea of taking loans to buy a new home?
What are you expecting from your spouse financially?
What is your financial responsibility in the marriage?
Do you support the idea of a working wife?
If so, how do you think a dual-income family should manage funds?
Do you currently use a budget to manage your finances?
Who are the people to whom you are financially responsible?
Do you support the idea of utilizing baby sitters and/or maids?
Do you want to have children? If not, how come?
To the best of your understanding, are you able to have children?
Do you want to have children in the first two years of marriage? If not, when?
Do you believe in abortion?
Do you have children now?
What is your relationship with your children now?
What is your relationship with their other parent?
What relationship do you expect your spouse to have with your children and their parent?

What is the best method(s) of raising children?
What is the best method(s) of disciplining children?
How were you raised?
How were you disciplined?
Do you believe in spanking children? Under what circumstances?
Do you believe in public school for your children?
Do you believe in Islamic school for your children?
Do you believe in home schooling for your children?
What type of relationship should your children have with non-Muslim classmates/friends?
Would you send your children to visit their extended family if they lived in another state or country?
What type of relationship do you want your children to have with all their grandparents?
If there are members of my family that are not Muslim, that are of different race or culture, what type of relationship do you want to have with them?

...............
Modified to include my own questions
Asides family relatives, do you have non-mahram contacts on your phone? If you do who are they?
Do you watch movies?
Do you listen to music?
How do you spend your weekend- do you invite friends over every weekend(if you do who will cook for them) or spend time with family?
Are you a gamer? If you are, how many hours a day do you spend playing video games?
Do you smoke or drink alcohol?
Do you have a problem with eating outside?
How important is food to you?
How do you think couples should make their decisions? Should they both discuss it together or does the head make the decision and wife follows?
If you and your spouse were to have a fight, who would you talk to?
Do you get up for Fajr?
Do you have a problem moving to a different country or state?

After all the asking questions- find out where suitor lives and ask people in the neighborhood about them. It's unfortunate but people lie about themselves during proposal.

For the indomielette, is there a substitute for noodles?

*The baked shrimps looks awesome.

Following.

Let me go and look for something inersting to try

Salam alaykum

What are some questions to ask the guy and his family who are proposing (to get to know them better)?

Everyone's contribution is welcomed.

*Modified found some

http://haqislam.org/pre-marital-questions/

http://www.zawaj.com/articles/marriage_questions.html

Alennsar:
Assalamualeikum pls did you saw d msg yesterday or are you two accts?

Was alaykum salam.

I responded since yesterday.

Alennsar:
Assalamualeikum sister pls check your mail.

Wa alaykum salama wa ramhamullah wa barakatu

Didn't receive any new email.

Did you send one today?

I have my reservations about the article as well as the choice of words used

I stopped reading at polygamy is permitted within the context of war and orphans.