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Eid Mubarak! I know this is coming late but better late than never
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namet:
Nurses and other healthcare professionals should be held to very high standards because they control people's lives. However, there's no scientific evidence that shows that the drug administered by this nurse was done with malicious intent.

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More so, it's not been proven that it is the medication that killed this dying man other than the word of another incompetent doctor who's probably just blaming this poor nurse because the victim was a senator. Besides, nurses carry-out or administer what Doctors prescribe. Nurses don't determine dosage, it is the Doctors that do and that is where the responsibility lies. Consequently, this nurse should be released from prison because there is no criminal offence on his part. He was only giving medications prescribed by the Doctor in Charge..

It is the nurse's responsibility to understand prescribed medication and carry out the 10 rights of medication administration (part of which includes ensuring that the dose is safe for the patient). The doc might have prescribed an overdose, but the nurse was neglectful of his responsibilities when he administered the dose.

I love this type of thread.

Wonderful discussions going on.

I love the discussions on this thread.

Learning a lot.

Wa alaykum salam

There are some good discussions on page 8 and above in this thread Here

*too lazy to repost some of the resources*

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=R6FmgR8A3N0

I don't see anything wrong with it. If the woman is better off financially and has built her own house, why should the couple spend money renting another apartment? Even if the husband has an apartment but the wife's house is better in terms of amenities, location, and security I don't see an issue with moving the husband moving in with his wife.

Wa alaykum salam wa rahmatullah

Yaya kake? Been a long time.

Yeah I like breadi but I am avoiding it this time. Had iftar with jollof spaghetti (spicy spagetti?) and peppered gizzard.

Regarding Ramadan;

The Prophet (peace be upon him) said: Allah looks at your competition in doing good therein, and boasts of you before His angels. So show Allah goodness from yourselves, for truly the wretched person is the one who is deprived of the Mercy of Allah during this month.

al-Haythami ascribed it in Majma Al. Zawaid Vol 3.

Sawm (Fasting) is a shield; so when one of you is fasting they should not speak bad words or be boisterous, and if some person fights or insults them, let them say, 'I am a fasting person.'

Hands down, nothing beats calling me 3yooni (my eyes).

The second name I'd like to be called is ejika mi (my shoulder).

Conditions for the Hijab. For sisters only. I found it to be a beautiful reminder.

HERE

chineloSA:
University of Tabuk and later University of Hail.

I am curious now, what course were you teaching? I also want to clarify, when you say their education are the poorest, do you mean their command of the English languge is poor, and hence not fit for a university level? Or do you mean the knowledge is poor?

eleojo23:
Nurse practitioners in Nigeria?
That is a fight for another day

I am guessing that's a no.

Reading a lot of comments here about nurses not being able to work independently without the doctor makes me wonder if a nurse practitioner program exists in Nigeria.

chineloSA:
their education is the poorest. I taught there. I wouldn't advice even my worst enemy.

Did you teach at a university or at an independent school?

AbdelKabir:
You don't see where am going..... I didn't say he still has that belief, I am saying, he throws himself as a person knowledge can be taken from when he hasn't studied aqeedah properly, he only rectifies after he has been criticized! Knowledge precedes action....This proves that he is unfit to take knowledge from.

This part is clear. I understand this.

He recommends ibn jibreen, Ali al-halabiy, etc as scholars for people that see him as trustworthy.... Ali al-halabiy that al-lajnatud daa'imah has officially warned against his contents in Saudi Arabia because of his leaning towards irjaa. And when he was warned against, the head of the lajnah was(and is still is) shaykh Abdulaziz Aal shaykh, the mufti of Saudi Arabia... And its members at that time was shaykh fawzaan(still a member) and shaykh Abdullaahi Al-ghudyaan rahimahullaah.

He (assim al hakeem) recommended ibn jibreen who has been warned against. This is my understanding of this paragraph.

These people are not enough to warn from halabiy? And did you see Shaykh ranee there?

I don't get why you are asking me this. I literally mentioned that I don't know the history of what happened and when I tried to search I found conflicting information and I couldn't put it all together. I am trying to be very cautious where I am getting my information from because I am going in an area where I have little to no knowledge. For example, what happened first? Was there a criticism by shyakh Al Bani (may Allah have mercy on him) of shayk Rabee at some point because it seemed like there was?
*basically when I look this up ( I am talking about shayk Al Bani and shykh al Rabee) I get a variety of website that says a side of the story and I cannot evaluate how legitimate these websites are. The only current thing are people's comment and those are conflicting. In other words I don't want to throw myself at there because I fear for myself. Am I making sense?

And I didn't say he criticized islamqa, of course I'll expect him to recommend saalih munajjid since he sees ibn jibreen who praises Osama ibn laaden as a scholar. I said SHAYKH UBAYD WARNED AGAINST HIM. And SHAYKH ubayd is from our major scholars of sunnah.

The first sentence is talking about Assim al Hakeem (You started with a he). Who is the second sentence talking about? I know now because you mentioned it in my prior mention but it's not clear because you mentioned he (which is a continuation of the subject of the sentence). I am just trying to point out that it's easy to misunderstand what you are saying.

AbdelKabir:
You don't see where am going..... I didn't say he still has that belief, I am saying, he throws himself as a person knowledge can be taken from when he hasn't studied aqeedah properly, he only rectifies after he has been criticized! Knowledge precedes action....This proves that he is unfit to take knowledge from.

And I didn't say he criticized islamqa, of course I'll expect him to recommend saalih munajjid since he sees ibn jibreen who praises Osama ibn laaden as a scholar. I said SHAYKH UBAYD WARNED AGAINST HIM. And SHAYKH ubayd is from our major scholars of sunnah.

Okay I got you now. I missed the part of Shaykh Ubayd warning against Assim Alhakeem.

Now I will be very honest here, regarding Sheikh Rabee and Falih Alharbi, I don't know about them. I don't know the history of what happened but I did try to search for information and I got conflicting information. And I am not going to throw myself into a situation that I don't have knowledge of and since I don't have the knowledge, I can't make an informed decision. The best I can do is to refrain until I have got my doubts cleared. What I can do is ask those who know and that is what I will do in sha Allah. Whatever I find I will make public.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uZjAb9hPSKI

*He clearly mentioned that Allah is above the seven heavens. This is recent.
The other thing that concerned me about the video was the discussion about who is al-sunnah wa jamah but then again I didn't want the full video.
Regarding everything else- he is not a scholar and doesn't call himself one. Rather he identifies himself as a student of knowledge and people identify him as that.
He may have made mistakes in the past and rectified them.
I am not sure abt his criticism of Shaykh Muhammad Saalih al-Munajjid but I know he has recommended islamqa multiple times on his Twitter account.
Regarding everything else, those comments were made in the past. I have not heard any recent warning or anything about him. He was a HudaTV star and he is no longer a part of them. He is now part of ZAD TV which streams live from Saudi. I am not sure about how things work in Saudi but I doubt they would allow someone who information cannot be taken from broadcast things on TV.

I am pretty neutral about him but I will still investigate more.

I may provide additional comments when I regain my composure. Jazakallahu Khyran.

In the meantime, how reliable is Islamic online university?

1) I will investigate into Assim Al-Hakeem because I know as a student of knowledge upon the truth and I have not seen any reliable person warn against him. Regarding the first link you provided, he responded to that where he explained what he meant and he had removed the short answer from the website which he himself stated was ambiguous.
Here

Regarding the second link on Shaykh Rabee’ al-Madkhalee, that no longer exists on his website. However, he also made these statements to clarify
Here and Here

Both accusation and explanation are not recent and took place about six years ago.

2) Although, I am not an advocate for using RIP, my understanding has always been that is is a form of a prayer rather than the blanket statement that the deceased is resting in peace. I will inquire more about it.

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Ypd1J4pvxhE

Summary

Self-development in this context was used in terms of setting goals and achieving those goals. Failure is part of the cycle and we get to decide if we want out failures to be constructive or destructive. Failure doesn't mean that you give up but it means you have obstacles that prevent you from reaching those goals so you work again to achieve them; kind of like how humans cannot remain sinless. Talks about self-development in terms of talents/skills that people have.
-These skills should be used in ways that they benefit to ummah when people think about self-development

So how can a Muslim develop him/herself?
1)Time management- if we live for 60 yrs, for example, about 20-30 years is spent sleeping, maybe 10-15 years is spent prior to attaining puberty and that leaves us with 15 years to work on self-improvement, worshipping and trying to get closer to Allah. Let's also take into consideration the type of lifestyle that we currently live in where there is a lot of distraction around and we get distracted.
We should have a schedule that we follow. -Make it binding upon yourself by=ut refrain from making oaths to Allah

2) Avoiding sins; sins complicate the affairs

3)Prioritizing and being wise in our priorities; under this relationship with Allah should be a top priority and a person cannot fix his relationship with Allah until he knows Allah.

4) Recognizing our talents and skills; ask yourself what are my talents, potentials that I can work on? After identifying them, start working on enhancing these skills and talents. For example designing, writing etc. Remember to keep in mind that this is done in accordance to the need of Muslims. Do not go into a field that only non-muslims will benefit from. You can invest into some of these talents for the sake of Allah. Don't be all about money.

5) Avoid procrastination; procrastination is a disease.

6) Do not result to the blind following of others; distinguish yourself from the competition. Have your own touch and be different.

7) Do not pay attention to haters; do not be distracted by haters because they will not cease to exists. In dawah giving for example if everyone is in agreement with you then there is something wrong. You might be sugarcoating the truth too much. The more you give the message about the truth, the more people it conflicts with people's desires.

How to get started?
Begin by evaluating one's relationship with Allah, find the loopholes and try to fix it. Have an action plan using the upcoming Ramadan as a phase for improvement. We need to repent. Evaluate our strengths, make a plan. Celebrate little achievements and successes. Have a checklist. Basically, go through a reflective process during the journey

Ends by saying we should make this Ramadan unique and start planning for it. Ramadan is a perfect opportunity to go that extra mile. Let's have the intention from now. If we die before Ramadan, we can get rewarded for our intentions.

*This is my question to you and I am not seeking an answer, what are you planning for Ramadan? How are you planning to achieve it?

Salam alaykum
What are the statements of the scholars regarding the statement RIP?

Al-jazeera cited the reporter who is affiliated with Isreali channel 10 news and provided the website where the original report can be found.