Let's stop whining ourselves, men are nackiologists while directly or indirectly women are leeches, men should settle for who gives them the least problems, it's also the reason women finally settle for who's ready and never their spec and not for love cos over time women outgrown love especially when they are with a struggling and there's a better offer out there. To be sincere even broke guys are not happy they are broke but you must pass through every stages of life.

The life of a man is hard because he must first build. The only way it can have a certain level of balance is when both parties earn, that way there are not just lovers but partners cos it finally means money is not a problem as they can both compliment each other but the country is hard and most of our ladies have turned to leeches. It's impossible to be with a woman and not spend cos they are are natural responsibilities.

Coat your coat according to your size cos
If a man documents every part of a woman’s life and is too protective then he has no purpose, or worse; SHE is his purpose. Give her a breather to make her own decisions and treat her how she treats the relationship. Your focus is your purpose.


Oga pursue your money jor, women will come natural, infact it is that money you're supposed to use against them, they do according to your bidden, as a matter of fact you become the bitch and she takes up the other role, cos now she has everything to loose, you already gained everything.

Money is god of the world abeg we all love money, as if there's any joy in being broke. If I were a woman I swear I wouldn't date a broke me too. The annoying part na broke boys dey carry love for head pass, be monitoring babe up and down.


I am the last human being on earth one babe will come to and tell me you'll cheat on me, shuuuuuuuu, have I paid your bride price? , bitch it was just your turn, flex no be inside my body the p.enis dey enter. Abeg leave and let live.



Just focus and never stop focusing on yourself and getting your money right.

90% of our secured existence is all about the money, unless you wan dey beg or suffer for old age.


Na guys wey still dey school I dey laugh, during our time at least small love dey, as you are doing love niggas with the mulla are tearing your gfs apart, slapping their asses while moaning 'yes baby' . 9ja is not like before, it's a different 9ja especially under Buhari, everyone is a fuuuking hustler.

My hand is paining me jare.

Sinners like judging sinners for sinning differently.


If you like don't focus on your focus as if being broke is a good thing.

Born2winnx:
Moneysoldier007 I see you bro

You got a fan right here man... that your thread 9ja raw guy is lit man..


Hope I get your autograph someday

Lmao, I see you too my Gee.

I have just been silent enjoying the banter on this thread, I don laugh sotey I don tire. I understand everyone's perspective and point of view but at the end of the day let everyone do what works for him. Truth is everyone here should know when they're being stupid and when they're doing the right thing.

If after reading from page 1 to 500 and you still can't define who you are and what you want to make out of the redpill then you can never have sense in this life again.

WE MOVEEEEEEEEEEEEE!

Finally on a sweet chilling day, every real Gee on this thread we should have like some kind of get together on a cool spot and a nice location. We deserve it.

One love guys!.

Being selfish is great, sometimes we have to be unselfish too but whenever we do it should be the ones that deserve it.

Some people don't understand Challenge is different from competition.

With Challenges, YOU STEP UP,

With competition, ITS A CONTEST.

I accept Challenges, I live and was born for that shit.

Shit happens but I never move backwards cos I believe my worse days are behind me and my best days are ahead of me.


Bitches fail to realize that niggas don't sweat it anymore. Once you act like an Ogbanje he frees you and allows another chick enjoy what was supposed to be yours.

Keep doing what you doing, if she likes you she'll come around.


The world needs to laugh more but tragically ain't no joy out there , so basically Bleep the world.


Please women who date women, is it easy for you guys too? let's know if we're facing the same shit.

The only time relationships are truly enjoyable to its fullest is when money is not a problem on both ends. Money only just makes it sweeter. I have no regards for women who are broke and seriously dating, please what are you using it to do?

Mandela27:
Same thing with me boss
TRP has made me to fear being committed to any woman.damn I'm so unsure how my future would be after now,you check left, right,up and down,they all the same they just want ur commitment then they fuuuckk u up afterwards

Regarding women, you just said the exact same thing I would say but just do you and I mean never stop adding value to yourself, when you start adding value you'll know cos people will begin to treat you differently and at the same time Bleep the world and what anyone has to say regarding your life, it is yours to keep, protect and to give the best you can suck out of the world to.

One more thing never look down on your instinct and your spirit of discernment when making decisions, never add emotions, they'll get you killed early , analyze situations to your biggest reality before taking a step(fact over feelings) , I tell you you'll do no wrong.

As for women, anyone you finally settle for make sure you are in full control, if the Bitch isn't crazy over you my nigga and haven't swallowed quite a couple of your bullshittt then she's not the one. Have that mindset that theirs is to prove themselves to you and all you need to do is to look your best and be your best self.

We move.

luminouz:

Nice wordplay

Thanks bra

Short story on my birthday,

I have been single for the third year in a role. I have a few shorties I get down with but there's this particular one I have been fucking for a year plus.

We are not dating but been fuckinggggg randomly depending on our personal madness, I call it madness cos this is what we do,

'Whenever we see its always a banger, the vibe is everything for me, she brings me that happy vibe, great sex, plus she's got a big ass, sexy as fuckkkk"

No matter how much I like you, how pretty you are, my duty is to make you feel lower than me and give you low self esteem, so once she leaves I wouldn't call or WhatsApp, not even to ask if you got home safely.

It pisses her off cos we just had like a weekend of fun and excitement together but I tell every woman the same thing when leaving my place.

"CALL ME WHEN YOU GET HOME".

But every time they over believe themselves and feel they've over bleeped your brains out so you should be calling them every sec to check up on them and shit, so they always want to tempt you by either not purposely letting you know they arrived home safely and just to drag a reaction or attention out of you, but I can't be that man cos I am fuckingggggg stingy with my attention.


Back to the story, we could stay for like another two or three months and once she visits we are fucking everywhere in the whole house.

Two weeks before my birthday we were together at my place having a home chilling, wild sex, highness weekend, it dawned on me I needed a date for this birthday cos the plan was to chill at Oniru Beach till dawn with a few quality friends, myself and Waywardpikin been talking about where I'd want the venue to be prior to even before this time.

I asked her to be my date cos she was the best one amongst others I would rather have on a day like that.

She was the one who finally became in charge of the preparations, we deliberated on what was to be needed and the amount of friends I had in mind, if she'd want to invite anyone too, so I sent her the funds to take care of the Asun and other stuffs while I handled all the liquor and ganja that would last a night till at least early dawn.

We have been running into this conversation back and forth and truth is as a woman I was already seeing the signs from the punchlines she's been dropping me all through this period that the question "what are we now?" after my birthday would surface, simply put a full blown relationship would follow suit.

The problem is the last thing I want in my peaceful life right now is a woman, I just wanna make more money, Bleep the only bitches I am attracted to cos I have told myself I ain't ever having sex with just any kitten cos I don't know about other Niggas I feel extremely bad and worthless when I Bleep a bitch I am neither into nor find attractive, it's a sex done with hate and piled up konji.

I just want to live a free life, enjoy myself and have as much fun as I can cos finally life is what you make out of it, then when I finally feel the need to settle down I can now sit down and bring out my list of bitches, scrutinize them and see who's been there the most, made the most sacrifices , passed my shit test and tolerated enough of my shittt and the one I enjoy her company the most cos I swear they are all fucking the same, they just come with different vibes, put up 5 babes and give them the same test and watch them come out with almost exactly the same result, then just select someone, at the end of the day it's a cold and lonely world out there, you need someone by your side when age starts kicking in, so on a personal level this is what women are created for, help mates, to look after you, you need someone there to say,

"Honey are you OK?,

Honey what would you love to have for dinner?,

A kiss on the forehead,

A peck,

Warm hugs,

A part at the back,

Having someone to wake up to next you"

These are what makes us human and not feel alone especially when age begins to creep in.


At around 3am in the morning after my birthday while still at the beach, we had already plans to Bleep at the beach, there was too much fun going on we couldn't make it happen, so I dragged her away while we were still sited with friends to the water side and this was actually the first time I was really having her time since we arrived at the beach the previous evening, I had friends to keep up with and as the celebrant it was my duty to make sure everyone was happy and ok without trying to treat anyone special than the other.

I needed to just come out plain cos I speak my mind, you don't have to like it, all you just gotta do is deal with it.

I was like

"Babe, do you think we need to talk?

Her :" I don't think we need to but we are here already, so I'd like to hear what you want to say,

Me : I know we've been seeing each other back and forth for a long time now and you've been with me back to back two weekends and for everything and stress you've been through for me this period, I appreciate it but from here going forward I am sure you'd be wondering what happens now or what are we doing "

Her : Yes but it already seems like we dating,

Now this was the part I needed to clarify before someone gets emotional and start hitting me up with calls and shit cos I value my space, my privacy, my sanity and freedom, I don't take them for granted, my attention is my pussy so I make sure when I give it to you, you appreciate it, I am the fucking prize, Bitch we don't chase, are you money?.


While this conversation was going on we were deep inside the beach, holding each other close, staring into each other's eyes, who knows she might have thought I wanted to officially ask her out or propose.

"Babe, like this I am sure you already know what we have for one another, some people have friendship, some relationship but what we share is vibeship, when we are apart is like we're enemies and would barely talk to each other but whenever we are together it's always a bang, if we are not in a relationship we cannot break up, I am scared to be in a relationship with you, not scared for me but for you cos if we do I'll hurt you, I am bleeped up in the head, with huge walls around me " I politely said but in a very calm romantic tone while looking at her eyes the whole dammnnnnnnnn time.

She looked at me for a couple of secs without saying a thing then finally echoed,

" Ken, I feel the same way too and I understand, let's leave things as they are so we don't spoil anything but do you see a future between us? "

In trying not to dash her hopes and to continue eating from the cookie jar comfortably without stress and at any given time, I had to tell her what she wanted to hear, we run the game, the game don't run us,

" There's nothing wrong with you, I am open to anything and everything, when the time is right we'll both know".

As soon as I said that I just reached for her lips and started kissing her, let the conversation end like that. we stayed there for a while kissing and doing things apart from sex and the same time me pressing her big ass before we finally went back to join the rest.

By the way if we no dey inside relationship, you no fit come dey count how many years we don dey date.

If you want to shoot yourself in the head take a woman serious and if you want to get the best out of a woman always treat her like a child, it makes her constantly want to prove herself to you cos to me nothing matters more than money or more money.


Happiness comes and goes but what if you filled your life with things that matter??.

IT IS WHAT IT IS.

If you are a woman and you are a part my life yet not being a better version of yourself daily, please walk away cos it means I ain't good for you and am bad for your health.


Rule no 1 on Giving: Do not give what you are not willing to loose or let go.


Some babes be like,

"What are you always feeling like, you're so full of yourself "

Bitch , am I supposed to be full of you?


Money doesn't just buy you a better life, better food, better cars, better pussy but it makes you a better person. Any other opinion shove it down your ass


I don't like women's way, talk it, how's it doing you?

You are connected to your bank account. The more the money the longer the leash on your chain



A man with change in his pocket and a good dick is a double edged sword aka two in one. She clings to him tight cos she knows she's won herself a man of a Lottery.


You have to be good at stage one before advancing to the next stage.


With betrayal comes punishment or consequences.




I show these bitches out here no emotions cos once you do the next thing they try to do is to walk right over you, like a battle they've conquered



Happiness comes and goes but what if you filled your life with things that matter??.




I don't wanna have to ask you how you feel about me, I want to see it, feel it and understand it. If not...


My happiness is tied to money cos how can I not be able to give myself the fucking basic things that I want?, like how?


Connected to everything and attached to nothing


Whoever does not give me money cannot give me headache.



There's nothing new at the back for you, move forward.



Never be too greedy cos the minute you do that , you present your weakness and loose your advantage. KEEP YOUR ADVANTAGE INTACT!.


Disappear and level up in private.


The day you realize women always have options on standby, whether in a monogamous relationship or not is the day you'll begin to do better as a man by focusing more on yourself.


Bitches fail to realize if you ain't adding meaning to his peaceful life, you need a job and not a fucking relationship.


You dey promise person daughter say make she no worry you go make her happy,
My brother, you don provide yourself with the basic things of life first ?, ARE YOU HAPPY?

Abobi focus.


Niggas fail to realize they can't find true happiness in any woman or anyone if you can't first find happiness alone. Afterwards select who you want to share it with. Now you allow the bitch do whatever she wants cos you're UNBOTHERED.




I can only loose what I let myself loose but if it's going to inconvenience me or hurt my pocket then it ain't happening. I love myself too much now to put others first


LOVE, if only love cud get the job done, y'all will not be bleeped up.

So be with someone who makes you level up, adds value to your life or helps you grow. It ain't that then it ain't worth it.

When things go south, you let yourself get hurt cos you knew better the whole dammnnnnnnnn time that "LOVE IS NOT ENOUGH".


I like what I like, I like who I like, I want what I want.

waywardpikin:



This!!! @ bolded


This is why I'm a big proponent of sometimes doing unto others as they do unto you. Nobody be mumu. This act has a very potent brain factory resetting effect. Now, the two of you will play this game of back and forth for a while. Whenever she brings her troublesome self to your side trying to bill you or whatever, tell her very casually that you can only do her well if she comes to your house and collects one nice doggìe sharp sharp (gesticulate with a ridiculous seriousness), that if she collects one doggìe from you like this lasan! her life will never remain the same. Attempt to wrap your hands around her waist as you're jonsing your jonsing. Sometimes, she'll let you wrap your arms around her and pull her close, almost to the point that you could almost kiss her, other times, she will run away without letting you touch her. Laugh when she does.


You'll keep doing that until one day, she'll shock you with her response loooool. Maybe you'll be the one who would run away then cos you may be shocked how shìt just got very real, very quickly. Her pùssy is doing her tanyayayayayayayayayayayayayaayayayaya. It is turninonitsown such that even she doesn't understand what is happening to her.


She wanted to show you pepper, but you turned the table on her by "doing it best", which really is the only way to show her the futility of her transparent efforts to cow you into submission. The only caveat is that you must be classy and innocent about your doings so that if there ever comes a time when the matter is being tabled, you come out looking pristine with a halo hanging over your head with your intended target likely apologizing for her indiscretions, at which point she is very malleable and compliant to your whims. This expressly means that when you see her you don't suddenly start frowning your face. No way!


You simply act like she doesn't exist...


Can you see a ghost? The answer is no.


It doesn't exist. It she doesn't matter.


In the 48 laws of Power this act is called The Mirror Effect. Excerpts below:


Disarm and Infuriate with the Mirror Effect


"The mirror reflects reality, but it is also the perfect tool for deception: When you mirror your enemies, doing exactly as they do, they cannot figure out your strategy. The Mirror Effect mocks and humiliates them, making them overreact. By holding up a mirror to their psyches, you seduce them with the illusion that you share their values; by holding up a mirror to their actions, you teach them a lesson. Few can resist the power of the Mirror Effect.”


You've got her so far out of her comfort zone with The Mirror Effect that she doesn't even know it. She's trying to chase you down but she's also trying very hard to hold herself back, dying to figure you out, you who dared to say no without thinking twice. The thing dey bust their head die and na one of my favourite styles wey I dey use enter girls especially the ones wey stubborn well well. Their father left nyansh there. Me sef I stubborn die o, but with a bit of cunning.


End of post.



Footnote: Apparently I have been writing this reply for days now lol... It was @ moneysoldier007's birthday over the weekend, so that bottle of Jack Daniel spiralled into a haze of debauchery from which I am yet to fully recover, and I still have to go to work too. But as I don commit myself I must finish what I started o, hence this post. Moneysoldier007, when you get to see this, this is me wishing you a very happy birthday - again! More life, more wins, more funds!


I believe we are a community, and I have a feeling that maybe one day, all of us might link up or something. Or some of us at least. I really appreciate all of you. Even with all the disagreements, issues are hashed out with civility and respect for one another. Laslas, there is still a thing or two we can all learn from one another.


This is our SAFE SPACE. And any threat to it in terms of trolling, or use of foul and vulgar language will be met with extreme hostility. Una sabi me already na. I want this to be a place where anyone can come in and ask genuine, heart-felt, even existential-crisis level type of questions without fear of being mocked, insulted, or castigated. In summary, this is me saying that you guys are all awesome. All of us. The love and vibe here is great.



Some of you might not like this, but I took the liberty of sharing a picture we took at Oniru on Sunday, and even then I was still trying to keep up with this thread but omo shayo na baśtard lol. I blurred out @ moneysoldier007's face as he may not be comfortable with this, but that's me on the far right. I captioned the photo:



Tony Montana up in this b!tch!



It's a blink and you'll miss it kind of thing. Oops!



With plenty of love,


XOXO,


Wayward Pikin.

My brother, my padi, my blood, I am just seeing this, I took one long break like that especially during that Glucose serere. I appreciate it man from my heart ♥, twas mad fun we had on the 9th.


I don carry my jonsing comeback, make I drop some nuggets wey I dey write anytime I roll my kpoli and talk to the spiritual.

My heart never left this thread, Redpill is our one and only true love, know this and know peace my niggas.

Thanks for the birthday wishes once more.

My people I trowey salute.

Creeza:
Moneysoldier007 guy you funny aswear! bro reading that your story just made my day!

Glad you did, this is what we need on this thread now. Life experiences, anybody can just copy a quote and drop it here. Itaff do abeg.

I'll share more in the course of time. I am sure other Niggas will start contributing.

I have once nursed a heart break after for the first time in my life of giving myself to a woman and I mean completely , shebi na simping, I don't want to go into details but I was a Legend. After I grew out of it over time,I told myself I was never going to put myself in such a situation again, I rather die, I will choose to either be feared, respected than being loved, when people fear or respect you, it makes them loyal, but it's very easy for someone to love you and still hurt or kill you.

Now I treat ladies the way I would treat a guy, as a matter of fact I would treat a woman worse, don't get me wrong I still love pu!!ssy twice on Sunday, the difference is now I am emotionless.


Let me share me share this banter.

Sometime last year I had moved into a new area and had zero friends and the new apartment needed to get disvirgined, I hadn't a gf and I still don't and I didn't want to pay for sex.

I had this chick I had collected her number from the elder brother in the guise of me wanting to wish her a happy birthday but the nigga knowing giving me that number was a dangerous thing to do, one way or the other I sweet talked my way out of it cos when I saw her on his status I immediately had an erection cos the last time I saw her she was like 12 or 13 years old and this was around 2010, she had grown into a pretty young woman with all the bulldozers in the right places, massive ikebe, booby gallant, fine young blood. I just told myself this pussy must go downnnnnnnnn!.


I don't know about other Niggas cos I am speaking for myself, to stand a chance with any babe without stress is to set yourself up comfortably and I mean physically, financially and otherwise cos at the end of the day, it's what makes you a man, even if you no get money abeg sabi package, people look at you differently when you package well, life is packaging, it is the hype you build for yourself, more importantly don't give out money if it hurts your pocket or inconveniences you cos these bitches ain't worth it, guys get their own for body but abeg dey do for your real niggas instead,e get why.

I called her, wished her a happy birthday and asked for her details, sent her 5k as birthday gift after having not spoken for almost 10 years. As I was sending her the 5k I was telling myself " Before you go dey tick my name join your list of new magas, babe no think am I just paid for my subscription fee", It was a fu, cc,king decoy.

The second day I engaged her in a chat, lamenting about how boring it was at my new place, how I didn't have friends, the heart break I had cos now I use that for any pussy I want take down cos I get lots of pity and sympathy and get them all emotional, since it doesn't fail me I turned in to my weapon, heart break of how many years, if I dey talk the story I dey talk am like say e just happen yesterday with plenty Maggie and sugar before you know she wishes to be treated and spoilt like I did with my old chick.

Just that chatting doesn't do the job, over the phone, she's hearing your voice, so the theatre is slicker cos it's easy to voice act to get her all emotional, the switches in voice, sometimes I fit dey talk say I wan cry. Yes call me a fucking scam.

So that weekend I was chilling in a hotel quite some distance from my house, I was watching babes in different sizes cat walk the whole place, so she came my mind. I placed a call and before we knew it we had spoken for an hour plus, our first phone conversation in recent times , Na me dey do the talking, Lamba everywhere about the heart break that's made me single and after getting emotional from no where she just asked if I was home.

I told her I wasn't but if she wanted to see me this minute I would disappear from where I was. She asked me to send my address and as I was doing it I was driving home straighttttttttttrrrrrrr. This was actually happening around 5pm. When I reasoned the timing I knew she was sleeping over and that ass was gone already in my mind.

I got home and in less than 20 minutes I had gotten a call she was outside my house.

I went out and when I saw her, I knew there was no way I wasn't going to tap that asss. She was even prettier and more endowed in real life than the pictures I saw.


The crazy thing was after we had chilled and chatted, had drinks, cooked me a pot of stew cos we had talked about it during the course of that long conversation, she went to bed earlier, I had to wait till 12am, put off my gen, freshened up then climbed the bed to join her.

I made the first move and she was like stop stop, you are friends with my brother, I can't do this with you. One thing I can never do again is beg for pussy, in my former life probably yes, but not this one.

Me and you know why you dey ontop my bed at this time of the night , wearing my boxers and singlet, shey this one dey smoke back of pot ni?

I was so blunt, I was like babe come on, I know you want this, if not you won't be here, but when she was beginning to act difficult, I just turned my back against her and slept.

This is the funny part, after like 30 minutes when she saw a nigga doesn't want drama or stress in his peaceful life , she would roll between intervals and hit me with her hand, thereby depriving me of the sleep that was even difficult to come by in the first place cos even me sef know say if I no give that ass doggy that night body no go sweet me for the remaining week.

After she had done that continously for a while, I realized that her brain had coupled back to default settings by itself, I turned around, planted a kiss on her mouth and the rest they say is history, best looking ass I tapped for 2020.

She freshened up and while she was dressing up in front of me hiding back the assets, she was like "Please none of my brothers should know I know your house",

I felt offended cos na small pikin dey worry am, we ain't even that close, I just had to tell her what she wanted to hear to make her feel good.

As she was getting ready to leave I am sure she must have been expecting like 10k or 20k as goodbye package, omor I carry 1k give am as tf, the way her countenance changed, e sure me say e shock her, she go first wonder for this kind all night bangingggg but after previously paying 5k subscription fee on her birthday, You sef check am out, o wrong nau.

I still tapped that ass twice more, and oh yea she's in a 5 year relationship. So abeg no kill yourself over any woman.

You guys have finally turned this thread into a joke, I wasn't joking when I said it has been hijacked by kids but we'll take it back. LUBBISH "In my anambla accent".

As for you glucose or ribenna or what's that your name, no worry we don soak your cane for water dey wait for you, hope you are presently enjoying your love life like Jack and Rose in titanic, do what you please but like Jack don't die for her. Deactivating your account was a slap to our face you fffucjing sisi.

Truth is redpill or not , men are still the problem of men.

And pleaseeeeeeee enough of the everyday lifting of quotes elsewhere and dropping them here, almost page 300, we have learnt enough, una no dey tire, abeg it's time we start telling us how we practice them in our lives, cos people just dey bastardize the word simp, alfa male.

That Chi girl has had it coming for a while and for people asking Waywardpikin and other Niggas who gave her a taste of her own medicine to apologise is what I don't get. I can't get attacked and you tell me how to attack back cos we can't all act alike.

This particular girl has a poison for a mouth and ever ready to give it to anyone hot hot, I am surprised this got to her to the extent of her deactivating her account, I been think say na you create yourself before.

Abeg jare another troll and feminist down.

This thread started loosing weight when kids hijacked it, just imagine some niggas apologizing on her behalf and defending her, she send una message??

Since say aliens don hijack our precious thread, I don leave am for una.

What's up Niggas,

I have been silently reading your comments, you are are doing well.

We are all men with different opinions, do what you know is right, if you are doing the wrong thing I swear down you'll know cos your instinct will tell you, just that some of us don't listen.

Let me step on the dance floor too about the ex thing.

In my personal opinion, you really don't need to stop talking to your ex at the same time don't do familiarities cos they are the easiest people on the planet to have sex with and here is why,


When your parts cross and you are looking your best and I mean far better than the last time she saw you then you already have her where you want her to be.

I don't think putting yourself in a position where she has access to give you food is a smart move cos we both know the only reason for us to be in the same space is cos we wanna fuqk, so let it be strictly that, collect any other favor but never food.

You'll be amazed how all of a sudden she's fucking you differently cos Nigga now she has everything to prove while you've got nothing.

After fuqking to your fill cut it off cos before you know it you guys are calling each other and lil by lil she's begging you for forgiveness, you don't need all that.

When she calls afterwards decline, when she messages reply in like 5 days time, she'll get the message and the sweet part is now you call the shots, you can decide to call her in 5 months out of the blue, you'll still fuqk her if you want to unless she uses her brain to know that a nigga is trying to turn her into his call girl, to put it in whenever he feels like.

Turn your monster on, at least it's good if she says "you are not the Michael I use to know" than see finish, there was something she did that made you dump her, went to to level up, became a better version of yourself,

"A wise man never goes back to what broke him".

Pandev:
our MS the pussy slayer, na you be this? I catch you

Lmao. This one weak me oooo. Please lemme alone ooo, I have headache. Compliments of the season Bro

Heartbreak go make you dey rinse one plate for 30 minutes. Nice story Uncle Wayward

Buy a Nigga a bottle of beer and he remembers your face for a lifetime,

Give a woman the world and when she's too comfortable, you are kicked out and forced to start all over again in creating a world for yourself and not everyone recovers.

Never give people more than they deserve.

#Random thoughts#.

I centre my life in this manner
God,
Money,
Women.

God first because on a personal level I always feel I am not alone. I have come to learn to follow my instinct in everything I do cos I have noticed when I go against it, it turns out badly for me, this has built me over time to have a very strong instinct, let me put it, I allow that presence that makes me not feel alone lead me. I have been told by close friends I have a strong instinct. So when I say God, I don't mean the religious God, I mean The God!.


Money: It is next cos in my journey through life, people respect or value you based on how much you spend on yourself(achieve) and not how much you spend on a woman. Call me stingy I give zero fucqks, I rather spoil myself and go broke than spend on a woman and go broke and the reason is as a man when you are down but look around and see tones of things you spent money on and still enjoying them, it gives you a scintillating feeling, but for a woman, go broke and watch her leave you that's when you will realize you've been throwing money in a drainage all along, it's worse when you spent even longer time doing it.

Women: Now for young niggas always shouting relationship, relationship, NIGGAS relationship is a drag back for you yet to achieve anything, you are still eating free food, still saying Mommy thank you, maybe that's why, be a man first then you will know

"You can't find what you are not looking for",

We did that in our Uni days. We go dey School dey form serious relationship, our babe go travel go another state or enter town go konje Big boys wey don already dey soft.

Now I find it very funny when a chick comes for a weekend or a chill and her boyfriend is killing her with calls, that's when you'll know this bitches ain't shit. I slap ass and treat you like that bitch that you are expecting them to take it in a negative way and you are shocked they like it. So please what's the point of a "SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP" when we had sex without us dating, so why should we start dating after having sex?.

Ever noticed the longer you are around a woman the more you spend?, the longer the relationship the longer the manipulations and the more you are being manipulated to invest, both emotionally and financially.

Love does not exist, its just steady youthful puxxxy, vulnerability and too much fondness of her that was fucking with your mind the whole dammmmnnnnnnn time.

How do I get manipulated when I am not even giving you the chance to?

How do you summon the courage to bill me when I owe you nothing?

Well na Niggas wey put women on pedestal, carry relationship for head dey blow bar ontop woman anyhow na em dey fear heartbreak, wetin concern let me see what I can do.

Keep hunting for value, women will come easy, the more the value, the better the women.

For those who value relationships, please make sure she's investing heavily and I mean emotionally and financially, if not na TEARS GO END AM.

Social media played a very big part in this but I guess humans are wired differently. I for one I don't think I have ever slept with a much younger woman from 18 downwards cos I always feel I am taking advantage of a child no matter how mature they claim to be or act but I have niggas who give zero bleeps, as a matter of fact they love them really young. I think loosing my virginity to an older babe growing up played a huge part.

These young females ain't even helping matters cos when you chase them away or turn down their advances you get the tag of "this Bros no Jah or soji". It's fuckedddddd up as it is already but not withstanding in the North they'll pick offence with topics like this cos it's culture.

I took my time to read through till the end.

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I don't know about any other niggas out there but I ain't got that time to put anyone through all those phases of rigorous test before I commit.

Once you meet a woman that ticks all the boxes, if you've been with lots of women you'll know.

If pussyyyyy is all that you bring, my actions will let you know with time this nigga isn't taking me serious cos I don't know how to hide things or pretend, Na you go use your hand run.

I just believe the first step to reasoning committing is if she's not a liability cos if money is her problem first I don't see us working no matter how pretty you want to be.

If she has her shit together then let's ride and this way we can work on building something even if there's still no guarantee we'll get married cos at a time to get to that point it has to get built to that stage and I mean from both parties, not the guy investing heavily in himself and her, it won't end well.

Presently there's so much frustration in the land and it has so fuckeeeed with this generation that most of our girls are fuckkkkedd up cos they weigh you by the amount of cash you have, the car you drive and where you live before measuring the kind of love to give you, the guys are wiser now, so they kick relationships to the back door and rather have a good time and once her excesses becomes too much backs out of relationship without having to be hurt.

In all as a real Gee, she should be the one trying to impress and do everything to be with you and even while at that she has to be your Spec, never because of loneliness settle for less. When you know what you bring to the table, you don't beg others to come eat.

At one point in time we all did, if I talk my own here, everybody go gang beat me. Lemme comman be going first.

My brother, no strength again sef, we don retire, now na pension mode, relax and let her do the job. Lol

Thanks, I'll be back this month full time, some time next week, so y'all get ready.

LedRock:
It is actually the other way round. As for the OP, women don't even offer sex.

My Nigga, speak what you know. They do, they don't have to spell it out to you sometimes, it's her actions you should focus on, not the things she says.

Okika123:
why by say people that smoke see people that don't smoke as fools. you made nice post ur last statement spoiled it

Kindly point out where I said that, ayam confused.

Rossonero:
Wow! If you see the way I take dey read this masterpiece slowly make e no just end. I don't know why this write-up just dey sweet me for body or maybe cos it's a life of a single guy who is enjoying peace at the moment cos am also enjoying mine here menh. Ladies please just understand what some of want please i beg of you and to my future wife I hope u see this. Thanks OP you will not run out of SK

Thank you, you like supply me more?, but on a real, Na real matters.

Sitting here on my toilet sit this chilling morning , dragging my S.K, journeying down memory lane when men would cross the seven seas because of 'LOVE' and after doing the silliest of things for example like washing a girls pant and still chest out with pride like Brad Pitt in Troy and shout at the top of your voice " is there no one else? , IS THERE NO ONE ELSE?", does anyone remember that advert on Silverbird just a lifetime ago?

Oh that?, of course I fuckinggg! did too, I am not a hypocrite, a lot of us did or did a random silly thing during our naive days so when Ozo was 'nzuzuing' over Nengi and Neo washing Vees pant, when I came across that topic on Nairaland I struggled to Shalaye not to click it, thanks to Nairaland my BBN TV, I like to save mb but this particular video, if I no watch am wetin I come gain?, I needed to see it with my eyes , that guy went international with that shittttt! on Live TV, I couldn't have done any better so for that he deserves an award, one word, Epic.

I'll rather spend my time scratching my balls than watch BBN, I'll prefer staying tuned to Urban TV, listening to gbedu cos to me MTV 9ja is overrated, I have only saw it once since it started and a female visitor forced me to, you are my guest so the remote is yours, d'amnnnnn dem babes?, they live for that shiiiiiiii!

Snapping back to reality, I was wowed watching that video but experience will always humble you, so I was in no place to judge cos I have sailed that ship, you won't even know you are acting stupid but that's what happens when you allow your emotions control you, it makes you powerless. I believe once if you kill your emotions in your dealings with people then you've solved 99% of your problems because in every decision making of your life you'll act with a clear head, fact over feelings. There's every possibility we can still love and control our emotions, it's reality or facts first and this is where self love or self interest comes in.

It's not a bad thing to love but from what love has taught me, I'll never put a woman first or on a pedestal again, it's not if you are happy I am happy, it's instead I have to be happy enough to make you happy, I need to love myself enough to be able to love some else because any other love you get out there is conditional, even parents. Be the most successful in the family and you are mom and dad's favorite child aka "The Asset". Both sexes practice it but I'll rather do a favor for a guy than a for girl, niggas appreciate things way more.

Buy a guy you are meeting for the first time a bottle of beer and your face is stored in his head for a lifetime, meet him 5 years after he'll remember your face and reciprocate the gesture but give a girl the world and watch her throw you out of it when things go wrong, afterall it's hers, you gave it to her.

"Before you give a girl the world, make sure you have a world of your own". Ken 1651 AD.

Like I said in my dealings with both sexes in my 33 years of existence guys appreciate things far better than a woman ever will, especially in this present age and this part of the world.

Give her the world without having a world of your own, she'll still ask you one day when things go wrong ,

"Manchi, what have you even done for me?"

E go shock you.

Regardless, speaking for myself, ofcos I still want to marry and have yellow pawpaw kids like me, I might not be as handsome as Oshoimole but I be spec in my own way.

Would I love to get married?, of course yes, Am I ready to settle down? damnnnnnn! right I am cos to even top it up I am an only child but I have studied women, adding their drama to you, it's a course on its own, I am not in a haste abeg, plus It's hard with our present generation of Ladies,

To most of our present day Ladies, relationship is nothing personal, it's just a business in disguise. You give me sex under "we are dating", and I reciprocate with giving you money under same "we are dating" . Sad to say but it's the fact, then I compare it to marriage and realise its just a tushed one waiting in front for me, you add someone else to your life you are compelled to protect and take care of them, it's handling a whole new responsibility but when you are comfortable and have stayed single for too long, the definition of Peace of mind becomes glaring ,but a quick question?

"Can a woman tag along and give you this kind of Peace?",

For me, I still don't have an answer.

I am single and I believe I get more sex than some guys in relationships, especially the ones in long distance relationships or the other kind where the babe is not a virginnn yet put the guy on a 'no sex before marriage' terms and still cajole him into investing heavily in her and the dead man go get his sex elsewhere because you didn't put the term, she did, you were just st! upid enough to buy it (That's the Oga kpata kpata of dem all). She's in a serious relationship but sending nudes to another guy while another somewhere else is dying over her(Aka The LOMLs crew) , meanwhile we both know our dealings are sexual , it's a f'uc'ked up shhhhitt, me sef don love with my strength and might, another guy has done it to me during the love hunting days so I am not even surprised, you only relate better with what you've experienced, some do it for long throat in our present age , things are hard.

Sometimes, I don't blame them still , we are revelations of our government, all they do is steadily fuc:kkkkkk us in the ars! se and still milk us hard to rub insult to injury, no Joy on the streets no more, we are the monsters they made, as my Guy Odogwu said.

If you want to know women, try being the side Guy for an eye opener, she would tell you stuffs to make the Main Guy look weak no matter how much of a man he thinks he is, tell and would do things with you she wouldn't with the Main Guy, in plain terms a Saint before the Main guy and her real self with the Side Guy.

I don't even want to date, I love my peace and calm, when I finally meet her and its right I'll marry, the more wait the more value I add to my life, gives you more time to keep doing better but heaven knows I am not going to in the name of 'we are dating' shoulder any woman's responsibilities, a broke woman has no business dating, before you kill someone's son with

"Baby, I have not eaten since morning"

E no balance, I have my shit together and for me to be better and to take you serious you have to have your shit together too, nothing personal but if sex is all that's in it for me, something we both enjoy, I'll pass cos it's the cheapest thing to get, if it's all about the pus#sy then she's a total drag back, if not, I'll never take anyone serious.

It has to go both ways, I want to be spoiled and pampered too, I can't buy you a wrist watch of 30k on your birthday and I get a boxers, white singlet and handkerchief on mine, I am not a cultural or atilogo dancer.

And yea, S.K?, yeah I smoke herbs, its my therapy and the realest women I have met are herb � smokers, they come with a whole new vibe.

Please don't take it the wrong way, I am straight as a ruler so I love women, before someone tags me a mysogionist or Gaybriel!.

Just a clean heart venting.

I rest my case.

D'amnnnnn! I miss writing. I hope to be back soonest. Meanwhile check out www.waywardpikin.com

Waywardpikin, Ubanja, pansophist, CaveAdullam, Martinez38

The floor is open.

Let me share my own view. This is like the best thread in my thread reading career.

When you stop taking women seriously, you'll find out they ain't shit. The best thing any man can do out there is to focus on you first, add value and then see these women for who they are.

Love is meant for the weak. Kill your emotions in your dealings with people and then you've solved 99% of your problems cos it means your happiness first before anything else.

During relationships the signs are always there but because you've taken them too serious(Love) you become blind to see these things staring at you in the face. When a woman says I am with a friend, it means she's with a guy but when she says I am with my friend, it means she's with a girl, 100/100 that this has happened to me, it has always been correct, it's an unconscious action. Another unconscious action is when they are lying watch them closely, they look at their left.

That your babe you want to kill yourself on, that's making you not channel all your energy into bettering yourself only shows you messages from guys she doesn't like but the ones you she can replace you with tomorrow, she deletes them, that's why you'll find when partners break up, within few months the babe is getting married.

My brotherrrrrrrrrr when you carry am for head and taking care of all her bills, she's begging another man of value for attention, a man that's already gotten his shit together when you were simply busy chasing her with all your strength and might, those ones she adores and acts like angels to them, you've seen it all with her and she's paid you for it with sex because after looking back the truth is it was all you got(sex and companionship which you mistook for love).

Wisemen, focus on yourself, add value to your life, get yourself in a very comfortable situation, nice crib, a small ride to move around and just keep hunting for the next best thing to do to continue that value adding, I bet you babe go find you come and when you're about to hit that cookie you'll hear "I can't believe I am doing this", my brother she had it all planned from the minute she shaved.

Everyone is born intelligent, it's how we apply it, act based on facts and not emotions.

A man who can control his sexual urge, do his chores, make his food and tame his ego would
ALMOST be 'uncontrollable' and 'un-influenceable'.

Only wise and strong women who have more qualities to offer more than sex are meant to be cherished.

A woman offering you nothing but just sex is a total drag back.

Leave love and chase money, leave the love for the woman, rather choose respect over love.

osamz007:



Hey bro, what about chizzy, Salama, Susan and Cynthia?

Long story but in due time, why you dey rush, you wan carry first ontop my thread abi.