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WackyJ1:
Is it a crime to call the Wife of your friend by her first name?

I've known this guy since 2018. He met his wife in 2020.

They've done traditional wedding.

I once followed this guy to law faculty of our school during our Masters program and spent 6 hours typing the project of his then ex.

The same ex ended up blaming him for her misfortune.

I'm the best man for his white wedding tomorrow.

Yet, he's warning me for calling his wife her first name in the same sentence where I also referred to my girlfriend by her own first name.

He claims I was wrong and he has refused to apologise.

I need this one the front page.

Was I wrong?

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Biko, what’s disrespectful in calling my friend’s wife by her first name? Or does she have a child already? Because in some cultures, it is more appropriate to call a woman by her child’s name e.g mama Ayo, mummy Ifeoma etc
Op, I’m seriously not understanding this your type of friendship ( I can’t stand a friend admonishing me over how to address his wife ) which kain play una don play reach this level Abi na joke? This one na Belgium used see finish.

PrinceOfLagos:
When people are already losing there job due to APC bad policies ?

God punish APC and it shall never be well with anyone secretly or openly supporting this same “bad policy” causing people pains. Amen, Isee, Ashe waa!

dannykares:
So u expect him to bring church in 😲? Students traveling back so they can participate in election directed by NUC, u re here saying rubbish cos u don't feel de pains of losing a souls

A typical case of a sectionable boy calling someone who’s hale and hearty a lunatic
Don’t you notice you’re running mad already, my friend? I hope they already know about your condition at home?
Luckily for you, there’s no stay-at-home tomorrow, so you’re free to roam around

Naira20:
It is well.
However, God is not constrained to save by multitude or few.

I'm confident God wants to humble politicians by helping Peter Obi to win

His emergence is beyond us all.God will take all the glory in the rebirth of this country.

Damn! My guy in case no one has ever told you before now, you mumu o no be small. Like really? you still managed to bring politics into this? and you still had the gut to talk while reasonable people were correcting you.
Indeed, Obi attracts the least intelligent among we Nigerians; he attracts the lowest of lowlifes. The mugudeen was still trying hard to defend the indefensible; just accept that you bleeped up big time and move. Oloshi

Nwaetche:
Goat!

Do you think that every one is a radicalised muslim for the Islamic Town of iragbiji?

You failed to notice that that urchin has been peddling false information with doctored photos?

Ode!!

Didirin, na your Ipobian father born you true true, you take after him . You didn’t answer both his question and mine. Why did ANAP deny? What were they hiding?

Nwaetche:
Anap Business Jets Limited is a company that rents private jets to any corporate or private entity that has the resources to demand their services.

The Obi campaign started with a plane owned by Datti (Obidient Plane) which was grounded by Nigeria regulatory authority and since then have been renting business jets and helicopters for thier rallies. Although the Chairman of the ANAP foundation is also the Chairman of the Business jet company of same name, Obi like any other individual pays to use it as the entity is there to make money.

The ANAP foundation Chairman Otedo Peterside is also the founder and former CEO of Stanbic Bank and does that make anyone that patronises Stanbic bank an associate of ANAP?

Come to think of it, there almost seven(7) polls including polls conducted by Bloomberg that projects Peter Obi as the front runner. Is Peter Obi a friend of Bloomberg of Billionaire owner of Bloomberg media?

Common, we should be thinking now not parroting what paid cashivist like Adeyanjo are tweeting to earn their pay.

I think this is hypocrisy of the highest order. ANAP was never regarded as a friend of Buhari or APC when the organisation on two previous occasion, one in 2015 and another in 2019 projected him as the likely winner of those highly contested election; one with against an incumbent, a fellow Ijaw with Otedo Peterside.

It is important to note that ANAP-NOI polls predictions/projection has consistently been accurate since they started making projections till date.

I do not think it would be different at this time.

APC and PDP should not just rubbish an organisation whose projections has favoured them on different occasions they won the elections.

If not that you inherited chronic stupidity from the imbecilès who birthed you, you would easily see that the purpose of writing the report you quoted was to question why ANAP made that earlier denial. If everything was fine and they had nothing to hide, why lying?
Oh, so Peter Obi was the coffin they transported? You must be very stupid for still being defensive despite this glaring dishonesty.

amuwo1980:
Idiotic genes are clearly transmitted to you by the floatsam that parturiate you , if am nedu u are a jihadist using ur own logic , I don’t give a rat tail if u are even alive or not , just don’t come here to air ur putrid opinion, we want good not bad and I don’t care who u support

Save your tears Nedu

amuwo1980:
No nusreddeeen am crying I know what these isis they recruited into the Nigerian army will do with u guys, you know they think ur brand of Islam is counterfeit, they are supposed to shoot at sight , buhari is now a dictator lol am amused

Nedu, don’t cry and do you now see why I already presumed that you’re just another airhead? I think the main criteria to becoming an Obidient is to be grossly stupid beyond measure you just assumed I’m a Muslim because I’m not supporting Peteru? Anyways, I am a Christian and also a Muslim and a fervent Ogun worshippper, this is to tell you that here in Yoruba land, there’s no such thing as a Yoruba Christian or Yoruba Muslim and every effort to use that to divide us has already failed before being conceived. Mugudeen

Emellda:
Fake news media are trying hard to turn this whole thing on its belly and push the country into chaos so that they can blame Buhari for it. Cant believe I'll ever defend Buhari in this life, but on this one, I'm fully behind him 💯

It is painful, but it will yield long-term gains.

Babe, are you saying the various banks (first and Uba for instance) also got the directive to accept the old notes from these fake media?
Let’s assume these so called fake media deceived we the masses, were the commercial banks so daft to have taken directive from the media instead of CBN? Someone is obviously lying here and it’s definitely neither the media nor the banks. UBA and FB both sent me emails earlier today saying they would be open tomorrow to accept cash deposit

Fidelarinze9:
Tinubu will not be president, stop insulting people for nothing.

I’ve heard Chigoze, will you stop crying now ?

amuwo1980:
You are the senseless one here , don’t worry they are about to deploy troops to hot beds and this shoot at sight

Nedu don’t cry

Smithkafors:
Una never serious. Where una dey when ASUU dey on strike.

PO for president

I thought you had sense until I got to @bolded and the ending remark that followed
Same Obidiòt whose government witnessed an 8-month-long ASUU strike and another 13 months doctors strike is what you’re proffering as a solution to ending ASUU strike if I call you by your surname name now people would say I’m wicked

OkpaAkuEriEri:
Afonj no dey study history.na so MKo challenge sitting president. Nna anyi onye Chemist Tilumbu hv start his own.
I support new naira.ndi ezi wey no lyk am, mpa ha

That is to tell you that the Afonjas are not fools and cowards like you fathers.
They are not fools like your father, Ojukwu, who wasted 3 million of your kinsmen like sacrificial lambs. The Afonjas legally going against sitting powers shows they are indeed sophisticated and can never be passed over unlike your inconsequential and cowardly ancestors

IamBoysonic:
The Diobu region and mile 1 in Portharcourt city currently in chaos over the naira swap policy
Banks are being destroyed and set on fire, people are out on the roads protesting.
Residents living in that region have been advised to stay indoors due to gun shots being heard

Nigeria what way?

Fake news. Our darling lying machine has told us not to worry that the naira redesign policy is a go. The touts protesting in Rivers are Tinubu’s boys who are aggrieved over the fact that Tinubu’s loot that is now rotting away could have been shared and made them billionaires in US dollars. Tinubu is in severe pains. Chai, it’s hard to be a zombiedense, you go just mumu anyhow

basybasy:
No need to listen to your type

Of course I knew that before replying you. I know you won’t listen to my type since you are averse to sensible thinking
You haven’t answered the question btw

TMSMedia:
https://instagram.com/stories/iamkingrudy/3039615778626057952?utm_source=ig_story_item_share&igshid=MDJmNzVkMjY=

Why is he now lamenting since his lord and savior has said the new policy is the way to go and the best for nigeria? Also since it is only Tinubu that the policy is affecting according to uches and shinedus, no one should complain again
Igbos have suddenly become Buhari’s lovers overnight The buhari they have hated all their lives is now their darling daddy in their bid to spite Tinubu, these inconsequential ppl really need to learn politics
Though we all know say na lie this foolish Obidense dey lie just like him messiah but they still doesn’t change who he is; a big foòl

Suspect33:
You're bringing this up because of election? You guys are pathetic

Hypocrite. You ended up not castigating the fool who instigated the poster’s reaction. He reacted to a senseless post from a nitwit like you.
Anyway, he asked a very pertinent question, please answer
Or let me rephrase it for you Chinedu:
I heard Tinubu wasted 3 million Biafra Jews using his killer squad, how true is it?

Thinkam:
Tribalism people, everybody vote your own.
May the best tribalist win.

Don't quote me foolishly, Have you seen Atiku gather all our emir's for anything?, or even Obi has he gathered all the igwes for anything.

Yorubas are very tribalistic, my only pity goes to Igbos that believe Yoruba will vote Obi.
Like I always say if Obi gets 20k votes in South west let motor jam me.

Vote Atiku, defeat the tribalists.

Atiku is coming

My guy, this isn’t about tribalism. The monarchs are not ashamed to openly show their support for him because they have a lot of reasons to support him; his achievements are ultimately speaking for him, my friend. What achievement will the Obi of Onitsha or the highly revered sultan of Sokoto point at as their reasons for supporting Obi and Atiku respectively? I still don’t understand why inconsequential people like you are calling people supporting a leader because of his accomplishments tribalism while seeing nothing wrong in people supporting a failure they once rubbished (in 2012) without any verifiable reason; no achievement to point at as their reasons for supporting him. Funnily and ironically, the ppl rallying behind a visionary are now the tribalists while the other set of people who are supporting a dullard for no reason other than because he is their kinsman, are not tribalists according to nitwits like you

MrBroke:
You can say whatever you like, I don't argue over stupid things that ain't monetary and doesn't improve my cognition, I don't get paid I don't know if you are paid but you are clearly the naive and babyish person here with what I just read above me. You think say I get strength for ona useless Ronaldo and Messi Argument. Only a fool would argue a fact. I hope you have eaten?

Good girl but please, football is more than what you think it is to us and we don’t call or treat it as a stupid thing. When elders are discussing next time, sit your ignorance ass down to gain one or two
I just gave you reasons and facts about why it’s not wrong to say he flopped and you’re the one getting emotional about it baby girl and mind you, this isn’t a Messi vs CR7 debate as I love and respect both men and I would have definitely said just same thing if it was Ronaldo who had ghosted in a game of that magnitude. Cheers

MrBroke:
So the soccer match you saw, Messi flooped abi because psg lost and he didn't score. The runs he made, the completed passes and dribbles and chances created those are table tennis stats abi. I guess you don't know how to kick a ball

Lol I knew it. You must either be a lady or probably a naive boy who started watching football yesterday
To whom much is given, much is expected. That said, when did runs, dribbles and passes become a thing when they don’t result in victory? Just as it isn’t out of place to say Ronaldo flopped in their outing against Al-lttihad for not registering a goal nor assist even though Ittihad have been beating his side, Al-Nassr long before Ronaldo’s signing and even though, he isn’t a defender nor goalkeeper, it’s also right to say Messi flopped yesterday for not seeing the back of the net either. An AM is bought to score goals or provide assists or do both and anytime he fails to deliver these roles, it isn’t out of place to say he flopped, especially when this said player is notorious for ghosting during big games and when he’s mostly needed, you’re the one getting emotional about it baby girl . Throughout his 90 mins of play, dude managed to register just two shots and none was on target
So, baby girl, yes he flopped because the world expected more from him last night but he ghosted. Also yes, Mbappe’s introduction brought a little life into the game yesterday.

OneCandleAway:
So he couldn't have done this ever since, its now election is around the corner. If you're easily fooled others aren't. That's why when the white man says black man have low IQ I won't complain because you are a living manifestation of the fact.

Una go just open mouth waa and start vomiting trash. Are you a resident of Surulere? Are you even living in Lagos?
Gbaja dey try abeg and when next you try to condemn anyone, be sure to make your research well so you don’t look stupid. Gbaja may have his own flaws but definitely better than most of his counterparts.

MrBroke:
Because him no score, football ona no sabi watch

Ironically, na you no sabi watch football . Every critical thinker and football lover could see the changes the psg team experienced immediately Mbappe came on. PSG were heavily outplayed throughout the first half of the game and they were lucky to have a really good goalkeeper, the score line could have been worse since the first 45 mins.

AgubataAkokwa:
Sowore will never rule this country, not in his next 50yrs. It is only logical that Deji queue behind PO with a brighter chance at the pole than waste his little influence on an Igbo smoking sowore that will never come 5th. I like sowore but the odds doesn't favor him, not now not ever.

Vote PO

If not that you’re mad and got no one to tell you, shouldn’t you be rallying behind a youth like us who has been beaten and maltreated severally by police officers just like the other average Nigerian youth?
This guy was there when we were fighting to end Sars brutality while your lord and savior, Pitobi was nowhere to be found. I can remember how he got indicted and was summoned by the then investigative panel organized by Lagos State government. If not that Nigeria is a country blinded by corruption and widespread nepotism and tribalism, how did a man under whose leadership, youths were being killed like chickens by Sars criminals (James Nwafor)
This governor, in 2023, has suddenly won the heart of many deluded youths without any tangible reasons. If you’re not mad and you are really serious about youth taking over the country, why then are you criticizing others while praising and exonerating pitobi like he’s an alien and not one of the heartless leaders we and Sowore have been fighting?
The likes of Aisha yesufu and Macaroni are now in Obi’s camp, leaving the man who suffered the same fate as many Nigerian youths in the cold. If I ask you to list Obi achievements that warrant your support for him, you will either go berserk and start insulting your father at home or go quiet. I don’t know why that question get on the nerves of most of you because you go mad anytime it’s being asked Your mumu never do. Ode, tribalist oshi.
Here are a few of his many sins but you airheads are on a mission (bound to fail) to portray him as the messiah to save us
1.Doctors going on a 13 months industrial action.
2. 8 months ASUU strike
3.Poverty level rising from 25% to 56%
4. Pandora papers scandal
5. Retrenchment of non-indigenes from the State civil service
6. Aide caught with 250M state funds in Lagos 7.no local govt elections for 7 years of his ruling
8. School fees were unreasonable hiked causing pains to parents and students yet idiøts like you want us to give our darling country to this fool all in a bid to spite Buhari and Tinubu and because Obi is prolly your kinsman. E no go better for both you and the stray dogs that birthed you.

yrhuhfy113:
and his SON is Living in the glory of his late father but unknown for his own thing. In death he is still greater than his son.... WHAT AN IMPACT.

PANT O.... not bling bling.... not any shirt or stuff... PANT.


chai.... a LEGEND

And what legacy did your useless father leave behind for you?
At best, you can only be used as a useless example to other lowlifes like you.

Malory:
Stale.

Did the poster lie against Obi? Are the claims true or not?
Please back your defense up with facts and stop crying like the typical Ipobian cretin that you are

FreedomArmy:
why are they crying? When did they actually start caring for the masses? Police brutality came and they kept mute,ASUU 8months strike and they kept mute. So how come they suddenly became the defenders of the masses? The have billions in their houses and are afraid they will loose out if CBN go ahead with the cashless policy

Oh God
Bros, you dull o
How do I even start schooling someone who still nurses the belief that the man in Aso rock today is a clone imported from faraway Sudan to replace dead Buhari?
When Obi came out to condemn the move before he eventually backtracked on his statement, dull hypocrites like you didn’t say he was being jittery about the naira swap because it’s affecting him. My dear Ipob friend, this naira crisis affects and will always affect the masses more than these elite class and speaking up for the masses is very noble of them because they could have simply taken advantage of this unfortunate situation to score some cheap political points for themselves which is what Peter Obidiót is doing.
Why should I waste my vote on a confused man who doesn’t even know if he should support or go against the policy? At a point, he condemned the moved and at another point , he said it’s the best for Nigeria
We can’t afford to leave the affairs of our darling country in the hands of a feint-hearted, clueless man who can’t stand his ground in defending what he says and believe; a fickle-hearted man who doesn’t have a mind of his own. Obi did exactly what his principal, Atiku Abubakar, did regarding the murder of Deborah; while Buhari, being his down-to-earth true self, condemned the killing without mincing words and without giving a flying Bleep about what his people would say, Atiku on the other hand quickly disowned his stance after receiving some backlashes. Atiku must be really proud of his apprentice

FreedomArmy:
Na them them. Probably this one has one billion stacked somewhere in one of his room

So you think the scarcity is affecting all the affluent people who are speaking up? In your myopic mind, you believe the scarcity is affecting the whole Sutan of Sokoto of all people?
Truly, Obi attracts the dullest and most intellectually challenged people among us

Max82:
my dear friend for now obi is the best In igbo land,not only igbo I mean Nigeria entirely as a politician plz I know that theirs is other politicians in The southeast to tell you the truth if that obi didn't surface in this election even the east will not vote for either okorocha, hope uzodimma,umahi, ngige or anyone else rather they will vote for another tribe, pls let's keep this in mind obi done extremely well in anambra irrespective of the cabal's/ God fathers in anambra state that size power then he sideline them and use state funds to to work for the state. Finally all politicians in Nigeria are the same but among them obi is a saint in their midst.

My dear friend, I took my time to read through your long story but you ended up saying nothing. You and the person I quoted ended up evading my question. He claimed that Obi, together with Umahi and Sullivan had impeccable track record of achievements and I asked him to list these so called accomplishments. Are these achievements too big to big seen or mentioned?
He’s since gone mute and I still don’t know why you ipobs get mad anytime someone asks you to list Obi’s achievements

SmartPolician:
These men should stop deceiving themselves. It's better the Igbos don't produce a president than bring a nonentity like Rochas to come and finish off what's left of this country.

Nigeria doesn't just need politicians; this country needs transformational leaders because things will get worse in the coming years. The global economy is shrinking, meaning that nobody is totally immune to that.

As far as South East is concerned, I can only trust Peter Obi, Dave Umahi and Sullivan Chime to transform this country. Those men have impeccable track records as governors. You people don't seem to understand that leadership is tough!

At least I can list one or two of Dave Umahi’s and Sullivan’s achievements but please, what are these IMPECCABLE track records Obi had as a governor ?
Pls answer my question without resorting to insult, we learn everyday but if it’s insult you want, we get that one plenty for this side as well

Braintaf23:
I can bet anything that the average Nigerian youth now has at least an iPhone worth over 200,000 to 1 million naira, and most of these people don’t have money in their bank account. They have no job, they have no car or house or any tangible source of income but you see them with extremely expensive phones.

First I’m curious how do you people even afford these phones?

Secondly why will you choose to hold a 600k phone in your hand and have less than 50k in your account after?

Do you truly feel happy about that?

I’m not judging sincerely I’m only curious, why is this so common that we have a youth population of people who have less than 100k in their accounts but use phones of half a million naira?

iPhones are damm expensive, the iPhone 14 alone is 1 million, the rest are from 200k to 1 million, you barely see these people with old model iPhones it’s always the latest ones, especially in Lagos.

How is this even possible in a country as poor as Nigeria?

Op, firstly, Nigeria is not a poor country and secondly, not everyone buys an IPhone for showoff like some people have been implying. You also sounded too prejudging to have presumed that most of the ppl using these iPhones don’t have up to 100k in their accounts and that doesn’t look nice. Try changing your mindset, circle and perhaps, your environment and you’ll realize that not everyone uses an iPhone just for show (what you really wanted to hear) and that almost everyone in the US and the other supposed ‘saner climes’ uses an iPhone. Apple enjoys so much radical followership and fanbase in these places that ppl would queue and sleep at Apple stores just to have a feel of the latest iPhones and no one sees it as being a luxury and in fact, iPhones are not the most expensive smartphones we have today.
I digressed a little, talking about ‘saner climes’ to make you understand that the ‘iPhone craze’ is not just a Nigerian thing like you were trying to insinuate, good things don’t always need to be advertised.
Lastly, iPhones are not as expensive as you think, blame your country and her visionless government for making them look like luxurious possessions; blame the Naira and the clueless people at the wheel of this country’s economy, blame that bald-headed vulture at CBN, the new iPhone 14 promax would be sold for 250k assuming the Naira was still where it used to be under GEJ and Late Ya’adua .

kettykin:
It seem Reno omkri is mentally retarded, how does a imbecilic fellow expect Peter Obi to bring in 100,000 followers in a TBS designed for maximum of 20,000 people.

The organizers and planners of Peter Obi did very well by not allowing more than 15000 people to prevent stampede, suffocation and deaths

Chinedu, pls read what you wrote over again and ask yourself if you aren’t running mad slowly
You well so? So the organizers purposely allowed in 15000 people to prevent a stampede who knack you this jazz?

ryloy:
Drone Shot of Obi Presidential Campaign Rally in Lagos


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1Dhxn69P_WU

It’s now crystal clear that this Obi is only wasting his time and money like WTF is this?
Is this some bad joke or what?
I guess this comedian is working for Jagaban to split AA’s and PDP’s traditional southern votes