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Every country has a oligarch. Nigeria do have oligarch too.

All oligarch come from the business and banking world.

festacman:
Yes, eating more amount of right food.

You need to eat lot of carbohydrate after gyming to gain back the energy you lost.

I am not suprised if this happens. Politics is a game of make believe and deception.

festacman:
Davido be calming down. Look, if you pumped all the irons in the world and still be careless about your calories, you will gain weight rather than lose. Therefore, combination of exercise and dieting is desirable.

Make sure you do proper aerobics. Make you no go collapse for stage. Osun State people who are waiting for you as their future governor no wan hear stories. Abeg!

Actually gyming makes you gain weight because you have to compensate for the energy you lost by eating more amount of food

He was a rich young man but sex and women ruin his life. The lack of personal responsibility is something that made me sad.

I am sure, he must be sleeping and spending money on lot of women instead of focusing to build his life and business, now that he is broke at his old age, he now blame sex and women.

Funny enough, there are still lot of men like him, who when they get to their old age, will blame women and sex for their downfall.

A proof that voodoo doesn't work

thatthickgurl:
I'm in need of a three month apartment in Lagos.
Preferably on the mainland.

I sent you a message

One guys here wrote about the narcissism of his mother, the whole nairaland abused him.

A popular Nigerian Twitter journalist talked about the narcissism of his mother, no abuse, just people mostly men hearing his point of view.

This is politics section

Why is this topic here?

I think a woman is suppose to improve no matter what even if her bf or husband is the one making enough money for both of them. The lack of effort or improvement by the girl is something that will affect the relationship in the future...when you get to a certain level, you will feel like you can do better, if you see no changes or improvement.

This something most people don't realize,

Yhungsarm:
I think i get you and to be honest she did way more than just pre intimacy stuff, we kissed and we did every pre intimacy stuff i know of and she was even the one doing it like i said i didn't plan for it like i did not even buy Condom or use sedinafil. i was just seeing her as a friend who will just come and catch cruise with me and since it her first time, i did not even make any move i maintained myseld until she started the sex stuff. my fault is not walking away

Next time learn about emotional intelligence.

The best situation is to speak with her. Don't be scared, just explain to her in a nice way about what happened.

Fact is that A girl that really wants to get down with you, will give you access with ease.

Yhungsarm:
you didn't read where i said we where talking about sex related issues. She all the pre intimacy stuff, i did not plan to have any sex with her, i just couldn't control all d seduction again...she was placing my hand on her boobs, trying to hold my dick and all that, i mean it was a clear signal that she wants to have sex but then she just refused and i will let go. the bastard will start again

Talking about sex related issues, isn't pre-intimacy.

Even if she was giving you clear signs and seducing you by touching your dick, You would have tested the waters by initiating a kiss, then her reaction will tell you whether to escalate or not.

You just don't carry a girl, all because she showed you breast or touch your dick.

The mere fact that you had to drag her trouser with her shows that you didn't do your job to seduce her or initiate pre-intimacy, if you had done that, she would have removed her trousers by herself or tell you to help her.

To be sincere, you acted like a rapist

I now understand why some women will accuse men of rape when you have sex with them without pre-intimacy . The op behavior is a prime example

You didn't even try to seduce her or do pre-intimacy to create a mutual feeling.

You just carried her to the bed because you saw boobs.

The dragging her trouser part is considered rape, if she had shouted, you will be accused of rape.

Next time, if a girl sits on your lap even after she becomes flirty. Give her a kiss to test the waters, then her reaction will tell you if to escalate the situation or not.

nifemi25:
Never toy with some people's property. ...

Yeah but married men can toy with other people properties without consequences.

so this man has 2 legs and 2 hands yet still depending on his famous sister

here on nairaland, they say it is only women who are entitled but the reality is that many men in this country are also entitled.

yinkaOdutuyo:
So it's a good thing for a man to be cooking and he's wife is watching films right?

If cool to you, you and your wife can swap man

What you did was wrong.

If your wife did that to you, you would have said she was evil.

Stop trying to seek validation and support for this foolish stuff, i know you are filled with guilt that is why you are looking for online support .

The main aim of marriage is support and you failed there.

So cooking a meal reduces your masculinity.

KiNg0G:
your a simp for wanting to know if your right or wrong.


real Alphas are confident in their decision making.

You are not alpha. Pls calm down.

This is disgraceful

You contradicted yourself. Look at number 4 and 6

It has nothing to do with marriages are over rated.

Marriage need some kind of financial responsibility to make it work.

The truth is.

Many of the single guys in Nigeria don't have money to cater for the responsibilities of marriage.

It is either, they don't have job, or they receive low pay, so they can't afford marriages at this moment of their lives.

This trend is very common in developing countries where unemployment is high.

Send her the card.

You asked for video and she did her end of the deal...send her the deal and stop acting like a fraudster

Drenimarcus:
Was it deleted? I couldnt find the topic on reddit..

Read

https://www.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/terdod/ukrainian_volunteers_take_heavy_casualties_in/?utm_medium=android_app&utm_source=share

Fake news from a Ukrainian newspaper.

I read Russian history and realised that the Russian people support him.

The fact is that about half of Russian elites are jews,these are the ones running to Israel during the sanctions.

Because jews formed the Soviet union and ran away to the US and Germany after the fall of the union. The jews who constitute about half of Russian elites wont gamble to stage a coup against putin.

Putin has his elites under his control, i think this is one reason Russia has been stabilised.

The oligarch like Boris Berezovsky who is anti putin is dead

And another oligarch like Khodorkovsky who has been a troublemaker has gone on exile to Switzerland after spending 9 years in jail in Russia.

At the moment, Putin has the support of his Secret service and military plus his people.

Our elites.

Classless as usual

Kobojunkie:
Having hatred and contempt towards your actual abuser is one thing, but spewing bitterness and hatred towards those who had absolutely no connection to your abuse is instead a choice you consiously make as an individual and has nothing to do with with upbringing.

There are lots of people out there who were not raised in abusive homes who then go on to abuse other people in their adulthood. One famous example of such is Hitler.

I doubt if you know what you are writing about.

Atheists are never tolerant of other point of view. I wonder why they never accept other people's opinion or beliefs without imposing their intolerant opinions

Kobojunkie:
The blame is him for choosing to turn out the adult that he is, whether you want to put it on him or not.

Your shoes don't determine your personality or character as an individual. You are who you chose to be regardless of how painful the shoes your wear are.

Human character does not depend on one's childhood or one's experiences but on one's choices in life. You make a choice to be a kind person or a heartless person, all this regardless of your childhood and your past.

your environment and parental upbringing determines the way you will turn out

dont expect someone who was abused all his or her life to turn out all nice and without hatred and contempt

Why Ukraine and western media keep pushing out propaganda.

Russia has completely taken over kherson

So you believe this propaganda.