₦airaland Forum

na2016:

Your analogy doesn't add up bro. This is just church oo. The truth is later on the babe may even follow the guy to any other church he wishes. Catholic is not somewhere you will force someone to join you like that. A rational thing here could be for them to choose a neutral church and attend. Marriage requires a lot more than love, sir.

So she can not marry in a catholic church.

You are just bigot, that is what you are.

Catholic church is orthodoxy and there is nothing wrong in getting married in catholic

tutudesz:
Instead of you to build Duplex with substandard materials, why not build a nice modernize Bungalow and have rest of mind
House na house, big or small na house

So you think if you use substandard materials to build a bungalow, it will not collaspe too.

The pillars can't carry that building, why won't it fall.

This is what happens when you give a bricklayer to construct the building.

I hope he wasn't a cultist

na2016:
If you read his post, you will see where he said he doesn't want to start all over again? That suggests to me that this guy may be in his 30s and knows the stress in getting a wife and that this girl may fit into lots of his criteria already before this dilemma.

So you think he is making a rational decision.

I guess if she had also said that he should leave his job because she doesn't like it, you would have supported her decision.

If that girl really loves him, she won't be concerned whether he his a catholic or not.

Ooh..
She was the one that was about to wed and was found naked...
RIP

na2016:
Is the doctrine in Catholicism the same as others? If OP can't go to her church, he can suggest a neutral church altogether. This is nothing to drag about or to prove that you are the man.

It has nothing to do with proving that you are a man.

Why is it a must that he must change church because he wants to be with her??

Gadafii:
Na make up dey help some girl, walai

Post this one picture without make up and filter, you go see her rough face

So you believe she is the one.

This account is owned by the girl siofra.

She is a troll.

na2016:
OP: It is not advisable for the husband to attend another church while the wife attends another. You may not see anything bad in it but this can even cause separation if not managed well. I will suggest if you really love her and you feel she meets all your requirement for a wife, join her in her church but make it explicit that you are doing that for the union. However, be firm when it comes to other decisions later.

Why doesn't she join him in his church?

Prevailing:
My is, do you think is a mere belief or a fact. The catholic way to worship God is not in the Bible. Jesus said He is the way, truth and life, no one comes except thro Him John 14:6. The catholics say you go to God thro mary. Is that not idolatry?. They see you as an outcast if you don't belong to the Mary league.

worshipping the pastor instead of God is that not idolatry.

RoyalBoutique:
Religion; the bane of progress in Nigeria.

My wife goes to mountain of fire.

I'm a traditional worshipper.

I can never set foot in church.

She knows that.

That's why we only did court marriage and traditional marriage.

No church.

I can't let religion dictate my life.

Maybe that is why she goes to mountain of fire. She is scared of your traditional religion

Collyweed:
Yeah, including some Hindus and Buddhists.

Your name need to be changed to ignorant. You are not exposed.

Hindus, muslims, Christians , Jews, buddhists, non Christians all bear zainab or Zaynab

Vado:
Oh shut the foolishness. I watched an interview of her relatives on TV at the unfortunate site, they are Muslims. You wish this unverifiable story is the truth so bad but the dead tell no tales innit? Many worker on that site were Muslims. Do your findings.

Guess gour tv was black and white.

There was no zainab at the site.

The corper who died was oyindamola not zainab.

Many Nigerians are born wicked

APCNig:
No, it means she is a Jew

Ignorant is your name. Zainab is beared by the both religion

Collyweed:
No, it means that she is Buddhist.

Both Christians and muslims bear zainab.

Leverage2021:
This is zainab a corper that was trapped in the collapse too

She is Muslim

I don't know what is wrong with Yoruba Muslims

Because a girl bears zainab that means she is a muslim?

Contact the dispatch rider and give him some money, he will leak the address of the lady.

You also have the account number and name of the girl.

All the information you need is at your table.

golor:
Shut up ,I bought a Nigeria used Camry 2.4 .. 650k do some body work let say everything cost me 1m. Now people de beg me for 1.5 m I de make yanga cause I never get money to add buy the one I want...then it was 1.9m foreign used now it's 2.5-2.6 ....the op is correct..I personally don't know how sound piggyvest is..I intend to safe der with dollar.

You are a cheat and a greedy fellow.

So you want to sell your Nigerian used car for almost the same price as foreign used.

So you also want to charge in dollars, i wish you good luck.

I wonder Why do you greedy people do not calculate for naira inflation rate to collect your debt back but rather use exchange rate?

Someone owns you money since 2018 but then you want to collect the worth of it using dollar to naira exchange rate.

Why don't you calculate for inflation and collect your money.

Isn't it greed to collect debt using future exchange rate

This is just a waste of time.

She cheated on you with his friend....walk away, which one is all the movies they are acting.

Nigerian developers are known to cut corners and bribe regulators for building approval. So i am not suprised that an high rising building like that will collapse.

In a sane country, thorough testing and inspection would have been done before any construction started at that place.

Because he built a similar structure in the Uk does not mean he will use the same standards in Nigeria.

Now, i am scared and skeptical of the buildings at EKO Atlantic if they meet international standards.

The easiest way for a man to ruin his life is to have children from different women.

Nigerian men are just lucky that Nigerian women don't understand child support, many men would have been languishing in misery

akpunda86:
Haha nairaland is not my wife but part of my family cos we all have benefitted from d site thou Seun Na stingy man
Im doing d shopping morrow cos know wat I'll buy will last but if she go Na anoda story I no wan food wahala January

Budget for the month on feeding..
Atleast buy things in bulk.

Sonnobax15:
Family wey dey manage,you can't speak to them about a balanced diet

You are right.

glimpse:
You get mind dey buy sardines, like more than 1... Come and shake my hand

I can't eat jollof spaghetti without sardines.

Sonnobax15:
Guy,,3h of back then is more or less equivalent to the 3k of now....But do you know that,woman wey don already sabi manoeuvre finish go must still find one way take manoeuvre, arrange something with that 3h?

You can not eat a good and rich meal with manoeuvring

Sonnobax15:

I really remember when I was little...Dad would give mum of blessed memory just 3h because na wetin he get be that, to buy soup ingredients... With a smiling face . Momsy go collect the money from am and even add small money from her okrika business wey she dey do to go market......
Sometime when momsy go dish the food put for table,you go hardly differentiate between food wey dem cook with 5k from am .

Op,no be say wife Material no dey,but it all deprivef on how you take package am.....Na you be the man and head of the family,why not kukuma sit her down and talk sense into her.....Even though say we know say our money no get value for now self,but at least that money wey you dey give her for foodstuffs reach to sustain a family of that size

Can 3h buy anything now, if someone gives you 3h to cook, will you collect it?

chatinent:
I don't know myself how some wives do it. I enter market with ₦3k and all I may buy can enter my pocket.

I am asking because the last time i went to market, things were damn expensive.

I bought bag of rice, half carton of fish, yam, groundnut oil, packs of spaghetti, sardines, etc and i was wondering how my money disappeared.

Even if you are not buying frozen chicken which is not fresh and expensive, to buy and kill an old layer cost almost 2700 naira, that is just for meat.

chatinent:
I no go lie sha, I hate anything house help.

Shout out to all women out there who use ₦3k to the market and come back with two nylons.

May God continue to bless you as you continue to understand the conditions and still maintain respect him. E go stew one day...and you surely must be alive till then.

Which market will you go to with 3k and bring back 2 nylons? I want to know about that market, also write down the address.

I took 100k to the market to stock up for the month, i didn't come back with change.

Talk to her, is nairaland your wife?

The way you explain your situation to us here, explain your situation to your wife or are you afraid of her?