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ProfDview1:
I haven't seen baba again since Poco sent him money... Davash222 is no more bashing ladies again... But Don, u no fit send me 1k from 5k..nawa oo


Anyway, pls we need you davash222.... Been reading several post abt ladies this and that, the regular davash222 b4 the giveaway wud have bashed the ladies but now, baba dey cruise...


Miss u Don

The likes of MZrapper SweetCunt97 maky wunt kesto funmisticqueen2 wunt let davash222 come online again ooo..

I heard they have screen shot all evidences against him.. Even me 40 years no see sha.. E pain mi small

There is nothing special about the ladies you mentioned. If anything, they are just opportunists, who ride on the crest of someone's effort to burnish their battered personas and seek underserved relevance. Some of these ladies equally received the same amount, so it isn't about Davash22 alone. I don't know why you have elected to be his shame-in-chief.

Ride on, my mercurial skippo. Nothing do you.

If I were you, I will play along with her, bed her and move on. She is playing hide-and-seek games with you, comparing notes between you and her dude.

I see a kid playing with three adult-kids in the mud. You happen to be the leader of this children play group.

Few days ago, you lamented the inability of getting a dream man. How could you, with this erratic persona.

Brodapounds:
The bias powers that be deleted my thead but i have made my point. People can see the truth for themselves. nobody should fall for a she-devil. be wise!!!

I don't think you have a point, but deleting your thread is unacceptable. At least, you should be able to accommodate divergent or conflicting opinions, without feeling threatened.

Martinez39s:
It funny how you are confident that every redpill male is a broke freebasics user. Sorry to disappoint you, I am not that broke that I have to rely solely on freebasics.com for my internet use. The picture below is my data consumption for this month. You can click on the link to see my February consumption in another thread
https://www.nairaland.com/5713043/screenshot-post-data-usage-month/3#87081791

I don't think representing your data history is necessary to assuage the nerves of a person who has been bleating on someone's generosity. I have said before those who wish to ride on the back of someone's efforts are truly deserving of pity and assistance.

MZrappermynd4u:
You are right but still not right.

MyMyn.d4u deactivated coz he was banned till 2021 for Bullying in nysc thread ... U had no hand in it, u can stop claiming the glory. Aunty

Denre.ledave was banned till may 18 also.. He didn't deactivate.. Aunty stop claiming the glory.. It has notin to do with u


Time.keeper was banned till Aug for sumtin else, it has not to do with you.

U think sumone can deactivate an account because of you... Funny indeed funny.


Abeg I need attention from you, my sister.. Start again

I felt unease reading the length of ban received by different monikers here. Please, did any of them commit murder? I am one of the persons who believes ladies have distorted and abused the function of ban -- as a correctional measure -- in the service of their ego.

There is a funny but highly misplaced assumption that Poco's unexpected act of generosity is somehow a makeshift canopy for all ladies to hide under and spew trash. This is lame and disconcerting, and it is imperative to nip in the bud this vicious attempt to rob her of her well-deserved glory.

And for those who think that this act is somewhat a leveler, I have an unpleasant news for you: You are obviously daydreaming because the act wasn't carried out as a project of Nairaland Female Club, neither was Poco acting as a rep of this club. There wasn't a meeting were consensus was reached on modalities to be used. It is undeniably an out-and-out independent exercise, actuated only by love and kindness.

With malice towards none and charity for all, let us halt this attempt to genderised this act and be able to celebrate it. Thank you.

This is a commendable and laudable display of generosity by Nairaland's self-described foremost Evening Newspaper. The fact that she executed with finesse and aplomb bespeaks of maturity and class. Thank you very much, Poco.

BigJoe19:
She should quit the relationship if she wants to, at least the guy would be smarter next time to keep his money to himself and see through women's fake love.

There is a needless hoopla because it is a woman who has the upper hand financially, and a good and well-mannered guy is at the receiving end. Maybe because it is a man's world and women in this part of world are cultural socialised to allow men take the lead in everything. The only good advice, to me, is the one she gives herself.

prettyaura:
must U always prove ur stupidity? Of course I know U are stupid but I don't know it has gotten to this level..U shld be washing ur dad's car or helping with household chores.amatuers like U are not needed in this discussion.

Hahaha! But washing daddy's car or giving mum a helping hand in the house, isn't a full-time job. There is always enough time to unwind. So, this is a leisure time, please allow us to play freely.

IceColdVeins:
And you ain't got nerves to direct these antiquated dregs of English grammar to the complainant herself?
Swerve please!!

While I am on the process of swerving, you can muster courage to convince your principal to provide evidence of her claim. That is the honourable thing to do.

IceColdVeins:
Don't apologise shii.
Your instincts are absolutely correct, I immediately knew it was a guy behind that moniker the very instance that I clicked on the dimwit's profile some time last year.
How simpletons fall prey to this stratagem beats me.

It is very easy to falsely accuse someone in this graveyard, and be readily defended by spineless hanger-ons. Whether she is a she or a he is not the issue. What is the issue is that someone claimed that a PM was sent to her between August and September last year, so, logically, she should provide a screenshot to buttress her point. Anything other than that makes her an amateurish liar.

I just discovered to my utter satisfaction that this graveyard has a lot rich dudes, who are obsessed with alms giving -- you can use this OP as an example. However, it has also become clear to me today that most people here have two monikers, one used for receiving giveaways and other used brawling.

Peeress:
Do not allow bitterness to kill you. It is foolishness to think that those who find pleasure in commenting only on the romance section of this forum have no deep knowledge in other areas of life. Most of us can see through your emptiness, even with all your show off. And, stop giving people faux impression that you a professional bank staff, because you are not. You have not even work with any bank. A professional bank staff will not make some simple mistakes I have seen you make in most of your quack analysis everywhere in this forum. Anyone who has interest in clout chasing like you can always use google to gain little knowledge on any topic under discussion, like you always do, and use same to give a lame opinion like you do in any area of interest. In your every second bid to show off and act like you are more intelligent than every other person, you keep exposing your dumbness.

The fact that you take pleasure in using your almost poor offline life to chase clout in this forum while others who are doing better than you chose otherwise, does not make you better than everyone.

This is certainly the equivalence of a nuclear attack on an unexpected, poorly-defended territory. It is also akin to attacking the Vatican city.

AfroKnight:
Attacking the messenger won’t change the message.

My Bros, it is part of the feminine manipulative weapon. Everyone approaches friendship with a to-do-list and it is free to walk if and when you feel your objectives are threatened. I don't know why Nairaland has a space where people are senselessly attacked because of their personal choice and it is often in the service of gender.

Talk of the devil! She is here already.

GreatResearcher:
Ishilove, Seun take this thread down

Why should the thread be closed? Oh, because a buffoon like you couldn't get his acts together. I have told you many times, you don't need Red Pill, what you need is Sense Pill.

zexy2030:
shey funmi dey go church ni, u get church mind o, if na me ehn, I go do mine own back, to err is human to forgive is divine, chai, so funmi dey go church.

Dear zexy2030, your comment shows you are not a regular member of this graveyard or that you are not a good observer. That bimbo has had a moment on the "Road to Damascus," and we are still celebrating that remarkable transformation. You are invited to join us.

Watch how Nairaland's epic drama queen do her thing. It is as if Nairaland attention is equivalent to the air you breathe.

Jaubdu:
. Prevailing situation like having a lot of toxic boys bashing and body shaming women( calling them evening newspapers,hoe and cheap slut))as if their lives depend on it here on nairaland, even an angel can become a demon if push to a wall. I will advice you take your time and disgest some of her post. She is not perfect but she is up to date kind of girl( inner beauty, cooking skills, healthy discussion, well trained/ well behaved) I thank God that I found her. I have inner peace, our relationship just get better and better.

You are sounding exactly how someone in love should sound. I am pleased for the good feelings you radiate. Everyone needs it. Nevertheless, Nairaland is a space where a lot of things happen, good and bad and gender warfare has a scarred history here. Men shame ladies, ladies shame men as well. Therefore, it is wrong to single out men for reprimand and concomitantly depict women as hapless receivers of senseless attacks.
In this graveyard, there are ladies -- and, of course, men -- who don't engage this obviously needless contest, and still don't hide their disappointments. I am not shopping for flaws for your woman, but we must admit she is complicit in this slugfest. However, to your credit and maybe having found rest of mind, she has turned a new leaf. That, to me, is good news.

Jaubdu:
Staying with her: the fun, the joy, healthy food, jokes, having intelligent conversation,with other things, lot of outdoor activities and meeting friends /family, was the best moment of my life. I gladly give her a world if that was possible

Haha. Someone has fallen head over heels in love. You come across like a nice, easygoing dude, but your woman has a nasty reputation in this graveyard based on her past misguided and thoughtless utterances. That does not mean she is a bad person, it is just what she presented to us -- perhaps due to the prevailing situation she found herself in. Well, I wish you best of luck.

Jaubdu:
. Funny, i just wish you know her in person. Well she has my heart in her hand and that because she worth it( her sense of judgement and IQ, way she carry herself and healthy conversation). Can your boyfriend gives you all his heart?

How could you shamelessly corroborate the assertion that you acquired property for that bimbo against your will with the "she has my heart in her hand" statement. Surely, our talismanic skkipo of "Men are Scum" FC is well and truly in control.

There is no point staying with her or thinking about marriage if you can't deal with her baggage. Everyone has got baggages, it depends whether we can accept them or not. Fortunately for you, it is a man's world, that is why you think your moral infractions are not parameters to judge you. However, know that it is still your choice to make, irrespective of what your friends think.

It is as if there is a consensus in this graveyard to be purposefully vague, to not admit a self-evident fact, and to readily weaponised gender when being defeated in an argument. And it runs along both genders, male and female. Sometimes, truth is placed on moratorium, making it possible for things to be viewed with cracked gender lens.

I had a good laugh reading the Op's gender-inspired submission that is nothing short of a senseless attack on men. And it is also a gross generalisation. Wooing a woman more than once is not a depiction of weakness or a reflection of one's financial standings. However, ladies are complex beings: it is not every of them that will give an affirmative reply even when they are interested. Sometimes they are confused, seizing up the endurance quotient of the "wooer," or in a relationship trying to sort things out before giving a reply. Call it self-fish? If a man feels he has a strong connection to a lady and insists on getting her, how is it a sign of weakness? Remember, men are enticed by the appearance of a woman first, before examining her character which is priceless. It is the same for women, but they rarely have the power to discard bad-mannered dudes whom they naively think they can change.

I think the message to malefolk should be that they realise and examine their standings in any relationship they are in, especially if it takes the bimbo donkey time to make up her mind.

Kimzo:
And I have decided to let her be, but even if I leave her the guy would go on to be hostile around her, and maybe lead to violence, because the last time he called he was saying he would beat her up, which I hate

What then is the basis of your relentless bleating? Since you are keen on painting a favourable picture of your babe, let me offer a piece of advice to you: implore her Calabar-based guy to allow her make a brief visit to your place, since getting her laid is your prime objective.

On the other hand, if only you can calmly and dispassionately read what you have written -- that is, assuming it was written by someone you don't know -- you will be truly sorry for your pathetic want of character.

Rukkydelta:
The fact you are independent doesn't mean you should be spending on a guy
And stop telling guys you are independent and don't love depending on a man you will only attract leeches if you do this be wise

Nigerian men complain of gold digging ladies but when they see the one that are independent they try to take advantage of them. There are still few good ones out there though
Just be vigilante

No be only vigilante, na civil defence.

Paxie55:
You should invest your time in English classes better

This is not an attempt to defend the shameless herd, but I think the Op should be included among those that need English language tutorial.

It is a fact that your present state of confusion is a self-inflicted injury occasioned by dating two women at the same time. It will be miraculous if you didn't lose the ability to think clearly. There is a saying that a man is supposed to love his woman more than she loves him. The basis of this thought is that, men being a lion that only eats what it kills, tend to undermine and abuse an affection freely given. However, as is the case to every rule, there is an exception.

If I were you, I will temporarily terminate communication with these ladies and pretentiously "breakup" with them as well. Then, in a rational, emotion-free atmosphere, I will thoroughly dissect their persona and choose the one I miss the most during this period. My reason is simple: I would love to adore my wife. But if she happens to love me more, that wouldn't be a source of pain and regret to her.