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kodded:


which one is protective wire again

the live wire is INSIDE the chord, just like any power chord, duh!

MRBrownJ:
why do you think that birds dont get electrocuted when on these electric wires then?

talk2alabama:
oh yes it's wrong.. humans are not omni scient... I can only knw mR A steals when he gets caught.. dats just it.

what difference does it make that you know that MR A is stealing? shouldnt it be that stealing is wrong regardless of who is doing the stealing?

you DO know that the part he is holding has a protective layer, like any electrical chord, right? i mean, why do you think that birds dont get electrocuted when on these electric wires then?

simply count your BLESSINGS.... blessings that cant be bought with money

talk2alabama:
u read my post.. if she gets caught... hw can u knw someone is bad wen u dnt hav any evidence against him/her

shouldnt it be that stealing is wrong, regardless of whether you get caught or not OR whether you know who is stealing or not?

Ucheosefoh:
Let me use my case as example, I tried all efforts but the issue of lasting long were never solved, she improved on others but she cant last up to 30 minutes once she cum that is the end she will complain of dryness so we engaged in more MouthAction as alternative because that is the only way she will make me cum. I had other experience that was worst than that, this particular girl is good with romance but not creative and hate MouthAction yet she get tired easily in penetrative sex. Eight months of teaching was in vain because she will not allow MouthAction because of too much pleasure. I left her because of that and same way I have encounter such girls i have met those who improved tremendously and the sex goddess. E no easy handling such girls but if any girl have anything to offer apart from sex then they should look for alternative.

there is no point wasting time with a gal you aint sexually compatible with.

talk2alabama:
I dnt like it wen a woman steals.... it's bad. I can forgive cheating buh stealing, and being caught,, naaaaaaaaaaaaah......

funny post... so if its a man stealing and/or a woman that DOESNT get caught, then its ok?!

if that man waited "that" long, another week wont change anything.

layla129:
A lady is cool enough to be your girlfriend, have unprotected sex with and impregnate but marriage? Hell to NO! ...Why
I can't imagine having a boyfriend i have sex with and then the issue of marriage will be a No No.
Why date and impregnate someone you can't get married to?

I don't get this

NONSENSE!!! the important question should be: why should she be your wife since she is already your baby mama?!
as if that piece of paper is gonna change anything.

Ucheosefoh:
Trust me some guys have complained, explained even teach yet no noticeable improvement, I am talking from personal experience some girls will not improve no matter your efforts. I understand that because of their mentality about sex any issue about will be handle like nothing by these women.

its all about understanding bro... if what you want her to do is uncomfortable/painful/shamefull, she gets offended or simply dislike the act you want her to do (or its against her religious belief), then its understandable that she wont do it. sex must be an agreement beneficial/pleasurable to both.

if thats the case then they are NOT sexually compatible

Ucheosefoh:
What did you suggest such guys will do, endure it, cheat on her, leave her or nag about it. If you believe my suggestion is not an alternative.

men should be fully open/honest and tell their bedroom partners what turns them on in the bedroom, your desires/fantasies, where you like to be caressed/lick/pinched/bitten, so that she can SATISFY you properly. a BJ is a lame way of cuuming during sex, and its only in p0rn movies that they do that and feel great about it. any man/woman should be ashamed if a BJ is the only way to make that man (their partner) to cuum. its either he has masturbated too often OR she is truly clueless and lame in bed.

BioTeck:
She lies frequently about her whereabouts and when asked, she takes to self defense instantly...now when she picks her calls, she walks away if i was around. She doesn't behave this way before now.

come on bro, these are some lame excuses.
- what about if she was preparing a surprise party for your next bday?
- what about asking her why she's changed? and pointing to these above points that are worrying you when she asks how/why?
- what about asking her why she needs to make that call private?
- what about asking her who was on the call?

Ucheosefoh:
Still better than leaving you hanging anyway wey person cum na cum

i guess, if you really believe in the above quote of "cum na cum" then masturbation is also just as good as making love to a women and BJs, right (since men also cum)?

ZeeAfrica:
Reading all de above makes me feel bad, as if there is something wrong wit me, or maybe i just love sex too much i dnt know. For me, i have never been in a case wer i come befor a guy, for me i always wana go on and on until he gets tired and is de one wanting to stop on his on. My boo even sometimes gets angry wen i start waking him up during his rest, coz he wil b feeling tired, and i will b feeling something dat i dnt understand, which makes me want him more and more. Serously guys, i realy have never been in such a situation, and de problem is dat i love exploring so much, which sometimes is good, bt sometimes is a bit bad and dengerous

sista, let me be the bearer of bad news, you are a nymph0maniac, where the satisfaction isnt enough/important, and you just want to be fukced all the time regardless if you cuum 20times or not. to you, this is like sport and not lovemaking.

Saronna:
How? he's never available he barely comes home , we're lucky if we get to see him once a month or just reply to our messages! I'm starting to think she's done some magic on him

find ways to talk to him or do so when she is in the car waiting for him while texting

BioTeck:
Well, it might be laughable to you but that's your opinion. I don't understand why you think asking her will make her tell you the truth except you find out the truth from other sources. maybe you live in Uranus where women simply own up to being a cheat.

thats because before i remotely ACCUSE her of any wrongdoings and/or investigate her, i would ask her about it openly (thats what trusting and honest people do) so that she can have a say about it. if she gives me an explanation that is satisfactory then so be it, case closed.... and if she doesnt then i would now be suspicious and possibly investigate... thats what TRUST means to me.

sadly, you have already assumed that her answers wont be satisfactory to you, without even asking her or letting her know about your worries. what a sad r/ship where trust can go out the window so quick, thanks to some misplaced ego!

btw: as much as you may avoid the question, it still remains.... WHAT MAKES YOU EVEN THINK SHE IS CHEATING?

Bestman111:
U are lucky ur gal cooperates. Mine is so selfish dat ones she has climax, any further attempt to change position might lead to a fight.

these ones are known as "selfish cuumers"... men and women that wanna go to sleep as soon as they cuum.

Saronna:
What reasons? My entire family has been nothing but nice and accepting of her and her kid we treated her like like family before she even got married to my brother and my mom is just WAY too nice to her although she is saddened when she behaves this way. My brother on the other hand is like a stranger now I feel like I don't even know him anymore , he used to have so much respect for our parents and we could all honestly agree that he was their favourite without doubt but this is scary it's like no matter who talks to him to him abt his nd hes wife's behavior they just get worse!!! Like we are their enemy or something. Seriously I don't know what the hell she's done to him!

just because YOU believe that you treat her right, doesnt mean that she sees it the same way. people act/react differently to different subjects. the fact that your brotha also changed is a confirmation that there is an underlying issue here, and unless you figure out what it is, you wont be able to solve this issue. so, since that lady probably wont say it to y'all, talk to your brotha.

BioTeck:
Absolutely wrong assertion. I'll find out the truth and act accordingly. nothing more, nothing less. You want to investigate someone and you want the principal subject to play a leading role during the investigation? I won't ask her. All i need is to find out what the truth is and lay it bare before her. I'll only act on incontrovertible evidence.

dont know what YOUR idea of trust is, but my definition of trust is to COMMUNICATE with your spouse when such stuff happens, and let her tell HER side of the story. trust is about telling your partner openly abut such worries (innocent until proven guilty). men like you, who suspect their partner yet cant even face her openly about these suspicious, will always fail. you have made up your mind about this issue and SOLELY wanna "catch" her. your failed state of mind can never fix this issue, unless she is caught cheating (one way or the other).

how can you even talk of TRUST in the same sentence as INVESTIGATING your wife?! you are the one with issues here, you are the one who should voice your concern to her, and only if her answers aint right, should you take it further. not even ONCE did you mention that she could be innocent, your whole state of mind is that she is CHEATING, yet you tell me you are in control of your mind?! highly laughable!

Bestman111:
Ladies in d house how do u gals feel when your man keep on digging without climax when you have cummed for many times?
From what I experienced, my ex and my current always complain that I don't release on time and they sometimes leave me hanging, so I begin to wonder what those that says they wanted a long lasting and satisfying man on bed. Ladies which one una prefer?
2mins guy or 30mins?

satisfaction has absolutely nothing to do with how long you last in bed. many women cuum within 5mins of the "right" lovemaking, and unless you let her know EXACTLY what turns you on so she can make YOU cuum, then you will simply be fukcing aimlessly. also, many women are tired because, unless you get them wet through the right stimulation, they get dried out down below and sex becomes uncomfortable. some women enjoy long sex sessions while others hate it, and last but not least, if you do the same boring stuff on and on then no wonder women would be bored in bed.

Ucheosefoh:
Both the op and his girlfriends are inexperienced if a girl cum before her boyfriend she should give him Mouth Gig or hand job so that he will cum and everybody will be happy

i would certainy NOT enjoy the above and would feel like she is trying to get rid of me. i want to have an orgasm just the same way as she did, through sex, and not some quickie BJ... that certainly aint the same happiness.

so long as their faces are not on the photos then YES they should send these pics, if they wish.... but this is certainly NOT a remedy for LDR

why should having a kid being an issue? only insecure or men seeking for virgins would think in such a way

thats how the next time, he will rather kill police and innocent people than get arrested again

ANY woman, whether handicapped, mad, ugly as a gorilla, a dwarf OR even in a wheelchair, can get sex EASILY!!!
men can fukc ANYTHING when h0rnyness (konji) catch them!

BioTeck:
No, it won't be like that with me...I'm in full control of my mind...I can easily switch my mind back to what it used to be once I have confirmed my suspicions to be negative.

What makes you think COMMUNICATION will make her tell you the truth if truly she is cheating? Every woman will deny it even to the point of death.

bwaaah what a funny post!!! so you "supposedly" trusted your wife but due to some issues, you wont communicate with her about your suspicions or the "now" lack of trust?! what kind of BS trust did you guys have that you cant even communicate openly about such issues?! at least let her have her say on the issue before you judge her in such a negative manner.

you say being in control of your mind yet cant even give this woman a fair hearing, and use that mind to judge her.

again, as i have stated, the worm is in the apple and nothing can fix your suspicious state of mind. the above statement in bold is a confirmation that whatever happens, you will never believe the findings and instead believe whatever you want to believe... aka she is cheating and will do everything (even die) to keep that secret.

whatever this lady says OR does is irrelevant here, as you have already judged and sentenced her as an unfaithful woman.

this woman isnt the problem here, your BROTHA is. he is the one who should talk some sense into her head as she certainly tells him the reason(s) why she acts in such a disrespectful way.

i fully disagree with his post...
- men AND women cant control our emotions, thats the reason why you see women crying and biatching all the time, for even the slightest issue. about beating women, there is nothing new here,the reason is A) the bible teaches these men that women MUST be submissive so when they aint, they get punched into submission and B) if a woman loses her mind and has the audacity to raise her hands on a man, then she should get equal treatment. as for alcohol, compare that with SHOPPING and tell me if women can control their emotions there.
FACT#1 men AND women cant control their emotions

- working a full time job, managing a household and caring for kids?! when did you see a woman doing that?! abeg, this is a lie unless you simply direct your maid to do the cooking, cleaning the home and raising your kids during the day, while you are at work. it shouldnt even been attempted, as a human being need to rest their bodies. furthermore, why should African men manage a home when they have a wife who is home doing nothing? thats HER job in the African lifestyle, thats why many happily stay home.
FACT#2 NOBODY has a full time job and take care of a home and kids by themselves.

- women only need men for sperm and money, TRUE, while we men only need women for sex as we already have the money... and its because of that MONEY that women will always be the WEAKER ones, because men will continue using it to blackmail women into doing exactly what they desire (aka cook, clean, raise kids and fukc us like p0rnstars, even if they dont want to).
FACT#3 whoever desires MONEY will always be a slave to whoever got the money!

- men are big babies, YES!!!! if a man works 10+ hrs everyday and brings all the cheddar, then he needs to be treated as a KING when he comes back home to a wife who directed the maid to do all the chores. thats the time wifey needs to do all what this man desires, in order to have him fit to go back to work the next day, while she stays home doing whatever she does all day. if this woman wants to therefore use that to manipulate him then thats her own problems (to be ungrateful), and not ours
FACT#4 taking care of your hardworking man is the DUTY of all stay at home wifey!

- men cant control their sexual urges, YES!!!! sadly men and women are different sexually. God created us with a tiger in our pants and since our earlier age, we cant CONTROL/TAME it. if we see a sexy woman, nice tittays out their bras or some aass, that tiger will "roar" regardless if we are married or in a r/ship. the important part is to be able to ACT RIGHT when we have these sexual urges, and certainly not try to control them. sadly, as stated before, women desire us for money, thus many marry/date us for money and will never divorce/dump a man who cheat on their "money desperate" self, so guess what? due to that fact, many men gladly and openly cheat with women who dont care if they are married or in a r/ship, so long as they have MONEY
FACT#5 because of the Money that these women so desire, whatever a man does with his sexual urges, is IRRELEVANT!

- men die younger, OFF COURSE WE DO!!!! we work harder, have more stressful lives due to that fact, we put our lives at risk to provide for our women etc. no woman CAN/SHOULD ever compare having a day job with staying at home. we are murdered (sometimes by women) because we have the money, yes! it aint easy being a man.
FACT#6 NOBODY can predict the future and therefore, we should enjoy the ride the best we see fit.

BioTeck:
The fact that there are issues with trust which was once very solid is enough to try and find out the reason for my fears and I couldn't just divorce her without being very certain of my suspicions.


...and of course, she'll have to leave if i found out my suspicions are confirmed to be the truth. The point is being very sure I'm not making any mistake.

come on bro, you actually believe that life is gonna be the same if/when you realise that she wasnt cheating?! that would only be the beginning as the suspicion will NEVER go away.... whenever she will be out, or a bit late, you will suspect her, every time she would be on the phone with a stranger, you will suspect her. whether you catch her or not is irrelevant, the damage has been done.

btw what makes you even think she is cheating?! have you tried COMMUNICATE with her about your trust issues?

AGGRESSIVENESS?! there are many men out there who hate sexually aggressive women and rather desire submissive women who do exactly what he wants and nothing extra that could discomfort him. remember, aggressive women desire sex whenever they feel for it, but we all know that there are many unfit 1min premature ejaculator who only want their partner as a cuum dump. how can such man desire an aggressive woman in bed?!

the reality is that all men are different and therefore women should discover what turns their partners on in the bedroom, and the type of freak he desires, before they can remotely think of satisfying him. many women believe that, just because they made a man cuum, they've satisfied him.... while that is NOT entirely true. cuuming is easy, even a dirty housemaid could make a man cuum because we react to sex differently than women. women cant never get an orgasm unless the man does everything their bodies/mind desire or require, but for us men just a warm coochie can do the trick.

sadly many women can never know what truly turn their partner on because the majority of men are afraid of telling their partner all there nasty freaky desires (some will even say that wifey is too pure to be ding such stuff), and instead they rather do all this nastyness with their sugar babies, mistresses or ashawos.

ladies, the reality of life is that some men out there are freaks and want to:
- have anal sex
- have their aass eaten, or eat your aass
- fingers in their ass,
- tie you up, torture you and humiliate you
- pee (and even shiit) on you,
- dress as babies while you take care of them,
- be tied, humiliated and whip like a slave,
- have 3sum (2 women 1 man, or 2 men 1 woman)
- have 0rgies
- see you being gangbanged by a bunch of men,
etc etc etc

and thats just the LEGAL stuff, as some men out there have fantasies of rape and sex with kids..... so yu better discover the freak in your man!

even if she hasnt cheated, the fact that you are suspicious is enough to conclude that there will never be peace again in your union (the worm is in the apple).... so why dont you just divorce that woman that you dont TRUST, and be merry?

also, i hope that you want proof f cheating in order to DIVORCE her, because what would be the point of doing all this nonsense to "possibly" catch her, and then at the end forgive and stay with her cheating behind?

SweetBoyFriend:
What is ass used for ??
Dropping stinky shiit ??

Ass ko Ask ni

did you take your meds today?!

Seyibabalola:
You are just Baseless in all your comments. Next time, if you want to comment on a post, first of all, understand the message properly. Secondly, you have a carnal mind.

i was expecting nothing less from a religious sheep... i love you too my brotha