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KingCheezyPuff:
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But you tellin' me you want ta have sex with a woman but you don't want to invest in her
That's what you do when you take the time to date her well, taking her to nice places
Giving her love gifts outta yer love[/color]

i never have sex "with a woman", we BOTH have sex and therefore investing in her is not remotely on my mind.
and if dating is investing on a partner then WOMEN should invest equally, as an equal beneficiary (important word here is EQUAL).

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#A74AC7]°•I said priceless as a human being
...are men not human

again, [b]A) women are just as priceless as men, and therefore you should always write that HUMAN BEING are priceless, and not put any gender in that statement. B) there are many human beings who are WORTHLESS... child molesters etc

I've not equated women to pr0stitutes by saying this...but you sir called some of us worthless

yes, a woman who demands for Iphones and Brazilian hair before she can value a man (aka love/care for him) is indeed an undercover prostitute. if you dont know what a prostitute is, you should look up the definition to understand that they are both the same. the only difference is that one is at street corners, while the other goes on dates and then demand for gifts/handouts etc before she has sex. same animal, different setting.

...an it shows me just why you wouldn't spend on us
nor hear the truth in what I said before.
My time,I've wasted enough
Good early morning to you an goodbye. [/color][/b]

there aint any worth to a person who values wallet and handouts over character OR one who demands for gifts before she can value a man.... NONE!

KingCheezyPuff:
[b][color=#a74AC7]°•No
..A women's worth no be here,she as a human being is priceless

BWAAAAH, what a pile of nonsense!!!!! many women are worthless and just a waste of time. all the brokeass begging undercover ashawos, that are quick to sell themselves, for an Iphone or Brazilian hair, aint worth shiit (or their worth is exactly that, an Iphone/Brazilian hair). i suggest you re-evalute your definition of "priceless".

...A man could never have riches to give that equal her worth.

and they SHOULDNT..... because men should be viewed just as priceless as women, and therefore there shouldnt be any need for "riches" to buy women.just her being, and a man's being is what is needed for them to connect as ONE. the minute a woman expect "riches" in order to connect, then she becomes WORTHLESS.

°•But I want to know that he dies consider me to br as vauable as the dollars in his wallet
That he would spend on me.

the minute you put a price on your worth then you have failed. either you want a man to spend on you in order for you to value him, thus you have a price (aka you are an undercover LovePeddler) OR you want to value him by his CHARACTER/BEING etc, and connect on a higher level than financial, thus you are indeed priceless. make up your mind and stop pricing yourself and thereafter calling yourself priceless.

I'm not asking the question isn't asking for a man to be provider
But that when he asks her fer her time
so that he might woo her an possibily move on to more
That he not make me pay fer that.

get down from your high horse.... you BOTH want to get to know one another, you BOTH need to spend time together to evaluate each other, you are BOTH Seeking for a r/ship here. so why are you acting like its only men that should bankroll the wooing (as if we are the only beneficiaries)?!
get your bloody facts RIGHT.

but sadly its this "holier than thou" way of thinking that have you women fail time and time again on this issue, and settle for DONKEYS.

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#A74AC7]°•That in the bold is so very correct
If he doesn't consider her worth his money
.....she should go.
I wanna know an be showed he thinks I'm worth his valuable, because it is with all it can get you,money.
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sadly, many women out there FOOLISHLY believe that the minute they are dating a guy, they are automatically "worthy" of their partner's money.

KingCheezyPuff:
[color=#A74AC7]°•Oh you are very good
...A woman must be a master player at the game if she was ta beat you.[/color]

for you women its a game where you must "beat us" and win (aka get pampered, get paid, get gifts etc) at all cost, but to us men its simply about finding a proper mate that wants us, and would respect us, FOR US.... and possibly get some "loving" along the way (aka sex).
the sad part in this game is that, when men win, BOTH of us would enjoy the loving, so in reality we BOTH win (abi you dont enjoy sex?)... but when women win (pampering, gifts, money etc), only WOMEN win.

anyone in that supposed wedding who didnt say anything about this ghost, need to be JAILED!

by their answers, you shall know them... bunch of brokass women!!! even simple dinner they CANT or DONT want to pay. yet down the line they will be begging on their knees for handouts, recharge cards and Brazilian hair. may thunder fire you all and the donkeys you are seeking in life.

MBJ's rules....
A) never bring these animals, on the 1st few dates, into a place where you have to spend money to chill... instead go to a park etc
if SHE wants to go to a restaurant/bar, then let HER pay for whatever she orders (aka we go DUTCH). if she makes ANY mention that she doesnt want to pay for her own share, DROP THAT LIABILITY!

B) after the initial few FREE dates (at the park etc), any date involving a restaurants etc must be SHARED EQUALLY (aka whatever you/she eat, you pay half of the bill). if she asks why, simply tell her that you prefer that you both stay on NEUTRAL grounds (aka i dont owe you shiit, and vice versa). if she has any issues with that, beware of that mad woman, who foolishly believes that she deserves to be treated like a princess (aka LIABILITY)

C) beware, these women have a funny way of calling such man STINGY, as if being stingy was worst than being HIV+, lol .... these are just emotional tricks played by these women. simply answer by telling them:"YES, i am careful with money, and proud to be as i wish to spend my hard earn money on ONLY what i deem worthy.... but hey, if YOU aint stingy then why dont you fukcing pay then?!"

blame my wife (or myself), of course.... why should that be the fault of the maid if a person is careless with their towel?

as much as what is done is DONE, you must now ACT RIGHT.... so, confess to your wife, and you both should decide on what to do from that day forward (about that pregnancy) TOGETHER.

if it was me, as i know it is a simple case of entrapment, i would tell this lady that i will help her for her basic needs until the baby is born, then we will have a DNA test, and if i am indeed the father then she will also get BASIC help for the baby... she will have to get herself a JOB when baby is old enough to go to kindergarden, and she stays there with that kid, as it is cheaper maintenance. no more contact with baby mama, unless needed. when baby is old enough, he/she can come over spend holidays (Xmas etc) with me. BASTA!

dre11:

how I wish they were all caught in Indonesia.......

or China

NONSENSE, many of them are foolishly getting married because of:
- family pressure, aka mama wants me to marry a guy from a certain tribe so she marries the 1st donkey she meets from that tribe, thus ending being miserable for the rest of her natural life.

- Religious pressure aka oga pastor said that this donkey is my match, so she marries him, thus ending being miserable for the rest of her natural life.

- peer pressure, aka my friend don marry and i dnt want t be the ast one to get married, sshe marries the 1st donkey that comes along, thus ending being miserable for the rest of her natural life.

- body clock pressure, aka if i dont get married now, i will be too old to possibly have a baby, so she finds the 1st donkey to marry and have that baby, thus ending being miserable for the rest of her natural life.

- social pressure, aka marriage is the symbol of "being happy" in Nigeria, so all these women want t get married at ALL COST, even if it is with the wrong man, so long as everyone believes that she is happy..... thus ending being miserable for the rest of her natural life..

... and none of the reason above would have anything to do with money.

McLeyyin:
You went so hard bro. I think I got your point but first :
Call me all the names but I'm sure NOT a broke person.

the point is not whether you have money to pay or not, it is about falling for this cheap EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL. that would be as foolish as her telling you:"i know you cant pay for my school fees coz you broke", and to try to impress this animal, you actually pay her school fees (aka foolishly fall for her trick). paying for that lunch is exactly the same trick, and you fail miserably, head 1st, for it. so yes, you may not be broke but you sure do have a broke man's mentality, where you wanna prove to these unworthy irrelevant woman that you can pay for their meal.
here is a clue: if you really have money, then you dont give a fukc what these worthless women think of you, and instead laugh all the way to the bank... or better yet, invite any stranger near by for a meal, to show these clueless women that it aint about the money.

Secondly, you do think causing a scene at that kind of place was the best thing? I doubt sha.

EMOTIONAL BLACKMAIL again! who gives a damn what this criminals do?! you dont have to make a scene when telling this lady that you aint paying for a meal, if "she" makes a scene then have some balls and STAND YOUR GROUND, instead of paying like a whimp. its YOUR money, YOUR choice what you do with it, and since she brought her friend then the date is OFF! make her learn to RESPECT you as a man, instead of accepting that she is using you as a mugu.

Ebenezerk2:
Can't you see the way she dressed, and the house she lives?

i guess you want her to sell bread with a Gucci bag and Louboutin shoes?! what you wrote is as stoopid (excuse my French) as wanting a successful wealthy mechanic to NEVER ever work again (even if thats what he really enjoys to do), and if he ever should do it again, he should wear a $5k suit/ties and fancy expensive shoes, right?!

the reason so many are falling for such BS is because of greed and lack of common sense... as if a kidnapper would tell you that kidnapping is rampant in the remote place where he wants to meet you, NONSENSE!

you got what you deserve for being stoopid, and i hope you learn this very expensive and valuable lesson. you knew it was wrong, you knew you shouldnt do what you have done, yet you went ahead and did the UNTHINKABLE (aka met this stranger). you are lucky they didnt use your body for rituals

@McLeyyin
let me not waste your time and be brutally honest with you, and excuse my French (in advance):
these women act in such a way because of donkeys like yourself who want to impress clueless ignorant and miserable women, who have nothing to offer you, and even treat you like garbage.

A) when she mentionned having a "one on one" over a meal, you should have put a stop to her nonsense, right THEN. did it had to be over a meal? shouldnt it be in a quiet place instead, where you could talk? sadly, you wasnt thinking straight and foolishly had coochie on your mind.

B) when she came with her gf, then you KNEW she was taking you for a ride (aka mugu), so why pretending to be cool to something that we already know was killing you? that was the moment you should have acted like a REAL man, and sadly, you failed miserably, and was subsequently duped by these broke and hungry animals.

C) the reason these criminals are still defrauding clueless men like yourself is because you guys keep on paying (with a smile) for this nonsense. these hungry broke aass women know that, even if they came with 20friends, you donkeys would still pay because the last thing you want is to be seen as broke (even if it is obvious you are). there is NOTHING wrong with being broke, these women are, and thats why they expect you to pay for their meals, duh! what you should have done is STAND YOUR GROUND and tell this gal the following:" I thought we were meeting to have one on one? as i see you brought your friend along then you guys can go ahead and have dinner while i go back home. i certainly wont entertain you girls for no damn reason. call me later when you are ready to talk... and have a great evening!"

whatever she would try to say, STAND YOUR GROUND and never accept to enter such place, as the reason you are there aint valid any longer.
beware: these animals are intelligent, and they may say that "only one of them will eat" or whatever BS under the sun, but the fact is, you have nothing to do there, and the only option is to leave.

ayomidegal:
she for rent out him house

probably Yekini's wives/kids are already fighting for that

naughtynaughty:
Now listen you boys/guysmen, Being President of the United States of America did not stop the President of America from being Barack to his wife. ...

Stop making excuses with your work, company or ministry or education. you are not bigger than the USA. Play with your wife or girlfriends and bring back the girl in her. Some guys will even be pressing fone, chatting on nairaland and forget dat their gf is beside them! Nawa!

Whatever her age, she should be your baby grl. Some people will become PA to Local government councillor and thats it..they forget they have wives at home!..To even take a walk or stroll wit ur partner nah wahala. U can't even hold her hands in public .

I don talk my own,if you like call me names

if a man treats women as poorly as you stated above, and they are still dating, then blame these desperate women who dont say anything and gladly continue dating such ignorant and clueless men. if a man doesnt bring the joy happiness in you "all the time" then such man should be dropped ON THE SPOT. sadly, clueless women believe that they can change such men, and therefore 5yrs down the line they will come on NL and biatch about stuff that these men have been doing since day one (aka treat them poorly)

i often cook for my kids, my woman, my family, or my buddies.... nothing wrong in a man cooking. so that you wont depend on anybody if your women ever loses her mind.

so she should stay home and die abi? who told you she was doing this out of necessity? maybe she just want to be active, which is beneficial to her health

beautiful mamma, nothing wrong here

IMHO that car was ugly then, and is still ugly now.... the majority of high end 4x4 trucks look better than this eyesore.

the answer is right there in your post bro:

Serenity008:
Okay, was chatting with this damsel on Facebook for the first time today. I needed to get her no.

so you expect any women to hand over their number to whatever guy start chatting them up on FB?! thats not only stoopid, thats dangerous.

as much as point #1 to #7 would make a lot of sense, what has bleaching, wearing butt pads etc got to do with finances?! are you saying that most women who do this are either broke, begging or a financial liability?! i beg to differ. yes they have issues but nothing which is related to finances. a women could be rich/generous and still bleach and wear butt/tittay pad

stancod:
Ask her if she knows the meaning of those names

whatever the meaning of the name, it is kinda an "awkward" name to most and thus its understandable that mummy hates it. imagine a mother having to call her own baby by a name she dislike?! kai!

Festivalofholi:
---Most pple loathe/forbid the idea of getting married to a prostitute cos of the promiscous life they live. But I heard women who were prostitutes in d past are usually faithful to their husbands when they get married. They have little reasons to cheat on their husbands since they have derived enough sexual satisfaction before they married.

----Unlike the non-prostitutes who may complain of not getting enough sexual satisfaction from their husbands and may therefore decide to have extra-marital affairs.

what a misconception!

A) so you actually believe that prostitutes do have sex for the PLEASURE of it?! the majority do it solely for FINANCIAL GAIN, and hate having sex with their customers, thus they need the care and affection of a partner (after work), regardless of the amount of men they mounted that day.

B) the need for sex is just "one" of the many reasons why people cheat, loneliness/boredom/desperation/weakness/pressure etc are other reasons why someone may cheat.

C) so because a woman wasnt a prostitute in her past, that means that she automatically didnt have a lot of sex in her past?! many out there have just as much sex as prostitutes, especially when they are double/triple/quadruple (or more) dating.

D) in todays world, where we have a great deal of Nigerian women sleeping around for a meal/Iphone/Brazilian hair etc, all women should be considered prostitutes, unless proven otherwise. let these women act RIGHT, before you should believe that they are. if they ask you for money/gifts/handouts etc before they open their legs (or stay in that r/ship) then you are simply dating an "undercover" prostitute.

what about naming that child Cornelius Cedrick OR Milan Cornelius?!

actually, you guys aint fit to be married, if you cant even sit down as mature adults and decide TOGETHER to find a name that you BOTH would like (for your future child). imposing a name that either wont like is not only cruel/stoopid, but also sure way to fail as parents.

halfricanadian:
If im d one i will never collect it

its not pride but self worth

sista, that self worth would get you nowhere. how would you survive or start over without a dime? this man has no clue or barring as to how things are done today.... he is probably clueless about computers, the internet, mobile phones and/or whatever was created after 1975. its a different time, different world for him and it will take time. 40yrs is no joke and, however "tiny" that settlement is, it will help him a great deal to start over.

go date your mum since her views are so important to your r/ship

when men wrongly jailed for 20yrs get $8m compensation each, this one got 40yrs of his life "robbed" and got a mere $1m, what a joke!

sadly, in the US, it all comes down to the laws of the state where you are convicted, and the compensation statues they have for the wrongfully convicted. some states say you are owed nothing, other states would say $50/100k for each yr, while others would depend on each case/circumstances... but the main point is that, if the man pleaded guilty or confessed to a crime they did not commit, then its considered THEIR fault (even if the confession was beaten/tortured out of them)!

IMHO, no amount is enough to repay all the lost years while behind bars.

what a bunch of hypocrites and liars.... the sad reality is that everyone has a PRICE, and as much as you are all here saying that you wouldnt, you probably would for even MUCH less than that (and your mum would be the one encouraging you).

if you dont mean it, and do it just for money, then it doesnt really matter/mean anything, it would be like acting.

aloeman15:
Of all the men who surround you, choose the ONE who loves AND respects you the most.
So the only problem now is, do you know what real love and respect mean?

The floor is open!

NONSENSE!!! the issue here has absolutely nothing to do with how men will/should love and respect WOMEN (its irrelevant since the majority would lie and deceive women to get in their pants), but it has all to do with how women should love and respect THEMSELVES.
this is where the issue truly lies because if you dont love and respect yourself FIRST, then there is no way you can identify that a person "properly" does so towards you.... sadly, many women out there dont have a clue what love and respect means because they are so desperate/pressured to settle with just about anyone, that they settle with the 1st miserable and clueless donkey that come their way.... and subsequently, use this donkey's attitude and actions as her clouded benchmark for love/respect.

some women are gullible and sadly a few men out there will use them silly till they have no valid use for them (thus dumping their sorry self)
even a blind man could see that this one is being taken for a "foolish" ride