₦airaland Forum

coache:
Thanks bro.....I just hope she is not trying to say we should remain friends....its really amazing how we tend to cherish things when we no longer have possession of them....

she has the right to say what she wants, but at the end of the day, it will be your call and your decision as to what you want to do.
remaining friends is not such a good idea because it will be more difficult for you to move on, and she may want to keep you in limbo for god knows how long, until she can sort her head out (aka it could be forever)

@slimzypink
there is no such thing as a blueprint for a "good" gf (i am fully against most of drnairalov points, but there is nothing wrong with them), what works for some men, wont work for others.
most people who ask such question want to pretend to be who they are not in order to desperately find a partner. so as someone said earlier, BE YOURSELF and just hope that someone will like you for who you truly are... and therefore you guys will/can connect on a higher level.

remember, pretending to be a certain way (that you really aint) just to be with a certain person, is wrong on so many levels, because the day you are tired of faking it (after an argument/time etc), the natural you will come right back.

so this morning she called to say that it was over, after trying to make her change her mind you blocked her, and now she is trying to call you again?! well i suggest you ask her what else she wants from you, just for peace of mind.

byvan03:
A woman can never be a liability, value can always be derived from a woman no matter how worthless. Only a man can be a liability, if a man is useless he is completely useless, no value or whatsoever to be derived .


A woman do not have that capability to be a liability entirely , nature has imposed usefulness on her, so the word "liability " cannot be be associated with womanhood .

ahahahahahahahahaha NONSENSE!!!!

there are gazillions of women out there who are liabilities, and just because some desperate people would settle for them (or find some cheap use for them), value can be derived from any useless man and woman but it certainly doesnt change the fact at hand that they are, and remain, LIABILITIES.

one thing is certain, NOT replying this seemingly straight forward question, is the reason why he wasnt called back.

Interesting15:
Guys, we need to be serious with our lives. Something happened yesterday. A woman that was hale and healthy during the day (she even attended a financial seminar). And when it's evening, she was just feeling little pains, and it was increasing, that she almost died. And she was like, 'is this how people die?

NONSENSE, this is called falling ill... she should have gone to see a doctor, and nothing whatsoever to do with death.

if Chijioke can afford it then yes he should do exactly what wifey proposed, and tell his mama that she will always be welcome at their home.

mum
dad
boss
gf
sibling

we will need to have a serious discussion to know how it happened.... her answers will be the decisive factor if i divorce her ASAP or remain with her

are you sure these 2 white women are "Lagos girls"?!?!?!?!?!

the hypocrisy of "so called" Christians

danakins:
You are a fool.........the money his family is making can feed ur generation.....they aren't poor.

RIP bro. Miss u

you are using your emotion in order to judge this case, instead of using what you have between you ears. i didnt say they were poor, i said they were GREEDY, get a dictionary and educate yourself on the difference.

JohnNgene:
Now, how do you identify a yahoo boy? Does having a foreign number make someone a yahoo boy?

sadly the cops know how they operate, and if the warning signs are there, they "identify" as possible yahoo. if a person has nothing to hide then they will go along with the investigation and be on their way in no time.

as much as there is a full frontal t0pless scene from Queen Latifah in the movie (sitting in front of a mirror t0pless), it isnt during the sex scene with Mike Epps.... as she is wearing clothes during that scene, and facing away from the camera.

btw: great movie about one of the 1st black singing divas!

with the amount of Yahoo bys out there, i can understand why the police will do such.... although it is unpleasant, it may catch a few criminals.
i think if the policeman was polite, it would go a long way.

didnt the daughter of Paul already sued them, and Porsche said that the reason for the crash was HIGH SPEED and that the car was MODIFIED by the owner?! these greedy people are trying to make an extra buck with flimsy lawsuits.... NONSENSE!

whatever argument there is, it never reaches the bedroom and has to be over whenever we get to bed.... we have a "safe" word to remind each other of this. couples should NEVER go to bed mad at one another, whatever happens during the day, should be dead and over by the time they enter the bedroom.

clear example of an insecure man who focusses on petty things, and who obviously has no idea what MARRIAGE stands for.

this is not love, this is punishment for something really bad that this man has done (aka cheating, deceit etc)

tunmidon:
In summary, my friend has been dating a guy for like two months and they broke up recently.and now she told me she's in love with his best friend that i should advice her.what should i tell her?

why not his father while she is at it?!

r/ship 101 (unwritten rules): thou shall not lay eyes on anyone remotely related to your ex.... unless you wanna be used/treated like a h0e

Ollaarh:
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such super cars are only good for countries with proper motorway... imagine if that car was speeding on the highway and catching a Nigerian pothole?!

Ezedon:
Since money answereth , when you are enable to provide for your children, they won't love you

what does LOVE got to do with MONEY in the eyes of a child?!

Wuminity:
well i dont knw why u want to cry about dis matter now.wat does wat u posted above has to do wit d topic,is it dat u dont get wat am trying to say ni or wat, or av i abused men or sometin? d topic is simple and straight,maybe u dont understand d english, i said " things dat men does in a relationship dat affects dem" i didnt say men ar stupid or idiots so y do u want to kill urself on d topic now, besides i didnt refer the topic to u... because its like u like shiftin blames, i only refered d topic to people who ar ready to learn#

just as you are trying to make us believe that not treating women better would affect us men, is the same way i am trying to educate you on the fact that if a woman acts right then she will be treated RIGHT. this is how you have to look at this issue, not the way around.
- if a woman is unhappy and miserable then let her work on her issues before putting herself on the market
- trust that is given, regardless of the actions of a woman, is worthless. so women should instead ACT right and hope for the best.
- a man will only contemplate being faithful to the RIGHT woman. so women should 1st confirm the type of r/ship they are in before demanding for fidelity. a FWB, bootay call, side piece, mistress etc will remain just that

i am giving you a MAN's point of view since you are looking at this issue solely from your very narrow minded woman's perspective.

Wuminity:
its just an opinion or let me say an advice, there is no need taking it personal haba.... and u can see where i said some women creates doubt,so it is not only about women and their insecurities, if u like make use of it, and if u dont like leave it, afterall u ar not d only man av directed it to. #thinkwell before typing.
End time poster

your whole post is about women and their insecurities, and not about us men... i gave you clues as to why YOU women fail time and time again, and then turn around and blame us men for your own failures. you can learn from what i wrote, or keep blaming others for your misfortunes, its all on you.

the r/ship MUST end because it means they have different aim in that r/ship.... what would be the reason for the guy to stay with a woman who doesnt want to move forward in the r/ship?!

proposing doesnt mean you guys have to get married the next day, it simply means you guys make a higher commitment to one another.

KAYCEEJUNIOR:
poor statement........what becomes of yours and that of your generation?

Kilode100 is RIGHT, certificates have absolutely NO VALUE whatsoever.... can the person sell the certificates if they dont get their money back?! there needs to be collateral worth at least 70k.

@Wuminity
NONSENSE THREAD, which is all about women and their insecurities (pls change the subject of this thread):

1) HAPPINESS start with each and everyone of us. if a woman is miserable to begin with then no amount of care and affection from us men will change that... saying that in order for us men to be happy we have to make women happy is utter BS. in order for us men to be happy, we have to stay away from miserable women and instead find women with NO psychological/emotional baggages.

2) TRUST is earned, and only when a man is comfortable enough with his partner, can he fully trust her. if there is any kind of doubts then there will be NO trust to be given. women should ACT right if they remotely seek for a man to be serious about them.

3) before a man can remotely contemplate fidelity, he has to have the RIGHT person in front of him, someone worthy who has all what he desires/requires in a future spouse/gf in order to be faithful to her. sadly, let me be the bearer of bad news by saying that: "if your man cheated on you then it means that you LACKED what he desired/required in a partner in order to stay faithful" ... and yes, many people are married and DO cheat, simply because they got married for the wrong reasons (peer/family/social/religious pressure etc)