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can start the night as B, then move on to C and end up in the morning as D.... but never ever sleep as A

@amzee
- if a person reaches maturity, has a proper source of income and is responsible before he/she turns 25, then they should find their own space to live.

- if a person is still immature, has no source of income and is irresponsible by the time he is 25, then his/her parents should start taking drastic measures in order for this slacker to get the fukc out and have a taste of LIFE !

Fearcom:
This is a faceless forum. The Op could be a deadly armed robber hiding behind a female profile. At your own risk.

as if someone is going to drop their address on NL and invite the clueless OP to join him, lol!
btw the golddiggers (at the clubs) that would flock to your table as soon as you drop a bottle, are no safer/different than the OP

am i the only one who is thinking: "who took this photo and why didnt he/she warn the guy?!"

what are tight friends if you cant share your worries with them?

@Strahovski
you are making it sound as if having a preference for different kinds of people is a problem here?!

1) Racism:- If you think racism is extinct you are making a big mistake. In the heart of Europe, Racism is so much that even if you are rich, you would regret approaching a European lady unless you are Caucasian.

NONSENSE!!!!!! yes there are "some" women/men all over the world who dont like to date outside of their races (and they have all the rights to do so) but it certainly is NOT the majority.get your facts right!
FACT#1 there is RACISM all over the world, even in bloody Nigeria!

2) Female Domination In Marriage: In my country, According to Law, women are the boss in the marriage. Not the man. You are the boss as a man according to your bible not the law. The woman can sue you for not giving her what she wants but you cannot sue her. She can sue you for cheating you can't sue her for cheating. Infact we, the males are still protesting for an amendment of that policy.

stop writing BS online pls, it makes you look stoopid!!!! there is no country in the civilized world where such law exists, NONE!!!

3) The Negro Vs Caucasian Offspring:- One of my distant cousins in Nigeria married an Australian(he is a Nairalander too). They are happy though but there is a problem. They have two kids. One is Negro (After him), One is Caucasian (After the mother)... The other one who is Caucasian is always bullying or intimidating the other who is Negro. The parents are cool but the kids ain't cool. So that is one thing you have to work to fix.

99% of interracial couples around the world have MIXED children and it is VERY VERY rare for such couple to have either white or black kids. therefore what you wrote above is another BS generalization of something that mostly never happen.
FACT#2 the majority of mixed siblings get along fine, and if they dont, it certainly aint because of the color of their skin.

4) The Green Card Threat: When you marry a woman from the EU or America you get a free Citizenship based on Marriage. Of course no one wants to leave in Nigeria... who does? After flying to America or Eu and spending about 3 years with your wife and even gotten a job with your citizenship. . She begins to threaten you with a divorce. If things don't go her way, she threatens divorce. And once divorce is signed and stamped your citizenship is revoked dear. That's what many don't know. They think it's permanent. It only stands if the wife Dies. But divorce.... go back to your country. It all boils down to racism.

the problem here has nothing to do with RACISM, and all to do with DIVORCE and abiding by the immigration laws of each and every countries around the world. if the reason you are allowed to stay in such country is MARRIAGE, then why should you still have a right to stay in that said country if you divorce?!
the reason there are such laws in place is because MANY people (black and white) have abused the system and falsely got married in order to legally stay in the US.
FACT#3 if these laws were indeed racist, then is the law different for white people from other countries?! i suggest you open your mind before writing nonsense online... especially when you can actually get married to an African American in the US, and therefore "race" issue would be irrelevant .

5) Poor Communication and Lifestyle: There is nothing like marrying from your home. How many women from these places marry Africans? The both of you have a different culture and lifestyle which can affect the home and children upbringing.

these are your own personal views about marriage, and you are entitled to them, but pls dont try to make it a plausible intelligent mature reason as to why a black person shouldnt marry a white person. if 2 people love one another and want to spend the rest of their lives together, then NOTHING should stop them from doing just that... and certainly NOT something as flimsy as "race".
FACT#4 i suggest you educate yourself on TRIBALISM in Africa, since it is "supposedly" better with people of your own race/culture.

You can still give it a try though. It's fun and full of adventure but the downsides are not fun at all.

the downside with a white person will be the same as with a black person

But if you still want an Australian Woman, come in Castle Rock in Sydney . So many beautiful ladies as long as you are rich!

the fact that you think that Oz women would only desire a black person, so long as he has money, is such a low self esteem statement. pls dont take your failures in finding a proper woman as a generalization. instead get your act together, act right, have some swag and have a positive mindset.
FACT#5 is it easier for a black man in 9ja to find a woman if he is broke?! abeg tell us all where you meet such women in 9ja, bwaaaaah!

But my final advice is to marry from your home. Sure there are crazy women but somewhere at a corner.. there are great women you can marry in your country.

so, there are "some" crazy women all over the world and we should use it to judge their WHOLE RACE as unworthy to us black men, but then we shouldnt do the same with black women?! cant you see how narrow minded you reason?!
FACT#6 people should marry where they find love, with whomever OR wherever that may be in this world.

mrsbingbagbo:
for marriage?

what for?

whats your preferred size?

everyone have their own desires as to what they prefer when it comes to tittay sizes for their future wives. as i have NEVER been attracted to a flat chested women, i doubt i could ever desire such woman, let alone seriously date one... its just a personal choice. i want to be able to physically desire FULLY the woman i am with, and therefore her physical game must be on point, just as much as everything else i desire.

on a side note: let us all understand that the tittay size is directly linked to the stomach size... the bigger/fatter the stomach is, the more IRRELEVANT her tittays will be.. so a fat woman with big tittays is like a skinny guy with abs, it has absolutely NO value.

Ifebazz:
If na you, you go marry? Abi when she dey give am the money them sign marriage agreement? Lets be rational before being emotional.

the only reason this man has a "worthy" shop is because the lady invested in the venture, foolishly thinking she was investing in her future husband/family's wealth, while she was instead being duped by this man.

not wanting to marry again is understandable (who are we to force him to marry her?) but he should return the investment obtained via false promises.

fastestfinger:
What kind of harassment is this?asking him to pay 100k is outrageous. This is a love affair between two adults that obviously involved giving and taking...have they even bothered to arrest all those girls that con guys of their hard earned cash?

unless men that have been conned (by women) come forward, there is no way the court will go after these women... but we all know that out of shame, most men will just count their losses and forget the matter.

kingthreat:
If na me I no go gree. How about all the energy he must have expended to keep the Milf sexually satisfied?

come bro, now you are talking like all them hungry broke ass foolish goldiggers out there... sex is an activity enjoyed by BOTH men and women. thinking that you are doing anyone a "favor" by having sex with them is preposterous!

ncoolsome:
A girl agreed to give me D thing so I took her to mr biggs then to the ozone n we made some lil shoppin..Bt she refused to gv it to me...pls cn I also drag her to court?

if you did all this because she said that she would give you the toto if you did (and she eventually didnt give you the toto), then YES YOU CAN drag her deceitful self to court.

shozillo:
lolz.U need to take a ChILL PILL.Just Know d Developed countries that have More Enlightened minds buy dos books and have been greatly inspired by them.

let me guess? you read these BS "get rich quick schemes" books and now you are finally a millionaire?! lol
whether you are in Africa or elsewhere, the chance to be "successful" is exactly the same.

Don't tell Bill Gates,Richard Brandson and Kiyosaki got rich thru selling books!

i am 150% sure that whatever book the likes of Bill Gates,Richard Brandson etc read in order to become billionaires, it aint "how to become a millionaire"

2 Things that makes u Great
a.The Books U Read
b.The People U Associate with

again, a lazy dumbass will remain a lazy dumbass, whether he reads all the books in the world and hangs with Dangote for 10yrs... your ACTIONS/DRIVE/MINDSET in life is what will make the difference.

englishmart:
judgement is simple.
Court "boy, go home, madam, go home. Marriage isn't by force"

bro, let us reverse the case and imagine that you were planning to marry some gal, but she said she wanted to get her degree 1st, so you pay for her school fees for years, and then finally when she graduates, she goes on to marry someone else. would you still say"marriage isnt by force" or would you rather say you got duped?

PunkyVeer:
Don't care! It's still going down the sewer regardless. The original post said another girl, not his momma. You can try twisting it around all you like, it's still going to be meal for the sewer rats

relax sista, what i am trying to make you understand is that the problem (if there is any) is with YOUR MAN, and however you wanna throw a fit (or the food), it wont change the fact that he allowed some gal to come and cook some fancy dinner to him. so focus on whats important here and COMMUNICATE with your man instead... because the food/gal is NOT the main issue here.

@chiggiee
NONSENSE!!!! so anyone who believes that gays/lesbians have as much rights as you and i, are AUTOMATICALLY gays/lesbians themselves?!?!?!?!

this guy didnt feel you, wasnt about you and you guys certainly were on different planet... so stop trying to paint him as anything else, in order to comfort yourself.

shozillo:
Lolz..some peeps are Missing d point!
1.U can only give wat u know!!!,but when sm1 is telling u HOW..when he couldn't do it 4 him/her
How many of you can buy a book on how to become a Millionaire from a fellow poor Man?

you can listen to what Dangote has to say about success, for 10yrs, and STILL be as broke as the day you 1st met him. the fact that you think that there is a secret formula that can be applied to any dumbass out there and they will "miraculously" become successful is the reason why so many stay BROKE! HARDWORK, a POSITIVE MINDSET and some LUCK is all what is needed to "have a chance" to succeed, and even a broke person could tell you that.

people who buy books about how to become millionaire are simple the MOST stoopid people on earth!!!! the reason these people may be millionaire is because some dumbasses paid to buy their BS books, lol! btw if your idea of success is to be a millionaire then i do weep for you.

PunkyVeer:
Then I'll simply tell him I spilled it by "mistake"

any smart man will see through the BS.... and kick your immature/impulsive self to the curb.
its called COMMUNICATION, and if you know anything about it, there would be no need to throw it down the drain, to begin with.

why are men upset with what she wrote?! is it today that men with exotic cars started fukcing these clueless babes everywhere?! the good part is that we ALL know that "dikc" (and sitting on the passenger seat thinking they are fly) is the only things these ignorant women get.

fajani:
If she just cook Eba and eat without questioning then I will say she is not serious about me

so you mean to say that there can be NO SOUP in your house,unless it is made by her?!

PunkyVeer:
Down the drain it'd go

then imagine he now tells you that his mother came over and cooked the soup for him...

if you do eat a square breakfast then hunger will "normally" strike back around noon, and again around 7/8pm, very simple!

@alwelldinho
only a very clueless person would say that ALL women are liabilities, thats just as stoopid as saying that ALL men are dogs.
this kind of discussion goes nowhere because some men (or women) have only got liable women (men) in their lives, and they are the only one to blame for that, because they are the ones who didnt make the right choices.

YES, if all the person in your life aint shiit then look within yourself to see what is it about YOUR sorry self that keeps attracting these "aint shiit" people.

shozillo:
Hello,have u heard of this phasre.'Action speaks Louder than Voice'
1.Parents that are Poor Advicing their kids on how to be Rich!.(y u No get Money or y u still Depend on Family House)

these are simply IGNORANT and UNGRATEFUL parents... as they should teach their kids about being happy and let them understand that they will get what they deserve in life, and therefore HARD WORK is the way to go.

2.Parents dat are Lazy or UnSuccessful advising that kids on Time Management and Hardwork(when u knw Time is Money,y dint u Monetize Urs during ur Youthful days!).lol

just because parents know what is RIGHT, and instead did WRONG (mistakes) in their youth, does not mean they have no clues about RIGHTEOUSNESS.

3.Parents that have Broken Marriage Advising wards on how to keep a succesful Marriage..(Y did Your Husband Leave if u r such a Good Wife or y didn't u Keep ur own Home)

parents obviously learn from their mistakes and should "possibly" warn you about it... only a fool would only listen to "supposedly" happy/successful people.

amokeme:
it's his father's wealth innit? So there is really nothing wrong with it.

He has legal rights to "HIS"(point of correction) father's wealth. Not MY FAMILY, because he isn't part of the family to the best of my knowledge

well if you were to die before your husband, then technically the family wealth therefore goes to your husband, and subsequently that child would have just as much claim on the FAMILY wealth as any of your other kids.

btw, that child IS part of the family, dont get it twisted, lol.

babygirlfl:
You are right. Partners should not hide anything from their spouses. However, you will be surprised to know that some women actually think it's one of their many secret to having a happy home. They say what you don't know won't kill you.

we cant really sit here and debate what clueless (and desperate for phoney happiness) women out there believe is right, in their deluded mind, do we?
the notion that "what you dont know wont kill you" is a very silly notion, because any smart person knows that EVENTUALLY everything comes to light.

amokeme:
I won't as long as I NEVER get to know and so long as the child's essence never come up.
So its just as good as saying there is no child.. (ignorance )
But really, you can't compare a child senario with this na, that's an unfair case comparism

a child or a home is exactly the same thing when it comes to "HONESTY ABOUT ONES PAST"..... no 50 shades about it.
now, if you believe that its best to bury your head in the sand about things that are related to your life, then so be it.

the son that you'd rather "ignore" is an heir to your husband (therefore has legal rights to your family wealth), just like a house that you decide to conceal is part of the family's property (unless stated otherwise)

amokeme:
I won't necessarily "hide" it from him, I won't even talk about it. It's a different thing for him to ask me if I have a land, and I say no (now, this is deceit and not being honest ) but in a situation where I don't talk about it or let it known, he won't have any idea that such exist, and I don't think that is dishonesty.

i guess if thats what you believe, BUT let us reverse the case for a minute..... and imagine that your husband had a kid before marriage, and since he didnt talk about it or let you know, you wouldnt know that the child existed. wouldnt you think that this is dishonesty?!

.... and yet, some gullible people would believe this NONSENSE story!

amokeme:
well, she bought it before they got married, so I believe it can still pass as a harmless secret, I mean it's not like she bought it when they were married (when married no more secrets)

you are right but you also shouldnt HIDE anything from your partner... starting marriage life with dishonesty will only lead to failure.

one Kenyan gal get a bootay (and NO tittays) and suddenly that is a "proof" that ALL Kenyans are endowed?! NONSENSE!!!! i can find a well endowed woman (with great bootay AND tittays) in all countries in this world

South America is the place where you will find the most endowed women on this earth..... check Brazil, Colombia for starter!

what kind of nonsense is this?! change the name for what?!?!? is he gonna put her name on all HIS possession?!

whatever they buy, from the day of marriage and forth, should have both their name, UNLESS there is a clear difference of opinion in the union as to how they should spend their money (aka if she spends all her money on shoes and bs, while he spends all HIS on building a house).

amokeme:
Why did she even tell the man of the land in the 1st place?? And what kind of a man is that anyway?

as much as what the husband demands is wrong, hiding such fact from her husband is WORST!

this guy should simply drop all contacts with this ungrateful low life, and focus on what is RIGHT!

on the other hand, if this guy has told fables in the sky (about his financial situation) to this lady, then he has only himself to blame for this situation.

that bag will easily be snatched, but protecting her against that has NOTHING to do with being a gentleman, and all to do with having COMMON SENSE!

the woman who will RAISE the child is the true mother of this child....the one who gave the egg is just the BIOLOGICAL mother, and the one inseminated is just the SURROGATE mother.

obiorathesubtle:
Yea. I don't write stories, I'll just list everything out
1. I love her

do you remotely understand the meaning of what you wrote above?!

2. We're in a no-sex relationship

fair enough

3. I've been faithful, 1 year and 5 months without sex. It's hard! I need a damn medal!

need a medal to do what you decided you were going to do?! you are talking as if someone FORCED you into this r/ship? abeg, if you are miserable due to sex, then dont continue being in such r/ship.

4. I had sex with another girl(I didn't cheat, we never agreed I won't have sex with someone else.)

BWAAAAAAAAH! whether you "agreed" that you were going to cheat (or not) is irrelevant to the point that you had sex with another woman behind her back, therefore this is called CHEATING.

5. It was mind blowing. I just remembered what the fûck it feels like, the waist pain, the pleasure! Fûck! That shît was good!

of course the sex was mind blowing, you went without sex for a year and a half!!!!!! in a few weeks, you will get back to your senses.

6. The girl I had sex with is ready for a relationship, she says she'll wait for me, she loves me and all. I don't love her, but I can manage, as long as I'm getting the kpomo

this girl is just as clueless and desperate as you are... especially if she knows that you are already in a r/ship.

7. I want to break up with my girlfriend

you should, no point in faking it for any more longer

Question: how do I do it without making it look like it's because of the sex?

be a man and let her know exactly the reason why you are parting ways so that she understands that sex is VERY important to some men out there.

Question 2: uuuh. If I just tell her, I'm breaking up with you, she'll ask questions and I hate answering her questions. So, how do I do it on stealth mode?? So she won't overreact and all.

you cant do it on a stealth mode, and after 18months with this lady, she deserve the TRUTH, and nothing less. who cares if she overreact or not? its all about being true to YOURSELF, HER and this phoney R/SHIP.

@Trut

you are an amateur!!!! since you have absolutely nothing with the other girl "yet", taking that babe number should have never been a problem.... in fact, doing so in front of the hard to get damzel should have set her straight.

any person knows that A) you cant put anything valuable in your checked luggages because many baggage handlers are thieves and B) if your bags get lost/stolen, you will only get €300 top as compensation from the airline.... its your insurance company that will reimburse you.