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hebenezher:
nigga wise up... I don't think it's true that she doesnt like kissing, but I think she doesn't want to... being that she wants to keep her
self... I let her know kissing is a NORMAL thing, but she said it's not a normal thing. aiit nigga what do you think I can do?

hey, you are the one who called yourself an "alpha" guy, and yet cant even get this lamb to the slaughter. a top dog like yourself should be able to kiss that novice baby within 3 dates!

its a battle out there, and men want to conquer women, while women dont want to be conquered until marriage. she supposedly likes you but yet does not show any signs of appreciation?! come on bro!

whether pastor's (or president's) daughter is irrelevant here as she is a WOMAN!

@jabojafa
the minute you bring the bible into this issue, is the minute you will fail miserably in this issue. this is not a religious matter, this is a life matter to understand whether it is RIGHT or WRONG to have sex with someone against their will.

i can find thousand phrases (literally) written in a bible that is NOT right to do today, so i suggest you use what you have between your ears instead of following, like a sheep, that outdated book.

MrLouisVanGaal:
You are depraved and sick and have no moral values. Keep spreading your good news. Lets all get in on the sexual act. Who gives a fvck about marriage.

you are entitled to your religious views bro, to each their own

Richy4:
OK let me ask you this question.
if you are an only son and your mom and dad got one bedroom apartment. You are 23 or more
will you take your girlfriend to their room because it was the best place according to you" jam"

bro, this is completely different... you cant compare the two, the bond you share with your siblings is not the same as the RESPECT you have for your parents. so a son should never fukc on his parents bed, out of RESPECT for them, but a brother can fukc on his siblings bed.

here are other things that you can do with your siblings but NEVER with your parents:
- you can insult your siblings but will never do that with your parents.
- you can beat your siblings but will never do that with your parents.

dangotesmummy:
Number 2 is a big fat lie. Gone l are the days parents teach their kids to respect elders. Even kids are wise. If you don't have money they will just pass beside you and not even care about greeting you. Some mothers also disrespect their kids father in their presence eg stupid man, useless father etc. Some mothers even gossip about their husbands to their children and badmouthing him thereby making the kids disrespect their father

more so it's very easy for mothers to instigate their kids against their fathers when they don't have money. Or haven't you seen were a mother will be telling her son don't give your father money, he's a very stupid man. He will use the money in beer parlour or be carrying prostitutes around even when they know it's not true. Can anyone do that to a rich man? This is nigeria were our society is very peculiar o

again, you cannot force a woman to respect you, and if she doesnt, you can only blame yourself for that. as for your sons, by the time they start making their own money, they will have a BRAIN to evaluate your actions, without the need of their mothers telling them stories about you.
btw: if a man (or his child's mother) always need to borrow money from their adult children then something is seriously wrong in what these guys are doing in life.

dangotesmummy:
Number 1too is also false. You cannot chase two things at the same time and not loose both. Meanwhile Mr Brown jay long time. Howve you been? Quite a while. You've been off nl for a long time hope nothing?

bro, what you wrote above makes no sense. during working hours, you do whatever hustle you gotta do in life, and after these hours, you relax and enjoy life with your chosen woman. it's called getting your priorities RIGHT, in two separate areas of your life that dont have anything in common. you dont date 24hrs a day, you date before or after work. so why should dating and life hustles be a problem?

- some people do BS jobs for years in order to bounce into a better position in life, thats a hustle.
- some people have 2 or 3 jobs in order to be able to make ends meet, thats a hustle.
- some people work hard and save money for years in order to buy their dream home etc, thats a hustle.
- some people will spend their energy on BS "get rich quick" schemes, and fail miserably, thats a hustle.
- some people will cheat, con, defraud, rob, kill people for money, thats a hustle.

if these above men dont have a good woman to go to after their daily grind then these men better check their priorities in life. sadly, we have too many clueless youngsters today who are foolishly told to "simply" make money and then they will have women mysteriously fall on their lap, lol!

you are talking like all the clueless people that are looking for these "get rich quick" BS scheme, in order to flaunt some cash and get golddiggers hunt you down... but the reality of life is that hustle is a JOB and you hustle all your life, you never stop, whether you are the local mechanic or Dangote. the day you make a million $$, then you now aim to make two million $$; the day you have your own company then you will hustle/work hard to make it grow/expand into a bigger company; if you are a salesman today, then you will hustle and work hard in order to be promoted as the manager, and maybe the CEO someday.

btw yeah am good, been on and off from NL since i lost my main ID.

JhyMedex:
Am glad Ma narrative was so on point...
Nw we knw how much movies u watch...
Clap 4 ursef.... grin
Dnt knw hw m check u knw abt Cervical spinal injuries though...
Bt way more often Dan not , they r irreversible...
I light of dis truth, wat will YOU do

bro, do you know about the new technology called EXOSKELETON? science and technology will someday be able to fix such disabilities.... so i (MBJ) would hang on with the hope.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-_Nedhi2GpA

Richy4:
Bro. Let's look at it this way.
If someone is accommodating you, you should learn to accommodate another person.
He is your blood. As long as he wash the bed spread on each use, he stays.
If you get your own flat, pay the rent/ bills then you deserve much respect from him and he can't dare something like that. But if both of you are free loaders, i think you should learn to share.

even if the guy has his own place and the younger bro was sleeping on his couch, what does this got to do with respect? would you rather he fukc these gals on your couch?! the bedroom is the only safe place to "jam"

canalily:
do u realize how people react when they hear some women commit adultry nd the look on the geography of their faces when its abortion

adultery is deceit/wrong and therefore it is understandable that people may be surprised, while abortion is nothing more than someone solving a problem at hand.
example: if you have unprotected sex with a broke assss single unemployed babe, and she gets pregnant, then unless you are ready to marry her and provide for them for the next 18yrs, you have no say on how she decide to deal with the issue at hand... whether you like it or not

Emasel:
I can't assess a woman's beauty by facial looks only, I need to see their full pictures first.

and also when they remove all the fake stuff on their face/head etc

bwaaaaaah very funny story!

this condom (if real) would be useless anyway, since the people who mostly get infected are NOT using condoms!

INTROVERT:
Ok

That boy Betta not ever leave her.

So so so stew PID of the girl and any guy who does the same because of a girl.. what kinda love is that.

Am sure the boy took her V.

the above in bold is NONSENSE!!!! why would you want him to be with her out of pity?!
this man should comfort her and make her understand that her actions were childish, very stoopid and certainly wont change a thing about how he feels. on top of the reasons why he dumped her sorry behind, he should add "foolish woman" to these reasons!

low self esteem kids of nowadays raised on BS!

hebenezher:
She fine scatter.. as in, guys been dey patro about nii... thank God say ah cute gan... and I get sweet talk for mouth sha

^^^lol, you get sweet talk for mouth yet couldnt get this gal to even kiss you?! get real man, your game is weak!

@hebenezher

bro "alpha" dude , so some clueless gal tells you that she doesnt like kissing AND has never tried it before, and you just accept her BS without questioning the nonsense she told you?!?!?! how can she dislike something she has never tried?! if she did try in the past then maybe she disliked it thanks to the inabilities of the guy who kissed her? and if she dislikes it now, does it mean she will never EVER kiss a man in her life?! furthermore, of course most women follow their parents orientations, who else's orientation do you want these babes to follow?!
btw, if you aint ready for a serious r/ship then why are you sweating because of this gal?!

@magicminister

why do you stay in a r/ship where you are miserable? i dont get it... the minute this lady told you that there will be no sex before marriage (while sex is important to you) then you should have bounced out of this unfulfilling r/ship. there can be no excitement here since you are obviously lacking. she brught a carrot out and has you running after it in vain like a donkey excuse my french). you are now going as low as bringing BS issues to this issue, lol... (what does going the extra mile got to do with sex?)

there will always be frictions and frustration in your union because your AIMS are different. the only way to make it without sex is by keep on being miserable, and dreaming of her cootie cat. there are many ways to ease your sorry situation but you have to be with an open minded lady (who cares fo you) for that... example: hand-j0b, bl0w-job, tit job, foot job and even an.al

imagine if after marriage you realise that this lady is a frigid wood plank in bed, KAI!

milychocs:
What the ef!!

SMH....@ this post, and other similar posts
This one has more whatever....is why I am quoting it
OP....biko continue living with your sister,,,there is NO shame in that....esp if you have no other place to go, cos of lack of money or a job,
It is a blessing you have a sister with a place for you to stay
Do not go and live under the bridge okay?
Pay no mind to posts that will not help you
About your brother? I am not a guy and so I dunno how sharing condoms and all work...
However the age difference should make your brother respect you ....he is
Anyway.....
Here is hoping that before long you would have gotten your own place
Meanwhile in my family we are late bloomers....live at home like babies, no pressure, all love...when/ whether making money or not
So it is fine
Wait for your time...it will come
Ignore some of the wise words here....they are just that, words
I wish I could slap your brother for you though....I itch, to do that
Cheers

yomi007k:
Is marriage some form of achievement?
You are the people causing problems in this Continent and the world as a whole. If he does not have means, should he add more liabilities to himself?
You that don't need God can marry for him and fend for his family.

sadly this is why so many women (and men) are marrying donkeys everywhere, and living miserable lives. to these people marriage is a do or die issue, by any means necessary!

leonard10:
please i want an matured advice to this.I need your advice and not abuses plz.

There is this particular girl am shy to approach bcoz she do call me EGBON or brother,and I to has taken her my sister. Now she's 18 and out of secondary school. She has everything to become a future complete wife. Also a committed Xtian which am happy for.

I just love everything about her. While am 24years of age.

Now she's 18 and am 24=== Is the gap not too much. And besides am i really right about my decision to take her as my future wife /partner.

I want to start building up a relationship with her as at now. I May not be the only one interested in her.
That's is why am still contemplating wooing her.

My question is should I approach her or not.

A) the fact that you doubt yourself about you and this lady is the first RED FLAG here
B) the fact that you never ever approached her (while dreaming of marriage) is the second RED FLAG here
C) the fact that you dont even have a friendship with this lady, let alone a r/ship of any kind, but yet here you are making life long plans with her is your third RED FLAG here
D) the fact that other men are interested in her is the only reason why you want to make a move now and this is your last RED FLAG

let me suggest that you first deal with your own issues of low self esteem before attempting to be in any r/ship

@frankycomputers

#1 is utter rubbish, this is what ignorant clueless uneducated people will say to feel better about their sorry lives. money and women are two different things that should never be mixed or associated.
here is a clue that sons MUST know: a lady that gets in the way of your money affairs (aka work) instead of helping you grow in your money affairs, should be dropped INSTANTLY!

#2 is another pile of garbage... yes, men in poor countries, like Nigeria (where most are living in poverty), DO indeed look up to rich men, but is that really the reason we should teach our kids to respect someone?! HELL NO!!!!!
here is a clue that sons MUST know: People should be respected because of their CHARACTER, ACTIONS, MORALS, INTEGRITY and MANNERS.

#3 you are ABSOLUTELY right about that, and therefore this is the reason we have to teach our sons to always respect the proper women out there, but to watch out for the demons out there (aka hoes, skanks, goldiggers etc)

#4 there is nothing wrong with success, and therefore our sons shouldnt care whether women can smell it or not. instead we must teach our sons how to recognise the demons out there (aka hoes, skanks, goldiggers etc) who will try to come and have a piece of what they did NOT help them to achieve.
here is a clue that sons MUST know: women who did NOT value you when you were down have NO place in your life when you finally make it.

#5 nobody (whether man or woman) wants a weak person in their lives PERIOD! but at the same time, there is nothing wrong with someone who has weaknesses. you just have to figure out a way to balance their weaknesses with your strength. also, no man should force their partner to do anything they are not willing to do, marriage is not slavery if you are not happy with the actions of this person, then find the right person for you to marry.
here is a clue that sons MUST know: better a person that is open with their weaknesses (so you guys are prepared and can work on it), instead of someone who pretends to be strong, and in reality is weak... but you will only discover it when the damage is done.

#6 have more faith in women, instead of making them look like lil' kids who need guidance in marriage/life. many women dont need to be lectured/advised because they simply are mature in their heads and know how to act right in life; many women dont need to be reasoned with because they have common sense; many women dont need to be criticised because they know how to act RIGHT in life/marriage... and last but not least, if you dont believe in your woman then you have no business being married to her.

#7 lol, does it really matter who cheat better in marriage?! cheating is cheating, whether you get caught or not. many men out there dont even care if they get caught because many women out there cant do shiit about it. when so many women out there sell themselves to the 1st rich donkey that comes their ways, no wonder they keep quiet about cheating.
btw if you raised a child since its birth to adulthood then you ARE indeed that child's father (whether biological or not) dont get it twisted!

bro, married women (or men) cheating on their partner is a dangerous plague that is sweeping Nigeria, and there is no way to curb that because people dont do it for one particular reason, but rather for many different ones (depending on who you talk to).

as for abortion, there is NOTHING wrong r dangerous with the act, provided the procedure is done by a proper doctor, and not some quack. NOBODY should bring a child into this world unless they are EMOTIONALLY/PHYSICALLY/FINANCIALLY ready to do so. sadly, there are so many dumbasses having unprotected sex these days that most people will keep having these abortions by quack doctors.

@JhyMedex
give credits where credit is due, this is the storyline for the movie MILLION DOLLAR BABY with Clint Eastwood

as for your question, most people would turn off the machine, while many WOULDNT and instead hang on with the hope that, with time, science/technology will have a cure for his/her illness

would love any of my children, regardless of their sexual orientations... and so long as they are happy, who am i to force them to be different?

@Sakleplus
would you rather that your brother fukc these babes in the sitting room (where he normally sleeps)?!

chris4gold:
How?

very simple case to argue..... these men who rape their wives will gladly tell you that it wasnt rape simply because "the ladies are their wives", while we all know that as long as they are forced against their will to do it, its rape (whether they are their wives or not). These men dont deny having forceful sex with these women, they simply dont believe (in their small minds) that it should be considered rape.

someone forcing another to have sex with them AGAINST THEIR WILL is the definition of rape, duh!

well

FAKE!!!!!

all the bottles are still full, if he was drunk (as it suggests) then they would be empty

^^^ Porsches are now getting back at the Audi's dominance.

@A40
i dont think Ferrari could have financially handled Alonso AND Vettel....so he had to make a choice, and there wasnt a lot of teams willing and/or rich enough to have Alonso under their wings.

on paper, Mc Laren is suppose to shine, that must be why he decided to head there. no worries, he can always move next year to a better team.

Ferrari is great this year, but i havent seen William shine that much so far this year. yes, Vettel is the better driver at Ferrari this year.

well, as much as they aint getting that close yet, the mercs cant let go for one sec because the ferraris are right at the back.

Jonwesley:
Americans! They never seem to have enough! I like the family a lot watching them how they do things together. Haba! Oh no! Not them. They have a child, the guy is a handsome dud, and the gal always a take away. I love her songs like crazy ehen! Give me more please.

Jonwesley:
But not divorced yet, meaning they could resolve their differences and be reunited in future

in Hollywood/celebrity world, they rarely get back together, and i would be very surprised if they did. she doesnt sound too confident on this interview when she talks about her separation:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0bZY_FI3-Vc

pBuhari:
please Nairalanders, I have being in relationship with my girl for 3 years now and she is now insist that I should come and see her parents or forget the relationship that what is important for her now is to get marry and no longer relationship but am not ready for marriage now.
What should I do to convince her please?

the lady openly laid on the table what she needs from you, in order to continue the r/ship.... you need to be honest with yourself and this lady and probably accept that you may not have what she requires right now.

as much as many people may believe that you are having "fun", i understanding that it takes more than saying I DO to be ready for marriage. so accept that you probably wont win this one, and that you have to let her go. better like this than making one of you miserable.

A40:
Dude!! Try to accept that Alonso is a douche! Also realize that Ferrari had a great car in at least two of the 5 seasons Alonso the douchegoblin spent in Ferrari.

Also and the most important point Ferrari can't really challenge the Mercs. They need the Mercs to slip-up so they can take advantage

First tier - Mercs

Second tier - Ferrarri, Williams

They have failed to take pole in 7 races and you say they are challenging? How?

what Alonso did was a DESPERATE move in order to be able to win the championship again. the way the Mercs are going, you know that only a fantastic car could take them down from where they are at......and sadly, before the season started, many believed that Mc Laren with a Honda engine could be the ONE.

this year, Ferrari/Vettel is the only one that can truly get closer to the Mercs (as painfully as i have to admit), both Williams drivers, especially Massa, aint got it just yet. last yr, it was all about Williams and RBR, this year it is "so far" only about Ferrari in the second tier.

yes again, nobody is going to take this championship away from the Mercs this year, but Ferraris are giving them a hard time at the front, being very very close behind them.

oyekola:
BRAIN TEASER
You Think You Can Solve Maths? Try This.
5+5 + 5 - 5 + 5 + 5 - 5 + 5 x 3= ?
I Bet 95% Will Answer It Wrong.
Give A Try!!!!"
Let's See How Good You Are

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Jonwesley:
Back in the market? How do you mean please? Am I missing out something? Don't tell me she is divorced. I used to follow their reality show on entertainment television E!.

she and her husband are now "separated".

bwaaaaah!

the gal is back on the market so it is normal that she has to package herself for potential celebrities out there, and bring out photos like that in order to see whats up for grab.

btw is that her c-section scar we see like that?!