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did you see any other young fit man in that vid? the babe prevented an unfortunate "accident" to happen with her tipsy boyfriend...lol!

here is my take on this: if it was the way around, and we were on a cruise and 10 randy dudes were dancing and my woman wanted to enter to dance with them, i would react the exact same way this woman did.

EreluRoz:
I dislike men that can cook, they are very hard to please and manipulate.

you are not suppose to manipulate your partner with food, nor with your honeypot. the problem here is you, not these men who can cook.

Darlingme:
The only language many people understand is MONEY. true love is going into extinction. Sad reality.
How do you handle loved ones who ignore you, who starts keeping malice with you just because you couldn't meet up with their monetary demand? Knowing that you've always been there for them.

How do you know and select people you keep in your life?

the only true way to know if people are genuine around you is to pretend you are broke and see their true self naturally come out. helping/giving to ungrateful people is a waste of life.
remember: when you are up and a cheerful giver, everyone is your friends, but its when you are down/broke and in need that you will discover who your true friends really are.

some people sha... one body two heads is just too much wahala. you finish arguing with one head and the other head will take over with more arguing OR one head deny you the kpekus and when you settle the matter with that one head, the other head will now deny you the kpekus with some other yeye nonsense.

Chenzee:
He adores this babe. And remember she's his fiancée.

you didnt answer the question: if that was your fiancee, what would you want your friend to do?

thats what happens when you desperately marry yeye strangers.... he is lucky that evil animal didnt kill him.

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Abbeytoy:
She should then agree not to finance the boy.
It's not a big deal, make the biological father do

it IS a big deal... remember, its more than just a financial issue. but ok, lets look at it in all repercussions....
1st of all, if/when that child lives in his house, will he pay part of the rent too? if/when that child rides in his car with them, will he pay Uber fee too? if/when he uses that man's cooking gas to cook his own food, will he pay part of the gas bill? if/when that child uses light in his room or electricity to play with his Playstation or charge his phone, will he pay part of the Nepa bill too?

2nd, when that child turns a teenager and start to be rebellious IN THAT MAN'S home, who will discipline him? when that teenage child (probably bigger than his mother now) insult his mother and disrespects her. who will discipline him now? when that teenage child misses curfew and comes home at 3 in the morning drunk or high, who will discipline him and teach him respect? when that teenage child brings his yeye friends over and start to mess around with all type of girls OR any type of drugs, who will discipline him? a man with AUTHORITY must be in this child's life 24/7 to show him guidance, to teach/raise him and instill in him the proper values, care, love and upbringing. most mothers can only raise a child until 12/13yrs old, after that, the authority/strength and NO messing around attitude of daddy comes into play.

3rd, the reality is that there can only be one head in your household, and that person must be listened to by EVERYONE IN YOUR HOME, no exception whatsoever. nobody can be in your home pretending that they dont have to answer to you (the head of the household). the minute someone believes that they are only there as "tourists", then your home is about to be messed with.

the damage is already done... her fake apology is pointless. she and all her movies will be associated with that dude dressed in women's clothing...

BTW what woman in her right mind want to be voted 2nd best to a yeye crossdresser? they will just take the money and dismiss you and your nonsense fake vote.

Abbeytoy:
Doesn't have issues with the baby daddy, can the mother accept the terms given is the deal.

the child biological father must be part of that discussion/deal... you cant possibly decide to adopt another man's child without talking to that man first and foremost (if he is alive), even if babymama accepts the adoption of her child.

Abbeytoy:
I don't ask, but I think so.
There's high probability of that

let put ourselves in that man's shoes.... so you paid for the upkeep of your child (food/shelter/medical/school fees etc) until now, and then because some man wants to marry your babymama, he wants to adopt "your" child that you've raised til now. what man in his right mind would be okay with that?

@Chenzee
if this was "your" babe and your friend knew that she was cheating, what would you want him to do?

what kind of yeye crossdressing nonsense is this?

who sent them there? if its too difficult for them, let them go back to 9ja or find another eldorado.

pointless issue!
even if he had accepted the 25Bitcoins, he would have cash them out a long time ago (since he didnt see the value of Bitcoins back then)

We4all:
He can't adopt the boy if his biological father is still alive. Moreover, people train and raise kids who are not related to them by blood. Why must he insist on legally adopting the kid before assuming responsibilities for him?

because raising a child is no joke, and men should make sure that they do it "right". raising/educating and spending "god know" how much money on a child that aint legally yours, is wrong IMHO. even if that child just lives with them (and she takes care of all this child's needs) is wrong in my book. that child would be an unruly guest in your home, with no respect nor duty towards you (Aka the home owner or OGA AT THE TOP).

the minute a man marries a woman with a child, he automatically marries her child too (its like a 2 for 1 deal)... so if that child is not gonna treat you as his father nor respect/listen to you, then whats the point of having that person in your home OR spending all that money on such child?

Abbeytoy:
No excuse, she just wave it and act like nothing happened.
I heard she's still thinking about it

is the child's biological father still alive?

Abbeytoy:
Can he have a good home if he marries the lady and not contributing anything to the child or forbids him in his house?

i dont have the answer to the above question but i do know that, he certainly shouldnt do anything that he isnt ok with... thus why he stated that he is NOT ok with paying for a child that aint his (legally) NOR having such child living in his house. pretty straight forward to me (aka i either adopt this child or there will be no marriage nor any "living together" with that child under my roof).

we all know how some of these bastard pikin (eating your food and living under your roof) will now get up one day (after many years of raising/educating them), and if you want to discipline them they will now tell you:"you are not my dad, you have no authority over me bla bla bla"

raising a child (whether yours or not) is not a small thing, so you better make sure you do it right.

ayjay45:
Are broke men really violent and inhumane?

why wont they be inhumane when women treat these men like garbage? the reason they are inhumane is because of these same woman who dismiss them because of their "temporary" broke status.

as much as anyone has the right to decide to leave any religion, they have NO RIGHT to burn a bible/Qur'an etc just to prove a point.
thats not only very insensitive, its also very dangerous!

Abbeytoy:
A friend of mine is about to marry a single mother of one. My friend doesn't have any issues with the lady. But he wants to adopt the baby legally before he can spend on him, but it seems the lady doesn't want that and is not taking the adoption seriously.
 
So this friend of mine is insisting on not allowing the boy to his house or supporting her on anything about him if he won't have any legal authority over the boy.
 This guy loves the lady, as we all know, but he's considering letting her go if they can't come to terms with the baby.
 My friend is also a single father of one boy and is doing all his responsibilities.
We all also like this lady, and we don't want them to part as it seems they're perfect for each other.
 Please, how can he handle the situation and how can we helped them.

i fully understand and agree with what this man wants to do, but sadly, unless that child's biological father is dead OR give consent to adopt his son, how can you adopt such child? just because you marry a woman doesnt automatically give you the right to adopt this child who probably already have a loving father. your friend needs to sit down with the is woman AND the biological father of this child before thinking of adopting this child.

ultimately, you are (your friend is) right in not spending any money on another man's child, unless it is legally YOUR child.

will this sentence bring back the billions of $$$ that people lost on FTX?!

jmoore:
A woman got married and brought her little sister into her husband's home. The sister grew up there and went to school. After she finished her NYSC, she returned home and told her elder sister that a man she met while serving wants to marry her.
Marriage was done and after one month, there was a pregnancy test result and the husband of the younger sister was shocked to see she was 5 months pregnant. He calculated the 1st time he had sex with her and knew it was impossible for him to be the father. He sent the discovery to his own parents and they encouraged him to dissolve the marriage, which he did.
The elder sister of the girl questioned her sister on who is the father of the baby. She refused to say until the third day.
She dropped the bombshell that it was her brother inlaw (the husband of her elder sister) that impregnated her.

thats the shiit that happens when:
A) you desperately marry a h0rny demon that would fukc anything wearing a skirt
B) you have yeye siblings/family members that have no respect for you nor your family

A is manageable, B is also manageable but having A+B together in your home, is a recipe for disaster.

FitCorper:
Bro it’s has nothing to do with respect, but more about exploring some crazy fantasy in her head. She has been telling me about her loving seeing other ladies boobs especially wen they are huge. I just thought it was all talk until this happened. Bro shit is crazy, something I learned now, once a lady tells u say always fantasize about something don’t try stopping her cos u never will, worst case scenario she’ll just do it and hide from u.

sadly the only fantasy here is IN YOUR HEAD. if you think that its ok for your woman to have sex with someone (whether male, female or alien) behind your back, then your mindset is not right. again, cheating is cheating, and just because lesbian sex turns you on, doesnt make what she did any less CHEATING. whats next? you get turned on thinking of having a 3sum, so when your girl will go have sex with 2 strangers (dudes), you will be ok with that too (because 3sum turns you on)?
here is a clue for you: mature people fulfill fantasies TOGETHER, immature people do it behind your back to only satisfy their selfish self (even when they know that this is the type of shiit that turns you on)

now, a person who respects their r/ship or their partner would either tell you "before" going to sleep with a woman OR invite you to join them, since this is the kind of shiit you like...

the man was right for correcting her... why would she say to the child that "SHE" paid it if/when A) it doesnt really matter to such a young child who pays his school fees and B) its actually the father paying it?

some women sha...

https://www.reactiongifs.com/r/2013/07/group-slap.gif

yeye person... the controversy is NOT a good thing for the movie, and you better learn never to try to involve politicial/homosexual/tribal/religious issues to try to create a buzz, because you will ultimately lose a lot of fans FOREVER!
the only person benefitting from this charade is Bobrisky...

any person against such topics will be turned off for good and never look your way ever again.

they were struggling financially before entering the show, entered the show, left the show and ARE STILL struggling financially. no big deal here.