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PuZZyNegro:
I traveled from Lagos to Port Harcourt to see my future in laws family. My girl wasn't around as she's still in Lagos schooling.

I went there with a family member and got them some items like shortcake biscuits and juice.

They offered us food and we ate. After the meeting and normal questioning, we were set to go when surprisingly, this people brought out two loaves of bread and gave us. I told them that the food we ate was enough, that we don't need the bread.

We haven't even gone far when my girl started texting me on WhatsApp angrily asking me why I rejected her mother's gift. That she gave it out of love, this and that.

I told her that bread is the wrongest gift the mother could give me. I am supposed to buy them bread and not the one way round. I intentionally refused to buy bread for them because I assumed bread is an everyday food that people buy and eat, so I decided to go with the package biscuits instead and here they are offering me bread.

If it were something produced locally by them like coconut or something, I can understand but bread?

Please, did I do anything wrong rejecting the bread?

Your girl should explain to her family that you didn't know it's their culture.

Culture varies and it might be their culture for the mother to give you bread.

But you did wrong for rejecting it.

call mama make she no vex. tell her you will collect it next time. period

immortalcrown:
I am not sure but I believe the court respects tradition and may insist on payment of bride price before conducting the court marriage. On the other hand, legality is different from tradition. What is traditional may be illegal and what is legal may be untraditional.

Laugh wan finish me

It's best you didn't respond to the post

Souzin:
This was helpful, thank you

Try Malta

Jonah507:
And who counted the money before arriving at exactly 10M?

Hype counted


don't mind foolish bloggers

Media stunt.

And a slim dude is holding the ladder for her.

Zxcvbnmghtr:
Where did you serve? I was every corpers target, even teachers. I manipulated them to the brim. Honestly some even used to carry my school bag. Guess what, none of them got what they wanted. I manipulated them to a point that I concluded in my mind that majority of men don't have sense or better say become so stup!d in a bid to have a taste of puna. Old men oh!

Imagination wan finish you

Bad character is like a flat tyre, it won't take you anywhere

9 lives

Fiscus105:
Read the story back, this particular girl not fall in love for whatever process, she loved a particular guy but hold on to OP, " for not only back up plan but also friend with benefits" as OP confirmed. Having realised no clear future with main boyfriend, she quickly reverse to established herself in Heart of OP. It easy for her because OP apartment is free for her to come and go at any time and money is also flowing from him to her pocket as well.

We're talking same thing sir.

She now feel safe and secure with Op, hence needed to stepup to serious girlfriend material.

Keepamsafe:
I will try to be brief as possible.

I met this girl earlier this year, and I asked her out but she declined ( first of the two girls that has declined my advances this year). Well, her reason for declining is cos she has a bf. But she still comes to visit and we make out and i also support her financially whenever she comes around or calls.

About a week or two, I’ve been noticing a slight change in her attitude, whenever she comes around, she tries to be homely. She now sweeps, tidy the restroom and even keep the kitchen in order. Now, these things, she doesn’t do before. Before now, when she visits, we get food outside, watch TV and just have sex and she leaves.
She’s now saying im a Handsome guy and 3 days ago, she asked, IF I NOW HAVE A GF?
But I told her my dating life is complicated….. I didn’t bother asking about her BF.

Now the issue is, she’s trying to limit the sex and replace it with home duties. But, I prefer the sex. She came around yesterday and I made advances and she rejected saying if its everytime she comes we’ll have sex. Can’t she just visit me. I got vexed.

I need advice.
What can i do? Is it wrong to always have sex whenever she comes to visit?
Should I accept her as my GF? Or ask her to stop visiting?

Help for wider opinion please

Let me say this.

The way woman fall in love is quite different from man.

Women fall in love via process. That's why people criticize them when they cheat. Because it took process.

A woman with weigh your character, way of life, how you treat her. And if she enjoys sex with you, that's a deal breaker.

Then she starts feeling safe and secure with you. Love sets in. She's looking in the direction of long lasting relationship with you. If possible, marriage.


Men are wired differently.

A man can't tell if he loves you until he's cum.

Likeness could be an instant for either a man or a woman. But love takes different process

Your mind is built on friends with benefits.

That's how you view your relationship with her. Let's say that's how you guys started. Now, she's catching feelings

Eyinju112:
Why did you have his baby without him doing the norms. You got pregnant for a man who isn’t thinking marriage with you and you think it’s gonna be that easy? You agreed to become a baby mama, face the consequences. No man is irresponsible when he’s in love, if he’s acting irresponsible towards you and your kid, then there is something you must have done wrong.

And The way some women think they can tie a man down with their pregnancy or baby still amuse you. Evidence go plenty but you go still Dey explain explain till you go tire😂Become a baby mama at your own risk

Flesh and blood didn't reveal this to you

The bitter truth

Anticrime:
Dem no de gree o. Saying their system listed an odd in error.

They're following 1xbet step. Which is very bad

Africans!!!!

Unite

The hard way

yarimo:
Ok

God bless you for that response.

No be every mumu person go try talk with.

She should enjoy

The only problem is...

She's going to expect a 30 yrs old boy to have all that type of money and spoil her like that.

Lol

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Lol

I think say una don stop this business. Or you just start ?

Just like that?

I wish we can send VN here

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Chijeep:
It all happened like this...
I(a single man) and a married woman with 4kids who we both work in the same restaurant fell in love with each other, though we never had s3x but we use to have hot romance because I don't think I can bear sleeping with another man's wife.
These hidden relationship have been going on since 2 months now.
Like a joke, she asked me that will I marry her if she's single and I told her that yes because she's a spec both physically and otherwise.
BUT NOW I'M AFRAID OF WHAT'S COOKING NOW BECAUSE THIS SAME WOMAN HAVE TOLD HER HUSBAND THAT SHE WANT OUT OF THE MARRIAGE JUST FEW DAYS AGO AND THIS WEEK SHE HAVE INFORMED HER PARENTS OF HER INTENTION OF GETTING OUT OF THE MARRIAGE THOUGH HER PARENTS ARE NOT IN SUPPORT OF IT.

THOUGH I TRIED CLEARING MY MIND BY ASKING HER WHY WILL SHE LEAVE HER HUSBAND AND HER 4 KIDS AND SHE SAID THAT SHE NEVER LOVED HIM IN THE FIRST PLACE AND IT WAS HER MOM'S IDEA TO ACCEPT THE MAN'S PROPOSAL BECAUSE SHE WAS JUST 19 YEARS OF AGE WHILE THE MAN IS WAY MORE OLDER, AND TO CROWN IT UP, SHE SAID HER HUBBY ISN'T GOOD IN BED THAT HE PRACTICE HIS CHRISTIAN WAYS OF HAVING SEX SO MUCH THAT EVEN THE LITTLE SHE'S ENJOYING IN THE S3X OF A THING THAT SHE'S THE ONE TAKING IT UP ON HIM.

PLEASE HOW DO I GO ABOUT IN THIS KIND OF ISSUE, THOUGH I LOVE THIS WOMAN BUT I DON'T WANT TO HAVE A HAND IN THEIR SEPARATION.

Your hand is all over it already.

TruthsFM:
when BUA refinery continues operation next year 2024, then you will know that Dangote isn’t the richest man in Africa. Dangote is just leveraging his wealth on the increments of cement and other consuming products in Nigeria that he’s producing. A monopolist isn’t a richest man but a clueless manipulator and debtor

And don't forget how he fought Ibeto cement.

Monopoly is bad and will definitely destroy a nation.

Why did he use his brother to shut down Ibeto cement? There's nothing like united Nigeria... it's just in papers and not in patriotism. A lot is going on behind the scenes

Dyfynezz12:
Arabs are hypocrites
They like telling their women to cover up their body but secretly love watching naked women

From 1-8, na dem

Menstrual cramps will still humble her

Dangrace01:
Join her in the kitchen. African mothers always use this to test their son's girlfriend.

go sit down. if na test, which be exam ?

Xscape1993:
Some Nigerians too are blinded with tribal, religion, political and social sentiments.

Tribalism and religion is our major problem.

But tribalism took 75 percent

Emperormartin:
She's going to lose many female fans just because of this statement

Endorsement deals

SoNature:
Obiano is a drunkard of a governor who looted Anambra money and escaped to America.

Check governors who live in states they governed like Sullivan Chime, they always do an excellent job.

Peter Obi too.

Just that he travels a lot. Of course, he's a business man

End of FAKE LOVE ERA




Let's treat it the way it is.

What should we call this nonsense ?

They want to trick people again