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mekusboy4all:
Thanks for this. However how can I withdraw using the payoneer? It always ask me to input a code sent to my phone no. How can I link my Fiverr to a payoneer ACC?

Just click on fiverr revenue card

mekusboy4all:
please how will I do that?

Lol, you only had the issue because you were withdrawing with Paypal. If you had linked the account to Payoneer, you wouldn't have experienced it.

As to your Nigeria account,, my account had issue and it was moved back to Nigeria. Guess what? That was when I started selling. With a Nigerian account, in creative writing gig, I have 8 to 9 orders in queue and made over $1300 in November. I focused in delivering good service and it has been great with so many 5 stars and tips. My gig have remained in front page for 3 months now.

So don't think its the end, keep the reviews coming and you will sell higher

Lavendra:
well... I think I should comment. I feel cursed, any relationship I enter doesn't last I end up getting hurt, I try as much as possible to avoid guyd, but of seems like every guy I have in my life have either asked me out or is still trying his luck, I'm trying to say there are just too many guys around but I no longer have the heart to love because of my emotional scars, the pain is too much, I don't think I plan to get married, my parents should please forgive me if I don't. Now I barely have friends, I'm scared of being close to anyone, I'm scared of talking to anyone about my deepest fears, I cut myself off from pipz around me because I'm scared of being hurt most people think I'm weird, no guy wants a wife who loves living with dogs, cats, birds, animals in general, no guy wants a wife who likes driving a bike around town or a wife who is in love with driving speed boats or swimming in rivers but these are the things that makes me happy, dogs, agriculture, swimming, adventure its just part of me, it doesn't make me a bad person. I accept whatever fate awaits me in life after all we won't live forever. my last relationship taught me a really big lesson...

I can only say you are not cursed. Try to make life simple. Remove those things that complicate your life, those things that always make you feel cursed. They are complexities and you need to get rid of them.

You mustn't be in a relationship to feel happy and you should learn to move on in life. Do not allow your experience of yesterday define your tomorrow. Win the war against your background and negative experience. Basically, how I do mine is to forget about the past and concentrate in the present. I don't think let alone of dwelling in the past.

Try to talk to someone, maybe a mother you respects so much or you can consider relocating to another place and start a new life. Change your sim card and get rid of complications.

Remember, you are not cursed until you curse yourself

obowunmi:
You sound like a rapist.

Okay, non rapist. Just make sure you don't rape women before me.

Omaa1:
How do one deal with the feeling of failure?
Lemme use my story as an example;
Finished secondary school at 16, have to stay back at home and forfeit even my first admission because of fund. Stayed at home and worked for 5-6 year before going back to school. At that time most of my classmate are graduates. Graduated and finished Service at 28. No job, (most job age limit are plain ridiculous for entry level), relationship is nothing to write home about and no money.
I see most of my childhood working and doing well, some married with kids (my best friend have 4 kids with a great career), I'm not desperate for marriage though. But, that feeling of underachieved, that feeling of I'm not where I'm supposed to be, considering what I have been through is really depressing, in less than 3 month time I will 29, yet I ain't seeing no silver lining.
How do I deal with these feelings ?

Hey, life is not unfair. Life is time and time is life. Where you are right now may not be where you wanted to be but trust me, it is where you are because it is where you are. Funny. On Sunday, I met a secondary school classmate, he isn't working but he is already making it online. He is into SEO and cryotocurrency. I felt I wasted my time going to school. I am working with Salary above 100k. My fiverr earning gives me more than 200k a month. Last month, I made $1300 from fiverr, that's roughly 460k aside from my salary. You know what? I feel depressed, lonely, and underachieving.

No relationship, I left relationship for money and when money started coming, I have lost the time for women, I have lost the patience to woo a lady, in fact, I had attention for women, even with money, I feel empty...

Why all these, Failure is subjective and you are never a failure. Don't judge yourself by where your friends are or what others are doing. Everyday, I read books and do things that changes me. Time changes all things, time will come when it will all be a story.

What did you study? Do you have experience in work place at all? I have an idea

patrick89:
I wish to engage outside nairaland, there are a lot of things you need to know. However, I still remember your comment on Anambra.
I served in Ebonyi state, I love the people so much, but I know how they feel about us, and you exhibited that trait on this platform. You are a pal to Maazi ogbonna, who seldom bashes Igbo people when he likes..and promotes it when he likes. I do slide into his comments and read from you. I know you too well, so come off it.
Your opinion on ipob and KANU is not what you hold exclusively to. It should be a generic one that would formulate narratives, and not what you grudgingly hold unto yourself, and be releasing provocatively at any given time.
You and YYeske have similar approach, which I will always condemn, no matter how good your intentions are. I do not need you to admit these things...

Funny. Well, I maintain that you are wrong in Anambra issue. I dated someone from Anambra, and my best guy whom I put my life for during our undergraduate days to achieve his political career in the department is from Anambra.

One thing you need to understand is that there is completely no hate in my blood. One thing which I will argue till death is when you say I hate someone. I have never shown any hate towards anyone and I have never hated anyone since I understand the fact that we were first humans before being a Christian or before coming from south east.

I do not make post praising northerners. Those that know me well knows I only play Igbo music. Make your research right

Welcome back Mr. President.


Is this really Jubril? Thats what some people are asking themselves now

Op should have at least organized the content for easy comprehension.

patrick89:
I like your person, I like the fact that you have an independent mind. I respect that, but I can sense some complexity in your outward on Igbo.
You from Ohozara, in Ebonyi state, you stay in Enugu. I know you very well ... You are serving in kano state.. But you dey fvk up....

I already put this informations here on nairaland. So anyone can come up with it. I made them obvious on nairaland. So stop saying it as though its a secret you are unveiling.

You made assumptions which is not true. That's the point. That I hate Anambra people (This is the biggest fallacy. The reason you are saying it is something I do not know as I have never written about Anambra state or people). Secondly, I don't stay in Enugu. I live in Enugu. We have a street in Enugu, so I live there.

As for Fvcking up, I truly think you need to get your opinion on things and leave other peoples opinion to them. My opinion remains that I don't support Kanu or IPOB. If it is what is being outward on Igbo, well, we are many that share same view and opinion.

patrick89:
Story! I have followed but here and Facebook... I can tell how much you detest Anambra people . You also famzi the north. I know you too well...

From the bolded, you don't know me then. I have no business with Anambra, neither do I write about them.

For the north, it is clear you don't know me. I only support Buhari and no one else. Kindly get your facts straight or you check your bathroom for your towel

kelechi50:
please how come the lady didn't mention you, taa

Mention me? Lol. You have not being accused before

BreezyRita:
As in ehn...... So lame

While I'm against rape/forceful sex of any kind, what with all these rape accusations? Babes just be screaming tape everywhere
Make I find who I go accuse abeg.

Accuse the right person ooo. Lol. Methinks that very soon, rape will lose its meaning as anything this days is rape to ladies

patrick89:
You can be a good PR too, but the problem be say you like Hausa too much..

No be only like Hausa too much. I just hate discrimination based on ethnicity, language, colour, and background. I hate it and I hate where it is being practiced.

Nweze1986:
Cheap blackmail from the pit of hell. opposition in the state using the weapon of rape will at the end make the young man more popular.

Nwaze Francis is innocent.

My nigga. They don get you

edgeP:
I sensed blackmail here.

Yeah. Chai, my guy has entered into this one chance. I was surprised he wasn't updating. But he updated recently of how one plumber scammed him and he was going to deal with him to teach others lesson. Little did he know that Karma is serving him a meal

With the way this things are going, everyone will soon be accused of rape

mofedamijo:
She asked him how she will move from APC TO PDP,his he the party chairman or secretary,she is an under graduate,what is she loooking for from party to party,why not go to pdp office abi what am i saying sef....

Lol

nwakibie3:
When the social media friends met for another discussion the following day, Nwaze was alleged to have driven her to his house where the alleged rape occurred.


Women can play victim.

you entered his car in the night u didn't complain.

he drove u to his house u didn't complain.

by the way what did u think u were going to do in his house at such an ungoldly hour?
to read bible

all I can see here is that the guy didn't pay what they agreed and she now resorted to blackmail.

Lol. The guys name have been tarnished already. He is very close to the governor. Very Very close to the governor and active on facebook. This is indeed a blackmail

UnknownT:
LOL.... THE DUDE IS A NAIRALANDER NAH

Yeah. The dude is a nairalander

I know the guy. He is even a nairalander and a facebook friend. It must be a blackmail. Ladies now form anything to get attention of a guy that rejected them.

This guy is very active, this must be a blackmail

Drlaw:
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Zigoziglar:
I have not made any final conclusion i just need advice. help a brother like you would a son.

If you are not an entrepreneur, do not take your parents off your school. Not for such business

Zigoziglar:
Its not like that

What is it like?

Yahoo yahoo business man

Mrnairalandd:
Have you ever left your village in your entire life? No.

I have been to over 15 countries around the world and almost 7 in Africa.

So i know what i am talking about.

The only Nigerians who ll tell you that Ghana is beautiful compare to Nigeria are people who have literally stay in their villages all through their lives in Nigeria.

You are right. The general belief is that Nigeria is a poor place without knowing that some places in Nigeria is far better than most African countries. Cost of living in Nigeria is cheaper too. Imagine buying ordinary bottle of cook for N300. When we can get the big bottle for N100

2sexycom:
lol the victim is not a minor. She is a full grown adult. Na politics matter she take enter one chance. She met the guy on facebook and because of his political knowledge, she felt she could tap from his wealth of knowledge as she has desire to learn too and see dude is press at the government house, they set up a meeting after a few chat exchange. Na Dia she enter one chance

Thank you for the insight. But the guy was wrong

I was even suggesting it should be closed. If it were in America, the government would have asked the embassy to be closed pending the outcome of investigation.

The area fada is right this time

Hian, this is another rape story. Guys should learn to use a brothel than trying to decieve a minor.

tunjilana:
The issue with all this borderline rape cases is that when the other party claims it is consensual how do you validate your claims to rape when you have not been wise in all your decisions prior the incident. We may want to say questions like why did you sleep over, why did you allow cuddling, why did you allow head, why did nt you scream, why didn't you break his head are irrelevant but they are very relevant when you have a case to prove in court. The court will not just take it as rape because you said it is so. they will review all the facts to prove it was really non consensual. So everyone needs to be wise and not put themselves in an inappropriate situation!

Exactly bro. In my comment on front page, I called it "surrounding rape with ideal circumstance". These are just perfect instances that people may not know constitutes to rape. By this weak criterion, Men will be raping their wife everyday. I think the society have just gone mad and ladies are trying to hard to define our society to suit their decisions prior to the incident just like you said.


I am not a legal practitioner, but I strongly believe there are instances where the court will not consider it as rape. Not from what is written above.

Laveda:
Right!

If it gets to court, the issue with shed more light on this rape issue.

But even in all these, we women still need to be careful and not just deliberately lead men on, sometimes it's very very hard to control one's self when it has gotten to a certain point.

Justice Okon Abang should handle this case

The law does not operate in vacuum and I think the law should be understanding. I find it so hard believing rape is surrounded by an ideal circumstances.

sisisioge:
Omg! This is so cute!

Biko accept the friendship offer for your Sanity's sake since it affects you so much. Another prettier babe will come along soon, she probably would break your heart too if you don't stop being such a baby. Eventually, you will learn the game like the palms of your hands anyways

Stay strong.

Lol, and the guy must have envisioned a nice Christmas hangout with the lady during this Christmas break. By the time he will meet the next girl and probably pass her assessment and due diligent study, my guy would have given up.

Women can know how to play with guys opinion. I just see the op on the long run being a fvckative with this kind of experience which is going to change him

ifyalways:
I'm not adding any whatsapp whatever as I'm not on whatsapp.

Let me reiterate again in case you didn't see it :
Which state and city are you processing the license?
Are u doing it yourself directly or through a third party eg driving school?

I suggest that the mod should create a section called :FundMe where some of this requests can all be moved to and anyone touched can assist.

The issue of people creating new account just to ask for help even when they are in dire need of help is something fishy. God forbid, If I am dying and I need help only from nairaland, nothing would make me want to hide my identity when I know I have helped so many nairalanders.

So I suggest they should be another section. What do you think