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RomanceRe: Man Proposes To Girlfriend Who Slept With His Brother And She Said 'Yes' by Mrscarter(f): 6:28am On Apr 26, 2021
envoymedia:
A Twitter user has expressed excitement of getting a "yes" from his girlfriend who initially turned down his proposal because she thought she hadn't forgiven her for sleeping with her brother, IgbereTV reports.

@PapaBareLaFlare said the trauma of getting to know that his girlfriend slept with his brother cleared off after he stayed in a mental facility for one month. He added that he is glad that they can grow together so true love can win.

He wrote on Twitter;


https://twitter.com/PapaBareLaFlare/status/1385575388735107074?s=20

Reacting to the negative comments he got after his tweet went viral, the Twitter user wrote;


https://twitter.com/PapaBareLaFlare/status/1385595823208103938?s=20[/quote]Damn. Wat kinda woman sleeps with their mans brother? Or friend. Only hoes do those lol.
RomanceRe: Why Is It That When Men Cheat, They Are Happy With It by Mrscarter(f): 6:25am On Apr 26, 2021
DEMZEE:
I'm not obsessed about feminism.

I'm just being realistic and u are being solipsistic.

Ur exception doesn't make the rule.

Men are designed to be promiscuous, u can't understand because u don't have a penis ma'am
Lol maybe so.
Majority of men are but what im saying is there are exceptions.
Some will cheat non stop
Some will cheat once n feel guilty n then stay loyal. Some will not cheat at all.
Some cheat until they meet the right person that they love to much to cheat.
Thats what im saying
RomanceRe: Why Is It That When Men Cheat, They Are Happy With It by Mrscarter(f): 6:29am On Apr 25, 2021
DEMZEE:
So u are telling me ur husband is only fucking ur pussy??

A loyal high value man is a feminine imperative myth
Yes. I dont care if u believe it.
Not every person is decietful or sex crazy.
Its actually real that some people are actually faithful n satisfied with their partner sexually.
Could u imagine the spread of stds if everyone was so careless n loose with their bodies.
U n ur stupid feminism obsession. Not all women are femenist.
RomanceRe: Handsome Nigerian Man Weds His Pretty White Bride In Lagos (Photos) by Mrscarter(f): 6:25am On Apr 25, 2021
1Sharon:
Race is deeper than simple skin tone
Yes but i know alot ppl who look greek or who look mulatto for example yet theyre completely caucasian in their genetics. Like i said u cant tell by looking at the woman. She looks white and most likely classes herself white and everyone who knows her or who sees her would say shes white. She def dont look black. She could have italian Greek or something in her bloodline somewhere but majority of ppl would look at her n say shes white. Like i said before i lived in Australia and ive known women who look very very similar to her who have nothing but caucasian family members going way back n they class themselves as white and everyone in that country would agreed shes white.
Your saying race is deeper than skin tone which is true but u also are judging her race from a simple picture. Do u know many white people well ? Lived among them for long periods of time? Not all white people are very pale. Some even tan alot dye their hair diff colours...black..blonde etc. Especially in australia there are a wide variety of races and people coukd have greek asian Italian etc way back in their bloodline n not even know it. Yet they look caucasian n class themselves as caucasian n are recognised by others as caucasian.
RomanceRe: Why Is It That When Men Cheat, They Are Happy With It by Mrscarter(f): 5:01am On Apr 25, 2021
DEMZEE:
If you want a high value man you should be ready to share him with other women. He has the leverage not u
Anyway i have a high value husband and i dont share him. Dont need to dont want to n never will. Unless im there to enjoy the partcheesy
Na im joking. But seriously tho he dont wanna be shared anyway hes satified wella
RomanceRe: How To Know Nigerian Girls That Are Unserious In Life (photos) by Mrscarter(f): 4:58am On Apr 25, 2021
AngelicDamsel:
Hypocrisy is when a guy says "if you wear biker shorts, don't bother saying hi to me"



In his dreams!


I do not wear such, but it's hot and would get any girl the attention she wants.






Camel toe drives some men gaga, you know. Nonetheless, we are beautiful and we don't need to appeal to their sexual interests to define our dress. I don't wear provocative dress at all.
I like them with baggy top tho or if youre at home with your partner or by yourself i could wear them. I saw a girl in the shopping mall wearing a pair the other day. Her body looked good but she wasnt just getting looks from handsome guys it was old men and teenagers too. Lol i cant have dirty old men looking at my package or guys id find creepy. Thats y i cpuld never wear them in public.
Lol i know some men like camel toe but im too self conscious to reveal that. Just today walking down the street wearing white skinny jeans with a hooded jumper i look up and theres a man my dads age just staring at me n not looking away and not even 5 mins later theres a school boy around 13 staring at my ass. Men old enough to be my dad creep me out sexually i could never so i feel uncomfortable wen they look at me in that way so i could never walk around in something that reveals my map to heaven haha. Although i do like some revealing clothes like tops with splits up the sides n mini skirts n short shorts im just mindful where i wear them.
Plus i couldnt walk around my family dressed like that either. Not my brothers n dad or my uncles n cousins. Itd b uncomfortable aswell as theyd tell me my "business is showing go n cover it up proper" lol.
RomanceRe: Why Is It That When Men Cheat, They Are Happy With It by Mrscarter(f): 4:45am On Apr 25, 2021
DEMZEE:
Lol

Men must create their value
Women are born with value

Women love opportunistically
Men love idealistically

Women can never love unconditionally, they can only love men they respect and that respect comes from Wat the man can give them. Women don't know love but they do know respect.

Women only love their children unconditionally.

And yes relationships are all about leverage. He who needs the other the most is the one who has the least power in the relationship.
Your logic is flawed. Ive dated broke men who had nothing but love to give and i know others whove done the same. Maybe in nigeria men value respect more than love but overall if u love someone u respect them anyway.
Not all women are after money. Plenty marry men who have no riches to offer. Plenty marry for love. As for need yes people in relationships need each other but not always for money. They need love they need understanfing they can need all kinds of things. Everyone is different. Everyone views things in their own way. Ppl have different values. Morals. Beliefs. U gotta remember nigeria is just one country in a world of many and relationships and values can vary in from place to place. So if you think this way maybe its all youve seen or known. But i can tell you everyone has different views on love and cheating.
If 2 rich ppl marry who has what leverage by your logic? U may not have loved a woman unconditionally or been loved unconfitionally maybe some day you will. I hope for you that you do. I dont see the need for sex outside of ypur relationship. A good wife/husband should be able to satisfy in every aspect. This is y ppl should be more careful who they marry. Get to know each other very well. Different aspects of relationships are more important to some than others. Some ppl pride themselves on their morals and maybe that includes loyalty and faithfulness even if the sex isnt the best theyve had they stay faithful. In a good relationship you should be able to work on anything thats an issue for one or the other and make it better. Thats what marraige is. Working together to build a happy life with the partner u chose to love so that life is good and happy for both. Bringing in outsiders can only cause stress n pain n drama. But there are some couples who have agreements like open relationships. So like i said everyones different and not all people see relationships and cheating the way you do.
RomanceRe: I Love My Man But We Stay Afar, Can He Be Faithful? by Mrscarter(f): 4:31am On Apr 25, 2021
Liposure:
sorry. Hope you ve taken some medication
Yeah i did. Its all gud now thanks
RomanceRe: Handsome Nigerian Man Weds His Pretty White Bride In Lagos (Photos) by Mrscarter(f): 4:30am On Apr 25, 2021
1Sharon:
Nope.
Well like i said ive seen tons of women who like this in caucasian countries like australia new zealand etc over the years n everyone of em classed as white.
Im not talking genetics n all that stuff but i can bet this lady classes herself as white and so would people in places like the usa n europe n australia. Shes more white than any other colour
RomanceRe: Handsome Nigerian Man Weds His Pretty White Bride In Lagos (Photos) by Mrscarter(f): 1:53pm On Apr 24, 2021
1Sharon:
The aborigines of Australia are not black!
Ofcourse they are
RomanceRe: Handsome Nigerian Man Weds His Pretty White Bride In Lagos (Photos) by Mrscarter(f): 1:34pm On Apr 24, 2021
sage:
What features. Latino is not a look nor a “race”. You realize you can be white and Latino right? She could be Italian or Greek or from Latin America or Southern Europe
She could even be australian. Ive lived there for a while. Its very multi cultural. Theres lots of white women there who look like this. Even ones with no italian or greek or anything but white in their heritage. U can never tell just by looking at someone. But shes definately white
RomanceRe: How To Know Nigerian Girls That Are Unserious In Life (photos) by Mrscarter(f): 1:09pm On Apr 24, 2021
AngelicDamsel:
Hypocrisy is when a guy says "if you wear biker shorts, don't bother saying hi to me"



In his dreams!


I do not wear such, but it's hot and would get any girl the attention she wants.
I think theyre a little too revealing.
Not the kinda attention id want.
I wouldnt wear any of these items
RomanceRe: I Love My Man But We Stay Afar, Can He Be Faithful? by Mrscarter(f): 8:07am On Apr 24, 2021
Liposure:
i'm doing great. How was your day
My day was ok just been having bit of a headache today.
RomanceRe: Why Is It That When Men Cheat, They Are Happy With It by Mrscarter(f): 8:06am On Apr 24, 2021
DEMZEE:
If you want a high value man you should be ready to share him with other women. He has the leverage not u
Hahaha u think so?
Relationships arent about leverage.
People who think so will never know the true meaning or value of unconditional love and loyalty.
CrimeRe: Yahoo Boys Bathing On A Burial Ground (Video) by Mrscarter(f): 7:27am On Apr 24, 2021
slawormiir:
Damnnn niggarrrr
Pussy ass niggarrs....

The huzzle and bombing is all about consistency and luck

It has nothing to do with spiritualism, diabolism, necromancy, occultism, telephatic transmission, sorcery, spirirtual invisibility, Spiritism, mysticism, wizardry, telepathic clairvoyance and extrasensory perception
Exactly. Those things are just fringe sciences. Unproven things. But some of the things people believe is unbelievable lol.
CrimeRe: Yahoo Boys Bathing On A Burial Ground (Video) by Mrscarter(f): 7:21am On Apr 24, 2021
benjackugo:
https://igberetvnews.com/1388288/suspected-yahoo-boys-seen-bathing-burial-ground-video/
Waste of time.
And theyre just exposing themselves to disease.
Ppl die from diseases so imagine how much diseases are in the dirt in a graveyard?!
RomanceRe: I Love My Man But We Stay Afar, Can He Be Faithful? by Mrscarter(f): 3:46am On Apr 23, 2021
Liposure:
I see. Good morning
Hafa?
RomanceRe: Why Is It That When Men Cheat, They Are Happy With It by Mrscarter(f): 3:46am On Apr 23, 2021
thatsleepboy1:
I'm fine as usual. Lol, that's true. no wonder. grin grin grin
Yep lol.
RomanceRe: Why Is It That When Men Cheat, They Are Happy With It by Mrscarter(f): 3:45am On Apr 23, 2021
DEMZEE:
Stop using ur feminine lens to determine how. Men cheat pls.

Men don't cheat,they just have sex
Women cheat

Men cheat by sharing his commitment, resources with other women asides his wife or wives. Men cheat by giving financial security to other women asides his wife or wives.

Men love sacrificially
Women love opportunistically

Men must create their value
Women are born with value
I dont agree. Like i said not every person is the same.
The ways ppl cheat like u said r true but i dont believe all ppl are decietful. Cheating is deciet.
Plus there are people who value their partners
And their morals and their loyalty and relationships. Not everybody views things the same way therefore they dont do the same things.
HealthRe: Is Pregnancy So Difficult? by Mrscarter(f): 3:41am On Apr 23, 2021
kinkybabie11:
I agree but the kind of fatigue one goes through sometimes is something else. It’s not easy but some women make it seem harder than it is
Yeah i was very active during mine. Everything had to be super clean.
Ofcourse u need extra rest when pregnant but i was very active right up til the day i gave birth.
Some ppl can have medical issues tho during pregnancy that can affect how active u can be but those who are healthy theres no need to b lazy or put unnecessary pressure on ur husband
RomanceRe: How Do You Express Your Feelings To A Guy You Are Crushing On? by Mrscarter(f): 3:28am On Apr 23, 2021
Amebong:
“Feelings” for what it is, is supposed to be expressed by anyone irrespective of
gender right? That however seems not to be very much the case as in various societies today, more commonly in underdeveloped countries that haven’t seen as much exposure as their developed counterparts, it seems an oddity, more or less a taboo to have a lady ask a guy out or simply let him know of her romantic feelings for him when he hasn’t told her of his for her yet.
Here it has become a duty attributed solely to the masculine gender to profess amorous feelings first, with the females only on the responding end, which has even prompted some to term the act of a girl asking a guy out a “role reversal”. As a result of this, guys are at a liberty of going for whichever girl they want, while a lady, though she might have a guy she likes already, has to wait and hope on whichever guy comes. Butthe question here is “is it really a bad thing for a lady to ask a guy out? Well, let’s walkthrough the topic together.

Source: https://www.ceetimax.com.ng/2021/04/22/is-it-bad-for-a-lady-to-ask-a-guy-out/
If u like somebody you tell them otherwise you'll get nowhere lol.
Its a modern world. Theres no harm in a woman telling a guy she likes him.
RomanceRe: I Hate Jamaicans by Mrscarter(f): 3:26am On Apr 23, 2021
Ilamina:
This jamaican bank lady
Went to go and report me to the bank manager
That my passport is expired

And now I couldn't get a new bank card
And because of that u now hate all jamaicans?
HealthRe: Why You Must Say No To Drugs (picture) by Mrscarter(f): 11:32pm On Apr 22, 2021
Khd95:
It should have been

Pic 1. : A lion in namibian zoo

Pic 2: A lion in Nigerian(zoo)
Lol
HealthRe: Is Pregnancy So Difficult? by Mrscarter(f): 3:11pm On Apr 22, 2021
Entayali:
I'm beginning to think she's just trying to punish me. She's not even up to 3months gone and the pregnancy is barely showing and she's stressing my life.

When I'm on my way back home in the evening, I will call her to ask her if she wants anything, she will tell me no but when I get home, she will either she wants suya, sometimes chicken or sometimes sharwarma.

The other day she said she wanted akara on a sunday afternoon, please tell me where I go see that one na.

When her mumu brother came, she was able to cook for him and serve him food but I can't remember the last time she did that for me.

She presses phone all day while I do everything.

Is pregnancy that hard?
I'm thinking of punishing her or what do you advise I do?
Lazy woman. Pregnancy isnt a disability
RomanceRe: Why Is It That When Men Cheat, They Are Happy With It by Mrscarter(f): 7:55am On Apr 21, 2021
DEMZEE:
Ma'am, If u want a loyal man then u have to know he ain't gonna b the type of man u want.

A loyal high value man is a feminine imperative myth because a high value man has the leverage and has options.

Most men lie about their cheating because they are fighting their innate sexual mating strategy which is fucking as many bitches as possible.

A man is as loyal as his options
Most are but i know some who arent.
Some actually put their values before their lust.
No matter how gud u are at hiding it its impossible not to get caught eventually. Some ppl have cheated once n never donr it again n some will do it as much as they want n can. So im not saying most ppl aint cheated at all just that not all of them cheat
RomanceRe: Why Is It That When Men Cheat, They Are Happy With It by Mrscarter(f): 7:52am On Apr 21, 2021
thatsleepboy1:
Hi Mrscarter how are you ma'am? you're back.
Hey how are you. Lol na i didnt go anywhere.
Sometimes i just try not to comment much.
I tend to talk alot sometimes but other times i try mind my own lol.
RomanceRe: How Do I Get Rid Of This Simp Of A Guy by Mrscarter(f): 7:50am On Apr 21, 2021
orohbiro:
From day one I told him quite blank I saw him as a friend and nothing more I don't pick is calls after 28miss calls that a clear sign to turn him off buh the guy won't burge I didn't force him to spend the money he did it willingly
Yes but u still accepted it knowing its encouraging him. And not giving ur number to start with is the best sign u coulda gave
RomanceRe: I Love My Man But We Stay Afar, Can He Be Faithful? by Mrscarter(f): 7:49am On Apr 21, 2021
Liposure:
4 years! Wow! this can't be true. How did you do it cos i know the kind of temptation that comes with being in a distant r/ship including the urge to eat the forbidden fruit when the feeling comes unless you are an alien. Most girls would have cheated at slightest opportunity
Na i just focused on other things in my life. I was looking after my sick mum n that took a lot of my time. I didnt have much time from socializing plus i was sick myself for about a year during that time. But it didn't bother me at all. Sex isnt everything lol. I dont know why ppl act like its their breath. Plus i chose to be faithful n loyal. Its good qualities to have and makes u stronger willed.
RomanceRe: Why Is It That When Men Cheat, They Are Happy With It by Mrscarter(f): 12:21pm On Apr 17, 2021
DEMZEE:
Nope don't use ur feminine lens to classify men's way of cheating
Two people in a relationship. One strays with another person. Its cheating. No way around it. Male or female. A relationship is for two people only. If you want more than one person why even have a relationship. If there's nothing wrong with it why does the cheat lie n hide their cheating?
Anyway theres no femenism in me. Im all bout my husband being the boss and me being the one to take care of the chores n kids etc. I just believe in being faithful and loyal. If you cant do that then you dont respect your partner.
Its not called cheating for no reason
RomanceRe: Why Is It That When Men Cheat, They Are Happy With It by Mrscarter(f): 12:06pm On Apr 17, 2021
DEMZEE:
Men show love and love differently from women

Men love idealistically and sacrificially
Women love opportunistically

Men show love through sharing his resources and paying for his woman lifestyle ie giving her financial security.
Women show their love through fidelity ie not being a hoe but be his personal hoe

Men and women look at sex differently too
Asides all that cheating is still cheating.
RomanceRe: Why Is It That When Men Cheat, They Are Happy With It by Mrscarter(f): 12:05pm On Apr 17, 2021
DEMZEE:
Men show love and love differently from women

Men love idealistically and sacrificially
Women love opportunistically

Men show love through sharing his resources and paying for his woman lifestyle ie giving her financial security.
Women show their love through fidelity ie not being a hoe but be his personal hoe

Men and women look at sex differently too
Yes to some degree men n women see sex and love differently to women. But also not every woman is the same nor every man. I think it depends on the individual and their relationship with each other. Ive known men n women who cheated on all their partners then met a certain one n became completely faithful. So i think it all depends on the connection you have with a person.
RomanceRe: How Do I Get Rid Of This Simp Of A Guy by Mrscarter(f): 11:49am On Apr 17, 2021
orohbiro:
if I wanted to be wicked to I would be stay and eat his money buh I came for advice on how to dump him
Then why the need to talk bout him that way? His ugliness is outta this world? After he spent on you. Be honest with yourself..u wanted what he spent on you before u dump him. Cos i know if i wasnt interested i wouldnt give my number or let a man spend on me in the first place. I know its encouraging behavour. U must know this n now u wanna dump him. He thinks youre together? Even tho u have a fiancee?

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