Deicide: Like seriously i have seen people fight in public transport because of the front seat Me na anywhere way available i go sit down o e no concern me but maybe there is something i am not seeing so what's so important about that front that some people would even fight for it?
Nothing. I prefer the back. But if my man is driving no girl except our family members ofcourse can sit there up front with him.
Pernotti: There's this lady that's always taking my stuff.. especially anything fancy or eye-catching she finds in my possession.
I hate this behavior, but I'm just trying not to overreact or cause a rift. She possesses other qualities I'm really into, but I need to stop this behavior without making her think I'm too attached to those things she takes.
Just tell her u dont like anyone touching ur stuff let alone taking it. I hate wen someone touches my stuff
My salary came yesterday and immediately I received alert, I rushed to my husband and asked him how much he needs me to contribute after informing him that my salary has been paid. Oga thought I was joking and mentioned a figure thinking I was going to contest because it was
Almost all my salary, I just carried my phone and transferred it to him. It was doing him like film, I then went ahead to pay the salary of our children's lesson teacher so that he would stop thinking about it. That's when I realized that he was doing so much without complaining.
He sees it like his duty and even when the financial burden is too much, he struggles to pay without asking me. He was so surprised and happy, I know that my money is just a fraction of what he brings but he felt like I gave him millions. I then told him that I am putting in the effort to make more money so that I can still reduce his stress. He didn't marry a responsibility, he married an helper and he should be feeling more relaxed than when he was single. I have never felt entitled to anybody's pocket and I won't do that with my husband. Omo, oga went to the market without even telling me, stocked up the home. Cooked and served me o, this small support has gone a long way to settle silent quarrels that I didn't even know about. I will keep working harder and doing my best, men also need support, they are not superman.
https://mobile.twitter.com/jagzangel/status/1377989341801250816[/quote]N this is how marraige should be. Making life as easy as possible for each other and in turn it brings less stress n less stress equals happier husband happier wife happier marraige Having a happy marraige n partner who loves you and beautiful healthy kids a comfortable home and food on the table is a perfect life in my eyes.
grossintel: My dear, I tire. A family of 6, but just 4 at the moment cause the rest are away for various reasons. But that was really fast, I even learnt they paid Tithe from the money in church. All this happened in less than 24hrs. I finally spoke with her Mom this morning, I intentionally didn't want to pick yesterday cause I was very angry. She kept pleading that they used the money for food, drugs, house expenses and tithe in church. The last one really made me laugh , I just asked them to send back what's left before they use it for seed faith, they shouldn't start borrowing cause I know things are hard . Honestly, country is hard, the temptation is real but it's well.
Yeah most ppl who are struggling would do the same thing i guess n being ur gfs family wouldve made the situation harder. Honestly my family arent poor exactly but theyd do the same thing if my partner sent money. My mum done it to my exes mother chop her money which she sent for me money she owed me n even tho the money was mine i didnt know she had paid me for a while so made things awkward n it was a similar amount. So i know how ur gf is feeling. Its an awful situation for her too. Sometimes is best just to cut your losses and know it cost u dearly to find out whos trustworthy n who is not yeah. Anyway gud luck with everything.
Nazgul: Food is just to make it look presentable. I can comfortably tell you that the money was used to settle various debts and the rest was used for food. It's so sad that so many Nigerians are currently wallowing in severe debts. A friend of mine stopped picking up my calls since last month, he borrowed some money from me to settle his family's needs, I later discovered that I'm not the only one he's owing he borrowed from other friends as well.
As bad as I felt, I knew that that's the current situation with most households in Nigeria. So if you mistakenly pay in any excess money into their account, it will be withdrawn in seconds cos there are so much needs awaiting attention.
Rumor has it that the average Nigerian has less than 50k lying dormant in his account. And as embarrassing as that sounds, it's the blunt truth.
MansoryMX: I will make it brief and mix my English with our local pigin English so expect a poor write up base on area wey I be. I won’t say the school name for security reasons but this matter xup yesterday!
My wife went to celebrate matric with her kid sister. Initially I told her I can’t make it but i planned on giving them a surprise visit with two of my friend who accompanied me since the school is my zanga I graduated from years back. I was already driving close to the close gate when I noticed my wife calling me, I picked up the call only for me to hear my wife raging so angrily that one guy approached her, she flashed her wedding ring for him to get lost and this guy had the guts to grab her hands and tell her that he will give her 50k if she follows him to an hotel let them get down that he likes her. My mother in-law is there as well and overhead all the idiot said and shouted at him for disrespecting her daughter and a married woman for that matter! he cursed at my wife’s mom. I told my wife am at the school gate and she was so shocked! I got there just in time, the goat is still there sitting at the front of his Benz. The mending, beating and brutality my hommies who accompanied me gave him! Plus the flying heading I gave his mouth! He won’t forget it in a long time!
Have we lost our morals as young people? Is this the best way to approach a lady even if you want to toast one! Only God can help this country! Yahoo yahoo has crippled sanity in this country. Las las the school CSO picked him up and hand him over to the police. I showed them my Navy Mess ID card and showed him that he messed with the wrong married woman. Bro begged liked a puss*. Told them to let him go. Young lads be careful how you harass young women. Some are married to educated hoodlum like me.
Note; I see a lot of negative comments saying thrash and seeing nothing wrong in groping someone’s wife. Those of you lots doing this will meet your Waterloo very soon. Under no circumstances should you grope a woman be it married or single! You could be beaten to death or injured severely and nothing will happen! I repeat! Nothing will happen and you will be arrested and charge to court after beaten thoroughly. Una need strong thing for this country!
I dont understand the need for all the drama. Surely ur wife couldve nust told him to get lost. No need to call u to fight him. You have to watch women like that. I know cos i am one. Im not like that tho i hate drama n fighting n confrontations. Some women tho they love men fighting over them n they love drama. I dislike women like this. If were me as the wife id have just kept telling him to get lost. What if the guy had shot you or stabbed you or you him? N all over simple words that cant hurt anybody. Even if the guy insulted her its not gonna hurt her so why the need to get the guy beat up? Some women get off on this kinda thing n some men are just suckers for these women.
DoubleFingers: N/B: This could be a bit lengthy, but please, read to the end.
I have been making preparations since late last year to settle down with my fiancee. I intend going to collect the marriage list this coming April to kick start the marriage processes.
My girl and I are very compatible in almost all ramifications you can think of. Honestly, she's the perfect definition of a supportive wife, well mannered and loyal to the core, just to say a few.
We now lived in different states, but we've known ourselves and have been seeing/dating each other in the same city between December 2016 and September 2019. I even made her to redeploy during her NYSC in 2018, to be close to me because of my intentions for her.
As usual, we've been praying and trying to seek the face of God to get divine revelation.
So on the 9th of this month (March), my fiancee and her mum visited a priest for normal pre marriage talk/counseling. The priest of course asked my girl some questions about me, which she answered sincerely. The priest then advised my girl and her mum to put everything in God's hand and be praying about it.
About a week later (around 16th or so), my fiancée's mother had a dream where my fiancée's hair was cut in the dream. In trying to understand the dream, my fiancee then called her cousin who is a Reverend, and the cousin told her that the dream is a bad dream, that it means "someone is trying to take her glory."
That dream compelled my fiancee and her mum to have two days midnight prayer (19th and 20th precisely) to cancel any bad dream.
Reaching today, my girl and her mum visited the priest again, to let him know about the dream. The priest then asked my girl about her understand of the dream. My girl said it means "widowhood." But my girl's mum was having a different understanding.
In summary, the priest then asked my girl if she had gotten a divine revelation, as to whether we're meant to be husband and wife. My girl said no has not. Personally, I've fasted and prayed severally to God to show me reasons not to marry my fiancee, but I'm yet to see reasons not to.
Honestly, apart from divine validation which I'm yet to get, I'm yet to see reasons why I shouldn't marry my fiancee. And my girl have been worried since this afternoon, thereby getting me worried also.
Now my questions are:
1.) What does it mean for someone's hair to be cut in a dream?
2.) Is it 100% compulsory that one must get a divine validation to have a peaceful and happy marriage?
Please, your honest contributions will be appreciated.
Mods, please help a brother if this piece isn't in the right section.
And help send it to front page for more response.
Thanks.
Dreams are only thoughts all random pushed together because your unconscious n the brain never stops working. They mean nothing. Thats why they dont make sense because we are not conscious to control our thoughts. Dont let a dream and superstitions ruin your love n future together. Also pastors are only men they pray but god doesnt tell them what to do. You take their advice to some degree but i wouldnt let them control your actions or your choices. U can pray ofcourse but alwsys remember preachers/priests etc theyre only human and theyre job is to teach us gods word. Not to tell us who to marry or things like that.
Ayo2004: Bro,no be only u Many of us wey go secondary school,some of dem don dey cash out big,them dey vex to relate with me dey tell me say I no dey their level embarrass me one time for area in front of their street babes who just dey laugh me,na only one girl for entire area dey rate me out of everybody because I no get money,she dey cook better food for me,help me with money,dey always encourage me,she go dey wan see me everytime.The girl na mad fine girl from family with enough money so I dey surprised gan wetin she dey find for my side
I no dey even comot house,I no dey sleep for night,na night sub I dey use learn one or two skills online because me get big plans ehnn I believe say everybody get him own time and my own time go still come so I just dey Waka without sending anybody but I no dey forget things
Damn. I hate ppl who make fun of ppl when they cant afford fancy clothes n stuff. Especially when i was in school id seen other kids making fun of this poor kid who had shoes that were falling apart n dirty clothes and i used to feel so bad for that kid.
saintbillion: Ladies If A Guy Approaches You, Where Will You Look At First? Guys come and watch ooooooo.
Well it used to be arms n face n if his body was lean. If he was tall n dressed nice. I loved nice arms on a guy. Not muscular tho. Just normal lean body n arms. Im married now.
orohbiro: Good day guys, I met this girl 2019 July on my way back from work I approach her ask her out and the rest was history. we began dating I fell in love with her though I never demand for sex until October last year wish she refuse telling me she loves me that this is not the right time to do it. this is the same girl I have spend almost 47thousand naira on her head even her pant I haven't seen since we have been dating, so yesterday she came to my place we were talking from there I touch her breast rub her lap i was really excited she was about to let me in but this girl told me it was not the right time, I plead with this girl almost on my kneels this girl still turn me down and worst still the idiot is not a virgin she told me she has had it just once. she left my house am thinking of putting drug in her drink so that I can have my way because my money I have spent on her can't go like that please I need your advise please. am loosing patient
U would drug her n rape her U should be ashamed even thinking it. If shes not ready for sex n u want sex n dont love her enuff to wait find it elsewhere or break up. Just dont become a rapist
blazepascal: ln their quest of getting quick money without labour, Majority of Nigerian youths today have turned towards cybercrime because they feel that's the only thing that can make them wealthy at the comfort of their home. Are they getting rich through this? Yes they are but not all.
A lazy Nigerian youth might just sit in his room with a smartphone in his hand, register fake Gmail accounts, impersonate a white man or woman and lure his victims into sending money to him from abroad. He keeps scamming people until he's apprehended one day by the Police, Economic financial Crimes Commission (EFCC) or other law enforcement agents.
This set of men I just analyzed are called yahoo boys. Due to a number of reasons ,Girls are always flocking around these so called Yahoo boys. Want to know why? Here are 5 reasons why girls are always running after Yahoo boys.
1. Yahoo boys spend lavishly :
Money earned from defrauding others is more like free money, hence there is little or plan on how to spend it. They just sit in their room (hideout) for few days or weeks and then walk to the bank to withdraw money they didn't really work for.
Well, most Nigerian girls don't care how the money is gotten, as long as the money is present and they get anything they request for. So when it's pay day for yahoo guys, girls are next.
These innocent girls don't even care maybe it's money earned from defrauding others. They just want money!
2. They party hard with ladies :
Most ladies love clubbing, although not all know how to dance but they simply love to enjoy the fun and all cruise on snap.
After a yahoo boy gets his pay from his client, its party time. Since ladies are aware of this, they don't miss the chance to go out and have all the fun at least they are sitting in the midst guys where Champagne and Hennessy are ordered.
A fraudster will spend some chunk of his money to celebrate like he just won the presidential election.
3. Most yahoo boys are very Romantic :
Every lady loves a man who is a sweet talker and romantic as well, yahoo guys have sugar-coated tongue, little wonder they know how to talk their way to defrauding individuals
If he can sweet talk a 70 year old woman to sending him money with fake promises of marriage, how much more a young pretty lady.
Most of them are players but not all.
Ladies love sweet words, hence they love yahoo guys. Apart from the Triller and Lomotif in great background when he isn't glued to his computer, he is with his girl.
4. Show Off
: Ladies love to have a guy they can proudly introduce to their friends, a guy with the car and all the swag. They love to be tagged as the girl dating the big boy. With all the cars, gadgets a yahoo guy possesses, ladies want to hangout with them.
Moving with friends in their fleet of cars, you find a lady next to him in the front seat saying 'hi' and 'hello' to any of her friends who crosses her path.
5. Believing There Is Room For Change :
Ladies think they can convince a bad guy to change when they go into a relationship.
When ladies go into a relationship with a yahoo with the hope of changing him, they should also know they are trying to restrict their source of income in the process.
Most times it's always difficult for a lady to change a yahoo guy so they become stuck in the relationship and when nemesis comes they both suffer for his misdeeds.
Most girls like bad boys is just the way it is. After a while u grow up n it becomes tiring. U want better. U want serious. As for innocent ladies dating yahoo boys...lol those girls are mostly not innocent. Alot do help their bf with scam. Alot know where the money is coming from. I dont hate on yahoo boys some really do need money. But they do yahoo to make their life better but they blow the money on these leeches of girls n when theyre broke the girls rarely would stick around. They buy unnecessary things n dont plan for their future. They brag n show off to their friends n waste on useless fancy things. Yet the money is hard to get n wont keep coming or last forever. If they stayed modest n saved that money built a house, studied n got degrees or whatever or started a business then thats smart. But most arent like that. They want lavish lifestyle to impress their friends n leeches. A smart guy would do it in silence brag of nothing still live a simple life and save for a better future. Western goverments are making its citizens more scam aware so it will only get harder in d future to get money this way
Casalindal: Hello op, I read your story and I really know how you feel at the moment. The said lady might not mean you harm but she just don’t know how to handle the fact she has sin, there are people like that and most of them get closure when the finally get to share what they have done with a close or superior being. Don’t take it to heart or get mad at her, I will suggest you sit down and have a deep talk with her and during which you try to understand why she want to follow through with that route.
So many of us just have conversations without actually listening to another person. Tell her to also understand with you why you don’t feel safe having to let the whole world know what you have done. If you both are truly sorry for what you both had done and have seek the face of God then opening confession is not really an option here. But if she still see it fit to go ahead I feel you should allow her get on with what she want.
You might feel embarrassed and all not but it will just be for a period of time. I personally feel you should even be the one to take the first step and confess don’t allow her do it first that way you might still gain a little respect from those you looking up to.
After you get over this please cut her completely off, block her and do not even look back
Lastly tell your girlfriend first about the whole thing so she could stand by you during this time. Please don’t allow her hear it from someone else please. She will be the backbone you will lay on during this time.
Good night and may God have mercy and see you through
Wow u are very correct that many of us have conversations without really listening to the person. Gud advice hun
TotoGame: hey guys! I need an advice urgently cus I'm really confused right now. a female cousin of mine is madly in love with me and I have been trying so hard to talk sense into her but she won't listen . she seduced me into having sex with her once but after that I felt so bad cus I know it's a very big sin against God .
I have been avoiding her lately , I stopped going to their house so yesterday afternoon she came to our house under the pretence of helping my mum with some house chores cus we don't have a sister .
she came to my room and tried to kiss me but I scolded her and reminded her that we are related by blood ...she cried and said she's gonna kill her self if she sees me with any other girl
Im just confused right now ...cus she might end up hurting her self ..... Don't even know how to tell my mum or her parents
advice me on what to do pls
You should have resisted. I had a pair of male cousins try that with me. They are brothers. I threatened to tell their mum n the rest of our family if they didnt leave me alone. They stopped. Threaten her that youll expose yourselves to all ur families. Shame should see her to leave you alone. Some ppl dont have sense. Shes probably infatuated being a female. With my cousins they just like to screw anything they can. Also her being a girl itd be more shameful for her if exposed so id threaten her with exposure. Be nice bout it tho if she dont listen tell her n be mean bout it. Alas if that doesn't work which i think it will then maybe youll have to expose yourselves or u move away. Anything except continuing to sin in that way. Incest is shameful my friend
Romance › Re: Why Would A Girlfriend Do This? by Mrscarter(f): 5:02am On Apr 05, 2021
Me na anywhere way available i go sit down o e no concern me but maybe there is something i am not seeing so what's so important about that front that some people would even fight for it?