Lamanii22: Hello everyone... I delivered my baby this morning.. I just thought to share this wonderful news with you all.. and I'm grateful to God for safe delivery
Jeferious: I don't know why we guys are slow to read obvious signs. After we go dey call the other gender "fish-brain". Just negodu this thread. E fit be say na we be the main "fish brain".
Girls wey naturally talk pass parrot. My girls, both past and present, did most of the talking. They were also freaky and free with me. Maybe it's because I hide my judgemental side very well and act like I'm more free-minded than a freemason. Sometimes I'm even tired of hearing them talk.
Trust me when I tell you that if you've to initiate every convo with your girl before she can participate, then she isn't feeling you. A girl who feels you, is similar to a parrot
MansoryMX: I don’t know who you are, You might be a grown man but your are still thinking like a kid and you better stay off marriage if you know you are about going into one. I cook for my wife, do the dishes and wash her clothes sometimes when I am less busy because I am self employed and I have people working for me. Not that she doesn’t have the time to do these things herself but i love doing it because it makes her happy, fulfilled that she got married to her bestie and not just a man. Things like this makes marriage work bro, not money or children but little things like this you do for your spouse. You better prepare yourself well or else go be like them Davido and Wizkid. Community preek niggas and I can bet you even those dude still cook for their Osheres! There is nothing wrong in doing these things for your wife. You did be amazed how happy your wife will be to know you ain’t just a husband but a caring and romantic one to the core. Women love shit like this!
Exactly. Cos it shows u love her thats what women like. Well good women anyway. I believe its a womans job but to sometimes have ur man do it for u or help u shows he cares n thinks of you. That we arent just an object to them.
EvolvedPisces: That girl's reply shows the father has beat Ozo Of BBN to the *master simp* of Naija... Can you imagine.. what's your take.. yes or nay
I think the house is the womans responsibility. Taking care of the husband and Cooking n laundry n cleaning etc but sometimes its nice to have a hand. Especially if theres a day ur not feeling well or your super tired. There's nothing wrong with helping the person you love or doing it together sometimes. Overall tho its the womans responsibility.
Afokesco: why is it that when men cheat they are happy with it..but if they are cheated on..they will be extremely furious??
someone just caught his wife in the act. na the matter we set settle since.
I think sex is more enjoyable with the person you truly love. Therefore its easy for me to stay faithful. I think faithfulness depends on how much n in what way you love a person as well as the kind of person you are. Also wat kind of relationship you n ur partner have and the kinda person they are too. So if u find the perfect fit for you why would u need to cheat. I cheated on my long time bf wen i was 19. He cheated too. We loved each other. But it was a different kind of love to what i have for my husband now. So i think age is a part of it aswell. Cheating is just hurtful, dishonest, betrayal and unnecessary drama and pain.
Jazmine007: After a long break, due to what my ex did to me,I finally falling in love. Please house, how do i keep my relationship afloat? I am deeply in love with him. I don't want him to cheat on me as i won't do same to him.
I am a graphic designer, let put your thought into graphic.
You need communicate often and just be open n honest. Its not hard if you love the person. However if a person isnt the faithful type theres absolutley nothing you can do. Just hope n pray that he is. And maybe he is cos those kind are rare but they do exist. I was in a long distance relationship for 4yrs n i didnt cheat once. It all depends on wat kind of person you are. What kind of morals you have and how much you love the person.
orohbiro: There is a guy I met last week at a keke who paid my tfair and beg me to have my number he send me money to subscribe that same day at night when he called, he has barbing saloon for males and females, he took me out for shopping 3days ago which cost him almost 50k, bug I don't like him I have a fiancée already and I pity him cause he us just a saloon owner I want to get rid cause is dressing sense is poor moreover is not good looking . I don't think he can cope with me cause I will wreck him. pls advise me on how do dump this guy is ugliness is out of this world.
Whats the harm in being nice to the guy. Just tell him your happily engaged and not intetested n dont accept anything from him. Maybe u could nicely give him some tips on how to dress nicer n stuff? You really should be nicer cos beauty doesnt last forever and its not what will keep a man
orohbiro: There is a guy I met last week at a keke who paid my tfair and beg me to have my number he send me money to subscribe that same day at night when he called, he has barbing saloon for males and females, he took me out for shopping 3days ago which cost him almost 50k, bug I don't like him I have a fiancée already and I pity him cause he us just a saloon owner I want to get rid cause is dressing sense is poor moreover is not good looking . I don't think he can cope with me cause I will wreck him. pls advise me on how do dump this guy is ugliness is out of this world.
Your ugliness is out of this world. Weather your face is pretty or not the way you talking about another person who was nice to you shows your ugliness. U dont like him so y did u let him spend on you? Why not just be nice bout it n tell him youre not interested instead of encouraging him letting him think he has a chance by letting him take u shopping then come online and talk trash about him to others? I hope u understand just cos a man may think your pretty that wont keep a man once he sees this kind of ugliness inside of you.
Vyzz: When she said that she isn't sure a woman should have a hole that will accommodate a penis...
That is when I knew it.
She doesn't have a hole....
I know a lady,
A very young lady, who doesn't have a hole.
She has breast and everything but no hole.
When she was put to birth, the doctor asked her mom to pay a certain amount for a surgery so the can put a hole there, but unfortunately the family isn't that rich.
This young lady is still without a vagina and I have been wondering how she pees....
Now I know.
She also probably has a small tiny hole for peeing.
Op, don't try breaking anything if u don't want problem.
Better still, pay and give her a hole, then try it first
Lol really? Pee doesnt come from the hole. It's only for sex and birth. Pee comes from a much tinier hole just before that hole lol. Google it youll see.
2buffagain: Fellas, never fall for it. If she is in a lower economic class than yourself, she has to sign something. Ofcourse she is going to turn on the taps. If she does, F*ck her, and do it like this guy.
Its just excuses shes feeling this n that. If shes in the relationship for love then shed sign it to make him happy. All those tears n contract talk is bs. Ofcourse the mans gotta be realistic. Marraige isnt all about fairytales n dreams. Reality is in it too n he has assets to protect cos anyone should be able to understand wen a relationship isnt that old then u marry then u gptta protect ur assets in that situation cos for all he knows she could b just after his money or the relationship might not work out and then she might get nasty or greedy against him. Its not a gemale thing only men do it too.
2buffagain: Fellas, never fall for it. If she is in a lower economic class than yourself, she has to sign something. Ofcourse she is going to turn on the taps. If she does, F*ck her, and do it like this guy.
Rozcol: Even with a good character you will still experience cruel reactions from people,even fellow women would sometimes take the lead to maltreat you. I was defending a project recently and the only woman in the midst of the supervisors(judges) was hell bent on disorganizing me,she went as far as saying this isnt a beauty peagant to have warranted me to put on such expensive cloth, I wasn't even on makeup, she was just unnecessarily dragging me and I didn't know when I started crying, the men understood what was happening and they became furious at her,I couldn't continue and had to go hide in a corner to cry,she later looked for me to apologize and said she's sorry for having a misconstrued perception of me,took me to her office to make me feel good and rescheduled another day for my project defense, I've been a victim of so many of these things which has really affected my self esteem,I'm only bold online but introverted offline
Oh yes ur right bout that ppl will assume that pretty ppl are all the same. Vain. Dumb. Etc. But smart ppl know better. Best thing to do is not worry bout wat other ppl think of you. Especially those who dont know u. Ppl need to learn to appreciate beauty n mobe straight past that n not make assumptions based on looks. Those whom do that are the ones with a problem. I think ppl think that way because alot of ppl who are attractive are very prideful/vain and use their looks to get what they want. Ive met plenty like it. But like i said smart ppl know better. They know not to judge a person on looks alone. There are millions of attractive ppl ofcourse theyre not all the same. Ive met some who have the prettiest face but the ugliest character n ive met some who are the prettiest face with matching heart n personality. There are always gonna be ppl who are jelous of other ppl or have misconceptions of others for all kindsa reasons.
Rozcol: These are some of the challenges extremely beautiful women face: It can be hard to develop a personality when others are permanently keen to project a ready-made one onto one's features.
The beautiful are fated to be told who they are far more than they are encouraged to unearth interesting identities for themselves. The beautiful are seldom single for longer than a few months;its just too difficult to keep turning people down.
In bed the beautiful wonder 'is it me or is it my body they want? They want of course to be loved for the whole of who they are but their exterior is so affecting it. The very beautiful stand to discover that very interesting people who don't look so nice are terrified of approaching them,it can be puzzling to find that one has this effect.
The very beautiful are presumed to be stupid (Nigerian standard),people don't wait to find out,they like the idea of the beautiful being resolutely dim. People feel fortune has smiled on these beauties enough already,they surely don't need anything further,like kindness or understanding that's why the beautiful may be on the receiving end of some remarkable cruelty,their pains and sorrows are of no interest,their so-called insecurities attracts scorns,certain people may even feel they need actively to show these beauties that they are nothing special though they never claimed to be.
The beautiful face difficulties in making female friends just by being beautiful. People will assume things about you just because you are beautiful,you will be called promiscuous,stuck-up,arrogant,dumb and everything in between.
Anything you do will have to be thought through a million times because it will be misconstrued as sexual interest by males and antagonistic behavior by fellow women. No matter how accomplished you are,you will always be judged on the basis of your appearance which is probably the worst part of being beautiful.
Life is indeed difficult for extremely beautiful women and more difficult if you are academically sound(she use wetin she get collect wetin she no get).
These are some of the things extremely beautiful women face.
It doesnt matter how attractive a female or male is. Once ppl get to know ur character and what kind of person you are and the kind of company your best or worst qualities show face and thats wat attracts ppl to u or drives ppl away. I dated this really attractive guy once n he didn't have much personality. No intelligence. No humour. No romance. He was quite dull. He thought his gud looks would do it all for him but once ppl are mature enough to understand beauty isnt everything they wont stick around if theres nothing more than looks to a person. U get all kindsa pretty ppl. Is just if ur attractive n u know it then u gotta not let it affect who u are as a person. No get too much vanity/pride. If youre attractive and intelligent n have a kind heart and your loyal. Faithful. Considerate. Funny and passionate then youll be a perfect package. I find that no matter a person's looks its their personality and humour that makes me wanna spend time with them. (Not just meaning romantically but as friends) i like people who make me laugh and ppl who are intelligent that u can have discussions about all kindsa things with. So i dont judge anyone on their looks. Ppl come in all kindsa packages. I knew this really fat guy once and he was really funny n i liked spending time with him. Nothing romantic but he was great company. Another guy my bestie he is the clumbsiest man u ever meet but intelligent asf. I think attractiveness being the centre of ur attention is a phase for high schoolers. U grow out of it. Although we all look at a potential partners looks it just isnt the thing that matters.
People who talk bput their own attractiveness i dislike ppl like that. Its an annoying habit.
Kayberg: So bro, who are you intending to hand your leftover to? Let me help you with a Bible portion that slams your selfish church beliefs on this case:
Deuteronomy 22 (KJV) ¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯¯ ²⁸ If a man find a damsel that is a virgin, which is not betrothed, and lay hold on her, and lie with her, and they be found; ²⁹ Then the man that lay with her shall give unto the damsel's father fifty shekels of silver, and she shall be his wife; because he hath humbled her, he may not put her away all his days.
So Mr OP, go and marry that girl. You have humbled her.
Isnt that old testament? After the flood god gave new commandments. I think the old testament was written for ppl from back in those times. The new testament is more for this age
Ladumaa: I love her so much and I wanna marry her.. But my only offence right now is that i went against the rules of my Church and slept with her.. According to them,( my church people) if you sleep with someone before marrying the person its an unforgivable offence by God and the marriage will not last.. They say I should find someone else I haven't slept with to marry
Pls i want to know Gods stand on this, and i sincerely wanna do the right thing. is this true?.no insults pls
Just pray for forgivness. God will forgive you. If he didnt forgive such sins i think 99% of ppl woukd go to hell. I believe that as long as u believe in him have faith in him n pray often/talk to him and live your life being the best person you can be then i think god would be happy with that.
Escabado: If you say s. ex : currently s.ex is the cheapest commodity you can buy now as low as N500 to N1000
If you say a child : how can a woman have sex with a man give birth , and she seats back waiting for the man to bring money for feeding, clothing , house bills . Which is called financial slavery
If you say been responsible : how can only a man be responsible for the children, and a woman who is a grown up adult . We're as both of them are supposed to be responsible for there family expenses.
Have u noticed when a man takes up all the financial responsibility of his home till the kids grow they only buy gift and cars for there mom.
Have you also noticed when a woman bear financial cost for raising her child , she will spoil there minds towards there father and make them see him as evil .have u ever seen a single mother that speaks good of his baby dady ? We need to use our head here .think very well men
So tell me exactly what a man stand to gain in marriage .
It all depends on the woman you marry. Choose wisely.
philanthropic: You just met this awesome partner that fits all your desires, thar tolerates you, that loves you to a fault, that helps you, that gives you money, that can sacrifice for you, that can cover your shame, that can love you when you don't worth it. You started dating and feeling the most beautiful relationship ever, then one day, a friend of yours that doesn't know you are in a relationship with your partner, identified to know your partner, and says to have really sexed your partner so hard in the past. What will you do?
Lol awkward. Everyone has a past tho. Its the future u should worry bout.
soul247: Babe, told me if I were to walk away from the relationship, the least amount she can take as compensation is 50 milion. How can she just wake up and want to end the relationship, after we both introduce ourselves to our families. I am confused.
Lol greedy girl. Compensation for what exactly? Sounds like a business relationship
Pernotti: Its cringeworthy the way they come full body armour and do this all the time... I appreciate that they look out for a bro, but If only they could be more civil about it though.
Dat2jo: No I won't. Thing is we once had it with a random girl when we went on vacation so it's not as if my wife is averse to something like that. Just that it's now her sister we're talking about
Yeah some couples like having a little extra excitement bringing in a third person to join them in sex. But the sister in law? Even if your wife agreed u must consider any possible problems that could come from this. What if the sister wants more? Like wen the wife isnt around? What if she catches feelings for you? What if it stirs up competition between the sisters or jelousy? U should consider all these possiblities. Sometimes a fantasy is best left being just a fantasy. I knew a married couple once and they had a 3some with another girl n afterwards the wife became obsessed with the idea her husband was sleeping with this girl behind her back and seeing as the wife was attractive but not as attractive as the other girl the wife got really jelous n self conscious n paranoid n started distrusting her husband n everytime he left the house shed think he was with the girl so she even went as far as going to the girls parents house n making a scene n almost exposed wat happened to the girls parents. She made a scene in the streets wen she seen the girl a few times. N all along the husband n girl were innocent. Bringing in a stranger is one thing but someone whos in your close circle/family...thats risky So just consider all possible outcomes of such a thing.
mmadu4: why are you digging up thread from 2007 are you that jobless?
Hahaha i read old threads too sometimes wen i have day to myself if ive nothing else needs doing n ill browse NL and sometimes old threads will pop up that seem interesting Isnt a bad thing
We all should be aware that it’s always games with them. Woe betide thee that do not put their game face on when dealing with them.
Game comes to women naturally while men have to learn after being played. Blessed is the one who learns game before being played.
When you become aware of the subtle games going on behind all the dates, the romance, the lovey dovey messages, you will still loose because of the blinding effect of libido but the losses will be minimal.
Here’s a short list of the things she will take from you and in some cases, even more;
1. Your time 2. Your money 3. Your emotional stability 4. Your focus 5. Your sperm ( causing you to age quickly and loose spiritual rewards) 6. In some cases, your sanity 7. In many cases, your friends 8. In some cases, your family 9. Your space
Etc etc
The best of relationships is always a bad deal for men not to mention the effects of a dysfunctional one.
Sad news is the society has been soo brainwashed by the handlers to the point where the few who dare to go against the grain and live free are made outcasts
If you force me to give advise, my first choice would be to not deal with women atall. ( if you’re Christian you would notice the apostles highly recommend this)
Second choice would be to only deal with females on a temporary basis only and avoid anything long term
Delete the word loneliness from your dictionary, master the art of rebuking the need for female validation or human validation atall as only God who made you can validate you, embrace the pain/gift of being hornyy and not doing anything about it ( the rewards are limitless and far surpasses any momentary endeavor of pleasure which is fleeting anyway)
Pernotti: You know what? In retrospect, maybe I overreacted in the OP. Its a committed relationship, not like she's one runs girl from out of the blue.
I and my close guys share stuff.. So letting her use my stuff when I know very well she doesn't hide her's from me has not violated any of my principles, but some frustrated fellows here have blown it out of proportion.
Lol its nairaland. Its the norm here I get wat ur saying n yeah i do agree wen ur close to someone u can use each others stuff. Even so its still to a certain point wen u take all of ur stuff.
You for buy her Chicken na since chicken is her problem or you don't have the money because inside that chicken you will eat from it na
Buy her chicken after they finish cooking it, she will dish yours and bring for you, some guys no dey use their brain, but you,very being f*cking her nonstop Na she requested Chicken you dey run
Na you don drove her because you are member of Stinging man association
Romance › Re: Why Is It That When Men Cheat, They Are Happy With It by Mrscarter(f): 11:43am On Apr 17, 2021
