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That is the thing with social media. Anything you put on it just be ready to take the shots/misinterpretation that might come with it...

Davash222:
Okay.. We've seen the phone and the breasst.
Can we rest now

I taya ooh....that is all she wanted to Show

phenzy:
We will never know of true love- if things always work out and nothing tests our resolve.

Love is an action word.
Love is not just roses and vacations.
Love is basically giving up yourself and your life, if need be, for someone else.

That woman is a gem �
And will always be.

Source: https://twitter.com/DrOlufunmilayo/status/1178237251337236480?s=19

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Jean-Pierre_Adams

Word...

EternalBeing:
For carnally minded people, the major aim of getting wealth is to show off and kill other people with envy. The subconscious reason why most people desire wealth is to prove that they've arrived and directly or indirectly oppress others by rubbing it into their faces that they are "hot and you are not" Events overtime have so much prove this to be very true. That's why you see people that couldn't afford to wait any further to "make it in life" flaunt what is not theirs on Facebook and other social media. They have a name for that: "Borrow pose" Not long ago, the Internet was awash with the story of a lady that went to snap some pictures with another person's Mansion and G-wagon, claiming to be her new achievements. Take due time to examine your heart very well. If this afore-stated statement is true of the condition of your heart, you need to genuinely submit your heart to Jesus Christ and ceaselessly pray for the salvation of your Soul. A true Heaven-bound Christian only wants wealth, prosperity and greatness for one reason: to use it to win Souls into the Kingdom of God. He or she has seen and become sleeplessly troubled about some of the World's problems through which Satan has been capturing Souls to Hellfire. So, he/she wants that Wealth so that he can use it to stop, reverse and permanently prevent the evil. It may be in form of starting Orphanages to save children been recruited into armed robbery and prostitution, to start major Christian Cartoon TV and Christian Video Games instead of wasting life complaining about Disney, to sponsor Christian Politicians, to empower Christian youths with business skills and start ups, etc.
The 7 Keys are discussed below and non of them could be taken to be inconsequential, but number one is the most important.

(7.) Purpose Discovery and Fulfillment
Wealth is guaranteed to follow the discovery and fulfillment of your Destiny. A particular Day, if and when it finally comes, always mark a great new beginning in everyone's life. The very Day you ask yourself "Why am I here on Earth? What am I here for? Is it really true that I didn't create myself? What is the Purpose for which God created me? What is my Destiny?", that very Day, an unprecedented transformation starts in you life. From that day you need to seriously pray to God to reveal what HE want you to specifically do for humanity with your current temporary life. You shall know you've discover the Purpose when you are not just only excessively concerned/disturbed about problem in the World but ready to find solutions to them. You may plan to solve many, but God would direct you to the One(s) HE wants to use you to solve. “Many are the plans in a person’s heart, but it is the Lord’s purpose that prevails” (Proverbs 19:21).
“Engage in business until I come.” –Luke 19:13 Your Purpose is to win Souls into the Kingdom of GOD ALMIGHTY by solving that particular problem. Satan and his agents planted the problems to force people to worship him so that he would harvest their souls into hell, but God is using HIS children to give Souls life.
John 10:10 “The thief’s purpose is to steal and kill and destroy. My purpose is to give them a rich and satisfying Life.”

(6.) Start Living for Eternity
You will make more wealth and become exceedingly greater if you begin to see your current life as a preparation ground for your eternity. Abraham was wealthy in this World and he's still wealthy and great in the kingdom of God. The World of God say Lazarus is in the bosom of Abraham, which means Abraham accommodates Lazarus in Heaven. It should be noted that Abraham did not greedily run after acquiring material wealth but focused on doing all it takes to please his CREATOR. He paid the price by believing in his Maker like no other has ever done in Human History. It is even very possible that God had called someone that was too clingy to the current life to obey. Do you know what it means for you to be told to leave you very family, tribe comfort and all you've worked for in life and head to a seeming vacant Journey with instruction never to return?! On top that, he waited for over 90 years for a son from God instead of consulting some demonic deities that would have giving him child sharply and quickly. Abraham paid the price by choosing to serve God even if it means him dying childless and penniless, are you paying your own price of irreversible faith your CREATOR?
John 10:28-30 "I give them eternal life, and they shall never perish; no one will snatch them out of my hand. My Father, who has given them to me, is greater than all; no one can snatch them out of my Father’s hand. I and the Father are one."
1 John 2:17 "The world and its desires pass away, but whoever does the will of God lives forever."
Ephesians 2:10 “For we are God’s masterpiece. He has created us anew in Christ Jesus, so we can do the good things he planned for us long ago.” Romans 6:23 "For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord."
Rely on God alone, trust him as your sole Source of profit and progress as you work and put effort to achieve greatness.
“And my God shall supply all your needs according to His riches in glory by Christ Jesus.” –Philippians 4:19
“I know that you can do all things; no purpose of yours can be thwarted” (Job 42:2)


(5.) Be Ever Battle Ready
Your wealth and eternal greatness is guaranteed when you win the ultimate war that every human must fight. The battle against your faith in your CREATOR. Satan would use what is known on the peripheral as the trials of life to fight your faith in your CREATOR tooth an nail. To determine whether you deserve the Gift of eternal Life that awaits you or not, your faith shall be duly tested. Satan has fought some humans into submission to him already, we now know them as witches, wizards, sorcerers, marine agents, etc. and he is using such humans as his tool to inflict and force other humans to worship him by coming to him for solutions. Only by being holy and being filled with the Holy Spirit can we triumph over there demonic attacks.
2 Corinthians 10:4 "For the weapons of our warfare are not carnal, but mighty through God to the pulling down of strong holds"
Matthew 7:13-14 "Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it."
Romans 8:28 “We know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.”
2 Corinthians 4:17 "For our light and momentary troubles are achieving for us an eternal glory that far outweighs them all."
John 3:36 "Whoever believes in the Son has eternal life, but whoever rejects the Son will not see life, for God’s wrath remains on them."
1 Timothy 6:12 "Fight the good fight of the faith. Take hold of the eternal life to which you were called when you made your good confession in the presence of many witnesses."
Romans 8:18 "I consider that our present sufferings are not worth comparing with the glory that will be revealed in us."


(4.) Diligence
Without diligence, it is impossible to have an enduring wealth or greatness.
“All hard work brings a profit.” –Proverbs 14:23
proverbs 22:29 "Hast thou seen a man diligent in his work? He shall stand before kings; he shall not stand before the mere men."
Philippians 2:13 “For God is working in you, giving you the desire and the power to do what pleases him.”
Deuteronomy 28:13 “The Lord will make you the head and not the tail.” This promise comes true only when you do your own part of being diligent. Possession of land, properties, and companies is not against the Will of God. JESUS said HE has not come to destroy the Law and Command which His Father gave us before HE came. “Fill the Earth and subdue it; have dominion….” –Genesis 1:28 (NKJV)
This is the first command in the Bible. Take dominion. Possession of the land is not optional, it is not selfish, and it is not a luxury—it’s a command. It’s time that we, as Christians, take our job assignment seriously and become a positive influence on the world, rather than being under the control of those who seek to do evil.

Thank you for this message...

alBHAGDADI:
Mathew 23:26
Thou blind Pharisee, cleanse first that which is within the cup and platter, that the outside of them may be clean also.

Don't you know that the reason why the outward look is corrupt is because the inward is corrupt? Someone who dresses immorally simply has an immoral heart. If the person should clean the immoral heart, the outward appearance won't look immoral.

God cares more about the content of the heart, but this doesn't mean he doesn't give a damn about the outward appearance. What you have inside your heart is expressed outwardly in your looks. That's why Jesus said in the verse above that we should clean the inside of the cup so that the outside will be clean as well. If the outside looks dirty, there's no way the inside will look clean.

Try to think about the reason why a lady would dress in skimpy or tight clothes that reveal delicate parts of her body. It's not because she just wants to wear clothes. It's because she wants to seduce me and draw immoral attention to herself. The idea to wear such clothes first came from her heart. This shows that the heart is corrupt. The corrupt heart leads her mouth to request for immoral clothes

Luke 6:45
A good man out of the good treasure of his heart brings forth good; and an evil man out of the evil treasure of his heart brings forth evil. For out of the abundance of the heart his mouth speaks.

The sad part is that such immoral dressing is seen among people who call themselves Christians. Go to church and see ladies dressed like divas from music videos. The guys are seen with sagged trousers and dog chains.

The reason why such exists in Churches today is because of the Pharisees in charge. The Pharisees are seen looking decently dressed in some cases, but their hear is dirty. That is why they allow dirty and immoral people to feel at home in the Church.

Mathew 23:25
“Woe to you, scribes and Pharisees, hypocrites! For you cleanse the outside of the cup and dish, but inside they are full of extortion and self-indulgence.

Kindly change your heart and your immoral dressing will change. If your dressing is immoral, it simply means your heart is immoral and not right with God.

Good post

Osobi32:
I don't understand why this lady love attention so much.... If social media should withdraw attention from her she's likely to fall into depression within 72hrs

A lot of them will be depressed without cyber space validation...

IamBenita:
Marriage is not an easy job, It’s just not easy to manage a home. There are always thorns that comes with marriage but the ability to overcome it, makes your marrital union a blisful one. You lie in your beds and roses will fall on you.

If you want to be a better husband to your wife, make sure you apply this attributes to your daily life

1. Absence of Pride
Don’t be too proud or afraid to share your feelings with your wife. Tell her how you feel about her.
Women crave to hear the 3 letter Word “I Love You” from their husband. Verbally tell her you love her everyday, don’t assume she already knows.

2. Be Patient With Her -
When you see she ain’t doing things right, be patient with her and kindly direct her on how to do stuffs.
She has a lot on her mind and bound to make mistakes, Don’t make her have a hard time trying to impress you.

3. Appreciate Her -
Buy her gifts and tell her you appreciate her efforts. Don’t wait for her special days like her birthdays to do that.

4. Consider Her Feelings -
Don’t be self centered. Your wife’s feelings and needs should also be considered.

5. Assist Her -
Help her do some household chores. Some men actually think that helping their wives with chores makes them lesser men. No, it doesn’t, rather it makes you a real man and also prevents marriage conflicts. It gives room for emotional bonding between couples. Women also feel sexually attracted to men who assist them to do things. Don’t wait until you are asked to help out.
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Good points...

TheLegalEagle:
She is fierce and bold
Beautiful and smart
‬Honest and upright
Intelligent and humble ‬ ‪
She is an embodiment of virtue and honor.‬
‪She is Nigeria’s Minister of State for Transportation, Distinguished Sen. Gbemi Saraki.

Oh she a beauty for real...

BrainnewsNg:
See His Tweet Below;

Read More At; https://www.brainnewsradio.com/resign-clear-your-name-and-make-history-ex-minister-tells-vp-osinbajo/

As if they (politicians) ever resign in Nigeria. If Chidoka himself was there he would not resign..

Animalistic evil human being..

OakConsultNG:
Hilarious... Politics in Nigeria has gradually shifted from extreme bitterness to simple comic reliefs and jibes at each other.

I tell you....

Emery's loyalty to Xhaka sha....very clumsy player. I hope he proves us wrong but won't hold my breath..

OSITA2love:

I am about to go and do the introduction into my fiancé's family but just find out that she has been chatting with her ex( who is already married for long) they have been calling each other for some time now and she have exposed our relationship to him.
They started reminding each other those good times they spend together and the guy keep on calling her love baby sweetheart and the guy told her that she would like to be served his favorite food that she is given me

Worse she told him that I'm not good at all when it comes to eat the apple.
Can a wife to be can act in such way?
But in spite of all this, she has not rebuked him but enjoying it and never been straight to him to stop him
I have catched her many times from one guy to another( all are her ex) never rebuke them but just keeping quiet. but I keep on forgiven; hoping that she will change . But this time, my cups is full.
Should I continue with this? My fellow brother

Anything to do with an ex is a no-no!

J111333:
Believe me, customer related sexual advance(I don't wanna use abuse) only affect weak ladies. If your friend is a no nonsense lady, no man will dare make sure silly pass on her except a situation where her job is on the line like bankers and their high profile deposit customers.

Tell your friend to be decisive and professional in her job.

You are spot on.....knew a lady some years back that was in a situation like this, I advised her not to be overly friendly and kind to all those people. Be professional and put that uninterested approach when dealing...it worked. Women who are beautiful and well endowed should know that some men will always try their luck with them but your carriage should send a "No nonsense" aura...

Agneseze:
But I am worried , because my husband is respectable man and is well known. I don’t know what to believe. What should I do please

No he is not. Respectable don't do irresponsibility no matter what..

Ok now we know u bought an Iphone 11.....next!

She has always been a hottie!

ORIJIN201:
I'm not a fan of this govt, but I agree with this move 100%.
Nigerians and their love for foreign products is on another level. Even when the alternative is available, we go for the foreign product believing they are better. I have a friend with that shallow mentality, and many Nigerians are like that.
On the side of security, this is also a 'spot-on' move.

Well said. We need to endure somethings to get better as a nation. Even if we don't all agree or like the government of the day...

thewatcher2020:
Anyone can be a Dangote ... just get the government to stop others or frustrate them from doing the same business as you.

If you’re still not wealthy enough or other billionaires are closing the wealth gap on you, run to the government to block the borders. Simple.

American billionaires, I respect.
Nigerian billionaires, I don’t. Not even 1 billionaire is out to “create” solutions for problems. What we’ve got in Nigeria are merchants, not businessmen.

Well said. We need to endure somethings to get better as a nation. Even if we don't all agree or like the government of the day...

Oh my heart....this are kids for God sake. Only God knows what they have been going thru

If it gets out of hand (which I believe it has) report to your boss. Even though as you said, he is a womanizer, he would still do the right thing and try to be on your good books. What your colleague is doing is wrong and your boss would not allow it...

Mordecai:
As emotions are to women, what territorial behavior is to wolves, what protective behavior is to a German Shepherd dog, as herding behavior is to a border collie, such is ego to a man.

It can be used for good, or for evil. It can drive achievement, it can also drive envy and wickedness.

It can inspire commitment and responsibility, it can also inspire controlling behavior and abuse.

Makes sense, your view.

If the guys you meet online are serious people they will visit you first....nothing is wrong with you woman...

simplelex:
There is more to being a man than just having a penis.

She/He doesn't know..

Brightgem:
The home is a foundation on which a lot of things about an individual’s life stands. Often times an ill-mannered person is asked the question “who raised you?”

By observation, one can say that kids who did not have present and active parents in their lives often times than not have a twisted kind of life.

Parenting is guidance, parenting is support, parenting is devotion, it’s a whole lot of things. With the kind of adults we see these days I believe there is such a thing as dangerous parenting.

So what are some tips parents can employ to avoid raising morally bankrupt kids?

THE CONTENT IN OUR HOMES

In this digital age, what content are kids being exposed to right in the homes? I recall a friend’s annoyance at seeing his nieces and nephews watching the famous Big Brother Naija with their mum. This is a show that many adults don’t even see the need to watch as it barely has anything of value to offer and showcases ill-behaved persons and immoral acts, yet a mother didn’t deem it wrong to watch this along with her kids.

Some leave adult movies lying around carelessly, some do not check what content their kids are watching. A conscious and responsible parent should see and screen the content in form of movies, cartoons and the likes they intend for viewing by their kids to avoid exposure to the wrong content their little minds cannot understand.

TEACHING THEM RED FLAGS TO LOOK OUT FOR IN PEOPLE

It’s not okay for a parent to feel uncomfortable discussing what they think are intimate issues with their kids. In this increasingly perverted world, kids need to be taught what “private parts” mean. It is for you as an individual to protect so that no one violates your body, kids should be made to understand this fact. There are too many damaged adults who were not protected from sexual harassment as children, because these kids didn’t even know what harassment or abuse was.

Kids should be taught to stop adults from calling them things like “my wife” or “my husband” by making it clear to persons who refer to them as such that their parents have said it’s inappropriate. Kids should be taught to clean and bathe themselves early enough to reduce the chances or need to have others do this for them, as this is often the periods where sexual abuse spring from. Kids should be taught when a seeming play from an adult or fellow child is crossing the line, either crossing the line verbally or physically.

BASIC COURTESY AND MANNERS

A child taught properly and given guidance shows good manners. Kids should be taught to greet their peers and adults alike. They should be taught to clean after themselves as it makes them more responsible at an early age. They should be taught table manners, taught to thank their parents or providers after a meal, after a gift or after a service rendered them. This teaches them gratefulness rather than entitlement, which is a problem with many adults in today’s world.

REWARD FOR GOOD DEEDS & PUNISHMENT FOR BAD ACTIONS

Some parents accept and condone all behaviors their kids’ exhibit. So much that onlookers or strangers get irritated and annoyed when a kid is not disciplined. Good deeds should be acknowledged and rewarded by parents, if not rewarded all the time to avoid a kid thinking they must always get rewarded, then a good deed must always be acknowledged as good, this spurs a child to aspire for even more good.

Same goes for wrong doing, a child that gets away with wrong doing all the time is going to be a very irresponsible adult that never sees the wrong in their actions, no matter how much you try to make them see it.

RULES AND HOME TRAINING ARE NOT FOR GIRLS ALONE

This picture below is self-explanatory on this point, too many parents focus more or solely on their female children. Wrong!

MORE KIDS NEED TO LEARN SELF DEFENSE

Since the dangers around us in society is increasing, it’s a good idea to teach kids self-defense at an early age. They can attend karate or taekwondo classes. This they can keep learning into teenage hood. There would be lesser female victims of rape if self-defense is learned by the majority especially at an early age.

UNDERSTAND THE DEITY CALLED GOD

The homes scream religion but lack God Consciousness. A child that understands obedience to God will respect and obey their parents either in their presence or in their absence.

Too many homes now also pay attention to materialism rather than values. Good values are being lost every day. Teach children early in life the cost of good and evil, the reward with God for good and the punishment with God for evil and prohibited acts. Kids who understand that beyond this life is another life and we will give account to God.


Parenting is tough, and in the end individuals have the responsibility of deciding what they make of their lives as adults. However it is very important to have this solid foundation. Just as life is unpredictable, anything could happen and parents sometimes die and leave their kids behind, the lessons taught these kids. The voices of their parents is what remains with them for a long time to come.

Visit www.themoralcodeng.com to see more posts on basic morals, values, ethics and more.

Well written article and great advice. Thanks

babamadiba:
Now thats what I call a gangster pipe. Kalashnikov. The last Don.

Good decision boy....now come fly the super eagle you are!

orunmila144:
not in england. in england they recognize and appreciate talent. london is a city that is full of people from all over the world. having a policeman who can speak 9 major languages is a huge asset. just by herself she has covered all the languages of 99 percent of people who live in london. they see her as a huge asset because if you look at her pictures as a met she is posing with top politicians. someone like her can easily be the chief of police. all the criminals who are yoruba or french or portuguese or arabic etc she can communicate with and she can communicate with various communities in london. the white man recognises these talents. she is a huge asset. they WILL NEVER let her go. and she is a minority ? thats HUGE. all minority communities are more comfortable with minority officers
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A lot of people just wish she will be sacked so they could gloat and mock her for participating in BBN. Shame! I'm not even a fan of the show but I wish her well...

TonyeBarcanista:
By TonyeBarcanista

1. CRITICS said Messi was nothing without Ronaldinho, Deco and Etoo.

FACT: All three players left and Messi peaked even at their absence winning uncountable team and individual honors

2. CRITICS changed narrative to say Messi is benefitting from the geniuses of Xavi and Iniesta at Barca..

FACT: Xavi left Barca, Iniesta also left yet Messi keep blazing, winning trophies awards.

3. They said Messi is a one club hero, asking him to emulate Ronaldo by changing clubs to prove that he is indeed a great player...

FACT: Ronaldo left Manchester United(Man U) to join Real Madrid(RM) because RM is a far bigger club to Man U. Ronaldo left RM to Juventus because he was unhappy with RM hierarchy and the way he was treated in 2018 by the club's President.

On the other hand Messi is a Barcelona product and Barcelona is a far greater club to any other team in the world (argue with Barcanista). In addition, Messi is in great shape at Barca and Barca love him.

Beside, Nikolas Anelka is one of the most "travelled" player in Europe but no one is calling him G.O.A.T for his football tourism.

4: CRITICS said Messi should go to another league to win trophy to prove his status

FACT: Messi doesn't need to go to any league to prove himself, he has played all top teams from each top leagues in Europe and demolished them... Neymar has won league trophies with Barcelona (Spain), PSG (France) and Santos (Brazil - where he also won South America champions league), yet no one is saying he is GOAT.

5. CRITICS said Messi should win trophy for his country to be considered G.O.A.T

FACT: Messi led his country to youth world cup triumph, he led his country's men team to Olympic Gold in 2008. He further led his country to Copa America final twice in 2015 and 2016 where they lost via penalty shootout (game of luck). The biggest of all, he led his country to World Cup final in 2014 (where they narrowly lost at extra time) and was crowned MVP for all the aforementioned tournaments.

MORE FACTS:
1. Messi has more goals than all his teammates and former teammates in Barcelona and Argentina

2. Messi has more assist than all his teammates and former teammates in Barcelona and Argentina

3. Argentina is a semi average team without Messi but a team "to beat" with Messi in it.

4. Take Messi out of Barcelona and Barcelona will struggle to win games.

AS FOR FIFA AWARD 2019
Critics claim Messi is undeserving of FIFA Award 2019 but who deserves it more than the man that achieved the following in 2019...

1. Top Scorer in Europe 2018/19 (European Golden Boot)

2. Top scorer in UEFA Champions League 2018/2019

3. Joint Most Goal Assist in Europe 2018/2019

4. Most Man of the Match won in 2018/2019 UEFA Champions league

5. Most player of the Week won in 2018/2019 UEFA Champions league

6. Best Forward in Europe 2018/19

I don't even want to mention domestic individual honors he got but critics can't give us any individual player with a stat to match Messi in 2018/19.

The summary of this epistle is that Lionel Messi is the GREATEST SPORTSMAN OF ALL TIME... This is a fact that even his critics know but ashamed to publicly admit.

Even as a non Messi fan, I understand and appreciate your post. Respect to the great man!

strangest:
Nairaland looks wierd this evening... My eyes OOO

I refreshed and refreshed thinking it was my phone oohh

cooooooks:
What does pursuing mean? I don't consider the word "pursuing" and the phrase "showing interest" to be the same thing.

If you show interest but she's clear that she's not interested, why continue to disturb her.

If she eventually 'settles' for you, small thing and she might say "na you beg me to marry you".

I think you should marry/date people who have a genuine interest in marrying/dating you too.

I agree with you.....maybe I didn't put it well, but the "pursuing" I'm referring to is the basic wooing a man does when you meet a woman and you are interested in her. It is not all women that will agree to date after a first or second "toasting" abi?

everyone's journey is different!