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It is never late to learn new things. I am 30+ and still learning new programming languages and I know I would still need to learn newer ones. |
Beaf:Wanna add that the police can have access without subpeonas when it is related to a crime. It can be given to federal officials who are conducting national security and intelligence activities or providing protective services to the President or other important officials. This is the case of Yaradua. There is the case of a crime- the signing of the budget and also the case of national security- the president is missing or whereabout unknown. Dont know if Hippa laws operate anywhere else though |
d bigrod:lol. My tots exactly. Seems to me that the guy is the desperate one to get married and not the girl. Thinks he needs to work on himself b4 dating again not to talk of getting married. He is being played and he feels it is OK. And to think he is not a woman not to talk of a woman in her 40s. |
johnkent:They mentioned he was out of the hospital, resting and talking on the phone with his aides. Note, it is the govt that is hiding him and not the hospital. If he is still in the hospital, why the lies? Do you blame Nigerians for wanting to know more? There is something cynical about all these. Here, we have seen appointed hospital reps, the patient or family give news conference about the health of a public figure. We have not seen that from the hospital, or from his wife or from him. He is a public figure and needs to be seen. Tell me if America would accept confidentiality bull if Obama turns sick today. |
@Aaoe, would love to know please. Her weight looks just right |
johnkent:I thought they said he was out of the hospital. |
atilla:Are you kidding me? the same guy? After seeing this, my comment would be the guy has been played and is so stupid to think that she didnt see it coming. People cheat and they tell their partner. That doesnt mean they repented. If this is the same guy and the same girl, then, I can mos def wait to see another post about how the girl cheated on him on his wedding night. His response to her crying is pscheww |
All the things happening to the so-called |
I can be regarded as the adventurous kind of a person. I loved the experience especially the view I got looking out of the window. |
So what is the best dress size? Dont think Size 14 is fat even to a size 16. Maybe because am a size 8.( I think). Dont mind a size 14. |
Na wa o! Am stunned |
Usually, people go for candle lights in order for them to come to terms with the fact the the loved one is gone. same goes for the final respect thingy. I dont think that is the problem you went through but the fact that you lost a loved one. Usually, people get hurts and sometimes feel guilty of the death of the loved one. Hence they imagine things. I lost my brother years ago, even though I never went for any candle light for him but yet, I relive the last moments. I see him in my dreams. It is just the truma of losing a loved one. I cant promise you would forget him cos you cant but then, you would learn to take heart and to have solace in the fact that one day you shall see each other. so, it is up to you. Go if you are comfortable and if you are not, mourn him in your closet. Accept my sympathy and I pray that God would grant you, his family and friends the fortitude to bear the loss. |
toyecoach:Thank you for that point. I dont think a career can ever end except the man dies. A job can end. A career is what you are trained for usually from school. An accountant in a bank can be an accountant anywhere else. If one is laid off in a bank, he can try other sectors but due to the recession, it can take longer to get a new job. My advice, if you can, add value to your qualification till the recession is over. You can learn new skills like sewing ( may sound funny, but its true). If not then, start a biz you are interested in. |
newcreatio:That is plain scary. I cant say that to any man not to talk of my hubby and he dare not say such to me cos I would be very angry. Change your communication styles please. |
Thelmabee:so true. works for both parties. I learnt that myself |
[quote Perhaps it's only the Nigerian group they were able to trace effectively? I mean, how many scammers do you know with any sort of acumen in online security? Colombians aren't the only ones in the drug trade, but they are now the poster child of drug traffickers. I'm pretty sure when you think organized crime, your mind goes to the italian mafia. So too is Nigeria now the poster child for 419 scams. heck, the name '419' comes from Nigeria! If you people spent 1/10th the energy you spend on whining on actually going after these 419ers here in Nigeria, this problem will not exist. [quote][/quote]Abi o. And to think the scam started in america on the day people started donating to haiti. |
kokoye:funny, same thot came to me about the OP. @kokoye, funny username and to think you stay in their neighborhood. |
@All, why? Even if you disagree on issues, why must you do so with insults/curses? Each person behind the computer is human and has feelings. We see each other, work together and even live together. There are someone you know and even love. Raining insults on one another is no way forward for us as individuls and as a nation. Come, sit and reason together and decide what you all want for Nigeria. Communication is the key. Even if Nigeria eventually gets divided, you still need each other -at least for commerce. Remember, the world is a global village. Ojukwu, Awolowo, Abiola etc are all heros, even if they made bad decides at a point in their lives. We all did, yet we are heros to some. The errors makes us human. @moderators, we dont need topics that would cause strife amongst us as individuals or as a nation but Topics that adds value to all. Please take note |
atikubaba:Ask those who were 'sprayed' at their wedding how much they got. Not enough money at all. Let her be realistic. If people cant give towards the wedding, they wont give after the wedding. |
No! if she wants a mega wedding, then the wedding should be postponed to the day they have enough money of their own for the 'mega' wedding. Paying back loans after the wedding is a wrong way to stay a marriage. How do they start planning for their future if they are still paying for their past? |
H2O2: ![]() |
Vicjustice:really?! then that username should be deleted too. He doesnt seem like a honest person. Could be a fraudster. |
@H2O2, Women have phobia for marriages too and the whole concept of it. They have phobia for the way they would be treated by the man, his family and friends. They have phobia about the future of the marriage they are going into. Funny, most women feel much worse than men when it comes to marriage. Your points on divorce and its aftermath can happen to either party. The problem esclate when one party tries to prove subborn. If the man has custody, he does worse than the woman. Havent you heard of men who tell their kids that their mother died whereas she was very much alive but was not allowed to see her kids by the man and his family? All these are the hurts caused by divorce not the system. No one wants to be reasonable during divorce hence the system steps in to create order. I have seen men who have custody of the kids and the woman only visits. |
Not in that shoe. Dont know what I'd do. But this cant be a mistake. she knew quiet well what she was doing. That is the height of deceipt. No one needs that. no matter how bad they are to you. |
H2O2:If you read my earlier post, you would conclude that I blame the women for the way they are being treated. Dont think that is a biases point of view. Everyone is entitled to their opinion. Tell me, how is the system flawed? A system that gives the custody of the child to one who is found fit to care for the child better- not necesarily the woman. A system that does not allow men to beat up a woman and ironically, vice versa. I have seen a woman locked up for beating her husband. Now, you think that women are not being exploited by men? even in the western world? You get the same kind of education but earn less that the men. You get laid off or contract cancelled cos you get pregnant ( using the employement at will crap). How is that not an exploitation by men. Back to marriage, most women go through hell in the hands of the men and of cos vice versa. but when couples get divorce, and the woman gets the custody, do you want the woman out of the home like they would in africa? Tell her and her kids to leave and fend for themselves (you and i know hundreds of people who grew up like that) while the man start a new life with another woman. Is that the kind of system that is not flawed? You might say that why should the woman get the custody in most cases. It is cos they are deemed fit. If you are not biased here, you would agree with me that women take care of their kids better than another woman can. I might be wrong in reading from your own perspective but I would like to understand how the system is flawed in that perspective. |
I cant believe what I am reading. First question, Is this happening in Nigeria? Why are you still at the airport whining? Go look for their supervisors or go get a lawyer or go to the embassy for help. If they need prove about your school, call the school. If they need info about the passport or visa, go to the embassy. They are taking advantage of you maybe cos they sense that you dont know your rights. As per the airline who took off with your stuff, you have a right to sue them. They have no right to take the luggage of anyone who never entered the plane. They need to get your luggage back with apologies. If you are not on board, they were supposed to remove your luggage. (Few people Know this) That is a security risk you know. |
@spiderman, lol. |
Such a terrible thing to happen humans. So sad. May their souls rest in perfect peace and may God grant the families the fortitude to bear the loss. |
H2O2:That is not true. It supports the innocent. Could be the man or the woman but most importantly, the kids. It only supports their believe that marriage is not by force. |
@Poster, I totaly agree. Even if your hubby is treating you well, your mother in law would be the one to tell you that you have no say in your home. Like she didnt have a say. She cried foul during her marriage and her daughters' but want her sons' marriage as irritating as possible. Will such treatment ever end when some women support harsh treatments for their sons's wives? @Pittbaby, You got the words out of my mouth. Thanks |

