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They only fall in love with the words and their own Imaginations. Even those who meet on online dating site have to meet physically b4 they can actually decide if they can move forward with it.

OBLONG:
pls teach me, I am willing to learn

For starters, go to google.com

I was beginning to think your post was a joke. Learn to start and continue a conversation. Also, learn to use google.

pipz:
Hmmmmm ako e ti po ju,, hope u can read yoruba

I can

Dont deceive yourself. It can never work out.

I would deal with him that he would never raise his hands to slap another man's wife.

pipz:
c u triping already, seems where the only one left here. plzzzzzzzz i want to sleep, i had a very rough day

tripping? how. Go and sleep. I aint holding you down. My day is still young

A violent girlfriend or boyfriend should not be tolerated. Violence breeds violence and the degree is higher. That is why we see men/women shoot down their exs. Be careful. Early warnings should be considered. Might be a sign of dangers to come

It is girls like that that embarasses me. Why would you call a man 26 times and text even when there is no reply? Cant they think? He doesnt want to talk to you! NO wonder you feel you scored. At least you scored this one. A girl like me wont even call you any other day not to talk of vals day. enjoy your day alone and dont trip!

pipz:
Don't let's start this, today's VAL and ain't even loving any sorry chick, told u b4 i'm the one your mum's and pastors been warning u 'bout, if u see me u run, fine boy + swagger

lol. OMG! You sound so much like a friend of mine who is also on NL. All mouth. Anyway, didnt mean to offend you on vals day. where I am, it is not yet vals day.

pipz:
of cause, i've been played on b4 not once not twice but now i'm a pro, u wanna try me, don't even think it ? i will clear your mind

Try you? Hell NO. I have a better man.  Would have considered dealing with you to cut of your wings of 'pro' and let you know it is not a matter of words but of action which I can deduce that you lack.

PS: no one can clear the mind of a woman who is independent and thinks independent of a man.

pipz:
Let's wait till then,, abi? 've graduted from the skool of hard knocks. However, GAME recognizes GAME and lately the ones i've been meeting are looking very unfamiliar, lol

seems you justed started in your "game". You are a rookie. Go out and meet the real players. You would have been played on b4 you realized it.

I wonder how most men on NL meet their girls. All these post make me wonder. Have you ever wondered whether the problem might just be you.
I agree to some point made by the poster but not to all. Work on yourselves and see if you dont have control on your relationships. Dont sit around whinning over a man/womans. Be you in relationships( platonic or not) and carry yourself with respect. That make people of both sexes respect you in return.

[quote ]If she suspects you are screwing outside, thats okay for them, just make sure you're never caught and she only suspects, suspicion is good, it keeps her on her feet, she knows she can be replaced.

[quote][/quote]Your excuse for cheating? I hope you know that the same goes for the guy. He can be replaced too. Guess what, a female player does it better. Guess you are yet to meet a woman who doesnt give a damn if her man cheats or not. Most men have insecurity problems that need to be worked on. Instead of pointing fingers at the woman on every little thing in a relationship. The less insecured you are, the more control you have.

pipz:
This goes out to all the wh??@s here, i might run u over and make u forget ever reading this post or being in this forum at all cause it won't do u any good, cause i don't know how this concerns any female here, u can't save that girl from me either, mind your biz ooooo if u don't want to be game, WARNING!!!!!!

wonder what you would do if you meet a woman who plays the game better.

Understanding your woman/man is the key. Patiently know and understand the person you are with and you will be surprised how easy the relationship would be.

dtw_sola:
What the hell are you talking about? I live in NYC. The only way NYC and Lagos compare is in terms of population. Both cities are way overcrowded. Other than that, there are no comparisons.

so true!

Remii:
Subject: Goodluck


Dear all,





PLEASE IN YUR OWN INTEREST: no matter the position yu are offered in ANY organisation if yur deputy is named "Goodluck" , please decline, even if it is UN SEC GEN OR HEAD OF THE AFRICAN UNION in yur own interest decline o,

in case yu think am joking:

- Goodluck was assistant head boy in pry schl, the head boy got expelled, he took over

- Goodluck was assistant senior prefect in secondary school, the senior prefect died, Goodluck took over

- Goodluck was deputy local govt chairman, the chairman got implicated in corruption and got removed from office, Goodluck took over

- Goodluck was deputy governor to Alameiseigha, we all know that story

- Goodluck was vice to Yar adua : PERICADIATIS!

yu may say its coincidence, na yu know

a friend of mine just called off his church wedding, why? his bestman was named Goodluck

he is insisting that all that will occur is traditional wedding,

i don talk my own

Is this for real? If yes, I guess that it is his destiny to be a leader regardless. Funny though!

This is so funny. Ever since the president left, according to the constitution, Jonathan was supposed to be acting already. He never needed anyone to enforce him. The constitution did. The question is, should the president be impeached? If yes, then let the house act according and then declare whoever is to be the president (whether the VP or the speaker of the house- dont know what the constitution picks) to become president. That is What they need to enforce and not an acting president. An acting president is just the president figure head. He has no power. The former president tells him what to do and he does it. I dont think that izs what Nigeria needs because we do not know the status of yaradua's health. We need to know who is ruling. Whether Yaradua or someone else. An impeachment is necessary for us to know who is ruling the nation.

@Poster,

It depends on the people you know. Nigerians in Uk can do decent jobs and earn good living legally. I know doctors, bankers, teachers who are nigerians and they live in UK. Same goes for those in the states. Your friend may be out of job for now. It is not his fault. It is the economy and it is fast bouncing back. So, never judge him yet. At least, from what I can conclude, you stayed in his house when you visited. Not all nigerians do odd jobs. Not all nigerians are lazy. There are millions of non-lazy nigerians in nigeria who dont have jobs too. Is dat their fault? at least they are at home, yet no hope. Please, get facts b4 you conclude and dont base your facts on one man in Uk vs one man in nigeria.

I would and would also expect them at mine if they can. There's nothing wrong with that.

This post amuses me. If I were the guy, something would happen. I know guys who wont let such nite pass them by either.

@OP,
NO. The affair is btw your mum and your dad. Things happen for a reason. You do not know what happened btw your mum and your dad. Dont even base your conclusions on what a party said to you about it. Let them handle that aspect of their lives. Only pray for them.

However, you can talk to your dad on his actions towards his kids. He is your father and hence needs to be responsible to you. Let him know you need him to care for you and your siblings.

~Borat~:
use the touchpad. . .

makes more sense

@Poster,
I tire for men who cant handle their biz without coming to NL. Why didnt you challenge her immediately? Why didnt you ask her where in the house she was gonna sleep? why didnt you tell her you were not comfortable? Why didnt you tell her to leave the place ASAP? Now you are thinking. Maybe cos you know her too well. I served in North and it was way hotter than Ibadan. If there is no electricity, I sleep in my room like that or outside with other girls. Anything can happen. Moreseo when you know you are in a steady relationship. It is not proper. She did a wrong thing. Maybe without thinking. But you had a choice to handle the situation when you found out (that same day for that matter) but you didnt. Both of you didnt act well.

I understand what you are trying to pass across. I have read through every bit of the advice given. They are good. Just want to add this bit. Even when it seems the love is not there, be friends. That helps through a lot of the glum in marriage. Take time out. Leave the kids and go on a date. Not necessarily to a place where you would spend money. You can go for a walk together. It helps. Be creative in bed. The old routine can bore one out. Make the move even if he's shy. Most importantly, let God reign in your home.

sjeezy8:
haha lmfao I wtched the video look at those shameless fools dancing.

I had a good laugh watching it too

Interesting to know that there are a lot of people out there who use the mouse with their laptops. On desktop, it is understandable but on laptop, interesting.
Quick question. How do you use the mouse when on the go?

hopefully waiting to see that happen

No one made mention of the youths that wen with this emeka. Dont they have conscience too?where they forced? Shaking my head in pity for Nigeria. This is what happens when majority of the youths are jobless. They sell their conscience.

Unfortunately fb is ruining a lot of relationship cos few people are yet to accept that FB is a social networking site.

@poster,
It depends on how long you spend on the laptop or how vast u are with its use. I personally DO NOT use a mouse with my laptop.