₦airaland Forum

Gboom:
If you are thinking this is ordinary, pray you don't encounter an enchanter who can cast a spell on people.
There is a local remote control in Yoruba call 'eedi' this is what happened to both father and son

Cut the bullshit. I don't subscribe to the bullshit y'all ignorant folks say.

The man and the son are perverts and couldn't tame their perversion. Stop giving excuses for bad behaviors and stupid criminals.

mercy87:
I have a question...my guy doesn't call me but when I call him, he picks. He's not based in Nigeria. Do I continue calling him or I should stop?

If you are an independent and ambitious lady, you should know that there are some bullshit shouldn't accept from anybody. A supposed guy dating you and doesn't have the will to call you is likely not into you, even if you call and he picks. Most ladies that men treat as trash are jobless, unintelligent or useless and have nothing to offer the man.

Check within yourself and know why he's acting that way. An average Nigerian guy living abroad knows that things are difficult in Nigeria and any Nigerian lady living in Nigeria is likely to withstand all sorts of bullshit because of poverty, unemployment, low self-esteem etc.

Greenfaces:
Marriage is actually 96% finance and 4% what i dont even know. I just said 96% so i don't appear irrational. Anyone can now find out what occupies his own 4%

Right.

I'll be here to read your regret after being infected.

TheNiceGuy:
Carry Hypocrisy commot for my mention.

I'm very sure you'll be among those castigating APC for Muslim-Muslim ticket should I go through your past comments

You're not brilliant. I wonder how y'all reason. Must you see my comment as an attack on your political inclination?

It's really pathetic how many of you are religious and political blind! Read and comprehend and see things in different light.

Too much access given to people will hurt you. I've always lived this way; restricted access.

TheNiceGuy:
Please what's his religion?

What has religion got to do with anything? When has religion helped Africans in terms of governance?

Useless people.

Moh247:
This guy is fvcking sad and angry...

No man deserves this much pain

That's nobody's business.

irunoko:
una don start.we dey talk A,you dey talk B

IN Africa before the adoption of all these oyinbo nonsense we had people with disgusting and vile habits amongst us but we had our own ways of checking all of those nonsense from escalating but now the era of its my Life,do you, me too,mind your buisness, you only live once came and there were no institutions and systems to check the sexual deviants amongst us.those days if you are caught for stealing, raping or gay practices,beastiality and other depraved kinds of sex you're killed on the spot so you don't infect/recruit or influence others into your perversion.you were treated like a disease that needs to be riddled off immediately but now everybody dey do competition for who craze or abnormal pass

You're a very unreasonable boy. You blamed civilization for rape and other bad things in the society. I countered you, and you now came up with how justice should be met out. You're a confused human and you don't know what you want.

Goodbye.

God1000:
too bad man

Unfortunately, yes.

LeoDeKing:
Go school, you say school na scam.

Now you can't understand a single paragraph of less than 20 words.

Shinedu, let any lettered person interpret to your understanding.

Zip your filthy bug-infested mouth! I ain't gonna respond to you anymore!

These are your words below :

I don't blame him, I only blame his wife and in-laws who didn't observe he is one of those few home sapiens who have not fully evolved to a human.

How will anyone in his/her right frame of mind give out his/her daughter to this creature that looks more like a gorilla than a fully evolved home erectus?

God1000:
This is shocking and unspeakable, I'm at lost for words.

But why did she keep quiet after she was raped, she should have reported them immediately, this can not happen in the western world and stay stay too long.

It happens in the Western world without the victim speaking up. Shit happens everywhere. And if you look at the majority of rape victims in Nigeria or Africa, they are poor, helpless, young, naive and threatened. Often times, the perpetrators are family members, relatives or close friends and acquaintances. So it makes it easy for them to carry out their evil plan and get away with it.

Most parents will never even believe that those people raped you or molested you, so most victims would rather keep it within themselves and wait for the right time or die with it.

LeoDeKing:
I don't blame him, I only blame his wife and in-laws who didn't observe he is one of those few home sapiens who have not fully evolved to a human.

How will anyone in his/her right frame of mind give out his/her daughter to this creature that looks more like a gorilla than a fully evolved home erectus?

I have nothing to say yo him because I don't insult animals.

Why would you blame a mother for entrusting her daughter in the care of the father?

Don't be a hypocrite.

diogo23:
Truly this people are cursed , what kind of people is this? Father and son sleeping with one person, daughter/sister

No, they're not cursed, they lack sexual discipline and will pay for it. Stop giving people excuses for their actions. They're adults and will be prosecuted.

So many people are perverts but you'll never know until it manifest.

irunoko:
Una see the consequences of all these oyinbo woke philosophies una dey adopt?

All these hedonistic ideas and freedom without boundaries.na the result be that

Trash!

Civilization has nothing to do with rape, incest, or evil deeds. There are some tribes or community in India that accept incest, it's their culture. It's norms to them. Would you call that negative effect of civilization?

Be reasonable!

Creamypie:
I still find it hard to believe and accept people do this

Unfortunately, it happens.

Stupid news.

Munzy14:
Biodun and Busola case, is one viral issue I avoided giving my opinion to.

Because many innocent men have been tarnished same way when relationship goes south.

I won't believe Busola, and I won't give Biodun a listening ear..They both knew what they did and where it scattered.

And both are smart to play innocent, the other victimised.

You're sitting on the fence and it's your right to do so.

You must understand that the businessman pastor should have come out to debunk and sue for libel if he didn't do it. We're in a civilized world and nobody can deceive most of us again. If Busola was to be a wretched person, the randy pastor would have silenced her with money or other means.

The randy businessman pastor is should come out and challenge the allegations and my his gullible congregations fighting on his behalf.

BunmiBie:
Very true and this is not for man alone.
As a woman it you don't have money in marriage you go suffer.

Yes, the woman suffers more if she's got no source of income.

Regex:
Honestly all that you wrote is pure. A family, 4 kids, 2 parents, that's 6 people in Nigeria. Some even come and give birth in UK and I am wondering if they don't know UK rules.

Most of them know nothing. Agent did everything for them promising them heaven and galaxies.

SaintUlot:
80% of Nigerian students on study visa in the UK work more than 20hr/week. That 20hr/week restriction is only on paper.

Yes, majority of them work beyond the legal time but however, they still struggle to meet up. So, why should you subject your spouse (either gender) and kids to unnecessary stress?

crixlight2:
What of dependant that will be working , can that save enough money within four years to start a big business or build house in Nigeria , why I am asking you is that , I have already build a house so a friend is advising me to sell the house and move to UK with my family and within 4 years I will build the house back . I don’t want to jump into conclusion

Within 4 years, you won't rebuild the house, especially when you're going with dependants.

Do you know how much it cost to hire the service of a child minder? There's no "Aunty Amaka, Aunty Adeola, or Aunty Aisha" to look after your kids because everyone has got bills to pay. So, you and your wife will need to plan your work schedule so as to alternate who will be at home with kids.

What if your spouse should fall sick and not able to work for sometime and your 20hr/wk job can never sustain your family?

Certainty of getting a Tier-2 job after everything is low!

Don't let anyone make you take actions you'll regret. Well, you can still process the U.K. except you're not going with family so as to make things easier. You can never be flexible if you're with dependants in the U.K.!

Go and process countries like Canada, U.S. or other ones that are "family-friendly." Make your findings yourself about other countries and ask questions about whatever you don't understand. Don't let any agent or friend pressure you or deceive you.

The world is a global community now and we live in digital age, everything you need is online. I wish you well.

Munzy14:
Most of these guys are the same...

Even if they choose a simple life, ladies will still throw themselves at them.

Yes, ladies will always throw themselves at successful men, irrespective of the age. It's a natural thing, but however, it's wrong to take advantage of such women.

And the case of this businessmen pastor, Busola didn't throw herself at him, he only took advantage of her vulnerability as a brainwashed religious lady, which is wrong. And this vulnerability is the reason many of the God of men sleeps with their members and impregnate them.

EvangDrGeo:
What if the man opened a little of his penis?

Answer yourself

Your question makes no sense.

bonnyhope:
What is the percentage of married people that are financially buoyant

The percentage is low because of many reasons and one of them is because many young couples go into marriage due to unwanted pregnancies, peer pressure, no ambitions, etc.

Go and check the financially buoyant ones, they're either from a wealthy/rich family or self-made. I'm not saying people must be wealthy before marriage, my point is that there should be financial stability before going into it.

Many young guys with a studio apartment and good salary always think marriage is the next step, instead of focusing on doubling their hustle. Your comfortability as a single person can become sufferness after marriage, most especially in a country like Nigeria that nothing is certain in terms of the economy.

g4gerald:
Are u Ok? Someone already sexualized herself by exposing her breast to the world. Women's nudity makes men to see them in that way.

Trash!

franchasng:
For single unmarried young men, please take this comment seriously.


The number one challenge you will have in marriage of today as a man is financial challenge. If you conquer financial challenge and able to have babies, then I think marriage will never be an issue for you.


So prepare yourself for a hectic financial future after marriage

Exactly! And a sensible unmarried young man should not marry a woman that has no source of income, most especially if you're the first to break out of poverty in your family.

vickydevoka:
Both gender or..

Both. It's ideal for both individuals to have source of income, if possible, multiple, especially the man.

Jman06:
She sexualized herself first with the way she exposed those brezz

No, she didn't. This is the nonsense justification y'all do after raping women. There's nothing bad with what she wore.

Shadysen:
no need to dey follow u argue as u be mumu boy.

Show proof or get the fvck! Local champion.

GLouis:
The only thing the offer is sex. Usually these women finished seeing life. They don't need your love. They don't believe in it. But pretend like they do. They seem to look for innocent men to use as second chance. They hardly love those men. Cause their main priority is their kids



So forget love ,they use it as weapon .

Is she wealthy ?

Or

She has power to help you climb the laddar in life ?

If she helps you then she truly loves you. Marry her. But if she is one damsel looking for money RUN!


But if she helps you and you dump her , it is evil.

Trash.