₦airaland Forum

OGwales:
You will keep catering for a child/children who isn't/ain't yours. And be ready to be secretly sharing her with the baby father.

My 1 coin

You're wrong. Not all single mothers are irresponsible to the extent of sleeping with their baby daddy after being married!

Shadysen:
shut the fuvk up, it exist.

Nobody has ever brought out a proof. All y'all people say is stories and fables.

Zonefree:
Must she show breast

When will you dolts stop sexualizing women?

Bluntguy:
But why she dey expose breast like that?

It's nobody's business.

A beautiful mature woman with no drama or controversy.

Romanoff:
If you cannot love and accept her child(Ren) just leave her alone.

This question you're asking is evidence that you don't love her.

No, he's asked a harmless question. Wisdom dictates that one should make enquiry before making any life decisions. Everything in life has pros and cons. It depends on an individual to choose his/her poison.

crixlight2:
Please just for understanding, are they not making more there , is there chance to make more money and build house for Naija within 4 years ?

As a student, you will find it difficult to even combine study and work and even save enough money. In fact, U.K. is not even ideal for anybody going to study now if you're from a poor background because you'll struggle to pay tuition fee, rent, other bills and you'll need to pay for the post-study also. And you will likely not get a job! So, you either become illegal immigrant or go back to your homecountry.

The jobs that most student do is even saturated now and some employers will pay less because there are many others ready to take on the job.

Martial issues can't be kept private again. Disgusting people.

treesun:
Far better than agbado enujabo, Ojuyoole!

Boy, none of my business. All your politicians mean nothing to me. Take your political fight and bigotry to your folks.

Goodbye!

JASONjnr:
Tell that to the HRs and government MDAs...

The moment it's 2.00... You're considered on the least list of candidates for government jobs and on private sectors....You won't even stand a chance to move to the second stage...

He never asked you or anyone to have a low GGPA but was only emphasising on using your brains to achieve your aim rather than shortcut.

Learn to read between the lines and comprehend. Y'all just want to rush to comment.

Senile old men with no vision.

DebhariJones:
Yay! My alma mata made the list.

What school?

LilMissFavvy:
Kaii, this life. It's a big pity. If he truly raped* those women, it's shocking how he denied it severally even as a pastor that he is. Hopefully, this is not a case of HIV, having sex randomly is dangerous.

There's nothing shocking about his denial. Even a poor man will deny rape allegations. People who do bad deeds will always deny until evidence is brought or caught!

You're right. Many Nigerian graduates are unemployable.

Pionner:
Are you trying to prove he's the one or not by the link you provided.
If you were trying to prove he's the one, then you are wrong cos if you look at the posters posted 3 days ago on Instagram for the programe .. the picture in the poster is quite different from the picture posted on nairaland
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https://www.instagram.com/p/ClZIlwsM-Th/?igshid=YmMyMTA2M2Y=

Damn! An irredeemable brainwashed sheeple, that's what you are.

sageb:
2023 is near. This APC administration is a disaster.

All other parties are useless also, they just differ from one another. So, none is better and 2023 will be a tough year economically.

Anunakeeh:
Gospel Truth.

This Factor here Is what kills most nigerian men and It's still killing them up till date.

And bunch of them will still continue to be like that. I don't pity stupid folks for the consequences of their actions. Love my foot!

blaise26abj:
Busola not screaming for help AND returning to him till the 2nd one happened is her being gullible and naive . Don’t forget he was married then . I have read cases of rape here on Nairaland and the circumstances were worrisome . Some of the ladies chose not to talk after the deed because of the stigma . One had a knife put to her throat while she was being raped in a school hostel . One was raped by her uncle and refused to attend to him again in the house even till her mom noticed. Those are grievous circumstances . Not the case in Dakolo’s alleged rape.

I hold no brief for Fatoyinbo. He was/is obviously a man with no control . However at most Dakolo’s case is a case of him taking advantage of an “innocent “ girl who was star struck .

Erm until they receive sense , let them keep being under the bondage of men of gods . Nothing on this earth help you change the mind of people like that . Same as Obidients and Agbadorians. They are adults and it’s their rightful choices with consequences

The randy businessman pastor is to be blamed and also the society for the stupid indoctrination of kids into religion in a deceptive way.

GistFullGround:
You don't know karma

Karma is the word used by losers and useless people to console themselves.

ExudeLoveToAll:
Why are you bringing the word pervert and predator here?

The age of consent in Nigeria is 18, stop been emotional in your thoughts.

It is legal for him to have consensual sex with her as long as she is 18 years and above in this country.

We tend to mix our thoughts on what is legal to be illegal in this country, you even went ahead to shame him. This is ridiculous.

Since they both are in the consensual age group, what is important is to respond to the topic whether it is good for him to go ahead and accept her request or not.

OP, put yourself in the shoes of the lady. If your research shows that it isn't good for one going through such physical activity like sex please and please abstain but if it proves that engaging in sex isn't a problem for one undergoing such then you can go ahead to accept or decline her request as it suits you.

What ever decision you take her health state should be paramount.

Is it morally right to have sex with an 18-year-old girl that's still categorized as a teenager especially when they are not legally binded?

Exceed15:
U sound as if you can't be sick. Don't mock people with ill health, you might be next

Zip your filthy big sewage mouth! I'm not responsible for your imbalance thought process.

malvisguy212:
says an atheist who has never do harm or wrong someone before.

the man may be a rapist . but what about you ?

You're nothing but a cretin supporting your God of rape.

1Sharon:
You're only saying this because he's a pastor.

If it was an atheist with cancer, you would have been quick to call it the judgement of God.

Hypocrite.

I hope life has shown you that being a Christian means nothing, you'd go through afflictions, death, rape, disease just like ANYBODY else.

Religious people are usually foolish. Many of the clerics secretly received the vaccine during the pandemic but came out to talk to talk against it publicly.

Thebigheart:
He should go and debunk rape allegations.
Na you go still say, na damage control.

Human wants are insatiable

If you're alleged of something and you're confident it's false, especially if you're influential and your reputation is at stake, you're to debunk and sue for libel!

He didn't do that rather he let his gullible congregations to fight on his behalf. We weren't moved by their actions because a dog will always support it's owner as long you feed it bone.

malvisguy212:
base on your comments on this thread. it's seems you are very happy with this news.regardless of his past ( his rape case) I still feel for him.

I don't care if anyone's sick or not, and sickness is not peculiar to a particular person, irrespective of his atrocities or good deeds.

I'm only about the fact that he's an alleged rapist and also a religious businessman deceiving gullible people and milk them of their money. And he's not the only one in the church business. So, it's not a personal attack.

MeaslesMumpsRub:
Sexcapedes you mean.

Yes, the randy businessman's sexcapades.

Joseph1505:
This your signature shows that you are an etheist

The word "etheist" is non-existent in the English vocabulary.

falcon01:
urm... hello? She's 18.

And for you OP, I don't know anything about that sickness but one thing I know is when in the mood of sex the heart beat increases and will be pumping blood with force so if that thing you mentioned can be triggered with an increase to the heart beat then its not a good idea. Infact it's not a good idea I'll be scared.

Stop justifying immorality! She's 18 and so fvcking what?

blaise26abj:
I can understand all the other sexual inappropriate allegations . But that Dakolo’s wife’s own , I disagree it’s rape . I can agree that he took advantage of her innocence . But to say it’s rape is a big fat lie . How can someone rape you in your father’s sitting room with your siblings in the house ? RAPE oh . He didn’t press knife or gun to your head . And yet you carry body still dey follow am . True rape victims avoid the perpetrator at all cost or scream the whole world down .


My opinion is he has/had a wandering dick and tried to be with several women . Someone propositioning you for sex and you accepted is not rape . It’s just you feeling guilty afterwards .

Dude, you capping! These clerics are God to their followers and this is the reason why they get away with almost everything. Busola was still young and religion is a weapon to subdue humans and it get worse if the person is young and naive.

So, Busola not screaming for help wasn't her fault. She felt powerless, restless and scared! And moreover, awareness on rape wasn't much that time in Africa!

TheSourcerer:
Incest though


Good Morning Mufaslion , hows your day going so far ?

Brother, day's good, man's blessed.

freddie009:
The issue is these pastors make their members believe they don't need medicine. I remember my mum drinking olive oil for headaches instead of simply taking panadol. Many people are misled, but if you talk, their members will come for your head with threats. What saved Pastor Suleman that particular day was his bulletproof car and you see him talking to his members to pray for divine protection.

Normally, religious folks are illogical and stupid, irrespective of their social status.

Pörnstar Suleman couldn't risk his life by expecting Jesus to save him. He was smart enough to use the armoured SUV while the sheeples used normal cars believing Jesus would save them like superman.

Pringles101:
My dad got tired of my mom's vagina because it was more of a sinkhole.

He resorted to jerking off in a cup and pouring his semen from the cup into her vagina to get her pregnant

Nice story about your life.