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Samantha123:
I don't get it, why did you impregnate your wife if you were not financially ready for a baby

Poor people prefer poverty and they're that selfish to bring a child into it. Careless and wicked people.

Samantha123:
I don't get it, why did you impregnate your wife if you were not financially ready for a baby

Poor people prefer poverty and they're thst selfish to bring a child into it. Careless and wicked people.

So, you couldn't make preparations before you impregnated someone's daughter (your wife)? I'm sure you are among those that always scream "a child will bring along what will sustain him/her."

All you poor people do is have sex like Hot rabbits and end up begging for money! Poverty continues to run in y'alls family because of indiscipline, selfishness and laziness.

You don't deserve any help!

Terminator0x0:
My mum is trying her best but the baby is not cooperating she don't want milk or foods she want breast milk

The baby will get used to it.

Terminator0x0:
Her mother is late she have a stepmother who separated with her father

Then let your mom take charge of the welfare of the baby in your house. The baby will survive. There are millions of kids with no mother right after their birth.

Terminator0x0:
He said he will arrest anyone who will put feet in his house my parents said I shouldn't go there

Then let your mom take charge of the welfare of the baby in your house. The baby will survive. There are millions of kids with no mother right after their birth.

Terminator0x0:
I am seeking for job I deserve it but the baby doesn't deserve she doesn't know anything

Doesn't the mother of the child have a mother that can intercede?

Mr. Terminator, go and hustle for money and stop disturbing us. You deserve what the father is doing to you and your baby; albeit it's bad.

SeniorMan715:
Asin tueh girl wey you no no from Adam u carry your gbola put inside her puna my own gal self i no dey knack am without talkless of a strange

Some men have no dignity.

You are not hygienic. Always use bedspread, your foam is dirty!

BelieveThat:
I am not hallucinating, I don't do drugs neither do I have mental health challenges.

Depression comes with various things. Engage more with people and stop being to yourself always.

calmness0:
Rebuke and reject that bro

You're a clown.

Religion has made y'all delusional.

He should face the full wrath of the law.

There's nothing like reincarnation. Don't be deceived.

Aareakinwunmi:
She knows.
And she's is not happy about it

Mr. All-knowing, stop sounding backward.

IntelChief:
All my ancestors both male and female got married. It won't be in my time that either me or any of my siblings will not marry

And why don't you emulate your ancestors' way of life by ditching your mobile phone, so as to stop posting about a happy lady that's not married?

WTF is your business? She's an adult and she's fulfilled! What's norms to you, your mother and everyone else, is not norms to her!

I'm glad I have nobody like you as a sibling. Disgusting thing!

timesupreloaded:
You are a donkey. It is a curse to animals to even live in America. Staying inside a filled soakaway is a trillion times better than living in America. Ogun strike you mad!

It's obvious you're mentally unstable. Visit a psychiatrist as soon as possible!

I'll never respond to you again. Frame this response!

andysmith123:
Once she find oyinbo boyfriend, half of her problem don solve

The white males don't need her for anything.

pretydiva:
You dey complain, yet you still dey the UK Come back to Nigeria, then we will take you seriously. I bet the money you earn as a cleaner over there, is way bigger than what you earned back in naija

Is she spending the money in Naira? No!

Also, she's not earning as much as she earned when she was in Nigeria.

Hypnotise:
What some cleaners or factory workers earn is more than a politician monthly salary

You seem to be among the ignorant folks. You can still be a cleaner with Tier 4 visa, working per time. It's a peanut!

BRATISLAVA:
Wait for them to tell you how her private part is slackened, and she's greedy, and she's looking for a dark, handsome, 6ft man with a billion dollars (like there are any in Nigeria to begin with), how she rejected all her suitors and is arrogant, how she was 20 and running them in circles, how the problem lies with her at her age, how she's got a hellish behavior, how she's not actually a virgin.

It is never the fault of the men she met.

I seriously pity any woman above 35 who is unmarried. The mocking and pressure must be intense on her. Imagine this being a forum of over 1M people, supposedly international, and the garbage that daily spills fourth about women is still unchecked. This place is 50 years behind in reasoning.

Why pity them? Not all women wanna rush into marriage. It's even more wrong to be in a marriage because of societal expectations. People should let ladies be!

Monaboo:
I'm beautiful. I'm 29yrs and I am not married.

The funny part is that, I am not even thinking about marriage atall. I don't even envy married people atall. I think I'm wired differently.

What I am thinking about is how to go to school and grow career wise.

That's just what is on my head and it drives me daily.

So many people are married today yet they are so unhappy as we speak.

Most of them wish to run out of the marriage.

The way they rushed into marriage is the way they rush out of the same marriage.

Go on Facebook and follow "Beyond Intimacy" and you will be shocked at the stories you would hear everyday.

Na we single people dey give them advice.

I heard of a story where a man married this weekend and two weeks later, he was asking a newly employed lady colleague in his office out for friendship.

No be juju be that

In all, I believe God's will for my life will be done no matter what.

If it's his will for you to marry, no power can stop it and when it is time..."GOD'S TIME" and not..."Your Time", It would happen effortless.

So please chill and be happy.

God bless you all.

In all, Seek ye first the kingdom of God and His Rightousness and every other thing will fall into place.

Not many people understand that marriage and kids are not the ultimate goal or part of everyone's desire. I distance myself from people that sees kids and marriage as an achievement. I'm not even good with kids.

Veezy4u:
Pheeew....! Finally reached the last page I must say this topic has been very interesting, chai all these comments sef
First of all, life is not fair at all in one way or another. You want money, someone has it in excess and wastes it recklessly. You want marriage n some married people wish they were not. You need children n some people are busy doing abortion every month. Life is useless! We all enjoy our youth n one day we'll get tired of life. But at the end nothing else matters, it's your happiness that matters. My advice to those in these shoes is that our African society has made it look like a cause to you but do not be discouraged. Do your best, live a happy life (find happiness) and if it will happen so be it. But if you are so desperate you may get pregnant and have your baby. Men see desperation from afar n will make sure they use n dump.
As for young ladies out there, d moment breast n curves begin to come and you begin to feel like Cinderella, just know that you should be careful. Humble yourself, be respectful, follow serious guys/men, lower ur expectations (Nigeria is terrible for most young men, the economy is not friendly), that's why most guys are not interested not because they don't want but because they don't want burden. If you can start n build a relationship with someone fine, if there's love he would always appreciate n hold you high. But most importantly forget pride, GO And learn how to keep a man! Being religious or wayward is no assurance of getting a man. Work on yourself, trust GOD (if u believe in him) and be patient. Your time will come, life na turn by turn. No this n know peace, wish you all the best

Imagine how poor you are in typing/writing. Some of you should try and learn how to write properly!

Revolution2022:
She didn't travel to UK to establish a business like most white immigrants come to Africa and invest.Rather,she went there to seek a greener pastures.She should also know that Nigeria degree is not tenable for a white collar job abroad.It is what you can do.Had it been she is a tech expert with a practical skill,she will find a good job.

Yes, you're right. Bunch of them are ignorant and I don't pity them because they chose to be ignorant. Nigerians are lazy when it comes to reading or acquiring knowledge, most especially when it comes to immigration. As long as the visa is easy, they don't care, they'll pay agent and end up becoming modern day slaves abroad.

Most of those going to the UK recently will end up like this or become illegal next 4-5 years, if they couldn't secure job because the UK don't just employ people anyhow. They don't even care if you study in their country. Even the Post Graduate Work Visa is not free, it's £2k. Some will even go over there with kids, hoping to start working once they arrive. Even with the work, they can't earn more than £9/hr and the care sector is becoming saturated now that some would be paid lesser.

I don't pity anyone struggling abroad!

Beverlyjean:
Violent women married violent man... this is always the result... if u know u man is violent...dont ever confront him...dont do that ...heard she set the house on fire and it caught her while the husband escaped

I don't pity any gender that's enduring domestic violence. They deserve no pity.

Makavelli001:
Reconcile with her. Groom her and she will change. Then lure her to a powerful deliverance Church. And get her delivered.

She's not the cause of his problems. The lady has got her own problems to solve. She's temperamental and she should seek help in anger management.

lagusboyyy:
Are kogi girls bad?

I'm presently rolling with a girl from igala tribe. Tell me more about them.

It's not about tribe, it's about individual personality. Don't let some nuisance online infect you with stupid things.

Condition001:
Bro I won’t argue with you but rather pray for you that you won’t encounter any spiritual attack from any Fetish person.

Keep your wish and prayer to yourself! I don't need either of the two. I'm not lazy nor gullible to hold other people responsible for my problems.

You're mentally and physically lazy, you should never expect success.

Go and acquire skills and focus on your study, so as to be useful to yourself and the global community!

julybaba:
Flee from fornication.

Fornication has nothing to do with it. He's a lazy dunce! Any mentally lazy person will always blame others for their self-caused misfortune. He wasn't focused on his study, he was more focused on fraud and using useless soaps.

Those Alfas have collected his money because he's a foolish fellow and they know that people like him will believe anything being told. Once you subject yourself to any spiritual leader or cleric, they will manipulate you till you stop becoming reasonable.

He should let the innocent lady be.

Kenpaly:
Op i want to ask u a very good quastion. Is she from akwaibom or 4rm kogi state?if yes you don enter gbege be that.

What does tribe have to do in a case like this? Stop being a tribalist!

He should go fix his life and stop gloating!