₦airaland Forum

maasoap:
It's a not crime to be concerned about your siblings attitude to some matters, nothing disgusting about it dear friend.
By the time our sister begins to be worried about kids or marriage, it is the Op who will be there for her, not you. Sometimes, people make mistakes in the present which they actually see as a mistake until later in life. So, it's natural for their family and friends to call their attention to such things before it's too late

Try and be reasonable, please!

Being concerned about your siblings or relatives should be with moderation, not extremity. I realized that most Africans always go overboard with issues like marriage, which shouldn't be so. Also, I noticed that people will always believe they have a say in your life, until you start changing it for them.

I've never been an individual that follows herd mentality. Everyone knows me for my principles and way of life, and I don't bend my principles to please anyone (including parents or relatives). I do what pleases me, as long as I'm not going against the law of where I reside.

I don't give a fück about anyone's expectation!

bisqit:
i pity your parents expecting grandkids

Pity yours instead .

Unlike you, I don't have dumbos as parents. Clear off, boy!

Emperor88:
So it is better to have children you can not take care of? It is better to be in a marriage even when there is no love? It is better that our population keep growing and keep producing criminals in the name of marriage? Do you know Japan have one of the highest average lifespan of over 80 years compared to Nigeria 56? Please even if you have children, will they stay with you forever? And who told you Nigerians are happier than Japanese? You people will just open mouth as if you don't have sense.

You shouldn't even be arguing with most Nigerians. Bunch of them are ignorant, especially the so called educated ones.

Emperor88:
You dey mind the mumu. Is shortage of labor force not better than having over 30 million jobless people?

Over 30 million jobless people in Nigeria? No, it's beyond that because this country don't even have a reliable database. All they do is guesswork and reliance on data of ages ago.

ecolime:
Japan's population has been shrinking year on year because of this and it's understandable. That of Naija is what I don't understand.

Nigerians are not getting married but our population is increasing exponentially despite the mass migration.

What's going on?

When last did you guys do population census? Do you guys even have a reliable database?

Stop this misinformation about Nigeria's population. So many unreported death and birth on a daily basis!

Eniitankorede:
You don’t ever pray for the calamity befalling these people. They are avoiding marriage because nobody wants to care for others. Individuality is killing them. Miserable life awaits people who crave for individuality. This is evident when they grow old and need help from others. Care home staff can never replace your family and close relatives.

You can still live a well fulfilled life without being married or have offsprings.

maasoap:
And Asians are refusing marriage and having children thinking it's some sort of achievement. Look at where this is getting them now, shortage of labour force and increasing average age! Meaning they will have more old people than young ones.

And you that have high labour force, are they not living a better life than you do?

GeneralPula:
Nature doesn’t understand English..

You’ll always miss the feeling of not having that special one regardless of how strong minded you’re !

It’s natural..

That is a lie. A blatant lie!

As it should!

bisqit:
what are your plans

None of your business, boy.

Sixfiguresmart:
surah 37:125
"Will you call upon Baal and forsake the Best of creator[b]S[/b]

Allah is referring to baal as A CREATOR. While in the Bible God constantly referred to Baal as lifeless and wooden. The Bible states that there is only one creator. Muslims have a polytheistic belief in the creator. They believe that there are MORE THAN ONE CREATORS.

If not that you lack the ability to comprehend an 11-word statement, you wouldn't have created this thread.

I'm not supporting any religion. Don't bother to quote me, I will ignore you.

Is your God interested in politics?

Munzy14:
Nobody wants to be in OP's shoes...It's been attack attack all the way.

The reality is, if I have a sister approaching 30, unmarried, I will genuinely be in his shoes but think differently.

I mean, You pass from Who born am, to who marry am as a lady.

Same goes to a man Approaching 40 and unmarried, It calls for urgent Umunna meeting as well.

Necessary things must be done as at when due.

I don't think it's necessary to bother people about marriage, irrespectice of age, even if they are one's sibling(s). It's wrong to expect people to follow the norms that everybody follows. We all have different ideologies about life and it's constituents, we should respect people's choices and decisions.

The said lady is doing well financially and she is most likely to be fulfilled. Many people see marriage as an achievement or ultimate goal, which I don't agree to. Not everyone is interested in marriage or raising offsprings, and some want those things but they only want them when they are mentally, financially and psychologically ready.

Africans needs to understand that!

zimdante:
A medical student won't take his health serious? sometimes ignorance is when you think that you know everything.

Stop being ignorant, boy!

Him being a medical student doesn't mean he took his health serious. I'm not negating the probability but nobody is sure. I only made my comment based on the fact about Nigerians as regards health.

MondayOsunbor:
Health Care in Nigeria is Zero

and we are thinking of voting in two men who had looted the Nation in the past and going for part two for looting

The government should focus more on Primary Health Care! They should equip those Primary Health Care Centres to modern standards for citizens and residents to have easy and fast access to medical care.

I see no reason why people should go to Teaching Hospitals or General Hospitals always. They end up crowding the place and those places are understaffed already.

Mirakle69:
We all should take care of our health and be very observant and careful too.

We don't regards health matters in this part of the world and it's very very bad.

Yesterday evening, a young vibrant guy of about 26-28 years just slumped in Nkwo Market Nnewi. His market line folks thought it was all jokes and plays and were playfully asking him to go and eat before he faints oo.

Not knowing the poor guy had already kicked the bucket. After a few minutes he didn't get up, he was rushed to the hospital where he was pronounced dead on arrival!

Everyone should be careful and mindful of their health.

Nigerians prefer to post about your death than help you at emergencies.

HPHC:
It was so pathetic and unexplainable when I lost of of my younger brothers exactly 3 moths and a day today, who happened to be in his penultimate year as a medical student in one of the Federal Universities in Nigeria.


It's well. May God grant the family the fortitude to bear the loss. Is not an easy thing...

All the informations in your post are unnecessary. Many students die at their penultimate year in school. Many medical students die, nothing special about your brother's.

If you had alleged that the death was due to negligence or unprofessionalism by the health workers, I would have taken you more serious.

zimdante:
When you hear brief illness just know that village people is involve, there is a high number of people practicing witchcraft in the village, it is real my brother.
Except you have spiritual protection from God or any other means, once they mark you, if is bye bye or sorry becomes your name.

Stop this ignorant way of reasoning. Most of y'all Nigerians don't take your health serious and wouldn't even go to the clinic until it's extreme! You'd rather go to a roadside pharmacy to buy drugs without diagnosis or prescription from a physician.

I don't pity many of you!

PrimadonnaO:
Alpha male with no sense.

I can't agree less.

PrimadonnaO:
I mean, the very guts of him!

I wonder why no one was telling him he has taken leave of his senses.

What da freaking hell is that last paragraph?

It's really appalling. This guy is mentally unstable and sees violence as medium of communication. I pity his partner. He's the typical "Alfa male."

Your God or Science?

Keep deceiving yourself.

Revolva:
I dont buy the habit of going to chuch ..it morenof being programmed by some religion i am not a religious fanatic

In my street alone from starting to ending there are 12 churches around me ...why nigeria why

If I was a Governor, I would have banned churches, mosque or any religious buildings in residential areas.

I don't attend any church or mosque.

Waste of time, money and resources.

Graceunlimitedd:
fool keep your dirty mouth shut.
Slow brain dumb ass

Learn how to write properly, then come back. Goodbye, kiddo!

lordskenny:
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you are still a kid mentally because you haven't understood the meaning of life and relationship.

Still a kid? Ignorant and gullible people like you always think their opinion counts.

christianjoy:
Do you know why curses exist?

Curses don't exist.

The government did no wrong. They've been notified before prosecution and conviction. I hate when people cry foul after being at fault!

Kudos to the Crown Prince and the powerful Kingdom of Saudi Arabia!

Omihanifa:
The revelations coming out for this event is really scary. Bimbos friends are saying that the lady gave her all for the guy to become successful. That she even went as far as helping him to carry rituals ( EBO). In other to become rich.

That the fetish practices started affecting her mentally. She was seeing things and sometimes she will go to the market barefooted with scattered hair. As soon as she regains her sanity again she will cry and at point she even tried to pull out of the whole thing until she lost her life.

Only God knows who is saying the truth but from the video the guy posted too it’s like the in-laws showed him pepper. But the guy too implicated himself by saying nah today everything go end and am ready for whatever happens.

Don't be deceived by all those lies on the internet. The truth is that she was with him before his breakthrough and they both would have been in a toxic relationship.

People in toxic relationship don't wanna leave because of the money and soft life they enjoy, coupled with the fact that the lady had been with him for years and she didn't wanna leave because another woman would take her place. I don't pity her because she was just being foolish. Toxic relationship or marriage should never be tolerated, irrespective of the years you've been with your partner/spouse.

crackhouse:
He made it to the Internet and his village thought he have made in life and they took him away

Nothing like "village people."

MarketDispatch:
She probably did not migrate legally. If she did, she will get the respective Job relating to her degree.

Lol. You think it's easy to get it? You clearly don't know how the West operates.

elpochas:
Op most readers will tink dat u are jst telling stories,My Ex was just d exact description of your Ex character.A Gal dat always tell me that she will luv to stab me,had to hide all d sharp objects in my huz,destroys my tinz,fights me at home and in public,jst because i luv big Ass and Bwest.I had to run o.Bt i made money while we were dating,my way was opened,once she asks for anytin and i accept,i usually get d cash immediately.Since we broke up i knw hv been struggling bt i prefer it than eating wit d devil.Op my advice to you is dont go back to her or beg her again.What ever faith you belive in use it to get your miracle.Things will get beta some day,as long as u are alive.

So things got bad for you because you broke up with her? Clowns, all of you!

Cutehector:
But why you go fvck woman when you know say u no fit shoulder baby things?

Even me like this with my job and investments, i am very careful not to have any intercourse with a woman because i know the billings that will come with it..

If you complain, they will say shebi it was sweeting you when you were having sex.


As a man you have to be wise in this life. Cater for yourself first before you bring in children that you cannot cater for all in the scam of parents telling you they are old and they want to see grandchildren or my mates are getting married, why am i still single rubbish emotional blackmail.

They won't listen. Bunch of lazy and selfish creatures. Poverty is their middlename.