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Salam,

Here is one nice book I got for you titled THE ETIIQUETTES OF MARRIIAGE AND WEDDIING
by Sheikh Muhammed Nasirudeen al-Albanee.

*Edit*

It can't be uploaded, for its too large, the system says. Let me get your e-mail so that I can send you the book.

Hmm. I read the horrific story but I wonder what are you expecting me to say here.

For instance, I can't just depend people who live that far away from where I do live. Hence I know you can understand I know little or nothing regarding their costomary practice as this is attached to custom even in the article.

Secondly, you aimlessly attached this sort of practice to our noble Prophet, may Allah exalt his mention, but Alhamdulillah this same subject has had been severally discussed, fully explanied and so on.

Thus, considering these facts I wonder what you expect of me, Sleek29.

Still waiting for the answer. . .

I am praying for Nezan.

littleb:
Your writeup is somehow filmsy. Can you back it up with some reference if you are not a liar?

His writeup? I can't help but to laugh.

These guys know nothing but cut and paste. Thats what they know how to do best.

focused123:
Nothing of value ever comes from Muhammedan Islam apart from backwardness and stupidity.

That is at least what your porous brain can tell ya. Pity.

Most probably your thread deserved that action. That beside, I didn't know know that ever existed.

;d

There is never anything like "Satanic Verses" in the Qur'an.

If there are, then prove them.

Waiting. . .

[quote author=Aloy`Emeka link=topic=154710.msg4681864#msg4681864 date=1254876897]I didn't say Yorubas are hypocrites. I said your northern muslim brethren regard their yoruba counterparts as hypocrites and if you doubt me, ask around. The stereotype is strictly unIslamic if I must say. It's more of tribalism.[/quote]These words coming from you? Wonder.

Sleek29,

Start a fresh thread on whatsoever you wanna discuss; I'll engage you there. Respect this OP.

You folks never cease astonishing me; you say this and this to the extent you quote Prophet's ahadeeth to establish your lies. Wonder o!

AlhamduliLlah.

Assalamu alaikum,
[center]
Narrated Al-Bara:

The Prophet was of moderate height having broad shoulders (long) hair reaching his ear-lobes. Once I saw him in a red cloak and I had never seen a more handsome than him."


Bukhari :: Book 4 :: Volume 56 :: Hadith 751
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Ain't threatening you, gal. Just telling you to bahave sensibly. Period!

Arkison:
@ Muhsin

I don't know yet, we are still discussing it, I want to know that what I am doing is right first. I am not religiously learned, but I do not completely believed with what our Malam told me.

I am not also that reliously learned; but a common student.

I just want to get married. I am tied, I just cannot continue like this. . .

This is very good, at least that will help you protect and guard your gaze, movement with other girls and the likes.

What is the purpose of marriage? Is it to produce children only? What about stopping fitna?

I think brother abdulbanaat has answered this. It encompasses all these reasons and even much more.

I know the prophet said for those that cannot afford to marry, they should fast rather than castration.

True. But doing the marriage is more encouraged.

For me, at the moment I can afford the marriage expenses and base on my current income I can provide for myself and wife for the moment. Any additional expenses will put too much pressure on my finances, accommodation and other things. I am working and studying at the same time, while I want to enroll her into school immediately ASUU resume strike.

Sincerely don't fear children will make you poor. Allah, the Exalted, says:[center]
"Do not slay your children for the fear of poverty. We shall provide for them and for you." (Qur'an 17:31)[/center]

Even in a case where one is already poor, the Qur'an insists that Allah, the Exalted, will provide sustenance for us and for our children, and furthermore that Allah has made human life sacred. (See Qur'an 6:151).

Also, if it is about children, what can you people say about the way our people marry and just give birth to many children, while, logically, you know a man cannot afford to feed them, cloth them and pay for their education. Kawai, you see people going from one house to another house beging. This is very common in the North. Haba!

This is wrong. The Prophet, may Allah exalt his mention, would only be proud of his people if these people were on the right path. Begging is greatly denounced; its even disallowed in Islam.

I mean can't somebody plan the way he want his life to be? Is it again Islam for somebody to have a long term planning, with regard to how he want to live his life.

As I said above, that depend upon how you wanna do that planning. There is whats called AZALU, i.e. a practice done by the Prophet's Companions to "prevent" their wives from getting pregnancy. Will elaborate on that, inshaAllah, shortly.

And Allah knows best.

Oh, LOL I do know who is he.

Am just, indirectly, calling his attention.

Thanks

Hear those nonentities ranting. Say what you wanna say; the fact remains.

@Abdulbanaat,

Jazaakal-llah.

I just tell you.

yeswecan:
This pig cannot be a Jew

Why?

Hi there!

I "enjoyed" reading all the crap written by Aloy.Emeka, GEW and Ohsisi. Those words deserve nothing but to rightly be consigned into trash for they are horrible jargons. LOL

Lets reason it along; if Honor Killing is truly Islamic why is there NO Qur'anic verse or Prophetic tradition that in whatsoever sensible way support it? That hadeeth you brought, Aloy.Emeka, is phenomenally talking about something else. . .but you shamelessly enough fail to see that plain truth. Yet you are proudly under a frayed facade attributing it to Honor Killing. How unfair of you?

I challenge you to bring fourth any prove supporting your allegation. . .if you fail, then you are just being saying horse shit (am sorry to use the expression). Waiting. . .

@RichyBlack,

I personally kinda feel disappointed in you after reading that your reply above. Wallahi, i.e. I swear with my Creator Allah, you are (or were?) on of the NL members I respect very much. I read your writings. . .and I think you might know me as I frequented your child-board in recent time. Please take it easy. Thanks

@Sleek29,

You better behave yourself. You hear?

citizenY:
Ikeyman00

Take your time oh. This London winter don begin shak you.

The roasted tilapia offer shall be withdrawn O

Long time how u doin'

LOL

I kinda agree with all that you and Arkison had said about the guy.

Salam,

May Allah, the Exalted, bless you, abdulbanaat, for such an erudite posting.

@Arkison,

What method do you specifically prepare yourselves to employ in delaying the child birth/pregnacy? I think thats the case in point now.

I can see behind the frayed facade that Noetic get nothing to depend herself. Its better to stay mute before others to see.

Empty vessel.

noetic15:
when have u ever been unbiased?

Virtually always.

@Kettle Nezan,

LOL

noetic15:
here I am . . . .have u educated my ignorance?

Go back and re-read the OP.

True.

But that one is obvious, bros. Ain't too happy.

Abuzola:
Hehehe, nezan nezan nezan. When will this attitude stop, i pity the day u will be lowered in the grave. Haza ma raa'it , God is angry !

No, Abuzola. I pray for him; inshaAllah he'll soon see the light of Islam.