₦airaland Forum

kingxsamz:
Who wouldn't want to stay in a country where one can open 100 churches in one area?

They should start sharing chilled beer for people that make sensible contributions like this.

MICHEALADEX:
Yes you failed, everyone won't get to the final, keep developing the future is bright...your tribe didn't get you there but on meritocracy.


Love you man

How the guy tribe take enter here na? You people no dey tire. If we haven't had a rep in this form of sports before in Olympics, can u acknowledge that he is a pace setter first? Tribe.

Also, can you acknowledge that its self sponsored? Your irresponsible government cant even sponsor him. probably, because he is igbo.

Kriss216:
Quote me and apologize... HEAVEN will not fall.

Lol, im sorry.

dingbang:
nemesis will not catch up with anyone. His foolishness caught up with him.

It did already. Someone said she planned to travel out but it didnt work. She should deal with that stress and heartache first

kingvicking:
I later found out, she borrowed from over staffs & seems to have plans to travel out, so the plan failed somehow

She is even useless really. She wanted to travel out with people's money. My apologies to Kriss for defending the thief. If they swear for her now she will be asking what did she do?

Kriss216:
To help a Nigerian girl secure a loan is the 3rd most foolish things on earth!

Dont just say a girl. U guys are the worst. Abi u want to say that you have not heard guys scamming?

peacenaija:
Lol, the fact is that I'm spending a lot on personal development and also as the first child I've got to drop some. CFA exams standard fees alone is 1000usd and I still have other stuffs with japa oo. Anyways, thanks

You are welcome

peacenaija:
I'm on a salary of almost 400k but I dare marriage cos I see the salary so meagre for it. Sincerely, I still struggle with this ’cos I have a lot on my plate.

Struggling with 400k? Hmmmmmmm

peacenaija:
Lol, the amount you quoted is also struggling, I earn more than that as a single guy, I don’t smoke, womanise nor do pass myself but it’s still the same. The cost of living is really high this days

Honestly u need to have a rethink. U may think its not doable, na lie. Budget and take it out and live within the remaining. U are single. U need it more now becos when u marry, its going to double. What will u do then? U are living in luxury compared to many. Just try. Im surprised oh.. do automatic savings from the bank. Dont touch it. What will you do if you no longer receive it?

sinkhole:
Just as some thinking people have been saying, no amount is actually enough, but I earned 200k a month, I am married and my wife is not working.
I recently saved up and bought a car of around 2.3m naira, I have a plot of land with moderate building on it. I think I am not doing bad at all

Do u live in Lagos? I think u must be in a remote place to pull this stunts. Kudos to u

CodeTemplar:
Must we go abroad to manage?

Who doesnt manage? Warren buffet mannages. Abroad is more pronounced becos no body will give u anything. U need to stand firm on your own. Nigerians manage. I manage in my house

When u think u have heard it all, something strange pops up.

purest21:
Lol It's no news that the world regards the Nigerian passports as bunch of green algae parasites in booklet form constantly seeking for new geographical locations to leech on.
The best passports in West Africa are just The Gambian and Benin republic passports that allows you visit some top Asian countries and a whole lot of Caribbeans countries.

If you're just sitting around in Nigeria, and comfortable cos you're making what could be described as "enough money" by Nigerian standards without looking for a better passport that will benefit you and your family, by the time you would realize your mistakes, you'd have already put your own generation into the same mess your own father could have avoided if only he had birthed you in the UK in the 80's when they welcomed all commonwealth countries into their territory visa free, or whatever western country he desired.

Don't limit yourself and your offspring to that green algae parasite of a passport, your children won't forgive you if they grow up to learn that you were in a position to break the chains for them but didn't

You won't even be able to enjoy your supposed wealth and travel the world. While an Australian could just book and be on the next flight to Germany just to see a live UEFA finals, you'd be at the embassy at Lagos begging the gateman to allow you enter so you can narrate to them how you need a visa to go and watch live match in Germany

Its pathetic to see that ur fellow human being with one head like you can move around the world while u are stuck. Theres no worse feeling honestly. Its humiliating.

johnmartus:
http://saharareporters.com/2021/07/18/nigerian-passport-ranks-101-among-199-countries-behind-togo-chad-others

Àbeg mak una help me see who dey follow us. War torn countries with nothing to show for. SO REPUBLIC OF CONGO ALMOST SURPASSED US? SAI BABA

nyiamfrank:
Mr. Reno, can you link the fruitfulness of a tree to human attributes?
Is the pastor not bearing children?

Church growth? Financially or in population?

When some people left Jesus as he was preaching, did he drag them back? He even turned to the disciples and asked why they remained with him!

Winners must not mention money in that letter. Be fair, man.

The. Man don turn chemical reactor.

jimyjames:
Are you the one feeding these jobless people over there?

Lol, awesome.

Karlovych:
Yahweh right now

Funny

6 years and u wonder why her fone is always with her. All the people shouting send her out, calling her olosho and all that, shebi u will pat the guy dating ur sisters at the back for 6 years? Plus varoius degrees of beatings. Abi una no dey go church or mosque?

Op, when u finally born, how will you feel to know that a guy is having free sex with your daughter for 6 good years? Until we put ourselves in peoples shoes, we can never get things right. I hope this is not real sef

U don beat her tire and u expect peace? Are u a clown? U are lucky u are still alive. The reason u have not been poisoned is becos of what she gets from u.

Did this people pay to advertise this burial? If they did, they surely paid alot.

I see people that advised separation, it is equally an effective tool. Op you can try separation, who knows?

crazymommy:
I am allergic to fools.....it is battering not battery...olodo..bye

Fool like your miserable and foolish mum and the animal u call a dad? Bastard like u that can not argue reasonably. We are here to learn but u dont have that capacity to accept people's opinions. So ur parents are glad that they have a kid? Useless Nincompoop

So ur mum is even in the psychiatric? Not surprised.

crazymommy:
But if it was the man beating his wife I am sure you will not say we should hear from both parties.....let us stop this hypocrisy...because we are women do not mean we should be hypocrites...

It takes a hypocrite to recognise one. If u want to justify wife battery, u are welcomed. All i know, everyone in marriage is a culprit. Just like u will condemn a woman that cheats and pat the man at the back when he does same

Tajbol4splend:
We're not talking about gragra here madam, it's about being able to command respect and discipline but it's a shame for men whose wives don't respect, and it's disrespectful to curse your husband

See ehh, u think all this people that celebrate 20 years and 30 years did not suffer? Its bot easy. Also remember that as humans, he is equally not innocent. I am not excusing bad behaviour. Its not infidelity so it can be amended.

Tajbol4splend:
Most primitive and crude people who lack exposure will tell you you are not man enough if you can't absorb the excesses of your wife, that every woman is like that

They think say marriage na by muscle. Just yesterday i was discussing with hubby and said, soldier don tire u? Macho man, u don tire for wahala. E say e really don tire na calmness level now oh. Its not by gra gra. Even me sef d same thing. You will be doing i dont take shit, this one that one. Na u go tire. Im not excusing terrible behaviour.


Op single people that still depend on mummy thank u plenty for here oh

Xxx123xxx:
Seconded bro..Many of us lack introspection thus we are solely responsible for our plight .
This women who is sniper tongued bitch now was once your girlfriend whom YOU made your wife.

Now lie to yourself that she hasn't been inflicting injuries on your ego with her tongue before marriage.

Or that you didn't know she was raised by a single mom.

You and only you are culpable for the fix you are in.

Your poor choice in women brought you thus far I would advice you seek counsel from people who have a pedigree in this matters moving forward before you make a bigger mess of things.

Firstly i get your points.
It might not even be a poor choice to start with. There is no perfect marriage. There could be an underlying problem. Theres need for communication becos you dont know what is waiting for you in the next marriage. Also we don't to rule out new marriages with their unavoidable problems. I had one o. So im talking from experience. But theres much understanding now between us. Honestly u might think u made a perfect choice but give it time, kasala go burst. But even after three years, Its still a learning process. Remember he said they did not court. Its not a lost course yet. Third parties can even intervene. We dont know the womans reasons as well. So we all need to factor that.

BIA OP, THE PEOPLE YOU SEEK ADVICE FROM HERE ARE NOT EVEN IN RELATIONSHIPS. SO JUST CALMDOWN. I WISH YOU ALL THE BEST. OGA

Oga it goes both ways abi did u not see the single motherhood before marrying her? They have successful relationships that stems from what u are complaining about. Secondly we need to hear from her too. Audi altera patem. If i hot it right. Tank u veri muc

Candidlady:
Overated state



They should please convert the whole Lagos to a beach

So we can go there to have a nice time...

The so called Lagos that won't let one hear word

Lagos is just like an island. Cut it some slack.

focus7:
Stop calling her and stop looking for her, if she comes back send her away. As for the pregnancy tell that until she put to bed before you can determine whether the baby is yours or not

SECONDED

mayorjosh:
We really heard more about this burial than the actual mother when she was alive

You are.so right. Nawa o

Joke of the century

Imagine the fear of losing your properties or business as a foreigner. This place is not even a good place to relocate to.