₦airaland Forum

DankemzI:
Relationship needs care and attention, irrespective of her financial status you'll need your own money for self esteem and confidence to avoid see finish!
I remember Jemi my lover, this girl showed me all lights I had to call her aside and tell her I'm not financially buoyant to be in relationship with you RN, Omo she started funding me till I found my foot again true love exists for real.
Don't go for 1st daughters or lastborn.

I am the last and i supported hubby when he was down and he doesnt have plenty inlaws to visit unannounced, support in school and do what ever. Abeg what is your reason for not marrying the last born? Im waiting for your input

lonelyisland:
You know, at a time she couldn't stay any longer.
The pressure was much, she was loosing her mind.
We said it was us against the world, but she couldn't fight the world again.
Families were disturbing her for money, money was no where to be found.
What she doesn't know was her courage was what was pushing me forward, it was just what I needed to forge ahead.

At a time, I too was loosing it but she came with a strong vibes and aura which kept me moving.
She left, but her courage and strength is still there.

My advice to young guys please have money before you venture into a relationship, she might stay but you still need the money to keep it going.

Relationships/marriage are like old cargo trains that uses charcoal to function. You have to be ready to give in something. I don talk my own finish ooo

Watch how a novice will blame the lady now and xall her gold digger

Gentlerespect76:
How do you say she is smart, bros? Seems you don't know what marriage is all about. If anything, Anita is sadly the one who has lost everything. In Nigeria, just as elsewhere, the flow of the kids would be towards the Okoyes because that is what they are. Her loss is the gains of the Okoyes.

Says who? They are Okoyes, yes but that doesnt mean they can't do a 360 degree turn against them. Its like you have not heard or seen where kids grew up in their maternal home only to associate with the dad's side out of obligation. The woman can have 100% of the kids attention.m esp in this case. They are from the Okoyes by chance. I hope you will say the same thing if its the woman that cheated. Okoyes gain kor

Griffon:
You dey always type nonsense for here. Kilode?

Thank you

The woman looks unwell

Hope they are still alive.

Hhhahahahahhaha, interesting! See guts oh. Had it been ESN, just nairaland sef would have insulted the living daylight out of ibos. Yeye dey smell. This season film go sweet wey wey. Ndi ara, ndi ara, lele lele, lekwa ha lekwa ha. Oga eme unu voom n'anya

ridwan006:
It's abject poverty. There are school's out there that parents pay millions for their kids. Or misplacement of priority. Period!

Take am easy. All fingers a re not equal. I bet you are not even married

Their brother is already gradually getting the country there.

RedEnergy:
You have already played your hand too fast, so don't report your landlord yet because if the LASG storms that house now and the house gets shut or seized, your landlord will surely know it was you and might do voodoo or juju for you to destroy you too. So wait for some time like 4 months if possible. Don't say you don't believe in juju oh, because with small money they will finish your matter inside their evil coven. You fit run out of that house naked

Until the building collapse, he should continue to wait. The best thing is to try and move out

DankemzI:
Yul I'm surprised you'll selfishly allow your daughter to school in Nigeria, our education is messed up.
If a notorious unlettered thug aka agbero can know the value of sending his wards to school abroad, how much more a lettered and rich celebrity like you.
Give that girl the best

You forgot that money answereth all. Do you think if he has the wherewithal, he would give it a second thought?

Frales6:
amachie uwa george

Lol, truth

Jerryherd:





Money $$$


As usual it's Tinubu's or Afonja's fault that we voted Kerosene Ikpeazu , Rita Daniels, drunk Obianno , Okorohausa to represent us on National issues and expect people to take us serious as a region


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So says the man that has been donating money to the whole country till infinity. Pot calling kettle black

Its either u rejoice with him, dont comment at all or dont even bother opening the thread. Some people are just so angry with him. Who e epp? If e no epp u, e epp am. Congratulations to him!!!

APOSTLECHUMA:
BIBLICALLY A WOMAN HAS NO RIGHT TO LEAVE HER HUS AND REMARRY BUT TO BE SINGLE OR RECONCILE AS A 2ND MARRIAGE MEANS LIVING IN ADULTERY. IN HER CASE, SHE DIDNT JUST LEAVE, " THEY WOKE UP ONE MORNING ANDTHE MAN TOLD HER IT WAS OVER, MEANING MARRIAGE DISSOLVED. HERE THE MAN BROKE THE MARRIAGE AND SHE HAS THE RIGHT TO LEAVE BUT THEY WERE SUPPOSED TO RETURN THE BRIDE PRICE B4 HER ENTERING INTO A 2ND MARRIAGE. IF THAT WASNT DONE, SHE IS STIL THE WIFE OF THE FIRST MAN. I BLAME THE YAHOO YAHOO CRIMINAL CALLED PASTOR THAT DOESNT KNOW THE BIBLE.

Thank u oh. But some male chauvinists like Righteousness will not say the truth later he will be quoting bible up and down. He never condemned the man but sprints to call out the woman. Well na for people wey dey take u serious.

berryPee:
Especially when her husband is still alive. such behavior make me wonder how some church member will not see anything wrong in his action and call him to order

While its so right to starve his family. U people will just turn a blind eye on the man's madness and Relax, spread legs and condemn the woman. All sin is the same before God. A man that cant provides for his family and a pastor that marries a divorcee.

Righteousness2:
Madam Tina, I don't Blame you.
It is the So called General overseer of "World Bank" that I Blame.

I Don't understand how a man that calls himself a Pastor opens his eyes and Marries somebody's wife under any guise.

This is Unholy, Ungodly , Unfortunate and the height of Adulterous sodomy.

These are the Last of last days and Indeef the Love of many have Grown cold.

As usual, u lifted the extract to make sure u tarnish her image and feel good about urself. I guess u didnt read the mans atrocities. Ur bible tells u a man that cant provide for his family is worse than an infidel. U no go quote that one. Or the mans threat like he owns her life, there by making himself god. U better balance ur preaching oga if u want to win souls for Christ. Abeg swerve joor

larryeffizy1:
Hi folks, I'm Sure we're doing good in our respective places.?
Quick one pls, I really need the help or rather a piece of advice from whosoever has been in this shoe before...; Because it's really affecting my marital life negatively and that's why I'm here if I could get a cool counsel on this platform bikoo; as we all know that a problem shared is half solved... The question is "How May/Can I get rid of Marriage Phobia...?

I'm above 30 and I'm really scared of MARRIAGE... A candid advice from you guys will go along way... Hence, if you have had the experience before, kindly share with me how you go about it and overcame it....


Thanks#

Life itself is a risk. Dont u know that ur mates are dead, sick, incapacitated for life, mentally retarded? What makes u think u are so precious? Decide head on and knowing that its not going to be easy. Who told u singlehood doesn't have challenges? Secondly, its a choice u have to make. To remain single or not, bear in mind that even if u date for 20years, u cant know someone well until u live with the person. There must be hitches but ur ability to let go fastly is very paramount . Its not easy o becos as a woman i sabi count scores( dont judge me). Communication and tolerance are essential skills u need for relationships esp marriage. In ibo theres an adage that says, chi buo anu ozo. Meaning, when day breaks, another story emerges. U see there is no escape. Lower ur expectations and take the bold step.

That guy is in trouble oh. So nairaland babes like fine bobo like this?

Magnoliaa:
Yunnooooooooooo. Make I no talk. I go just dey behind you with this comment.

I thought u were married. Hmmmmmmm

TarOrfeeek:


Is it not Toyota Corolla side mirror he knocked down.

With N3,000 you will buy new one. Infact if you beg Ladipo boys well, they will dash you one.

The real honesty is when you knock of a G-wagon side mirror. Even the Police escort will not allow you write note and keep for his oga

U people must find a way to frustrate someone 's effort. The sincerity alone speaks volume in this wicked, crazy and insane society

chiiraq802:
I hate women with passion

Too late, a woman gave birth to u

Icumsa45:
He is the first born son, so by tradition the dad's properties belong to him. But the mum wants none of that

So u are saying he should chase her out? By right, its the woman's house until she dies. Which yeye first son talks about property when the mum is still alive? Is it because the man is dead? He should have chased the parents out na. So what is the difference that the mum is the remaining one alive? Would it have been different if the man is the one alive? Or because its the mum, she doesnt have the right to live in the her late husband's house? Whats your point? A normal son isnt supposed to be talking property now that the mum is still living. See the muscle u are even using to call the first son. From the look of things, its like u are the first son. Why is he stressing her when he should be pampering her? Wetin be house sef?

Icumsa45:
A friend of mine is in the exact same situation and the mom wants him dead. True story o!

The woman cant take the betrayal and so she feels its better of that he is dead to her. How can u evict ur mum? That ur friend needs mental check.

Parisian:
That's what happened when you raise your son to have a god complex. It backfires later on.

Exactly

Pavore9:
He can't evict his mother and his sisters from the house, the house belonged to her late husband and his sisters have a right to live in their father's house till they get married.

100%. To think he wants to rent a house for his mum shows hes not even concerned for his mum and sisters. The first son is shacking him like alcohol. Thats her husband's house na. He should get out and go rent house and live with his bride joor.

Ababbio:
Lalastclala, Mynd44,_Dominique

I no marry again kon be wahala. Insecurities

CryptoRepublic1:
Don't jump into marriage, marriage ain't worth it anymore.

I won't get married if I can change back the time.

There's nothing in it for men.

But the kids are yours and bearing ur name. And will end up continuing ur generation

Benz4pimp:
do you even know the meaning or reasons some guys turn playboy?You found the word and you are feeling fly on it...foolish mentality...what do you have that you are calling yourself playboy?

Im more pissed than u bros. He sounds like hes a trophy. Mtheewwwwww

Chuky7:
Thanks bro

I tell you that idea of staying with an unknown girl all your life is frightening.

What happens if you don't like her presence anymore or she becomes a pest do I just leave her like that?

What makes u think the feeling is not mutual? She may even end up getting fed up of u first. Unknown girl u say? What happens to dating first or courting?From the look of things, u aint serious sef. U sound like u are doing someone a favour. Marriage is an option

LadySarah:
Is yours forward or backwards? Mine would crawl with belly backwards first then forwards.

Ahh, shes already driving be that. Reversing and the rest

sugah:
I know it's normal but how can I get my dd to crawl on all fours instead of her tummy?

Its a gradual process. Mine did army crawl like a worm then progressed to using the four.