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wunmi590:
It is very simple to use...

Just use your naira card the dollar deduction will be converted to naira when deducting from your account

Ok, no vex abeg, which one is naira card? Is it normal deposit at the bank? Sorry again

Kobicove:
That lending money to friends and relatives in Nigeria always ends in premium tears!

Honestly this is number one on my list. So much enemies after. Kai

wunmi590:
Sure, thank you

Pls i checked that Aliexpress you mentioned earlier. They transact in dollars. Can u kindly explain how you deal with them? I was thinking i could do it like i do with konga. Thanks

wunmi590:


That salary is some peoples prayer point, you better grab it with immediate alacrity, except the condition of the job is not favourable to you...

Alot of company are still trying to get their feet, alot of company are closing down these few days and alot of people are losing their jobs..


That's exactly what I earn after tax, and I have a 9month old baby....

What you just need to do is to cut your coat according to your size...


Like me I don't spend unnecessary, I only buy what I need at that particular time...

The only person I waste money on is my daughter, I can buy things for her for Africa, aliexpress don suffer for my hand may be because I'm a first time dad

Ofcourse, she is your motivation.

November24:
Inbox me,call my pastor.
Most of una nor believe God Sha

Thanks for your help

OssyMalik:
very stupid and senseless comment. Are you looking for likes?

funny enough, many liked it. People are truly sick

Crowwejihadist:
You wanted to kill the man before his time, that's why he decided to run for his life.

Take heart and train your children, they will ma proud.

aswear

You are one of a kind, aswear!

gassbee:
2 year old with no teeth and she is confidently grinding chin chin n meat, wat experiment is d baby using

I dont know. Probably the gum is effectively doing what the teeth is supposed to do. I just think its odd though

Playloaded:
A Rwandan woman identified as Marie Josiane from Rwanda has married two brothers who are identical twins.

The young lady revealed that she first dated the elder twin who did not disclose that he had an identical brother.

In a video shared by Afrimax TV, Marie said had never seen them together. However, on one faithful day she met, hugged and kissed the other brother without knowing that he was not the one she was dating.

https://playloaded.com.ng/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/twin-brothers-wife_PLAYLOADED.COM.jpg

The second twin then fell for her, but when they all realised what had happened, they chose to happily be in an polyandrous relationship.

The woman also revealed that hate or envy does not exist between the two brothers due to the fact that they are both married to one woman.

https://playloaded.com.ng/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/twin-brothers-wife2_PLAYLOADED.COM.jpg

The three have been staying together for the past two years and counting.

The twin brothers say due to the nature of their marriage, people say a lot of things but they always turn a deaf ear because they ae happy sharing her.

https://playloaded.com.ng/wp-content/uploads/2021/09/twin-brothers-wife3_PLAYLOADED.COM.jpg

They are expecting their first born soon.

Watch the VIDEO below:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=6-wmW8J4f3E

Share? Haaaa, this people done finish this woman. Abeg na human being dem dey share abi na fish? This woman has esteem issues. What will she explain to her family?

MrEazi223:
Every time people on Nairaland says “Pray for God direction” like you all haven’t prayed before, the prayers you’re been praying since when y’all were born where did it lead to? Sometimes it’s better to use common sense than to seek what’s not

Thank you jare! Most times its common sense and risk. Prayer without works is futile.

Parizz:
any girl below 26, 27 is highly fertile

I beg to defer. It is not rocket science to know that being old is relative. A 40 year old woman will give birth to 10 kids if not careful. While the 20 year old lady will find it difficult to conceive. Age slows down fertility quite alright but, it is not a guarantee to have sex recklessly just cos one might not conceive due to age. Some people whether we like it or not are more fertile. A fifty year old that still menstruate will conceive than someone mush more younger. FERTILITY DOES NOT RESPECT AGE

825jobs:
Hmmm. She will be 29 when she is ready, and too old. Ask yourself, at what age did our fathers married our mothers?

If she is not ready now, she WON'T be ready later o.

She is just keeping you on the side while she shops for options.

And u r definitely spending on her on top the salary you are managing. Ok o.

Once a girl crosses 28, they become a tough meat, combative, harder to please, "over wise", and demanding. Their feminine spark dries out as they age cos they've seen too much, and have too much life issues.

If she has been single for long and reaches that age, she loses her ability to bond cos she is too used to being alone. Dangerous something.

Most guys won't make it until they hit 40. Find someone else of ur size, have a side hustle along Ur salary, e go soft later for everybody including me.

Its your type that puts undue pressure on the gullible. 29 is too old. Oya let the competition begin! Single guys, start scrambling for babes below 27 oh. N9 try cross pass 27. Maturity in marriage is more important than been naive

phemmylink:
Baby mama's and single mothers everywhere! Divorce is the talk of the town everyday, Yet some are enjoying their Marriage.... What is the in thing, what is the secret recipe of marriage or home.

See how u called out single mothers and baby mamas! Who impregnate these people? How about single dads and baby daddies?

[quote author=Kobojunkie post=105720477]Are the married the only ones to enjoy this happy home you speak of?

There are single- Parents and single folks out there who would also describe there homes as just that, happy. Why focus on just the married?

Good question! The way people carry this marriage for head sef ehh. The work, stress and responsibilities in marriage is so exhausting that i marvel at the way people worship the title. Its a lovely venture with the right person but atimes abeg e no be sugar at all times. Singles also live fulfilled lives. Single parents or baby mamas are so much happier than some married people. You people dont cut the single parents here some slacks, esp the women. I wonder how dey cope with all the attacks from ignorant kids here

Una don tire? No keep feeding/fueling their course. Person wey say e mama no go res, em sef no go res.

futuremoma34:
Lol ..very normal..my daughter will be 2 in October and she has only 10 teeth..5 down 5 up

My customer said her gal is 2 years old but doesnt have a tooth yet. But if u watch her grind chin chin, meat and normal things adults eat, u would think she even has molars. I told her that kids develop at their own pace. What parents see in this journey is so marvelous. Orishirishi

YummySuits:
Hello mamas. Please is 4 months too early to use a baby walker?

Yes, pls dont try it oh. Baby is not yet able to bear weight on their feet and upper part of their body. My baby almost choked

king6869:
I Don't Make Noise Like Obi Cubana, Zubby or Jim Iyke, I Make Real Money" - Uche Maduagwu


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZiFKWJvPLLk

He blasted these two people in question that he doesn't like how they make noise about their money on social media. This is coming after Uche and Jim Iyke engaged in a physical combat fight when Uche called Iyke a ritualist and a Yahoo boy on Instagram.

This guy go soon die oh

[quote author=Risingblue008 post=105686347]U don't have something to say
Olosho
One prick no dey do una
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see them hypocrites don land. One pussy dey do una?

Zuchey91:
Our upbringing is totally different, he comes from a family where women are supposed to be suffering and still be silent...this I found out after marriage...and I come from a family where women have a say.

I know how it would end if I tell him about it and I am not ready to go down that road. I am tired of the constant quarrels.
I can say I have gotten to my elastic limit and I have no strength of fighting for this union anymore in me.

Cant u invite a sensible third party to intervene? What is this constant quarel that cant be resolved? Marriage is compromise oh. Honestly, that ex is coming to steal , kill and destroy. Try and work on it if the man is even trying to make his marriage work. Although, Marriage is not a do or die affair. Secondly, why not try separation and see if it will help out? I just think there are some things that i am not really getting. I wish u luck maam

begoniaa:
There is NOTHING in this world, absolutely nothing that can be compared to men's hypocrisy and double standards. Especially the ones on NL. So if I actually left my boyfriend of 3 years, for his friend, or a guy I met through him, to be getting married to the new guy -- will y'all be here celebrating me and telling him I found something in the new guy that he (my bf) doesn't have?? Will you be calling him a brhoe that cannot be husbanded??

And when the Dregstan or whatever he calls himself said girlfriends are masquerading hoes, about 2,500 of you liked it with over 300 shares and one DrayZee was dragging me oh. Because a girl was feeling conflicted over two guys: her bobo and a new guy and there was no sort of words you didn't call her. Now you're actually here justifying this again? Nah. I refused to be shocked, but I truly marvel at who do una this kain thing. It's not ordinary eyes.

Girl leave boy...women are hoes and aren't loyal.
Boy leaves girl...well, that is life. He probably doesn't see what he wants in you. Men are the prize.
Girl in a relationship is having feelings for another guy...women? They are the most confused beings in the world.
I am a lady that doesn't put all my eggs in one basket...and the men dating you thinks they've found a valuable thing in you? Spits. Your toto must be wide.
Woman divorces a cheat...these vaginarians are gold diggers.
Shameless man comes to drag a fellow doctor in the lowest manner possible...what women will cause ehn. Fear them.
Randy lecturer fired for soliciting for sex...another man destroyed by a pussy. But if those girls were intelligent, why are they going to meet lecturers?
Man slept with maid...can you see? Can you see what happens when you raise your daughters to be slay chicks that can't cook?
Man cheats on career woman...well, something must have pushed him out. When she's too busy going all over the world.
NOI becomes WTO-DG...can you women see your lives outside? How many of you are this impactful? It's to be posting bumbum on IG you know...but if you have a political career sha, I don't care, my meals must be fresh, cooked and served.

Ndi ala.

U sabi them wella. Bunch of unrepentant hypocrites. That is how their lives are oh. Anywhere belle face. Unreliable elements.

emonis88:
See forget all these ur feminist views, men go through alot in marriage, but they don't cry n shout as often as d women do to let d whole world know what is happening. Y do u think d men often r d first to go to d Almighty God.

How can u say that when u are allowed to marry more than one wife? When the man dies, the woman killed him and is subjected to all manner of torture but when the woman dies, the man's babe will for the burial. Give him two months, the woman is replaced sharply Men cheat at will but some women cant do that esp in some cultures. Women are prone to lose more in event of a divorce. Women lose their beauty faster due to childbirth. Who takes the blame in a childless family even when its obvious that the man has 0 sperm count? Where can a woman go to in event of divorce? Men earn more at workplaces thereby making women vulnerable. How many stay at home men have u heard of as against stay at home moms? U know it makes the women lose career prospects, money and self esteem sef. Which men take kini to God? In churches esp Pentecostal, what is the ratio of men and women?I can go on and on joor.

Mavor:
Gbam!!!! Kids or not, I will never take such nonsense in my matrimonal home. I will treat her well and expect nothing else in return. She try rubbish and I send her packing. My kids remain with me. in general, 9ja girls of today's generation are not worth the hassle. Dont understand why women of our mother's generation didnt pass the virtue they have to the younger generation of today. That is why I am not keen on getting married, at least not to a 9ja girl, and I'm almost 40.

There is no perfect person. Even the one u are planning, what makes u think she will be perfect? My hubby and i always come to the conclusion that marriage is luck. Its like a bag full of surprises. Anything u see inside u take. Even if u reach 60, its not a guarantee. Its good to look before u leap but its never a guarantee . Its boldness

WoundedLamb:
It's funny the OP somehow believes men make more compromise or tolerate more in marriage. We all know that if married women decide to create threads to share the things they've had to put up with cause "that's how men are", Nairaland would crash. Anyway, I suggest he speaks for his uncle and not "married men".

U dey mind am. And to think that men suffer more is just abnormal but people can never admit it. Thats how crooked humans are. If u start asking everyone here who tolerates more in their family, they will tell u its their mums. But now, every body is pretending that the men take shit more. All na wash

BRATISLAVA:
Glad to see some adults on the forum. I was waiting for your response to that hate filled character. Seems you have observed him already. If he couldn't deduce that you were describing an elderly man, it's obvious he's a lost cause.

These abusive small boys have made the place a battleground where anyone who doesn't feel the same way they do is insulted. Most of them are damaged, broken products of society. That is why civility is far from them.

This is exactly what i have been hammering since. Rubbing their weird upbringing on others.

Watch how people that cant maintain simple relationships will come out and start roaring like a lion now. Same thing women see in their marriages. Women suffer more but will not admit it.

CHoccolaTE:
I want to hear the wife side of the story first

U dey mind oga narrator. Human being sef ehh dangerous pass devil himsef. Even if na Jesus, So d egbon no do anything at all. Abegi, next

MrBrownJay1:
sadly...
- in Nigeria/africa, IT IS AN UPGRADE
- to broke/ugly people, IT IS AN UPGRADE
- to oloshos/runs babe, IT IS AN UPGRADE
- to single mothers and divorced women, IT IS AN UPGRADE

So to a rich man, its not upgrade? So why do they get married then? Why do widowers rush to get married much earlier than the women? U haven't met a man that loves his family to death. Speak for yourself

Una go kill una sef by una sef las las

passionguy:
Who are the family
Is it not I and my other siblings and mum
And to be sincere he can't make good of money. He doesn't have clothes shoes or slippers

No vex, this one make me burst laff. I can relate, honestly. Time heals all wounds. If there is money, send him abroad

tomiwakeem:
Cut the crap about this your male child stuff. She is not the only lady who hasn't given her husband a male child but still have a happy family.
What stopped tuface from marrying the pero that gave him a male child ,or are you daft to know that it is the man"s sperm that determines the sex of a child.

Thanks, may u continue to grow in wisdom. Even after going to school, some people still wallow in 'basic' ignorance

Nothing wey i no go read for here.