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tolue42:
I just applied 1 hour ago...I'm "IN" for the April training already. They said a member of their team will contact me as soon as possible..

please what does business url mean on that form

Ouchbabe:
I applied last year, was dropped before the pitching stage.
I have reapplied again this year. Got a mail that I'm in and training begins in April.
God please help me to get the grant this year. Amen

please on that form, I saw business url, what does it mean.
And it needs to be filled out

Now they are celebrating his exit. But the sycophantic Nigerians I know would have been hailing him to the high heavens while he held sway..I can picture them making reference to him as "our honourable affectionate, kind hearted CMD that is the father of all".
You will never know who really loved you in Nigeria until you are out of a high position

It sounds positive though and should receive a resounding amen.
I just pray those other negative predictors will not come out and instill fear as usual

Amumaigwe:
It is called submission. That's the key to keeping marriages. Loose it and loose your marriage and transform into emergency bitter feminist . It is as simple as that.

I don't understand the way you people reason at times on this forum. So hiding your husband's excesses is submission..that is the stupidest thing I have ever heard.
So if I am not perfect too, my husband should hide my excesses and term it what?.
If you have awife that is always drunk and commits adultery up and down or involves herself in other vises please cover her up o..
The Bible says a woman should be submissive and not stupid..
So if my husband kills someone, the only way I show submissiveness is by shielding him abi?.
Abeg go rest
And when she donates STDs to you, tell her thank you

[quote author=lexy2014 post=108943545]U always take advantage of every opportunity to make a fool of yourself. By now, u should no that all these attempt of trying to make buhari look good by making others look bad, doesn't work. You end up achieving the opposite. Buhari is a failure and u have only succeeded in emphasing that fact. It's because he has failed that u are so desperate to twist history in order to justify his failure. If he has any success to show, u won't be bothered about what okonjo iweala said. As at the time okonjo iweala made the statements u are parading, APC was promising Nigerians heaven and earth. But let's look at your claims. According to u:

"National treasury/federation account was looted dry and out."

Between may 29 2015 when buhari became president and December 2015, buhari made 16 foreign trips. If the national treasury was looted dry and out as u claim, where did he get money to make 16 foreign trips?

Also, some of u have at several times said buhari gave bail out to states immediately after coming into office. how was he able to pay workers and maintain soldiers fighting Boko Haram between may and December 2015? Pls where did he get d money to give bail out if d national treasury was looted dry?

Again, Amaechi said buhari inherited $2.5b. how's that possible based on the claims u are making?

https://www.nairaland.com/5005559/amaechi-reveals-amount-money-jonathan

U claim that the excess crude account was looted dry but records show that Jonathan left $2.1b in that account. Pls read how buhari has reduced that amount to $60m.

http://saharareporters.com/2021/10/16/how-buhari-government-depleted-nigeria%E2%80%99s-excess-crude-account-21billion-2015-current


https://www.google.com/amp/s/nairametrics.com/2020/07/10/nigerias-excess-crude-account-falls-to-72-million/%3famp=1

https://www.vanguardngr.com/2021/10/nigerians-in-paradise-2015-depletion-of-excess-crude-account-unacceptable-%E2%80%95-rep-member/amp/[/quote
] Please don't bother your self.
He is irredeemable.
Even cele people no fit use their cane flog out wetin dey that guy body.

post=108940346:
And Okonjo Warned us back then,
Some no listen.
Some just decided to suffer from amnesia.
When they were borrowing money at the time we made the highest revenue in the history of our darling nation,
They looted all the money dry and went to foreign countries to borrow money to pay the salaries of civil servants!!!

National treasury looted dry and out.
The Excess Crude Account was looted dry.
Foreign reserves drawn down.
Federation Account, emptied.
And the economy was set on an irreversible path to recession.

May Devil punish each and every politician that 'put' Nigeria in the ugly situation we are in right now and all their supporters.

May New year no sweet for dem all.
Iseeeeeee

may God punish every politicians both of the past government and especially the present government that have thrown this country into a borrow pose nation. Amen.
And may God punish every one that doesn't see anything wrong in what the useless leaders past and present are doing to impoverish Nigerians the more. Amen
And may God also punish every zombie both online and offline that still supports the liars in government even when their failures and cluelessness is obvious.
Amen.
We rise

Sermwell:
A performing government will need no propaganda! Allow the people validate your performances!


Why I'm not perturbed about this useless government is because I'm doing just fine financially since 2016!

I made my first #50 million in 2021. We move again in 2022!!

please I humbly ask how you made the money.
Is it something I can learn.
Help your sister, so that I will not be crying about this Buhari's economy abeg. Ejor

E go soon reach the ones that are disturbing our peace with their "darling daddy" love song
It's like their brains only gets reformatted when they get a taste of what innocent Nigerians are going through.
Karma doesn't need google map to locate any address she wants to get to.
And by the way he said he dumped supporting Buhari because nobody helped them raise the Ransom money.
Chai!!! I just dey laugh in Chinese.
So if Buhari or the government had raised the Ransom, he would have continued to support him, so that the kidnappers would have the temerity to kidnap more people.
You see why I keep saying that these Buhari's supporters need to be striped naked and flogged with water cane rubbed with fresh pepper.

If this woman is advising women to cover men's excesses like womanising, drunkenness, domestic abuses, maybe stealing etc that means she will cover her son too if he is a cultist , since she believes that nobody is perfect. So she will deal with his imperfections secretly.
Please people, it is not every thing you hear from the pulpit that you swallow.
Test the spirit, and also "test the word"(my emphasis)
I am a believer, but I don't run after men or women of God.
I try to have a deeper understanding of what they preach.
Most times they preach out of their own emotions and not according to the leading of the holy spirit.
Where in the Bible was it written that women should hide their husbands?.
Would the husband's hide their wives?.
Abegi

vincentjk:
Why are people now increasingly becoming obsessed with divorce?

Well, nothing lasts forever only God.
I've a short message for nairaland redpillers;

swallowing the redpill is good and advisable but bros nor go do pass yourself o. Treat your woman with respect, help out with chores in the house (cooking, washing, cleaning and taking care of the kids) if the need arises. Marry your friend and treat her with respect because someday it'll pay off.

When I look at olu Jacobs today, I recall when my dad was so sick that we the children even became tired of everything but my mum stood by him, cleaning and washing his body every now and then. She did all these because my dad treated her so well when they were younger.

Use your head bros. Pick a message or two from the redpill movement and leave the rest for who it's meant for.

Standing ovation for this bro .I hope all those young men doing gra gra on nairaland would appreciate this comment and adjust themselves very well.
It's not by Macho, it's by being very sensible..
That olu Jacob's case really strikes a cord.
If he was not nice to his wife, I don't think she would have been doing it with all her heart if at all she decided to stand by him

Hammyaladin:
Please someone should recommend be a good book to read..


Quote me please!

Virginia Andrew : Heaven.
Or flowers in the attic

Elporo:
Wise man. I wan buy him a keg of palmwine!

bring the palmwine let me go and deliver to him.
Just add my share inside

Yampotatocarrot:
Something else is wrong with this man o. Even if e no wan go house chores, he can't do even school runs that dads love to do cos the few times they're chanced to do it, it brings extreme joy to their kids?? No o, trust me, this case isn't normal and definitely absurd

it's definitely true and your conclusion is what other people I told feel about the matter.
Things are really happening.
Women hide pains they are going through.
I am not a feminist and I don't support rubbish..if a woman is wrong I tell her straight up and if a man is wrong, I don't sugar coat my anger at him.
There are good women out there that begin to over react when they can't take the abuse anymore.
Women really undergo mental, physical and emotional abuse, but because in this part of the world, women are supposed to be subservient and submissive, they lock their wounds and stay put.
When women complain, they are told a wise woman builds her home and a foolish one pulls it down according to the scriptures..I don't have a problem with the scriptures, but please marraige should not be a Lifetime of bondage and pains.
This same man I talked about would rather push everything to his wife to do.
Home work, school projects, school activities, church activities and every other thing that should ordinarily bond the children and father would be pushed to the wife who would go ahead and do it.
But mind you that those children are watching.
When the grow up and begin to shower their mother with gifts,some disgruntled people that were not there to know how much the woman sufferiwill begin to blame the woman for disconnecting her children from the husband.
There are some horrible women out there too.
I have seen a man that is closer to his children than his wife.
In all, I just advocate for a peaceful home for the sanity of the children who are usually at the receiving end of their parents wahala

Josephamstrong1:
Calm down, ma'am. Whether it's a firsthand experience or others, no marriage is a bed of roses.
I was only able to decipher sentiment in your comment which is borne outta personal experience. Accept it or not, this is a public space. Everyone mustn't swallow your ideologies hook line and sinker. But that's by the way.
Your stated out points would have been valid for consumption if you had included your gender in it. You sounded so pained with men...like the other gender are all saints. Or you've forgotten that most of these marital crisis are invariably caused by the wives.

I really hate it when people like you have this mindset that it is a woman that always causes problems in marraiges.
Oga are you married?.
If you are not, then you will never understand..but if you are married, then I am totally disappointed in your mindset.. Not like I am surprised at your comment, but just disappointed because your first response to me pointed out that you are a chauvinist that would always defend the men folk Even with they are wrong.
Please oga if your mindset is that it is women that cause all problems in marraiges, then I don't have reasons to communicate with you.

[quote author=Yampotatocarrot post=108885535][/quote]I know a man that feels doing house chores is a taboo and a sort of degradation of his rep.
He never washes his clothes or even prepares meals for his little children when the wife is seriously sick or even out of the house to the Market or to do school runs .
This particular man would rather tell the children to eat Biscuits or bread and wait for their mum to return..he will never clean up the kid's mess( poo/ wee).
He will only make his own food when the wife is tired and sick, and when she begs him to help out, he will refuse outrightly or do it grudgingly.
This friend of mine had serious menstrual cramps and she was weeping profusely begging the husband to help pick the children from school, but he refused and told her to take drugs, wait out the pain and go back and pick them later.
It was like 4pm before she felt better to go and pick children that had closed since 2pm

georgee:
Nigerian pastors left the group chat

. Chai nairaland get characters.
I just imagined one popular prophet removing himself from the group chat.
That one that is always predicting elections.
Who wants to be eating watery beans in jail?

That means all our pastors and prophets would be jailed na.
But what exactly do some of this prophets really gain from false prophesies that ignite fear?
I hardly read or hear good prophesies concerning Africa from these pastors and prophets..can someone really tell me why we hardly have good prophesies from our pastors and prophets

Josephamstrong1:
It's either you're marriagedly tired, but managing for kids' sake or divorced, single but scared to get married. Your writeup is so biased, coming from a dark scepter of an experienced, but broken and disappointed heart.

so because I Decided to outline most people's experiences males and females in a marriage or relationship and advise against making mistakes they will regret, you ended up using you monitoring device to know that I am not married,or divorced or just managing with children.
And your choice of words dark sceptre whatever it means is your opinion.
People go through a lot in relationships.
I have done a comprehensive research to the best of my capabilities and most of the issues boil down to some of what I listed.
You don't have any right to judge my comments as being biased
Did you really take time to read through my comment?, Or you just picked what you wanted.
Did you read the part I talked about mistakes that people make because of money or looks?.
Did you read the part where I said that no relationship is perfect.
Did you read the part where I said most of the signs I highlighted are usually always ignored until it becomes too late?.
Did you also see the part where I indicated that those points are for males and females?.
You know one thing I really don't like about nairaland apart from tribalism is people's toxicity and know it all attitude.
And if you don't feel comfortable taking in the message without attacking the messenger, I'd suggest you waka pass my comments next time please.

UnabashedIPOB:
The Attorney-General of the Federation and Minister of Justice, Abubakar Malami (SAN), has claimed that the President Muhammadu Buhari administration was able to tackle the terrorism and insecurity bedevilling the country.

Speaking during a radio programme in Kano State, Malami claimed that it had been long since he heard about attacks in markets and places of worship in the country[


Now, could any one of you [b]Buhari Idiots who are used to blowing your vuvuzelas on this platform and others in support of your paymaster, listen to the above mendacious statement by the Sharia trained and quota system lawyer, Mala Mumu? How could he for goodness sake make such an lMBEClLlC statement with a straight face knowing quite well that he was lying? Assuming arguendo, just because he had NOT heard of attacks in the market and places of worship, does not mean that there are no such attacks or in other places other than those. What about attacks on the highways and byways? What about attacks in schools, villages, etc.? This man is so foolish that he has lost every respect that the office accords.

his useless supporters don't care what you think.they still regard mumulami as their hero.
I find it difficult to believe that people actually still support this government

MALIGNANTGuest:
Are you serious?
That's Piggery in action.
If I realize such, I will gladly withdraw my sister from the marriage even b4 she considers divorce.
I have a wealthy colleague of mine who uses latrine & leaves his excreta in situ. The moment there are visitors, you'll see his wife running Helter Skelter ensuring the latrines are in shape.

In fact, his mother did same during Omugwo.
That was when we knew it was a lineage thing!
Bad habit is terrible.
Tufiakwaaaaaa.

my bro, if I begin to tell you real life stories here eh!! We may end up derailing the topic.
I have seen and experienced things, and also heard from other women.
Most women live in regrets that they are so ashamed to talk. But when they see who they can confide in, they usually break down and talk.So what I do basically nowadays is to advise ladies especially young ladies that are still doing googly eyes in love or infactuation

MALIGNANTGuest:
May God Bless you.
Also Add;
Do not marry a man that uses the TOILET and always forgets to flush his excreta.

Exactly. Or the one that spits mucus everywhere, even in the kitchen sink and tells the wife that he paid her bride price, so she must clean it .
I know a man that uses his singlets to blow mucus and would challenge his wife to wash it.
I also know a man that would never lift a finger to prepare a little meal for his children Even when the wife is seriously sick or out of the house.
He would rather give the children money to go and buy biscuit than make eba for them

Never marry a man who will never want you to improve your self.
Or a man who would prefer you remain a full time housewife with your school certificate..
Or a man who would tell you that every hard working woman out there is a prostitute just because he doesn't want you to be useful to yourself,so he uses that to try and convince you.
Don't marry a man that feels bad that you are earning money no matter how small..
Don't marry a man that would disregard your family.
Don't marry a man that will always make reference to every mistake you ever made..
Don't marry a man that makes you feel he is perfect
Don't marry a man that is an extremist in anything at all
Don't marry a man who believes that because he paid dowry on your head,he cannot do some house chores too.
Don't marry a man that makes you feel that you are wrong all the time.
Don't marry a man that hits you in courtship, he will almost kill you in marriage ( that's if he doesn't kill you).
Don't marry a man that keeps malice for days even when you try to beg him to forgive and forget..
Don't marry a man that never accepts his fault, but would rather count your own wrongs.
Any man that puts you down in the public, is a no no
Any man that gives you reasons to cry all the time is a no no.
No marriage or relationship is perfect, but there are a lot of lives and destinies that would have been saved if some of these factors listed above were taken into consideration.
But usually love,money,looks etc blinds our eyes.
Same goes for the men too..
Take all these into consideration too
I can go on and on....
Modified: don't marry a man who would gossip you with his friends or his relatives.
Don't marry a man that would report everything you do to his relatives.
Also, don't marry a paranoid man.
I know a man that is always accusing his wife of being a witch, or even wanting to kill him
So when the man sees thyme( herb) in his jollof rice, he will start shouting that she wants to poison him with thorns.
People should just watch out for abnormal signs in a relationship or courtship.
There are a lot of people in bondages in their marriages and some that just had to bolt out of their marriages.
I am not an advocate of divorce, because I still believe in miracles. But if the miracle is not coming, it is better one lives the marriage with his / her life and sanity intact.

OneCorner:
This one even mention Samuel Ortom

I thought it was another Samuel until I saw ortom.
E shock me!

True true, the man looks like yamba.

AderonkeOlaniyi:
He is already a shameless loser

I still find it difficult to believe that a young man like that could have sold his conscience for what exactly.?
Someone that cannot accept the failures of his darling daddy,but would run his mouth like a broken tap where PDP is concerned..he claims to be patriotic but hates igbos with a passion.And also refers to them as swines.He is irredeemable.

AderonkeOlaniyi:
YOU BETTER SHUT UP THERE!!!

TALKING NONSENSE!

he would soon release nairaland policewoman on you in 3,2, 1...... .

The most painful thing is not to be loved when you are in love
Or being in a relationship where you are doing the loving and your love interest is not just that into you.
It really hurts deeply.
And like someone above asked: True love really exists

SUFFERInSMILIIN:
if you find oil in every village in Nigeria nothing will change who are you going to sell the oil to you will be just dashing it to the rest of the world

that would show you the level of this man"s intelligence that is if what he has can be termed as intelligence sef.
I don't just want to insult him honestly

HedwigesMaduro:
I know the Effigy is braindead, but this level of stupidity is not achievable even by a goat suffering from Down Syndrome.

nna guy this is brutal fatal savagery!.
Wetin happen?.
You don tear my belle with laughter..
This is anger from within you just poured out in 3 sentences

His useless zombies would soon come and do damage control..they would soon say that he is not aware he made that statement,talkmore of ever acknowledging that oil has been found in the north.
If this man didn't taste this presidency, Nigerians would have been shouting that he would have been the best president we never had
How an old man can be so nepotistic and careless in his choice of words and actions is so annoying