TV/Movies › Re: Letters To A Stranger - Have U Seen It? by na2day2(m): 2:37am On Feb 04, 2009 |
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Romance › Re: My Fiancee And My Friend: Are They Cheating On Me? by na2day2(m): 4:42am On Feb 02, 2009 |
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Romance › Re: My Fiancee And My Friend: Are They Cheating On Me? by na2day2(m): 9:43pm On Feb 01, 2009 |
dunnit! ! !  you just gave up all my secrets  , now i have to shop for new body language  MsFlorida: I wrote an entire PAGE on this issue and somehow it timed out.
Anyhow, I agree with Joobreel.
#1 - Whatever your girl had to talk to you about she mentally spent time figuring out exactly what she wanted to say long before she approached you for the discussion. With that being said, women don't make mistakes like these unless its an emotional outburst or some other sort of spontaneous expression.
So, either your girl is messing with the guy or she is talking to him about your relationship behind your back.
You have to look at their body language because we speak more with body language than words. I will give you a couple of tips and I repeat you MUST see all or MOST of them at the same time not just one here and there to get a good idea.
When all of you link up look for the following signs and you have to look at one person at a time:
1. Right when they meet each other do he/she fix their clothes, hair etc, if so they are trying to look their best.
2. Its all in the eyes. When they first see each other do his/her eyebrows slightly raise. This is very quick so you gotta be quick. You have to secretly look at one of them as soon as the other person appears.
3. When one of them leaves the room, do they quickly look back to kinda say to the other person I'll be right back so behave yourself and the other person eyes give them an okay.
4. Look at the feet. The feet go where the mind wants to go. When you guys are standing/sitting together is one of his/her foot pointing at each other or is it neutral.
5. Mirroring behavior. He crosses his leg, she crosses hers and often times its the same leg (look at the foot again). He picks up his drink she picks up hers. They are in sync.
6. She touches herself while talking to him, laughs more, touches him.
7. Her body is turned more toward him than you.
8. There is little to no personal space between them when they are talking.
9. Is she handling an object while looking at him. If so, sexual thoughts.
10. When he is standing/sitting is he turned toward her with his legs open or with his hands on his hips pointing toward his ______? If so he is highlighting his sexual prowess.
11. When and if they hug upon greeting do they come close to each other at the pelvic area or do they leave space. Think about how you hug a real friend girl or a relative.
** Its best to look at her for the eyes and mirroring behavior ** Keep in mind that some of this may be hard to gauge because you all were friends to begin with but I think you will know.
If in the end you feel that she is cheating or interested in him then you need to be mature and confront her then let the chips fall where they may. Calling her out may check her.
Good luck
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Romance › Re: My Fiancee And My Friend: Are They Cheating On Me? by na2day2(m): 9:34pm On Feb 01, 2009 |
una don start again with all these tales by moon light stories this 2009 bah?  make una give the bottle a rest oooo  hra: Hi All,
I need your candid opinions on these:
I am a relationship that is 1 year old. Before I started dating my woman, we were friends and we had another male friend. We were all close before we started dating. Since we started dating, we have had ups and downs.
Anytime we have issues, my woman never shows it off outside, she smiles and acts as if nothing is wrong but whenever this guy is there, she will show that something is wrong and paint me bad. Sometimes ago, the three of us were together at my place and my friend said he is leaving and my woman looked at him in a way that says: 'wont you wait and walk me?' my friend didnt see that look and he left, as soon as he left, my woman asked me 'are u going to walk me or not?' and i answered so that u can call him back to walk you? I confronted her with the two expressions and she affirmed that i was correct and she apologized. It caused a big issue in the relationship.
A few days back, she came to my house from work and she wanted to talk about something and she called the guy's name enthusiatically. I was amazed and she said its because she was tired.
What do you guys think? I trust my friend and I think my woman just likes the guy. I think the guy doesnt really know my woman likes him that much. I am almost certain they are not dating but I am no longer comfortable with her friendship with the guy. The place where she works now is the company of the guy's inlaw and they see all the time and are always together. |
Romance › Re: Overcome Loneliness On Valentine's Day by na2day2(m): 9:30pm On Feb 01, 2009 |
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Sports › Re: Mikel Obi Arrested For Drunk Driving by na2day2(m): 9:26pm On Feb 01, 2009 |
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TV/Movies › Re: Letters To A Stranger - Have U Seen It? by na2day2(m): 3:59am On Jan 31, 2009 |
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TV/Movies › Re: Letters To A Stranger - Have U Seen It? by na2day2(m): 5:54am On Jan 30, 2009 |
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Romance › Re: Single Men On Valentine's Day. . by na2day2(m): 4:24am On Jan 29, 2009 |
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TV/Movies › Re: Letters To A Stranger - Have U Seen It? by na2day2(m): 3:55am On Jan 29, 2009 |
davidylan: Took off good in the begining then got super boring. A bad copy of a typical Vivica Fox role. i talk am, i never even finish typing my reply, breeze don blow and fowl yansh don show, truth will always come out, thanks david  |
TV/Movies › Re: Letters To A Stranger - Have U Seen It? by na2day2(m): 3:52am On Jan 29, 2009 |
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Romance › Re: How Do I No If My Man Is Still In Love Wiht Me. by na2day2(m): 3:49am On Jan 29, 2009 |
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Culture › Re: Kalabari People! by na2day2(m): 4:30am On Jan 26, 2009 |
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Culture › Re: Kalabari People! by na2day2(m): 1:19am On Jan 26, 2009 |
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Culture › Re: Kalabari People! by na2day2(m): 12:41am On Jan 26, 2009 |
ow11: I read it and yea most of it is true but you should be aware that with people growing up far away from their ancestral homes, many of those traits would not be adopted by young Kalabari people.
@kiwi992, na2day? any other suggestions? most of what i learn about kalabari comes from my cousin in florida, she is very deep into research about us kalabari people |
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Culture › Re: Kalabari People! by na2day2(m): 2:51am On Jan 25, 2009 |
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