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WORD!

JustGood:
Bolded is something that many women don't understand. A man looks for wife material for marriage, not just a girl who can have great sex or who dresses sexy by showing off her body or even the one who learns his language or can cook his food. Every man seeks proper wife qualities in a woman. Not some of the silly things that some girls think.

but havent u noticed, most of those women are not wife material, they are just plain females and nothing more, a wife material will be sought after and then cherished but they must be worth seeking. now i see u look like a wife material, those lips and eyes** _{i am in heaven for just looking at them}** so do u mind if i seek after u with all my might? we could make a great couple

KarmaMod:
you dey craze.

how is it not unnecessary loyalty? It's one thing to be loyal to someone who finds you worthy to be his wife, it's another to be loyal to men who they WISH would want them to be their wives.

i am boning xmas this yr sha

@ KarmaMod

how dare u call us "unnecessary loyalty"  u are lucky u are a beautiful girl otherwise i should have shown u my red eyes and tell u to kneel down and raise up ur legs 

forget that, black women are single not bcuz they choose to be but they happen to be, i have talked to a zillion of them and they all want a man but the fact is, most of them dont even know the definition of a man or how to make their male companion the desired man they want. i have given alot of them advice b4 and that have led many of them to behave themselves and found peace in their relationship. a friend of mine in oklahoma once told me to open a consulting firm for relationship management bcuz she thinks i am gifted in it. this past wednesday in church, an AA girl told me she finally understands my point or the roles of males and females in a relationship. bottom line is, most black women that marry outside their race will also marry in the race and be very very successful bcuz they already understand thoroughly the act of compromise; they wont be loud mouthed and always trying to man their men look small for any kind of mistake just to score points with her peeps.

LoveAlways:
@na2day

Come on, seriously  -- grow up.  70% of black women being single, has nothing to do with your private.  (laughing)  If you have a big one, good for you.  Swing, sling do what you do best.  But truth is, black women are single because they choose to be.  They have been conditioned to be breeders for the black race and nothing else.  What I call "the black man's mammy".  

But I'm glad that many BW are finding happiness with quality men, no matter what race.  That's my story, and I'm stickin to it.  

Word bro word!

JustGood:
Short-lived happiness is not the same as lifelong joy!

It's okay if anyone wants to mortgage lifelong peace and joy for short-term happiness/fun. It's their business but don't make it sound like it's good to mortgage a woman's joy on the altar of temporary happiness.

those are just 419 videos, i strictly depend on natural facts collected in natural places under natural circumstances

LoveAlways:
@ Na2day

Seriously,  It's just not true. That's a myth.  Maybe you are well endowed, but this isn't true for a large number of black men.  Some black men have been running through so many women, they can't even get it up anymore (lol)  I've seen this when I worked in urology and gastroenterology.  Here's a man who speaks the truth -- see the video below. 

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Another one, for added measurement -- pun intended. lol

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it is not that serious?  speak for yourself ooooo 

LoveAlways:
@na2day

(laughing) Yes, I've dated black men before.  I am now (nigerian).  I've dated men of other ethnic groups as well.  I am realistic about marriage and I know the kind of husband that I want.   I will not tolerate b.s.  just to have a black man on my arm or to have a black private.  It's not that serious.

ovularia, mind yourself oooo, i am black in and out, if u spill my blood it is very black, a very authentic black african with highly endowed blessings from mother nature

KarmaMod:
more like been WITH them

i am one of them

KarmaMod:
Obviously you've had your fill of them, Mr Infomercial

are u sure u have been with a black dude before? i am not talking about obama kind of black ooo, i am talking about black, especially the ones fresh from the motherland, ha, they are blessed my sister, leave that tori.

LoveAlways:
@na2day
   

(laughing)  Keep believing that sweetie.  This may be true for some men, but not all men (other races of men included).  The reasons why black women stick around waiting for black men is because they have been mentally conditioned to do so.  I'm glad to see this outdated trend changing for the betterment of black women.  They have also been conditioned to believe that they are less attractive and that no other man desires them, but the black man. 

I do not want to offend black men on the board by talking about private size or lack thereof (laughing).  But it's just not true.  Believing that all black men have "weapons of mass destruction" is hilarious  LOL.

sweet heart, i see we both attended the same college information is power

Gamine:
Why would there be an argument on this,

It is known that Black genes dominate physically, hence

the tendency for the average Black Male to have bigger privates

and the Black female to have ermm wider

ah well, it just so happens.

don't worry, we will spice them up and have them for dinner

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=195509.msg3110742#msg3110742 date=1227141443]The war ain't over yet though.49ers and Seahawks are next on the menu[/quote]

@ LoveAlways

the reason most black females prefer their black brothers is the natural weapon of mass destruction we are blessed with, it can not be found in any other race. most women, especially AAs cant give that up. we got the ace card girl

really? according to who? go tell that to the zillions of nairalanders that do what i do. if that was ur response it is too weak, try another

Ujujoan:
You know the quote is supposed to come before your response . . .   

nigerians, una like drama, she had always called her self Sasha in many interviews. watch an old episode True Hollywood Story (THS) that was done on destiny child and Beyonce, she called her self Sasha alot during her time away from the group but the name refused to stick. honestly i dont care but i think i still prefer the Beyonce brand

bros, na ajegunle girl oooooo, she ready to take 25 of u. all i dey talk bi say, leave her alone or u go wound ooo

Rigor Mort:
People!

You see how RichyBlack cool down for that whatever90 bitch and she's still yabbing the gentleman? Una they see so?

When we start to yab the girl una go come they plead on her behalf.

whatever90, please don't insult someone who openly told you "sorry". That attitude is pathetic and unbecoming of a lady. Last warning.

really? u know what they say, there will always be a first time  

tope2000:
I don't have any reason to lie about my age, i don't know why lots of naija people do though

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LOL, american age and african age, thats a good one.   so which is older, the american one or the african one?  

chika98:
Like you dudes don't tell lies about your age too? Men lie too. That's why i always ask them their American age and the African age.

oya, which one doesn't lie about their age, starting with the nigerian girls

tope2000:
Not all females lie about their age

bro, u r reading my mind oooo, i cant even keep up with the replies anymore. at this rate this thread will soon crash for going 250miles per hour

DavidDylan:
the thread don reach page 8?  
the women no go let us hear word again. Intransigent set of ribs the Lord has created.

shocking! females lie about their age?  

KarmaMod:
lol 32. This dude is indeed a woman. Only females lie about their ages.

o ga fun e o Baba Richy  

how old is ur dad?   

spikedcylinder:
Just how old are you?

Ujujoan:
I wondered about that too 

thank u ooo my brother

ask4double:
i beg u girls should leave the guy alone, its natural can't u see,u give them attention they take u for a fool show little or no attention u become the man they want to be its just a natural game afterall its not just worth having one girls as a girlfriend because if she knows she'll blow ur mind.

wow! 70% ? i don't think they know it. alot of the white ladies are easier to be friends with, they are more forth coming while most of the black chics especially the AAs can give a brother stroke just by talking. Most nigerian girls here in dallas are hard nuts but they are angels compared to most i met in chicago, so for me, 70% is not a surprised bcuz at the end of the day, no man wants to return to a war zone they call home.  

hey sexy, i still dey ooooo. been busy with some other stuff. but i just got back from chicago on vacation, so i might start a few threads highlighting my experience there, especially with 9ja babes there. so how have u been my princess?

SeXYhOTmOM:
na2day

u still dey nairaland?

boy, i was in heaven

[quote author=A-40 link=topic=195509.msg3106140#msg3106140 date=1227053466]@sistawoman
I hope you enjoyed the tasty payback dish the Cowboys gave you guys [/quote]

yeah rite! the same credible company that took our investment we made through our company and went down like hot potatoes. nice try 

fyneguy:
Nigeria's economy has been declared the safest in the world by the credible Merril Lynch firm.

Details available here: http://www.thisdayonline.com/nview.php?id=128275

buz stupidity is a common attribute to humanity. i was recently in chicago, and most nigerian girls we met were very lofty but my friend and i took off our nice face and became very nonchalant of their presence, things changed asap, and while they wanted to now talk, we spent our glorious time yanning some akatas and white chics. if u pay too much attention to girls they will ruin u, just have ur game ready while u r nonchalant to their gestures.

ask4double:
why do gals flee frm good guys nd end up with players.

oh, the reason is simple, u cheat bcuz.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.-.

well, that pastor is abusing the use of power and these are the little things that keep people away from church. u should know that whatever u do in church that is not done whole heartily is worthless and there is no reward from God, therefore u r wasting ur valuable time. the bible declares that let everything be done with moderation, also the bible says we should redeem the time. baby girl, ur primary responsibility to which God sent u to that place is to school, so put that above other activities but be balanced, when u can without uncalled for pressure u will go do some service unto the Lord not ur pastor, and make sure it something u r happy doing as unto the Lord and God will reward u greatly. remember, many folks gave big offerings in Jesus days but he commended the poor widow because her service was heart felt. take care sis.

funkilicious:
Should you obey your pastor and disregard your parents?

Well, a question that has been battling my mind for a long time. As a member of a pentecostal church (Redeemed church), which is predominately full of Nigerians in England. A church that is Nigerian cultured .

You have a pastor that uses the youth of the church a lot( bearing in mind that the youth are students that moved away from home to come to uni in another city) Pastor says A and you have to do it without questioning him and pastor rings you up , not to say hello but to tell you to come to church and do something for him, which can take four to five hours of your time. When you're not in church, pastor doesn't ring you up and we all know the parable in the bible about the farmer that looked for one of his lost sheep eventhough he had 99sheep left.

It now comes to a point that you start to tell your parents about it and your parents instructed you and also said that a pastor should be considerate that you are a student and you should not labour in vain or do things grudginly, if u don't want to do it, don't do it. And also it comes to a point that it starts to affect your studies and you just do things because the pastor says so and he says you have to obey Jesus servant.

The pastor is not happy (thinks your very disrespectful for not obeying him) and preaches about people that doesn't help out in church and the pastor emphasise that 'you live in the hostel, what's poking you to go home'?

Should you obey the pastor's commands and disobey your parents wishes? should you do church work and lack in your study? Should you do church work and you forget about your own salvation?

How can you go about it in a way that you wouldn't sin against God?

How would you go about it?

PLEASE DO SHARE YOUR IDEAS!! I'm sure loads of people will benefits from this discussion

thank u my guy

sosodat:
For those sayin Nigerian men aint romantic, u got to take a second look at yourself. Maybe u don't exude d aura of recieving or been romantic.

Or your perception of been romantic has evolved hence can only mean Money.
Romantic Naija men are not in short supply, pray u meet one

i never hear that story before but thanks for sharing. now make we leave to the beautiful lady to decide if she wants to have a good time this weekend with me

chamotex:
bros u don hear one story about a man that started doing somersaults for no reason. He was somersaulting like someone that was competing for an Olympic Gold Medal.

its for ur own good o. Plenty of fish in the sea. I sleep with one eye open o. God bless u

ha bros, ejo oooo, my plenty apologies, i no know say she bi urs ooooo, na ordinary day outing i bin wan do with am, nothing attached. i get person birthday to attend on sunday so before then, i wan see the town. if u no mind, make i get her for just this weekend, nothing go happen i swear 

chamotex:
i'm watching you o. 

so shall we start our lesson? i am online right now 

smurf:
Good for you

smurf:
:p

yea sure, i am open to learning u things including ur "whatever roll eyes" english. will u teach me?

smurf:
Well you are now

hey, where are u at in chicago, i will be in the city tomorrow through to Monday. if u dont mind, we can hand out and u show me around.

bubblegum:
@ d topic,
hell no! can't marry a guy who smokes,

oh, i see, so it is the whatever rolls eyes english, never heard of it  

smurf:
whatever, ~rolls eyes~