Pidggin:


I have never been a man, but men like him successfully practice it, is it that they have four heads? I am not talking of those who involve themselves in secret affairs, I mean those who are clean.

Five years spent thinking about his calling while raising his father's hope? The did has been done, I am in no way chastising him, I just want him to empathize with his dad.

angiemartinez:
Good day family, pls help a sister out, mature and Godly advice needed.

My MIL came over to our house nov last year she has breast cancer, due to that early sickness she was adviced to change environment for some time.

She has gone through the third chemo and the operation site has healed as she no longer dresses the wound.

Now the issue is that I think it's time for her to go back home, mind you for this past 5 months I have been very supportive of her stay, I always make sure she eats thrice daily and other necessary things.

I think she so comfortable now that she doesn't want to leave anymore, mind you she goes to work once in a while. She only has stress the week she goes for chemo and after that week she is good to go.

At present it's just the two of us at home as hubby has a contract in another location. When he was about leaving he told her to go back home because I will not always be around and in other for her not to be lonely, she started calling every body that my hubby is driving her.

Now we are parking out to a new place by Friday and yet she is not making plans to go, my hubby has being postponing the move because he wants her to go first. Mind you were we are moving to is her brothers house. Not that we can not pay our rentage, the uncle is out of the country so he needs somebody to stay in the house.

My fear now is that if she moves with us to this house, then she will never leave again since it's her brothers house.

Sorry for the long epistle, I just want you to understand, my hubby is not really saying anything because I feel he doesn't want to offend his mum as he is the first. There are other people at home to take care of her, her husband is still at home.

Pls advice me on what to do because I intend to confront my hubby this nite when he comes concerning it.

miquelon:


I've tried but one can't exactly learn a skill.the thing is I had a plan for my life down to the detail and its been jus ripped up.
The plan was to get a bsc in business then go to law school. It's not even the delay that gets to me but just being stagnant

ireneidiva:

Abeg calm down. He wouldn't be 'distracted' if he was really called. Its not about love for women. You can't do it, you can't do it. Simple. He can still be of service to God in a million ways apart from that one. His dad should get over it already.

Pidggin:


And how do you know you were not acting out of distraction, was Samson not destined to be a Nazarene? Did he not miss his way because of Delilah? You forget that you can do all things through Christ, you can even resist temptation from women if you wish

Pidggin:
So your love for women made you abandon God's service? I hope you are enjoying your fill now, I really feel sad for your dad, he had such high hopes for you.

Put yourself in your father's shoes, he must have dreamt of you making him proud by becoming a priest. Before you say it is your life and you decide what you should do with it, Samuel was not even conceived before his mother dedicated him to serve God as a priest. Try to understand why he reacted that way, good luck.

AZeD1:
I don't know what phone your husband uses, but most phones will save pictures automatically once you view the picture.

aaronson:
Actually I'm not speaking in the context of money or fame, I'm tryna state the irrelevance of his degree in the Nigerian ignorance infested society. I for one detest Nigeria songs, I have about 500 songs on my laptop and I can tell you this, you won't find ONE Nigeria song out of my over 500 songs.

Theyveedo:
Kul


We will get there too...
Ama get something big for myself too... something big like Titanic

BUTCHCASSIDY:
How about we all cometogether contribute and help tgis guy out

Someone has to go confirm this story first....

Drift:

The thing now is, he has denied ever saying anything of such when i reported him to a neighbor. He says i am trying to implicate him while still being all aggressive and cursing me out.
Won't he do the same at the police station?
I believe he is only trying to intimidate me but i'm not taking any chances.

More suggestion please.

Thank you.

kaboninc:


Hey bro...

E don do na.....


Lolaed, I saw something you wrote oh.

lolaed:

You sounded like a child. daazalll.

Now you are telling me you have wristwatches...lol

lolaed:


You are either in secondary school or you are a jambite. Easily spotted lot.

lolaed:


Her question and he having a plan B are not equivalent

lolaed:


There is nothing wrong with her question. She is trying to see if they have a future together. A loving Bf would reassure her and tell her Why they needed to stick together.

She is just a wise girl. Many other girls would be too shy to ask salient questions until it is too late.

Bbsharon:
Hello everyone.

I was gisting with my boyfriend last week and we talked about what if someone approach me for marriage because we are age mate and he told me he has "PLAN B" if I leave him.

I was heartbroken and when he realised that he tried explaining that he is just trying to be on the safer side but when I told an older friend of mine about it she told me he (my bf) might be dating the other lady already but he loves me more. I became more confused and do not want to approach my boyfriend on the matter again because I do not want anything that will cause misunderstanding between us.

So I want to know other people's thoughts on this and if you happen to have been in such situation before please share how you handled it.

Mature contributions please..

MIPNIG:
Come back brother... In Nigeria you can't be treated like this.

pretydiva:
The girl is d real definition of a gold digger

Ferraricash:
we just had plans in getting her started with something soon

rosalieene:

are you the culprit?
leave police to do their job at least the kidnapped girls must recognize them

chocolateme:
This man would have been the best thing that ever happened to Nigeria as a country. His vision for this country was very clear and positive except that death took him away from us.
Unlike some that are on revenge mission on Nigerians for failing three times on elections and it's finally back to turn the country upside down hoping to make it better soon. What he doesn't know is that he has about 1,195 days remaining in office.

Johnny19:
In Falz's voice "it is because u are single to stupor dat was y I decided to help u"

Ayodeji2k14:
Those satanic kidnappers would hav sampled d puss!es of those young girls by systematic fucking.Thank God they ar caught