mummydirect:

To be honest with you here, I don't know how the woman is doing it, but sincerely speaking, no sane woman will be comfortable not making love to her man for a whole good one month!!!! no no no, something is wrong somewhere.

Yes it is possible that there is something wrong. But what if the guy is not physically attractive just as some other females here were asking the OP.
is the lack of physical attraction enough to make a woman lose sexual appetite or not want to DO IT with her husband for one month or more ?

SexyStrawberry:

Ignore and walk away

wow.. u seem to have the answer to every question. u r really gifted.

OMG !

Pidggin:
Are you physically attractive?

dear friend, let us be honest and reasonable.
this question is open to all the ladies who will ask this same question about attractiveness in relation to sex.

[size=16pt]will you be able to stay away from sex with your husband for months and continually ignore the urge to have sex and walk around acting like you don't ever feel like banging, just because he is not physically attractive ?[/size]

DemiGoddess:
I wonder o,for me I prefer a good old tradional marriage with ALL the rites carried out,white wedding will be for formality sake;because my parents will insist.Court marriage is a bloody NO.I'm a very traditional person and I feel blacks are quick to accept the white culture.I'll have a white wedding but I still think the most important thing is keeping my marriage.Wonder why an african woman will be thinking about the possibility of divorce will signing marriage papers...uwa mmebi!

*removes eyeglasses*

*in Pete Edochie's voice*

Young lady, Who are you ?

Last2comment:


My problem now is that, how do I confront the man as I intend going to their house later on today. My major problem is that he should not lay his hands on my sister again coz that's what gonna make be go ballistic and nuclear simultaneously.


Advice me. Thanks.

my brother, if u think front you think back too.
will u fight the man in his house ? the same demon pushing him to beat ur sister might lead him to call the cops on you and label you an assassin or robber and you will sleep in a cell thereby causing more rift in ur sisters marriage.
don't go violent on him. na ur sis marriage and you can get your parents to resolve the matter rather than causing more problems. u will be shocked to see that your sister will stand by her husband when jungle mature.

broda think back and front

do not listen to all these people telling u to beat up your in-law. if that is how everyone beats up their in-laws then you will see fights every where in Nigeria . Take the matter to elders in your family and see how it is resolved. We live and we learn bro.

Stories that touch the heart and generate web traffic.

khunz:
A very close family friend is passing through non acceptance by her father.


The lady is presently married with kids but she is still very embittered not knowing her father all this years and when she finally did , he turned his back for no fault of hers.

My request goes thus: How can she get the father to consent to a DNA test ( all effort to get him to do this through his other relatives have hit zuma rock)?

The fear is always about his influence and power in this country (as a barrister not as a politician),it will be very difficult to win him through our judicial system unless she has a lawyer who has her 100% interest at heart.Do you know such lawyer?

Kindly help address the main issues ,she needs our wisdom to give her emotional stability and identity.

Thanks

what is your friend looking for ?

what does she want out of this ? money or love ? cos I don't know why any person would be so desperate to do a paternity test on a man that has rejected the person if not to unsettle his life and get money from him. I don't agree that she is trying to get her identity. if to say d man na one drunken master for one motor park, shey she go wan identify with am ?

why is she trying so hard to be the man's daughter ?

the mama seff no know who give am belle so how can she wake up after over 20 years to worry a man's life ? because he's rich & popular ? why didn't she try to pin the illegitimate child on some broke guy ?

daretodiffer:


let me see, ther sis love not Romeo and Juliet love.

If you look around you, you wouldn't be surprised. Two strangers who intend to live together must be prepared because after all they are humans that is they can misbehave. Better safe than sorry

Why won't you think of security? If it ends up bad, do you expect your family and friends to clean up your mess?

yeah my comment was made out of wonder and bewilderment for how love and marriage has become a tangled web of terms and conditions.. Yet there are some couple who still keep it together for over 40 years with just LOVE and Understanding as their pillar rather than sticking together because of some court documents and the fear of what is going to be lost when the smoke clears after legal crossfire.

daretodiffer:


Security, bigamy, and so on

In a country like Nigeria where your husban can throw you out when he wishes, he won't be able to do that in law. You can sue hiss ass if he tries it

Men often use their familky etc as next of kin, when he dies, the family may seize all the properties and leave the wife and her children stranded. However with a court marriage, they will be secured. Next of kin does not mean you automatically own all the properties however it gives the next of kin a certain authority over it.

Your husband cannot marry another wife without a proper divorce. I think you can get compensation if he cheats on you. I am not sure about that.

Also, he cannot leave you financially stranded after a divorce.



This arguments should also apply if you are the richer partner as well as the one that misbehaves.

all this wahala, terms and conditions like when we were buying SIM card for over 30K.

Does anyone in this world marry simply because of Love anymore ? Or it is a matter of WHO GETS WHAT ?

How people be thinking of security and divorce while saying their marriage vows and signing papers.

naniawini:
Thanks! Really goin tru a lot nw. Feel lik dying

U can either take Sniper and die in his house so that he will be in a lot of trouble explaining to the police and your family and he will also have to spend that money to marry a dead woman (depending on your tribe).

OR

You can wake up from your self pity and evaluate your life and make changes with courage and hope.

Option one is for weak, selfpity people who are really tired of life. Option two is for people who want to make good use of their remaining days on earth. make your choice.

there are thousands of single mothers in Nigeria and you will never be the last. but are you going to become a doormat or stand up and live your life without looking at the face of a person who sees you as an obstacle or punishment. because the way it is, he is very tired of you and you are blocking him from having new babes.

naniawini:
I dnt even see d reason he was angry. Have caught him sex Chating a gal nd I 4gave him but he cudnt spare d mistake of mine

You. You. You.... hmmmm..

You still don't get it why he is ANGRY. Even after all the comments on how u have given him the chance to press that button, you are still try to think and figure out why he couldn't spare your MISTAKE ?

If you still don't understand after all the comments, then I understand why the guy wants to GET RID of you.

naniawini:
Please I need help oooo
My relationship is crashing. Have being dating a guy since 2013 one thing led to another I got pregnant for him so we refused to abort it.

Please... do you guys refuse to abort it or YOU refused to abort it. How did he react when you told him you were pregnant ?

naniawini:
There are thing my fiance has been doing, like giving out his number on every social Media platform he get to, girls calling him every now and then, he even brings them 2 the house when I travel, sex chat with them and tell me he's teasing them.

There is a HUGE difference between boyfriend, baby daddy, sex partner and fiance. from what I see in your story, this guy is still unmarried and he still has the right to do whatever he wants to do even if he wants to kick you out of his house, even if he chooses to throw a sex party in his house.

naniawini:

So I decided to pay him back I want him 2 feel the pains I go through. There is this guy that has been pestering me for long tho he knew I live with a Man last nite he called when my fiance was around and I wasn't feeln comfortable all of a sudden my fiance took the phone and they started talking.

You obviously did not understand the real nature OR the current status of your relationship. from your man's attitude, which you explained here, Do you think you will still be in that house if that guy could find a way to make you varnish without raising questions ? and you want to go on a flirting competition with him, in his house ? when you are not his wife ? when he is just enduring you ? that was a very smart move but you forgot that he is the one holding the gun here.

naniawini:

My fiance has refused to let go telling me he is not going to forgive mi that am leaving his house I can't stay in his house and flirt. He has never caught mi with a man not 4 once even when I told him I dnt have anytin 2 do with d guy dat I jst wanted him 2 feel the pain of a guy calling mi but he has refused 2 understand.

How do you want him to understand when this is this type of chance he has been waiting for so he can get rid of you and I have a feeling that this is not the first time that he has tried to push you out of the house. you provided the nail for him to cruxify you.

naniawini:
Pls dear Nairalanders I luv this guy I can't let go, pls wat do I do?

Be Honest, do you really love this guy or you just hold on to the hope that one day he is gonna change and finally bring out that list from wherever he dumped it and do the needful? Do you love him ..... OR you are STUCK with him ?

naniawini:
Please I need help oooo

you really need help no be small.

One thing led to another ... Okay.

Still reading.

Reading .....

malailayi:
I am sorry but i dont feel comfortable uploading my picture on a public forum , but I swear i am not ugly , And I am tall but not too tall,
The problem is sometimes I go out and nobody cares about me but sometimes everybody stares at me, sometime every lady even when driving looks at me and smiles but guys ignore me and sometimes guys make fun of ne and ladies ignore me.

According to Fela, complain must get answer.

firstly, before I embark on a voyage to circumnavigate the earth and get you remedy for your mind twisting predicament, I need you to tell me if you, by an means and methods, indulge in the consumption of any form of hard drugs.

politricks:
The lord called her to be a Street fighter. Praise the lord!! I am sure if she were to have a church, the name would be 'royal rumble church of christ' and trust me she would still have members.

I don't think you would like such a church to go on DOOR TO DOOR evangelism on your STREET.

The two of them just brought children from other marriages and put them in a ship of confusion captained by Sakura.

Hahaahahaha... I like such stories.

There goes your 30K subsidy and there goes your princess. she told u to keep your hands away from the cookies but guess who she's been inviting to dinner ?

Where is the FORGIVENESS crew ?

You did a very good thing, no doubt. According to your narration, you did the best you could to help the girl get to the other side of town. Applause Applause.

Now, Pay attention.

The good thing is not always the right thing to do.

We live in a very volatile environment and your act of kindness would have easily earned you some tyres, some fuel and a lighter..... some beating might come before all this.
Someone who has been watching the girl from a distance just the same way u were watching her might wonder why you take it upon yourself to talk to the girl. The person might think you are trying to take advantage of the girl and the person might do the RIGHT THING by raising alarm against u, then jungle justice comes into play.

You did a very good thing. Every one here is giving you the medal of honour but you would be shocked to find out who
and who will provide the tyres, fuel and lighter if things had gone wrong while you were trying to help, same Nigerians.

he saw the sakawa boys riding around and he stopped them to ask for his sister and the driver just jumped out and ran off..... most stuuuwpeeeeed story ever.

fake story teller blogger please get a life

Ada9103:




Nooo its sacred ties on zee world extraordinary everyday

hahaahahaha
nairaland just full of kolomental people... madam you no dey happy.

kaeforum:


Palm wine is not alchohol , stop comparing it to beer and schnaps.

hahaahahaha

Chiiisos his Lord.

SeverusSnape:
nice one bro, I've been waiting for the person who will say it. I'm impressed. I am a huge fan of Enya. I believe you are too.

I have Every Song, Every Album (even d latest) , Every Video, Making of the videos.... Yep, I am.

SeverusSnape:
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Who can tell me, if we had heaven, who can say the way it should be.... China Roses

I no talk say anybody dey beautiful oh

Padi Padi, Sabi Sabi

Nigeria is WHO YOU SABI, WHO BE YOUR PADI and not WETIN YOU SABI.

and you see that the Jobless youth remain silent and would rather be self employed, blogging about Cossy's big b0obs and all the other cleavages shown on red and black carpet, even after hearing of how they are denied equal rights and justice as regards job creation and employment opportunities. They keep quiet and wait for God to judge and help.

As for the CBN governor, can't say much for him. afterall, there is no offense or scandal that we have not seen or heard of in this country and yet nobody ever resigned.

rinzylee:



You can curse till tomorrow but you know the truth and your conscience will prick you till HELL receives you.
Put down this date and let it be known that I warned you and you cursed me and my God. This words will stand against you on the last day when God will judge the earth.

God bless You. Keep sinning

it is you and your mother that cursed your God.
i wonder if your God told you not to know how to read and comprehend simple written words. I asked a question and you are here telling me about God and how your mother will end up in hell. b@stard.

rinzylee:
God does not bless evil. you cant be sleeping with one who isnt your wife. let her repent and stop sleeping around and wait till marriage. let her ask God for mercy and healing and sin no more. fornication gives satan access to your life. Repent now

take your religion to the toilet, eat sh¡t and die.
if you do not have anything to say then be silent than rubbing your stup¡d religious comment that can not offer any solution to the question asked.

do you think it is everyone that has time for religion?
People like you can never ever offer any meaningful contributions to the world, you LEAVE IT TO GOD but you enjoy the inventions and creations of people like Tesla, Isaac Newton and others that your type called satan.

Na you sabi God pass.

I will even furk your mother and all your sisters if time and chance permit me and then wait for u to preach to me again.

Na wah Oh.

and I was just singing " ALABA BOYZ, WHICH LEVELZ ? "

2shotz my man.

i wish he would come out with MAKE DEM TALK (PART 2)
MAKE DEM TALK ft. 9ice produced by ID Cabasa is one of thw most Original songs ever to come out of Nigeria and it is still worthy of play in your car, studio, iPod anytime anyday.