₦airaland Forum

Kingosytex:
Wisdom has nothing to do with age and the earlier you get that into your skull, the better for you. I am sure you aren't the Op and i am equally sure that i didn't mention you so why quote me to pour your frustrations on me as if i am responsible for the Op's predicament?


I expected you to counter the possible causes of the problems i listed rather than throwing tantrums like a child. Learn to respect people's views, its an advice.

Your first paragraph sounded childish so i had to correct you. I wont dignify you again with a response as this one right here will suffice.
Have a great evening

Kingosytex:
Oga, I have to let you know that you really messed up by allowing your wife stay far away from you. You come home to see your family once in three months, that is four times in a year and from this fact i can point out that you spend less than a total of 60 days with your family out of the 365 days in a year. That is too poor, you really messed up i must tell you.


90% of long distance relationships are always doomed as a result of many factors the chief among them being infidelity. Do you expect your wife to believe that you weren't banging any woman up north to cool off the stress of life...after all, body no be firewood. You are even lucky that you didn't come back to meet your wife pregnant for another man.


It seems your wife had to make up for your absence by finding a person who lubricates her p**sy to prevent it from rusting since you were not always around to perform your marital duty.


I advise you to sit your wife down, talk to her and let he tell you what her problem really is. If after that you can't still make a head way then take the case to your in laws and spiritual leaders pastors, priests, imams e.t.c. If they are still unable to talk some senses into her, then baba you go and get yourself a s*x toy. You see, life is too short to be bothered. This is the best i can tell you.

Come, how old are you? Do you think job falls from heaven? You think if the man has a job nearby he wouldn't accept it with outstretched arms?
Or you want him to resign and come home and sit at watch his wife with empty pockets. My friend, try and stay jobless/ broke and see your once loving wife turn to a mean, nagging machine as bills pile up.
Its obvious the man has sought out plans to move closer home.
Now @the poster. There Are a lot of immature and stewpid folks on this forum. However, try and weed out the useless advice you will get here ( majority)
Its not easy to be in your shoes. Have you asked her what's the reason behind this action? What was her response? Let's start from there

Putting Spanish fly in her food/drink is just a temporary measure. After the act, what next? Everything returns to status quo, problem still remains. Tackle this from the root pls.
Good luck brother

Way to go. This will reduce the carbon footprint, remove carbon (11) oxide from the atmosphere which is one of the biggest greenhouse gases. Greenhouse gases leads to climate change and global warming.

Pascopele:
For those who is against what the igbos in Germany did to senator Ike ekweremadu, let me tell guys something, if Nigeria politicians is doing good like other countries, nobody will be fighting or demanding for break up, it's only in Nigeria that I see where citizens hustle to build house, buy car in cash, food stuffs are very costly, people hardly feed three square meal a day.

Let me leave Qatar,let me use Algeria as example as African country because I have lived in Algeria before, in Algeria, all the skyscrapers all over the country is built by the Algerian government, well furnished, with Water, gas, 24 hours light, not individuals, you hardly see a building from 5 building down, the only place you find from 5 story building down, is out of the city, house rent as Algerian citizen or resident holder, is 2,500 dinars which is 5000 naira, once you rent the apartment, and pay for the rent, for complete 10 years, the government will hand over the documents to you, as the rightful owner of the apartment, no more paying for rent again, all the roads are tiled up, 24 hours light, street lights all over with CCTV cameras all over the streets, with 1000 dinars which is 2000 naira, your pot of soup or stew is ready, with your rice or whatever you want, education system, from nursery to university level free with monthly allowance, no importation of fairly used car, if you go against the law and import fairly used car, prison is your home for complete 5 years, once you have something doing that's giving income, you are free to go to and buy a car on high purchase, and be paying for it,

Again, if the government give you contract, and you didn't meet up with the date they want it to be done, you are going to prison, no two ways about it, but before they give you contract, you must summit your passport to court, 90% of what the country is using is made in Algeria, if Nigeria is like Algeria, I bet you, nobody will be fighting or demanding for break up, a lot of us wouldn't have traveled outside country, so what they did to Ike ekweremadu is for Nigerian politicians to step up and start doing the right thing

No mind them my brother. O boy life go sweet there. How i wish Nigeria be like that

Blackivy27:
its true

Please don't change that. Would like to meet people like you

Princeton92:
Hmmmmm.... Whichever it is we just hope N pray they do better N impress us all
It's all not bad

Innoson can be a sister company to BAIC, its their business N work not yours

Like....
Toyota - Lexus
Peugeot - Citrogen
Nissan - Infiniti
Honda - Acura/Rover
Mercedes Benz - MayBach
Etc...

Story goes on, do yours N leave their work to move forward, that's not new...

FTC

God bless you

donbachi:
Arrest is not an option...some women lacks the wisdom to encourage their husbands when facing life challenges...but have the understanding of the word"infidel"..but 4gotten when he paid rents,fees,bills and others...lastly,women should stop listening to friends that says "if na me i no go gree"...this is the problem with most marriages.

U are so correct. They are quick to bring up the infidel thing, forgetting that the bible was actually referring to men who have the money but refused to take care of their family or those who are plain lazy.

W

matinos28:
Op....are you shaming graduates? Is it now a crime to be a graduate and be employed? Selling food in wheel barrow under hot sun is a very hard work. And its also a matter of choice. Many illiterates will run from it. I respect her hustle but being a graduate has nothing to do with it. Its her choice. Abi should every graduate join her

See the message behind the story. I know someone who graduated 4 years ago and he is still pushing files looking for jobs. When he was told to pick up a teaching appointment first to " hold body", he refused it and said he is looking for oil and gas job.
She wants those who are graduate and have no job to look around and find something doing instead of waiting for one elusive job

bluebay:
Good morning
And thanks for the respond . Actually, she already have a son for me and am planning for the marriage this November but to be honest, am feeling discourage for her character . Am a Yoruba boy and she’s Urhobo, Am from a polygamous home and I must tell you that the second wife, which happened to be the urhobo ruined the family and brought my father the level he is now and that’s what made my Mother dislikes the urhobo. At first, my mother rejected and forbided me from having an urhobo lady but it took me a whole
Year to convince her . But now, am beginning to see similar character in her for she easily raises her voice at me, she hisses at me over little issues, she barely listen to what I instruct her to do but rather, do what pleases her . I’ve been tempted several times to let my hands on her but I just ignore and this makes me a weaker man everyday to the extend if I instruct her to do something, she just shouts at me and I keep quiet like a bitch. Please help .

Better you back out now. Thank me later

On the average:
Camry
Lexus
Honda
Wrangler.

For peace of mind

I am no Toyota fan boy

obiakorEmmanuel:
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mansakhalifa:
So, he graduated from a fishmonger to a "fisher of men". I think he reads the bible in his spare time and wanted to emulate the disciples. The story should have been titled "Wadume: From Fishmonger To Fisher Of Men, The Making Of A Kidnap Kingpin".

Fantastic reportage, I must say. I must also say that I am quite impressed with the way some of our journalists work these days. This is an award-winning story TBH.

To think the clown also tried to become a politician at some point... He was probably feeling like the local Escobar already.

He was trying to be a bigger politician because he never stopped being one. Why do you think he was giving out gifts. He would have actually come up in 2023 for a shot again. There is money now and goodwill from his people.
This one would have gone ahead to become senator/ governor/president.
No wonder this country is where it is right now

MzTunechi:
send a mail

Can i reach u for assistance

Can someone give breakdown how to go about it and how to collect the certificate afterward?

U can afford phone of 65k but you are homeless. You need deliverance

celeb4reallife:
What do you mean by insensitive? Do you think I'm in support? I'm right on the poor girl side.

OK now i got your position

celeb4reallife:
You have a point. I understand you correctly. I know it's difficult to speak justice when it really concerns us and our family/loved ones.


But inorder to stand for justice, I think we need to put ourselves in other people's shoes. My opinion though.

You are now making sense.

I know it is hard taking action on your family member but by the time you put your self in the victim's shoe, you will begin to see things from a different perspective.

Even if the girl is taken home to her parents after all the pampering, she may still end up telling her parents and if the parents are the fetish type, your guess is as good as mine.

tritritri:
Drop your own advice..We all cant have the same view of life. ( dont let us start argument on someone thread )


Answer my question..

Who are the people BAILING rapist, Murderer , Arm robbers , ritualist , 419 out of police station?

who are those paying police commission to cover up crime and murder ... the same Nigerians ..

but dey will come ONLINE and point fingers at others who does d same .

How many of U have reported your father/mother/Brother to police for battery , Abi una papa no dey slap una mama or ur brothers no dey commot blood from ur body..?

But if same thin happens to someone and he ask for advise very easy to refer them to police.

Una sister olosho.dating married man/double dating ..what av u'all done ? abi no be d nigeria wey 80% women na money for hand back for ground ? what step una dan take? almost each family for Nigeria get 1 fraudster or yahoo...how many una dan report to efcc ?

some of u've families in police/lawyer/judge/Dr/ , taken bribe , and selling justice ,acting nonchalant and constituting inhuman act to the society

Have u ever done the needful ?

I have giving my advice , U should give urs..Dont counter my advice . 95% of una are part of the society which is decay .

The same people dat will go to church every sunday but from monday-friday are full of wickedness will come online to say otherwise.

If ALL of you knws the right thing to do Online Why is our country full of wickedness and inhuman act and selling justice abi no be our parent dey do those?

I hate pretenders.

You hate pretenders but i hate stewpid people. I pray your child encounter such evil

Dont bother to reply as i won't dignify you with a response as this one above will suffice.

My people say if something is wrong, you point it out

tritritri:
My sister do better shopping for the girl, Drop her back. if ur husband act remorse let the matter go for a while, reflect on what happen and the cause, if dis was his only mistake ...u might forgive him, but if he's a womanizer then talk to ur pastor or elder .

people will give u advise because dey dnt knw u.or dey dnt care the outcome, but if it happens to dere relatives it a different advise.

Just look at how insensitive you and the op is. Just think if it was your13 year old daughter that was manhandled, mangled and defiled by a beast in man clothing, won't you be baying for blood and looking for how to cut off the testicles of the mor,on that did that?
Smh

disloman:
good job.slap 4 urself.This will b my last reply to all ur bullsh1t u've bn posting here.I'm nt blog trained mechanic.Where i work taught mi 3 principles to work with n those principles av helped me alot.
1.Use n replace part with exact n original spare parts
2.never to outsmart d manufacturer
3.Always ask questions.
U said u did this,u did that.That's good 4 u.Had a car which a mech like urs changed d engine frm K24 to K20.D engine works but d rpm high.What's d cause?foolishness.i doubt if u avn't removed d engine light frm d dashboard permanently.we knw pple like u.wish i knw u d more but....................

Sorry i had to drag you back to this thread.
Please what's your take on the Honda accord baby boy i4. I heard the transmission might be problematic and the legs do come off but it has a good engine. Will u advice a manual instead, even though i don't want to go back to manual cars again.
Pls i need your candid advice. Tnx

Cc: luvinhubby

delugajackson:
The only APC politician I admire.

He sure is a man with a big heart. Alabi's kind deeds on Nairaland will never be forgotten.

Was he on nairaland?

merits:
Bro i sight you ooo,this your adjective tells more about you.i off my cap for you.

Lol. As if you have never seen a brothel before. You probably live in heaven where there is no brothel

phidipe:
am so grateful to you all the little i have here has given me a boldness Thanks. I will be nairalander for live

Please and please if your intentions are not genuine and you have no long lasting plan, just don't go ahead

This is so shameful. It looks like a brothel!

Tumbulum:
We know they have been in the Sw but in the recent killings what did buhari do? We saw how his body language has been. Villages were razed down in Benue, what did he tell Benue people? he told them to accommodate the Fulanis.
Bahuri has shown that he is with the Fulani( both the good one and the bad ones) and will go to any length to protect them..
For the first time in the history of Nigeria the security in the hands of Fulani and northern Muslims and people feel there is a hidden agenda to all these.

The person (hellnues)you are talking to knows all this. Save your energy. He is past redemption. There is a popular term for them that start with the letter 'Z' , but i don't want to use it on him.
He is part of the destroyer. Dont bother reasoning with him.

lumiday:
The man is beyond the character we saw in movies, he's not a trouble maker. My parent had issue with "Awon Omo onile", 4plots already forcefuy taken and sold out of his 6plots. We got the land back and those who already started building on it forfeited their structures. He did not even collect a dime, its over 12yrs now and there is no issue over the land.

He is very very intelligent.

Please who is he? This is the first time i am hearing about him

Elexdallas:
We know say na bloggers kill am for news.
My man enjoy, u fit stroll enter naija, u go still cashout

U no well o

naturalwaves:


NNPC uses same quota system for recruitment. If you score 85% and you are from SW, you may not smell the next stage whereas, another person from the North may get 50% and go on to the next stage.

Jeez! This is painful and evil. How can we grow when merit is not encouraged

realestniggah:
It not about personal brilliance it more about the level and standard of education they have received since the day they were born. Did you see the names of those schools.. Those are reputable school.. You hardly find children from government schools in these competitions. If you want your child to be brilliant lay the proper foundation for them

To some extent you might be right. But the school alone does not confer intelligence on an individual. There are many dull students in top notched school.

Though i won't deny that the class of school also has a role to play. In all sha, na to hustle hard o. I don already start, na just for God to continue go the increase him pikin so that we can continue with the standard of education

naturalwaves:
I dislike the quota system thing so bad. One of my boys in Lagos scored 81% in the national exams for the junior category and will not be going for the quiz show because he was not top 17 nationwide and did not emerge as a state champion but about 10 or more people that got far lower than him will make the quiz show. You need to see the terrible scores they had..... Those who scored 60% and less from the North even made it whereas, if you score 90% in Lagos, you may not make it.
See some here that made the Senior category despite low scores.

This is evil!

netpro:
Nonsense. Hope the Organizers also take full responsibility for any loss of lives and destruction of properties.

Or they just roll the dice on Anarchy, absorb themselves through this statement, unleash mayhem and see much damage can occur?

Any muumu that loses his life over this ill-conceived rampage will have him or herself to blame.

A word is enough for the wise.

Is it a normal thing for lives to be lost in any protest? Those things like this happen in western climes? It is cowardice like the one shown here that has kept us in perpetual bondage and has embolden our looting politicians.