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Macron332:
I apologized...I really apologized and she said she has heard me..but she’s now asking me for money too much..

Baby I don't have for now, hopefully whenever it's available I'll see what I can do.

It's that simple, use that line whenever she requests for money. If not she'll ruin you before you even get the chance to propose to her.

apatheticme:
Ha ha ha ha ha ha ha ha

Una nor go kee pesin for this forum!!

WTH did I just read?? Nor go kill person pikin oh! Abeg

No worry...you no go die

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]You forgot the part of erm, erm, erm... as a coven member sha, they'll ask of sacrifice. So watin I wan give the Matriarchs??

Thank God you know ayam unserious and mostly, mostly in a cruise mood. So you know that's just what this is, right? Imagine the Teletubbies or Dora the Explorer trying to flirt.

Lemme wish you a good day as it is more formal than a good night.[/color]

Hmmm... you're mostly in cruise mood, yet you're trying to sound formal by wishing me good day. Terrible contradiction.

Do you know I woke up this morning without any scars or bruises and my plates were all intact.

GBOKASINCHA:
That eastern front (russia vs germany) was the bloodiest.... if you survive that front as a soldeir either german or russian you don’t know what God has done for you ... both sides fought with demonic fury ... and fierce hatred for each other...

The battle of Stalingrad comes to mind...more than 5million soldiers on both sides perished.

From what I've read here I've come to the following conclusions that.

1. You lack vision. A 300l student should know the consequences of having unprotected sex, any student that has a vision for his future will always remember this but you didn't and went ahead to get her pregnant.

2. You're weak. The red flags were so obvious, but you choose to ignore them. A virgin who claimed to have just lost her virginity via rape wouldn't initiate sex with you, she will be so ashamed to face you and scared of guys. That's enough reason to know that she was making the whole story up but you choose to ignore it for reasons best known to you.

3. You make decisions without proper planing. Training a girl in school isn't a child's play. Her parents weren't ready to train her but pushed it to you, and you foolishly accepted thinking that training someone in higher institution is the same as paying school fees for a kid in nursery School. You should have registered her in the catering school and open a restaurant for her where she can even be covering weddings, events...etc. then save the hundreds of thousands you used in registering her in school. But your Mr caring nature got the better of you, now you're the one suffering.

4. You lack self control. A man who can barely feed his family shouldn't even have an erection not to talk of impregnating his wife. If after all the financial famine you lamented to were going through, you still sustained an erection to get your wife pregnant, then you deserve every problem you're facing.

If your story is true (which I highly doubt) my prayer is that you loose your job and become broke for at least one year. They say poverty resets the brain of a cheating husband, this is exactly what I wish you, so that by the time that girl you're willing to destroy your family for, begins to snub you in your poverty state, you'll learn to invest heavily in your family when next money comes your way.

Lol...whether you like it or not, you must spend on a woman you love. And a woman who you love will definitely at one point in your relationship request cash from you.

What you should look out for is the manner at which the cash request is coming, and the reason given to you by her for the cash. If it's senseless you can always choose not to give as it will be very obvious that she's just milking you.

plyz:
a) am based in Abuja
b) I stay with my elder brother
c) am 27
d) was a 3hundred level student had to leave school 4years ago(didn't finish cuz of the issue). so I can say am only having my ssce cert.

Continue with the job, then learn a skill or start a business. Once you start making money from that skill, you can resign from the job and focus on your business.

Possible skills or business you can easily make above 30k monthly are.

1. Barbing. You'll definitely be making above 30k monthly in Abuja once you can get a shop of your own.

2. Dry-cleaning. Another good business provided you're prompt with the time frame you give to your customers.

3. POS. If you're in a location where you're far from banks, you can consider this.

4. Tailoring. All you need here is packaging and prompt delivery with the jobs customers entrust you with, and the sky will be your limit.

5. Photographer/Video coverage. In your current location, this business is hot cake.

6. Barbecue. All you need is a good location, some capital and you're good to go.

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]Ah. Tor. May the gods guide you in your beliefs about me, oh.

And come, you know I'm a drama queen, always getting mad and chill at will, and yet, what? You are trying to flatter me and drag me to which bus stop?

Why would you deliberately be relating with a drama queen?

Another thing, I dey break plate for head oh. When the spirit comes...[/color]

See leme tell you... everybody in Nigeria is mad o, just that we have different levels and categories.

Like yours when your spirit comes it's plate that you'll carry, my own spirit no de hear word o! It's bottle, plank or iron rod I will carry sharply break for person head.

So that's why I feel that things will work between us since we both share the same violent spirit. We can break each other's heads when the spirit comes, then rush each other to the hospital and apologize to each other once the spirit leaves. And after a while repeat the same process again, when the spirit returns.

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]Firstly, my own, nko? It's a lieful?

Secondly, truthful females?? The op, and the thread of the link didn't even specify a group of people to respond, but your mind already latched onto women as the default respondents.

Smh.[/color]

Hehehehe...

You had your first sex at 29, how old are you currently you no wan talk. My best guess (if your claims are true which I highly doubt) is that you're married with kids

And for the link I posted, I respected their honesty, those girls were quite young then but very open. Maybe it's because the hatred currently experienced on this forum wasn't there at that time. Meaning you can freely talk about your sexuality and no guy will use it against you unlike now where people will screenshot a post you made 5 years ago just to mock you.

The guys were young as well but matured.

So try to understand the angle I was coming from before crucifying me, an action which I believe you're desperately looking for an opportunity to do.

plyz:
Please what can one do with a 30k salary

What part of Nigeria are you based?

Do you stay alone or with your parents?

What's your age bracket?

What's your academic qualification?

If you can answer these questions I can narrow down a possible option of what you can do with it.

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]Inhumane?

I CAN attempt anything, lmao.[/color]

I don't believe you.... you're a drama queen, but you don't strike me as an inhumane person.

Lies.

Dishonesty.

Cheating.

Laziness.

Unnecessary demand for cash and other material things.

Not being able to account for money under your care.

Nagging.

And many more I wouldn't mention...

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]...that can be frustrated.[/color]

You wouldn't be so inhumane to attempt such.

If you want to read unadulterated experiences from truthful Nairaland females back then, read this thread. I've already read through it.


https://www.nairaland.com/5979/first-sexual-experience

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]29.[/color]

So how old are you currently?

DSC7:
Well i no expect you to believe......


I Will be in ur office tommorow.....



Sha keep my favourite.....

Lol... I'll be expecting you.

dollytino4real:
in a relationship setting between man and the woman who thief each other things pass like stealing money or jewelleries of ur partner,

The most entitled of the two.

Sometimes it could be the man, sometimes it could be the woman. But there's always one party who feels entitled in every relationship, that party is the rat responsible for all your missing stuffs.

DSC7:
@ the location on my siggy.......

Funny, still doesn't prove that you know me.

DSC7:
See diz young man ooo....u tink say i no know u??


I dey talk say the first Bomb wey u drop too loud u still get mind drop dynamite.....

Lol...where you know me from?

DSC7:
So for ur mind now u first me finish primary school


I was demoted from primary 4 to primary1 due to French language back den in Maiduguri...

Beat that......

Oh sorry, I thought you meant secondary school. For primary, I finished 1997. Then finished secondary 2003.

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]Wowwwnnn. Nora Roberts, Jayne Ann Krentz and the rest of them are my favorite, so I am definitely sure you're not picking these from their books.

It is likely from one story book in Chukwuemeka's Book Shop by the street's corner and written by one Bamgbose Olayiwola that you're picking these lines from, ehn? Ehn? That must be it. [/color]

To summarize all you've written....you're falling for my flattery, that means I'm making a headway.

ZIINI:
Nazgul baba wassup with you now

I de o, longest time. How's IB?

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]Ko matter. Irons rust. [/color]



[color=deeppink]I said you're unserious, and I still maintain that. ! [/color]



[color=deeppink]Lol, I said how it was before, in passing... Just 'normally' not good.[/color]

Lol...mine is stainless, it doesn't rust.

Hmmm...ayam not understanding this one you're saying that I'm unserious, how serious do you want me to be? Oh! I get you now, I'll do the carrying I think that's how it should be done, I'll carry you to bed and watch you sleep. That should make you view me as a serious person right?

Yea, and I talked money like you requested but you refused to get well. I don't know what else to do so that you can be happy.

If you have the UBA app on your phone go to your transaction receipt, if the transaction is there showing successful, you can call the bank's customer service number for confirmation, if they confirm to you that the transaction was successful then he's just trying to play a fast one on you so that you'll pay twice. Simply ignore him.

2003

Do people eat chicken head?

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]Walai, you no fit pass English exams - especially Lexis and Structure under JAMB syllabus. [/color]

But I passed jamb over a decade ago, and if I remember correctly I believe I passed English especially lexis and structure as well.

And for reminders I will be expecting you to carry me to bed tonight based on our agreement, you went MIA for ages and I became worried, but I'm glad you're back. Hopefully you'll hold your end of the bargain by carrying me to bed tonight, and you have nothing to worry about cos I'm not that heavy.

How was your day sef.. I even forgot to ask?

First you should know that we are all chirstians not cultist, so I see no reason why we should bring unnecessary division in the body of Christ because of denomination.

If she truly loves him, let her go ahead with the marriage and join him in his church, with time she can invite him to hers, it's the same Jesus we are all worshiping so no need for unnecessary arguments over where to worship.

It's foolish to call yourself a child of God then end a relationship with a fellow Christian simply because he isn't from your denomination.

To me, this isn't an issue. I started as a Presbyterian from birth, and today I can't even count the number of churches I've attended from then till now. Most Sundays I'll just look for the nearest one and attend. It's the same God we're all serving, no need to start turning it into a cult like issue, saying it's this church or nothing, that's cultism not Christianity.

So tell her to discuss it with the guy, if he can join her in her church, fine. If he can allow her continue with her own church after they get married, fine. If she joins him and becomes a witness, fine. They should reach a common ground.

BaddieFreak:
So many NLs

So you're still on NL...