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Why are girls ranting angirly on this thread. 88.8% doesn't mean that he slept with 88girls.

If he has met a total of 3 girls online and slept with 2, Statistically speaking, he's right.

The percentage he put up there has nothing to do with the actual figures of girls he's slept with.

That's if he's claims are true.

Sixfeetbelle:
"If the victim is a female...

Find a way to make the victim the villain."

-- Being a man 101

Did you read my post at all?

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]#WomenSupportingWomen

Happy birthday, dear. Such lovely friends you've got.

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Quote me and start crying to hell about the *absurdity* of the above. [/color]

I have quoted you...and yes it's absurd to receive 25 cakes. Very greed for one person if you ask me. I'm seriously crying sef, but I no de enter hell o! Haba e never reach that level.

You're a 400l student, and at 21 age is greatly on your side. Cut off from them and focus on graduating while maintaining your part time job. After your service you can always get a great job and enjoy your legally gotten wealth peacefully.

Stephenmoka4:
Done it multiple times, still getting that annoying "we are working on it"

They should reply you with progress report. Do it again then copy CBN. They'll act faster.

You look great...but let's wait for the ladies to give their rating.

Stephenmoka4:
The merchant can't find anything but, I still have the receipt from my bank.

The receipt from your bank would suffice. Attach it to your mail and send to them.

baralatie:
this is 9 months o!

I know...just do what I told you, and make sure you copy CBN in your mail. They'll reply you.

Great write up.

Leshurr:
So is it men's responsibility to guard their wandering pricks. So are you saying men are incapable of showing respect to their fellow men by refusing to lure their wives?

Every gender has good and bad amongst them. There are decent men and there are decent women. There are irresponsible men and there are irresponsible women.

What I'm saying is that as a woman, it's your responsibility to guard your body against irresponsible men. If you must know, men are capable of showing respect to their fellow men by not luring their wives. If your husband's friend is luring you, it's your responsibility to report him to your husband with evidence. Bad friends exist Judas is a typical example. You and your husband must cut off from such friend permanently.

Leshurr:
This is partly true. But men are to be blamed as well.
Never in the history of time have we had such a sheer amount of weak, effeminate men.
Men who have no control over their libido and will do anything just to get a taste of a woman's private part. You know a woman is married, yet you refuse to respect her relationship - there is no married woman that doesn't have thirsty men in her dms. Even using money to lure women all because of sex.
You men need to get yourselves in order.
Bring back masculinity & take back your self respect.

A man cannot sleep with a woman unless she allows him.

This is where decency comes into play. It's the responsibility of every woman to tell them no, and stand by her word.

When you're contented with what your parents or husband gives to you, it would be very difficult for a man to lure you to his bed with money. The reason men still disturb married women is because many women are confused and greedy.

When you're married, you're expected to sever all ties with ex lovers. But many ladies don't do this. They still want to cash out from their ex even in their husbands house. And as the saying goes that nothing is free even in free town, they will end up submitting their vagina in order for them to cash out successfully.

It's your responsibility to guard your body jealously, it's your responsibility to respect your relationship and marriage by turning down passes from men, it's your responsibility to respectfully decline cash gifts from your ex...when you greedily give into these, don't come out to blame men for acting like goats cos it takes two to tangle. Meaning you're as guilty as the man.

Tomorrow you'll create a new user name and a thread here telling us how depressed and sucidial you are, with the regular signature of your account details.

I've vowed never to attach relevance to such emotional messages. Keep enjoying your sexcapades but remember this warning.

Stephenmoka4:
Eight weeks and counting, Access bank hasn't reverse my money. I have called, message, tweet, live chat and gone to their bank branch. CBN didn't respond, just nothing. I have mailed the merchant and they said no trace of such transaction.

Request for a receipt of the failed transaction from the merchant, snap it and attach it to your detailed mail mail and send to your bank. While sending, copy CBN. They'll resolve it ASAP for you.

Magnoliaa:
[color=deeppink]no yawa. gudlok finding a decent girl, Nazi.[/color]

Lol...thanks jare. You can remember me in prayers o. Rather than using spiritual whip to flog and injure me for my mom, you can channel that energy to intercessory prayers for me.

I'll double your make-up kit for you once I begin to see the manifestations of your efforts.

Magnoliaa:
K. And I hope your reality and relationship will be one that doesn't fit into that truth pill you posted up there.

Lol @truth pill

In reality I wouldn't marry a girl who I know has an undisputed record of hoeing. Cos I know that such marriage will end in premium tears.

Decency is what sustains marriages, the decency to stick to your husband and build your home together from the scratch, the decency to sever all ties with ex lovers and focus on your husband regardless of his financial status, the decency to respect and support him morally, emotionally, financially...etc.

once a girl lacks that, her home is gone. That's the truth and nothing but the truth.

Sadly most girls lack such decency that's why marriages of today don't last.

Magnoliaa:
[s]

Phew.

The truth the say is so bitter and people hate listening to it.

ThinkSmarter:
there z nothing like grace of god here.
If u learn to drive carefully with good tyres and break, u won't hit anyone.
Don't drink n drive.
Reduce ur speed in town/city centres/jnc.
And also, always stay at alert cuz a pedestrian, children riding bicycle, old men/women, okada riders will act funny infront of ur car without notice.

This post exposes two things.

1. You've never driven a car in a busy City in Nigeria

2. You've never driven a car at all.

When you drive in Nigeria you'll understand why you need the grace of God cos most commerical bus drivers and okada riders drive under the influence of drugs and alcohol.

This means that even if you're driving at 60km/h on a major road, a drug influenced okada rider can swerve into your lane for no reason causing you to loose control and either hit him or hit another vehicle or swerve and hit a tree or pole to avoid both.

Magnoliaa:
I'll pursue you with a spiritual whip that'd cause welts in real life if that ever happened...

Ah!!!! No dreams then. Wouldn't want anyone or anything to ruin my smooth skin. Good night and sleep well.

spoked:
I can tell you that many people saw danger signs in their spouse before they married them...They only ignored it or felt their may or will be a change...We have high rate of divorce and marital issues..Many of these issues did not just happen, there were danger signs that people ignored because of love, emotions, desperation, etc

Very true.

When a your lover cheats on you, or has hot temper, or you discovered certain conflicting stories about his/her past life which contradicts what you were told, doesn't show appreciation towards you for the little financial commitment you make, lies terribly, very saucy, has poor saving habit and lavishes money irresponsibly...and many more.

These are glaring red flags most people who claim to be in love deliberately ignore and go ahead to walk down the isle. Sadly most marriages are destroyed because of this like you rightfully pointed out.

Magnoliaa:
- Except in r/ships, It is of necessity, for me, to trust beforehand, until I'm given a reason to withdraw it. So, it is like that - you giving, not me demanding.

- Wateva. . . enjoy your night. . .

Lol...you too...nice talking to you by the way. We can continue in our dreams if you don't mind.

Elixirz:
Honey moon wasn't just meant for a virgin girl
But for both man and woman to experience their first sexual experince together as husband and wife. That's the true meaning of honeymoon. Any other thing is just people's way of making themselves feel better cause they had sex before marriage

Google the origin of honeymoon. It started as far back as the 15th century where grooms take their brides which most of the times are virgins far away after their wedding to consumate it.

The aim was to give your new bride her first sexual experience in a memorable way. Honeymoon didn't start in our generation. Just that our generation has corrupted it, and made it pointless.

Magnoliaa:
It is demanding. Just demanding in a way I can't explain.

Number 1 of all things it exposes about you is trust. You don't even have unconditional trust to give in the first place and take my word for it.

Mschew.

Trust is earned...you don't demand it, you earn it. Just like money, you must work and stress out yourself for it before you can comfortably enjoy it. Same with trust. Besides, I don't thing my request is demanding tho, you're just being you...(a drama queen who has a cute look whenever she's angry) like I rightfully pointed out in one of my previous posts.

Magnoliaa:
Exactly. I can get that from someone else for a less demanding option...

How's proving the originality of the pics you calm was yours a demanding option?

adadike:
My fellow ladies, please stop living with a man that is not your husband and try to avoid misunderstanding at all cost. The devil is prowling our streets these days

The truth is many girls don't know when to shut up. When you know the kind of guy you're dating, avoid upsetting him unnecessarily. Note I'm not justifying the guy's act. Cos what he did was totally wrong, he could have easily marched her out of his house if he couldn't stand whatever it was that triggered him to commit that shameful and evil act.

But like I said earlier, many girls just don't know when to keep their mouth shut for the sake of peace. This is what leads to wife beating in most marriages.

mamagee3:
[color=deeppink]Do you like my profile photo?

“Like” my profile photo if you like my profile photo[/color]

You're beautiful...keep up your natural looks, it fits you perfectly.

Go to the police station and report him first. Inform them of everything that happened, and show them evidence of the business transaction and how he refused to balance you the remaining cash.

Tell them how you used your brother's (make sure you tell the police that the people you used was your brother and cousins) to make him pay up cos it's a family business and the guy was holding down your family's capital.

Then inform them how the guy decided to change the whole story into you robbing him and threatening him. Once you can make your statement first, there's nothing he can do. Cos the police will invite him and warn him not to lay a finger on you or try anything stupid.

He'll have no choice than to make peace. And make sure you avoid any kind or form of business dealings with him.

englishmart:
[b] marriages don't last these days like it did during the era of our grandparents. What are we not doing right?

Indiscriminate sex otherwise known as sex before marriage is the cause.

When a girl has tasted between 5 to 30 dícks and even above that before getting married, how do you expect her to remain faithful to her husband? It obviously wouldn't be possible cos her trailer load of EXs would keep bugging her for a quickie not minding that she's married.

So cheating will most likely begin less than a week after her wedding. Most especially when they begin to play the generous role by crediting her account unnecessarily.

Look at the issue of honeymoon. The idea was aimed at making first time sex for virgins girls who get married a memorable experience. But today how many girls even marry as virgins?

Many guys don't even bother about honeymoon anymore these days cos most girls vagina has swallowed countless sizes and shapes of dícks, so what's there for the husbands to enjoy on the honeymoon night. He'll just be sweating all night trying to satisfy one over slacked pússy hoe. Believe me it's not worth it.

This is the reason why marriages doesn't last.

If parents and religious leaders can impact morality on children of nowadays, things would change positively in marriages of the next generation. But until then, married in this our present generation is annoyingly overated.

NiRfreak:
The first time was with condom...but the second when I came from market was raw...I just felt comfortable Sha..maybe it was the drink or weed.. regardless..she was a clean woman

STDs doesn't affect it's host appearance. Most times the host might look neat and all that, but what's inside him/her is enough to shatter their victims goals. I'm not judging you cos I'm not perfect myself, but be careful next time and remember to use a protection.

I would have easily blamed the tipper driver for recklessness, but considering how these okada riders drive these days, I'll rather blame the okada man.

Those guys behave as though they have spare lives stashed away somewhere pending when it will come in handy.

A friend of mine killed one with his car last two years, the okada guy just joined the major road from a street recklessly without even looking out to see if there's an incoming vehicle. That was how he made the innocent guy a murderer.

It will take the grace of God for you a private car owner to go out to work and return 365days with hitting any of them.

Rip to him.

How can you withdraw 93k on a POS machine? The charges alone would be about 3k or more depending on the merchant. Was the urgency of the money so much that you decided to inconvenience yourself this way?

You could have transferred the money to them via your app, then request for cash. That's what I do whenever I make use of POS.

To your issue. Avoid going to the bank, banking issued are resolved easier online than in the banking hall. Those in the banking halls are on daily target so they don't have time to waste on you. They'll most likely tell you any story they feel will make you get off their raider so they can concentrate on more productive customers.

Reach out to your bank on Twitter and email. They'll respond to you within 24 hours. Make sure you give a detailed report of the whole incident. Date, time and location of transaction. Your debit alert of the said sum should also be attached to your mail and sent.

A customer service representative will be assigned to you to follow your case. Hopefully before a week, you'll get back your reversal.

Good luck.

Emperor2020:
until tree fall in your head,u won't know how risky it is

Every business has its own risks.

Forget that man's appearance o, those guys into felling of trees are low key millionaires, cos if you know the hundreds of thousands they sell those planks, you'll understand why he was able to comfortably sponsor his daughter's education.