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How can one contact this girl?

https://www.nairaland.com/20342/polygamy-women-really-find-it.

I know of a lady whose mother had their maid become the second wife of her husband. It's TRUE. Another one though it's fiction is in "A Fresh Start" by Helen Ovbiagele, in which the mother of Ndidi Amengo sponsors the education of a young girl and later on has her husband marry this girl to be the junior wife. The woman's children saw their new stepmother as their friend.

OLAADEGBU:
God bless you sir.

Amen. And you too, Amen.

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Shooting_of_Tamir_Rice

Please read the above.

Quite common among women folk, guess it has to do with insecurity or 'level don change'

diportivo:
The write-up makes it feel as tho schools just started getting expensive and it isnt so

Education is expensive....not to now talk of quality education

What i like is that there's a school out there for every one..grade by grade

Bad as e bad,u go chook ur pikin put for public primary school

I disagree, here in the USA, education is free to the K12 grade, that is from kindergaten to 12th grade that if you live in a good school district, it's pointless sending your ward to private schools, which in most cases do offer scholarships. But what about Nigeria? You are caught between a rock and a hard place.

Worldover, education is seen as the passport to a better life and Nigerians are not left behind in the desire to get the best education that money can buy. Cashing in on the assumed woes of public schools, proprietors and administrators of private and mission schools have taken the saying 'if you think education is expensive, try ignorance' a bar higher by charging exorbitant fees and levies.

Exorbitant fees and levies

Despite the reasonable improvements in infrastructure and manpower development in most public schools in Lagos State, most parents are still of the view that private schools are better managed, with a relatively higher standard of education, fewer disciplinary problems, better facilities, better performance in public examinations and higher quality of output.

These and many more have led to the increased patronage, proliferation of these schools and extortion by private and mission schools. These extortions come in form of cost of note books and text books that can't be used by a younger sibling, tuition, development fee, sportswear and uniforms, among numerous others.

What parents pay: From a copy of the payment bill for new intakes at St. Gregory's College, Ikoyi, Lagos, and signed by the school's administrator, Rev. Fr. Emmanuel Ayeni, new intakes are to pay a non refundable N100,000 and a balance of N60,000.

Tuition fee (N50,000); development levies (N10,000); miscelleneous items such as books, academic materials, sport/game wear, medical scheme, diesel/generator maintenance, damages, prayer book, 3 pairs of socks, 2 pairs of uniform, a pair of Sunday wear with name inscription, 2 pairs of house wear with name inscription, lunch, PTA levies, etc (N155,000 for day students and N205,000 for boarders); hostel accommodation (N170,000)

A copy of the payment bill from Murtala Muhammed Airport Schools, Ikeja, reads: tuition N55,000; electives N3,000; development levy N6,000; examination N3,000; PTA levy N1,000; phonetics N2,500; end of year party N4000; textbooks/exercises N45,000; lesson N4000; practicals N5000; and LASGEM N500. Total amount payable is N129,000.

Dowen College, Lekki, charges as much as N2,000,000 annually for a boarding student and N1,250,000 for day students; Atlantic Hall charges as much as N2,270,000 per student; Greensprings Schools charge over N3 million for boarding and almost N2 million for day students; Lekki British International School, Lekki Phase 1, charges $19,500 (over N4m) + N200,000 development fee; while British International School, Victoria Island, charge $26,750 + N200,000 annually for a student.

Reactions: Mr. Ejike Okoye, who had always wanted his child to school at Learning Field Schools, Satellite Town, could not achieve the vision as the fee charged for kindergarten class was too high for him.

He said: "In as much as I want the best education for my child, paying N105,000 for kindergarten class is way too much because aside ABC and 123, I wonder what they would be taught at that age that would justify that huge amount of money.

"Though I was disappointed, I was able to register her in another quality but more affordable school."

A parent who pleaded anonymity said "at Yewande Memorial School, Surulere, I paid about N90,000. Two pairs of uniforms cost N15,000, sweater and sportswear cost N9,000, medical insurance was tagged N3,000, books and stationery N10,000 and tuition was about N60,000. Though it is much but it is a price I'm prepared to pay provided my child is getting the best."

For Chinyere Chidiadi, "It is really outrageous, minus tuition and uniform, my son's school actually billed me N5,000 for Christmas funfair, N10,500 for books only though he just started kindergarten and his siblings will not be able to use those same books.

Quality education

In as much as we desire quality education for our children, these charges are really very outrageous."

Another parent, Mrs. Wura Dairo, said it is really appalling that these schools are taking advantage of the lapses in public schools and are charge exorbitant fees and levies. Aside the tuition fees, I pay N40,000 for meals among other numerous and almost irrelevant levies. At the end, the levies are four times the tuition fees. I don't blame them because they are taking advantage of the fact that parents who can't afford to send their children abroad will patronise private schools to bill us high."

Concerned about the frequent change of textbooks every session, Mrs. Florence Utam said "It is really sad that two siblings can no longer use same books as it was in the past. Today, the book sellers say it is 22nd edition and when you ask for the same book tomorrow, they will tell you that it is now 23rd edition and this is very frustrating."

Upbringingof children

On the reserve side, some parents and guardians have blamed parents for exposing themselves to private schools to be extorted from. Mrs Joy Orubu, with three children in Primegold School, Olodi Apapa, said: "The school fees is reasonable to me, I do not feel over charged. The problem is that people like fanciful things and even prefer it over quality.

The parents went there themselves, if they feel extorted from they should leave; if the quality of education provided is not as they like it they should leave. It is just that people like flashy things."

Defending the charges private schools place on the services they render to the upbringing of children, Mrs Tina Dinma said: "There are many reasons for the exorbitant levies and school fees. For one thing, Nigerians tend to place higher value on expensive schools, they even look at the structure of the school building in choosing schools for their children and wards. The truth is that the structure has nothing to do with the academic standard of the school.

"Also, there is competition among schools especially on the issue of salaries as a lot money is needed for the payment of salaries. Schools that pay higher salaries usually get the best teachers since almost every teacher would want to work with them. With that the schools are able to choose the most qualified and experienced teachers.

"The issue of changing books is an arrangement with publishers. The publishers give them commissions and even discounts. The children are compelled to buy from the school, usually at higher prizes than what is obtainable in bookshops. The books are always in workbook form, the child writes in it, the teacher marks with red ink such that it cannot be erased. This of course means that another child cannot use it."

Pointing a finger at the government Mr Fortune Emuroh, who has resulted to patronising private schools, said: "The government caused all these things. When you take your children to government primary school, they are not well taken care of. The environment is untidy, the ones here have collapsing buildings, pools of water and lack furniture. Am I to send my child to such a place? Provided my child is well taken care of, I would patronise the one that is friendly with my pocket. If government schools were as they were when I was young, I would have no reason to patronise private schools."

"We are not asking for too much, we just want the ministry to education to look into these charges. There should be regulations to protect the citizenry because all the children in Nigeria cannot all go to public schools, they do not have the capacity." Said Madam Ozo who has four children and two nieces in private schools.

Lack of government control

Vanguard's investigations reveal that there is little or nothing that the state Ministry of Education can do to checkmate these private schools as they are not under the supervision of the ministry.

A top ministry official, who didn't want his name on print, said "just as the Ministry of Information can't control what goes on in your organisation, the Ministry of Education can't control the activities of private schools despite the fact that they are approved and registered under us.

"If the parents are complaining about the fees and extra charges being imposed on them by these schools, they should register their ward(s) in public schools because they are less expensive and the state government has done its possible best to make them conducive for academic activities."

http://odili.net/news/source/2015/dec/10/305.html

May his soul rest in peace, Amen.

vedd:
Awolowo was never a soldier nor a head of state. You mean he committed war crimes with his extraordinary administrative strategies and superior intelligence? The kind that Ojuku couldn't commit with all the weapons and armies he controlled?
Now this is another amazing attestation to Awo's greatness.

Who initiated the starvation policy against Biafra?

kayusely:
You are very wrong that Buhari was in Ikenne on Nov 25 for the burial of H I D Awolowo he was represented by the senate president Dr Bukola Saraki. That's lazy and yellow journalism..

Buhari was in attendance at HID Awolowo's funeral.

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/11/buhari-ministers-16-govs-others-bid-hid-awolowo-farewell/

We, the ibibios, do have a rich and deep culture.

It's been going on abroad, but trust copycats back home to adopt it.

the devaluation of our currency proved to be a disastrous economic policy. And I think that's part of the reasons why people flocked abroad so they could earn boku dollars and pound sterling, convert them in Naira and live large when they move back home.

wao!

Why is this particular girl making headlines at a time when she should be in mourning over the death of her great grandmother HID Awolowo? Family members ought to restrain her. There is a time for everything.

That man terrorized Nigeria, his name was a household name. Heard he used to start the engine of the cars he stole with five kobo. Men, armed robbers those days were a menace, you would think that it was really scripted or straight out of television.

Federal schools aka Unity schools were the in-thing, back in the 80's.

So Gowon had an ibo girlfriend (Edith Ike Mark Odu) while waging a civil war against the ibos that wanted to secede from Nigeria. And the lady herself also choose to be with the same man that was fighting against her tribe. When I think about it, it's just baffling to say the least.

Musa was born during the civil war. His late mom, Edith, and Yakubu Gowon had a well publicized spat that landed in court over his paternity with Gowon denying that he was the father of her baby.

Be positive, with God everything is possible.

She contested in MBGN 2012 (https://www.nairaland.com/929431/mbgn-2012-pictures-contestants-traditional) and thought she was one of the prettiest contestant, so even though she lost in that contest, this must have been a consolation for her.

Are you really sure that he really said it?

http://www.snopes.com/donald-trump-africans-lazy-stealing/

impressive.

Read this article.

http://odili.net/news/source/2015/oct/23/810.html

Afenifere chieftain, Senator Femi Okurounmu, says if the Igbo want the Eze Ndigbo title to be recognised in Yoruba land, they must also recognise the Oba title in the South-East.


Okurounmu said this during an interview with our correspondent on Thursday while reacting to the ban on the Eze Ndigbo title by the Deji of Akure, Oba Aladetoyinbo Aladelusi.

The Akure monarch ordered the title to be reviewed and replaced with a non-controversial honorary one.

This is one of the conditions given by the monarch to end the crisis between him and the leader of the Igbo community in the town, Mr. Gregory Iloehike.

Subsequently, there have been calls by several Yoruba groups for the total ban of the Eze Ndigbo title in the entire South-West.

However, Okurounmu said the Yoruba would have no problem with the Igbo title as long as Yoruba titles were recognised in the South-East.

He said, "In all things, there must be reciprocity. If the Yoruba are allowed to have obas in Igbo land, then it will be in order for the Igbo to have ezes in Yoruba land. On the other hand, if Yoruba communities in Igbo land cannot have obas, then it will not be fair for the Igbo in Yoruba land to have ezes."

In a separate statement, the Afenifere Renewal Group commended the Deji of Akure for banning the title of 'Eze Ndi Igbo' in Akure.

Commending the Akure monarch for his decision on Thursday, the ARG described him as a noble and wise king.

The ARG, in a statement by its Publicity Secretary, Kunle Famoriyo, said, "We want to say that this act will go down in the history of the Yoruba nation and among other nationalities as noble and needful.

"Contrary to what many, particularly the mischief makers, have been saying, this move has the potential to strengthen inter-ethnic relationship as it eliminates the friction points amongst nationalities, be it in Yoruba land or elsewhere.

"There is no gainsaying that the structure of the Eze Ndigbo outside Igbo land is deployed towards an expansionist end, with possible occupational intent.

"It is our conviction that the Igbo community in Yoruba land does not need to have a king, since by the Yoruba custom, two kings cannot coexist in a domain."

The ARG said the Yoruba people were the most tolerant in Nigeria which was often taken for granted by other tribes.

The group encouraged Igbo trade associations and development unions to continue to carry out their activities.

It, however, urged all monarchs and governors in the South-West not to recognise the Ndigbo title as it was at variance with Yoruba customs.

"We therefore want to reiterate our proposition to the heads of executive governments in Yoruba land and other traditional rulers that the title of Eze Ndigbo, or any other monarchical title that is alien to Yoruba customs, be scrapped in all South-West states," the statement added.

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Chokolee:
IMAGINE IF THE 3
WISE MEN HAD BEEN 3
WISE WOMEN, They would have asked
directions instead of following
the star. They would have arrived on
time, helped deliver baby
Jesus, cleaned the stable,
brought practical gift like
pampers, feeding bottles,
baby clothes&made milk for the new baby...etc BUT WHAT WOULD
THEY HAVE SAID AS
THEY LEFT...
(Ladies talks) I thought we were supposed
to be meeting them at
National Hospital. Did u see the shoes Mary
was wearing with that dress?
They don't match oo. Can u believe they let all
those disgusting animals in
there.
That donkey they're riding
has seen better days! Can't
he buy her Range Sport? Imagine Mary using 3310 my
dear, he should have bought
her a Bold 5. I heard that Joseph isn't
even working right now.
Nawa o... how will they
survive? But I like her hair oo, I think
it's Brazilian...eit -her Remy or
Koquette 28 inches. Hmmm, I
wonder d oil she uses on it. That baby doesn't look
anything like Joseph! Virgin
ke? Hmmmm! Virgin my foot!
Isn't it that Mary girl, I
knew her in Sec school.

HAPPY SUNDAY!

The wise men however met with Jesus Christ when he was a child not when he was a baby. Read the scriptures again.

Great job.

If it were in America, this little boy would have been in school.