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Education › Re: Why You Must Avoid Carryovers At All Cost As An Undergraduate by Ndipe(m):
Never had a carryover back at Uniuyo. In my year 2, I narrowly missed carrying over a philosophy class to my year 3, just by a fraction. A great relief indeed and the lecturer for that course was feared on campus.
Family › Re: Would You Do A DNA Testing On Your Kids? by Ndipe(op): 2:13am On Jan 15, 2016
Culture › Re: Woman Flees Nigeria To Canada To Escape FGM by Ndipe(m): 3:11am On Jan 14, 2016
Stale.
Education › Re: What Nigerian Private Schools Cost Parents: by Ndipe(op): 12:45am On Jan 14, 2016
diportivo:
Altho public schools dont make provisions for kindergarten, education is also free at the primary school level here.most states even do till secondary school

If it were good enough,private schools wont thrive.talkless of trying to outdo one another

My point is,u pay for quality education if u want one.and it starts at the preparatory stage
Public schools here in America are very good that it's pointless enrolling your children in a private school, especially if you live in a good school district, still, that doesnt mean that private schools are not thriving here in the USA.
Education › Re: Unilag Purchases New Beds, Fumigates Hostels (photos) by Ndipe(m): 5:05am On Jan 12, 2016
Deplorable hostels, look at Ghanaian universities and their hostels, outfitted nicely unlike Nigerian universities hostels. A shame.

https://www.nairaland.com/2516470/pictures-university-ghana-beautiful-hostels
Crime › Re: Woman Pours Hot Water On Kid Housemaid (graphic Pics) by Ndipe(m): 2:43am On Jan 08, 2016
lonelydora:
In as much as i condemn the woman's action, you can never tell what the kid did to push the woman to that level of anger.

Children can be very stubborn at times, If you think i'm lying, go and watch the movie "ITORO"
heartless comment.
Family › Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by Ndipe(m): 12:23am On Jan 08, 2016
tpiar:
^how did that novel end? Its been long since I read it.

hope the stepmother didn't get rid of the lot of them?

clogs in the wheel of her progress.
Had a happy ending because Osifo ended up marrying Ndidi Amengo the step-daughter of the woman that her mother arranged to marry her dad. She, Ndidi, and her brothers had a great relationship with their step-mother who was also their age contemporary. As for the true life story, it did not have a happy ending. Step-mother became rude to the senior wife according to the daughter.
Crime › Re: Woman Pours Hot Water On Kid Housemaid (graphic Pics) by Ndipe(m): 12:17am On Jan 08, 2016
How can one contact this girl?
Family › Re: This Woman Happily Announced That Her Hubby is Taking A 2nd Wife by Ndipe(m): 12:32am On Jan 07, 2016
https://www.nairaland.com/20342/polygamy-women-really-find-it.

I know of a lady whose mother had their maid become the second wife of her husband. It's TRUE. Another one though it's fiction is in "A Fresh Start" by Helen Ovbiagele, in which the mother of Ndidi Amengo sponsors the education of a young girl and later on has her husband marry this girl to be the junior wife. The woman's children saw their new stepmother as their friend.
Christianity Etc › Re: Christ At Creation by Ndipe(m): 12:18am On Dec 31, 2015
OLAADEGBU:
God bless you sir. wink
Amen. And you too, Amen.
Family › Re: Will You Buy A Toy Gun For Your Child? by Ndipe(op): 2:26am On Dec 30, 2015
Family › Re: Why Do People Abandon Their Single Friends After Marriage? by Ndipe(m): 1:37am On Dec 23, 2015
Quite common among women folk, guess it has to do with insecurity or 'level don change'
Education › Re: What Nigerian Private Schools Cost Parents: by Ndipe(op):
diportivo:
The write-up makes it feel as tho schools just started getting expensive and it isnt so

Education is expensive....not to now talk of quality education

What i like is that there's a school out there for every one..grade by grade

Bad as e bad,u go chook ur pikin put for public primary school
I disagree, here in the USA, education is free to the K12 grade, that is from kindergaten to 12th grade that if you live in a good school district, it's pointless sending your ward to private schools, which in most cases do offer scholarships. But what about Nigeria? You are caught between a rock and a hard place.
Education › What Nigerian Private Schools Cost Parents: by Ndipe(op): 12:21am On Dec 11, 2015
Worldover, education is seen as the passport to a better life and Nigerians are not left behind in the desire to get the best education that money can buy. Cashing in on the assumed woes of public schools, proprietors and administrators of private and mission schools have taken the saying 'if you think education is expensive, try ignorance' a bar higher by charging exorbitant fees and levies.

Exorbitant fees and levies

Despite the reasonable improvements in infrastructure and manpower development in most public schools in Lagos State, most parents are still of the view that private schools are better managed, with a relatively higher standard of education, fewer disciplinary problems, better facilities, better performance in public examinations and higher quality of output.

These and many more have led to the increased patronage, proliferation of these schools and extortion by private and mission schools. These extortions come in form of cost of note books and text books that can't be used by a younger sibling, tuition, development fee, sportswear and uniforms, among numerous others.

What parents pay: From a copy of the payment bill for new intakes at St. Gregory's College, Ikoyi, Lagos, and signed by the school's administrator, Rev. Fr. Emmanuel Ayeni, new intakes are to pay a non refundable N100,000 and a balance of N60,000.

Tuition fee (N50,000); development levies (N10,000); miscelleneous items such as books, academic materials, sport/game wear, medical scheme, diesel/generator maintenance, damages, prayer book, 3 pairs of socks, 2 pairs of uniform, a pair of Sunday wear with name inscription, 2 pairs of house wear with name inscription, lunch, PTA levies, etc (N155,000 for day students and N205,000 for boarders); hostel accommodation (N170,000)

A copy of the payment bill from Murtala Muhammed Airport Schools, Ikeja, reads: tuition N55,000; electives N3,000; development levy N6,000; examination N3,000; PTA levy N1,000; phonetics N2,500; end of year party N4000; textbooks/exercises N45,000; lesson N4000; practicals N5000; and LASGEM N500. Total amount payable is N129,000.

Dowen College, Lekki, charges as much as N2,000,000 annually for a boarding student and N1,250,000 for day students; Atlantic Hall charges as much as N2,270,000 per student; Greensprings Schools charge over N3 million for boarding and almost N2 million for day students; Lekki British International School, Lekki Phase 1, charges $19,500 (over N4m) + N200,000 development fee; while British International School, Victoria Island, charge $26,750 + N200,000 annually for a student.

Reactions: Mr. Ejike Okoye, who had always wanted his child to school at Learning Field Schools, Satellite Town, could not achieve the vision as the fee charged for kindergarten class was too high for him.

He said: "In as much as I want the best education for my child, paying N105,000 for kindergarten class is way too much because aside ABC and 123, I wonder what they would be taught at that age that would justify that huge amount of money.

"Though I was disappointed, I was able to register her in another quality but more affordable school."

A parent who pleaded anonymity said "at Yewande Memorial School, Surulere, I paid about N90,000. Two pairs of uniforms cost N15,000, sweater and sportswear cost N9,000, medical insurance was tagged N3,000, books and stationery N10,000 and tuition was about N60,000. Though it is much but it is a price I'm prepared to pay provided my child is getting the best."

For Chinyere Chidiadi, "It is really outrageous, minus tuition and uniform, my son's school actually billed me N5,000 for Christmas funfair, N10,500 for books only though he just started kindergarten and his siblings will not be able to use those same books.

Quality education

In as much as we desire quality education for our children, these charges are really very outrageous."

Another parent, Mrs. Wura Dairo, said it is really appalling that these schools are taking advantage of the lapses in public schools and are charge exorbitant fees and levies. Aside the tuition fees, I pay N40,000 for meals among other numerous and almost irrelevant levies. At the end, the levies are four times the tuition fees. I don't blame them because they are taking advantage of the fact that parents who can't afford to send their children abroad will patronise private schools to bill us high."

Concerned about the frequent change of textbooks every session, Mrs. Florence Utam said "It is really sad that two siblings can no longer use same books as it was in the past. Today, the book sellers say it is 22nd edition and when you ask for the same book tomorrow, they will tell you that it is now 23rd edition and this is very frustrating."

Upbringingof children

On the reserve side, some parents and guardians have blamed parents for exposing themselves to private schools to be extorted from. Mrs Joy Orubu, with three children in Primegold School, Olodi Apapa, said: "The school fees is reasonable to me, I do not feel over charged. The problem is that people like fanciful things and even prefer it over quality.

The parents went there themselves, if they feel extorted from they should leave; if the quality of education provided is not as they like it they should leave. It is just that people like flashy things."

Defending the charges private schools place on the services they render to the upbringing of children, Mrs Tina Dinma said: "There are many reasons for the exorbitant levies and school fees. For one thing, Nigerians tend to place higher value on expensive schools, they even look at the structure of the school building in choosing schools for their children and wards. The truth is that the structure has nothing to do with the academic standard of the school.

"Also, there is competition among schools especially on the issue of salaries as a lot money is needed for the payment of salaries. Schools that pay higher salaries usually get the best teachers since almost every teacher would want to work with them. With that the schools are able to choose the most qualified and experienced teachers.

"The issue of changing books is an arrangement with publishers. The publishers give them commissions and even discounts. The children are compelled to buy from the school, usually at higher prizes than what is obtainable in bookshops. The books are always in workbook form, the child writes in it, the teacher marks with red ink such that it cannot be erased. This of course means that another child cannot use it."

Pointing a finger at the government Mr Fortune Emuroh, who has resulted to patronising private schools, said: "The government caused all these things. When you take your children to government primary school, they are not well taken care of. The environment is untidy, the ones here have collapsing buildings, pools of water and lack furniture. Am I to send my child to such a place? Provided my child is well taken care of, I would patronise the one that is friendly with my pocket. If government schools were as they were when I was young, I would have no reason to patronise private schools."

"We are not asking for too much, we just want the ministry to education to look into these charges. There should be regulations to protect the citizenry because all the children in Nigeria cannot all go to public schools, they do not have the capacity." Said Madam Ozo who has four children and two nieces in private schools.

Lack of government control

Vanguard's investigations reveal that there is little or nothing that the state Ministry of Education can do to checkmate these private schools as they are not under the supervision of the ministry.

A top ministry official, who didn't want his name on print, said "just as the Ministry of Information can't control what goes on in your organisation, the Ministry of Education can't control the activities of private schools despite the fact that they are approved and registered under us.

"If the parents are complaining about the fees and extra charges being imposed on them by these schools, they should register their ward(s) in public schools because they are less expensive and the state government has done its possible best to make them conducive for academic activities."

http://odili.net/news/source/2015/dec/10/305.html
Politics › Re: Prof. Eskor Toyo Dies At 86 by Ndipe(m): 12:14am On Dec 10, 2015
May his soul rest in peace, Amen.
Politics › Re: Dolapo Osinbajo With Obafemi & Hannah Awolowo, Her Maternal Grandparents In 1986 by Ndipe(m): 4:49am On Dec 03, 2015
vedd:
Awolowo was never a soldier nor a head of state. You mean he committed war crimes with his extraordinary administrative strategies and superior intelligence? The kind that Ojuku couldn't commit with all the weapons and armies he controlled?
Now this is another amazing attestation to Awo's greatness.
Who initiated the starvation policy against Biafra?
Literature › Re: Do You Remember the Pacesetters Books? by Ndipe(m):
Nnenna1:
Hey, speaking of Pacesetters Books, there's this really good novel I read years ago. It's about a young man who returns from the Biafran war, only to find out that his wife was given away (by his family) to an abusive bicycle repairer as a new husband (if I remember correctly). Well, the young man looks for her and such, and they actually get together (it happens on the day when a cyclist called Zorro perfoms in their village), but the new husband finds out, and then tragedy strikes.  Not exactly Achebe in comparison, but the novel was actually very haunting undecided. A week after reading it I was still thinking about the characters.

I think it's a Pacesetters novel, and I'm wondering if anyone has read this same storyline and knows the title. I really want to read it again. Check it out somewhere and buy it.

Any answers to this will be appreciated. thanx.  grin
I remember the story line, but I dont think it's in the cyclist. The young man at one point was living with his aunt, right? And when he wanted to leave her, his aunt wouldnt let him go, or rather pleaded with him to stay with her. Infact, what I could recall is that the husband of the woman returned home from the war and the man is informed that his 'wife's' husband is back from the war and he discussed it with the woman and told her that he's already paid the bride price so that meant she was now his legal wife. Didnt the men get into a confrontation?
Literature › Re: Do You Remember the Pacesetters Books? by Ndipe(m): 4:33am On Dec 03, 2015
Politics › Re: Buhari Cancels Weekly FEC Meetings by Ndipe(m): 4:12am On Dec 01, 2015
kayusely:
You are very wrong that Buhari was in Ikenne on Nov 25 for the burial of H I D Awolowo he was represented by the senate president Dr Bukola Saraki. That's lazy and yellow journalism..
Buhari was in attendance at HID Awolowo's funeral.

http://www.vanguardngr.com/2015/11/buhari-ministers-16-govs-others-bid-hid-awolowo-farewell/
Culture › Re: Post Pictures Of Traditional Weddings. by Ndipe(m): 4:25am On Nov 19, 2015
We, the ibibios, do have a rich and deep culture.
Jokes Etc › Re: They Now Rent Groomsmen [See Hilarious Tweets] by Ndipe(m): 4:24am On Nov 19, 2015
It's been going on abroad, but trust copycats back home to adopt it.
Culture › Re: African Culture, Nigeria -my View by Ndipe(m): 1:23am On Nov 17, 2015
the devaluation of our currency proved to be a disastrous economic policy. And I think that's part of the reasons why people flocked abroad so they could earn boku dollars and pound sterling, convert them in Naira and live large when they move back home.
Culture › Re: Weird Facts From Around The World by Ndipe(m): 1:13am On Nov 17, 2015
wao!
Crime › Re: Lawrence Anini: Life And Death Of Nigeria’s Most Notorious Armed Robber (photos) by Ndipe(m): 2:20am On Nov 14, 2015
Literature › Re: 7 Must Read Books By African Authors by Ndipe(m): 2:18am On Nov 14, 2015
Here is Marie, Camara Laye's girlfriend in the African Child.

http://www.campboiro.org/victimes/camara_marie_lorofi.html
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Politics › Re: Kiki Osinbajo Flaunts Cleavage In New Photos by Ndipe(m): 1:15am On Nov 13, 2015
Why is this particular girl making headlines at a time when she should be in mourning over the death of her great grandmother HID Awolowo? Family members ought to restrain her. There is a time for everything.
Crime › Re: Lawrence Anini: Life And Death Of Nigeria’s Most Notorious Armed Robber (photos) by Ndipe(m): 1:10am On Nov 13, 2015
That man terrorized Nigeria, his name was a household name. Heard he used to start the engine of the cars he stole with five kobo. Men, armed robbers those days were a menace, you would think that it was really scripted or straight out of television.
Education › Re: Rating Of Secondary Schools In Nigeria by Ndipe(m): 2:34am On Nov 06, 2015
Federal schools aka Unity schools were the in-thing, back in the 80's.
Politics › Re: Gowon's Son JackMusa Released From Prison In U.S by Ndipe(m): 1:40am On Nov 06, 2015
So Gowon had an ibo girlfriend (Edith Ike Mark Odu) while waging a civil war against the ibos that wanted to secede from Nigeria. And the lady herself also choose to be with the same man that was fighting against her tribe. When I think about it, it's just baffling to say the least.
Politics › Re: Gowon's Son JackMusa Released From Prison In U.S by Ndipe(m):
Musa was born during the civil war. His late mom, Edith, and Yakubu Gowon had a well publicized spat that landed in court over his paternity with Gowon denying that he was the father of her baby.
NYSC › Re: The Fear Of A Corp Member by Ndipe(m): 12:37am On Oct 29, 2015
Be positive, with God everything is possible.
Fashion › Re: Mary Omoye Omobhude Is World Miss University Nigeria 2013 by Ndipe(m): 12:19am On Oct 28, 2015
She contested in MBGN 2012 (https://www.nairaland.com/929431/mbgn-2012-pictures-contestants-traditional) and thought she was one of the prettiest contestant, so even though she lost in that contest, this must have been a consolation for her.

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