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Ranoscky:
RE: Can I Find Any? = Ya! why not? I found Nekai, and we have been good all thru.

@OP, have patience.

*Blowing a heart warming kiss back to Ranoscky* I would love to see a make-up movie wit you.

Ranoscky:
But why the "borrowed brain" of a thing?

ogugua88:
Why the "form well" of a thing?

Hug and make up already.

@ N. Delta. . .  

Hmmm. . .

xynerise:
Na lie some breas't dey think seriously. . I mean the low self esteem bobi.

[quote author=Ms. Potato link=topic=678551.msg8423916#msg8423916 date=1306806893]Its ok, Im still really sad within me but I have no more tears left to spare. Thinking that he loves me was the most stupidest thing Ive ever thought and it shall never happen again.[/quote]

((HUGS))

It will be better everyday. One day you will wake up and be sooo over it.

Ranoscky:
Nekai, ya! Wish WE [me & u] never broke up. So can we reconcile and continue the late night movie? [cos u know u'r the reason why i was singin that song, swerry].

Why did we break up in the first place? Never mind, I 4give u.  

Ranoscky:
Rano walks into thread and started singin . . . I want a nice girl here in nairaland. I want a pretty girl with an 'as$ like that'. Wish I never broke up with my x-gf. I need to make love right na na na. . .

Wish we never broke up right na na na

https://www.wedding-sites.net/wp-content/uploads/2010/07/wedding-cake-toppers-humorous2.jpg


Another blissful couple. Who's next?

190:
^natasha tell nekai to leave me alone!!

she wanted me to marry her too like BABE


They should leave me alone oooooooooooo!!  

Marry who? Hisssss

You only brought my family one half-dead old goat and 3 skinny fowl and you expected them to approve?


Good luck natasha!  

Congrats.

Equal.

I have no beef with vegetarians. 

I've thought about becoming one myself.

Love; giving someone the power to destroy you but trusting them not to.

Women will wear bootay shorts yes but the average woman wouldn't ditch their feminine wardrobe and start dressing like a butch all the time.

MzDarkSkin:
[color=#0066bb]Hmmmm. hard to say.
some men are all out metros3xual and dainty but 100 percent heteros3xual.

I beg to differ, Metrosexuality and masculinity don't go hand in hand. Why would a guy knowingly dress in a way that makes him attractive to homosexual/bisexual men unless he enjoys it?

@OP The makeup thing is kind of weird, but other than that he could just be really respectful of your boundaries.

Ndipe:
weird. you might as well invite the whole family members to come and watch it. Goodness, but which kin topic person dey bring up this days?

My cousin had us all in there, including her husband. There were 9 of us total in the room. We were pleading with her to "Push! Push!"

I got it all on video too! (By her request, of course)

Outstrip:
This woman needs to be arrested until she starts telling the truth.

Agreed!

Who did she buy or steal these babies from? 

I can't believe in this day and age that someone would publish this rubbish.

Boarding school may be an option, but I think she is looking for an escape route as well. Show her that no matter how much she misbehaves that you will not pass her on to the next person. At 10 years old she cannot possibly understand the dynamics that cause her to be raised by people other than her parents. All she knows is that she has been passed on because of her inconvenient presence. First as a baby, then as a child, and she is facing it again with the prospect of boarding school. She may want to go, but partially this could be because she wants control over her life. She wants to choose before the choice is made for her.

She is at the age of puberty and if you send her away now you may be faced with a virtual stranger when she returns.

I think she would benefit from a strict written schedule from morning to night. Her chores need to have a place on the schedule, followed by free time. If her chores take too long to finish, she cuts into her free time. Also, her notes and homework should be checked daily at a specific time to make sure she is on track. Since she is having trouble with being late for school, keep sending her to bed earlier and waking her up earlier until she is on time. She will get the hint.

It may help if you could tailor the punishments to fit the crimes. For example, when I was about 13 my mother asked me to clean my room. I got distracted and didn't finish. The next day, when I came home from school my dad asked me to clean my room. Again, I 'forgot' to complete the task. The next day, I came home from school, ready to relax in my room. I turned the corner and what did I see? Everything in my room was in a giant heap on my bed. Every drawer was emptied, every item in the closet, every piece of paper and every book, every article of clothing, all mingled together. I was so angry I saw red, but I had no choice but to clean it up. My dad never mentioned anything to me about it. He just went along like business as usual. No yelling, screaming, threatening, or lecture. Not even an "I warned you." I never repeated that mistake. Try something similar next time she misbehaves.

God bless you for even attempting to make a difference in her life. This seems like a very frustrating situation to be in. My mum went through something similar with her nephew and it really took a toll on her.

I don't think it's creepy, and I wouldn't mind.

Outstrip:
If my dad ask me that question honestly I will wonder if it is old age that is worrying him. There are a million other things he would rather be doing like praying while I am labor.

obowunmi:
What's wrong if grandfather and grand mother are in the delivery room -- were the male doctors helping with delivery the one that shagged you ? But they still get to see the punny. Child birth is a beautiful experience and its not about the pus.s.y but about God's wonderful gift of joy and life.

Hmmm. . .

It's a shame that this poor girl's parents care nothing about her. Maybe this is why she is acting out.

Maybe you can't get through to the mother, but try to appeal to your brother. He needs to show this girl the attention she apparently craves, before she gets it from the wrong place.

^

Every woman isn't a feminist, harakiri. Women need men as much as ever. It's the way we were designed. Adam finished his work in the garden before he started to crave a wife. Eve was created to be a companion and a helpmate to Adam. After the fall man's curse was to endure mental stress and physical stress to provide. A woman's curse was to have a never-ending thirst for her husband, and also to suffer in child bearing. The effects of sin are that men are constantly stressing to provide more for his family, and woman are constantly stressing by wanting more (financially, emotionally, time, affection, ect.) of their husbands.

For those non-religious among us, consider the fact that male pheremones have a relaxing effect on women, and even produce positive physical effects as well. Just being close to our husbands creates a positive effect. The female pheremones have an effect on men, but this effect usually translates to sexual attraction instead of affecting general feelings of well-being. Male testosterone actually decreases slightly when they have intense feelings of love, which makes some men feel less competitive in the workplace.

Historically some men have used the income factor to prove their status as head of household. They've been beating their chest saying "I pay the bills around here", as if that is why they should be revered. They have threatened to throw the woman out and send her back to her parents if she complains about physical abuse or affairs.

These are the men who feel threatened by talks of female empowerment, and also by the fact that a woman may earn more money than him.

The status of head of household is enforced through wisdom, fairness, and a sense of loving responsibility. Real men practice this. Real women recognize this.

Too many women walk around complaining about their husbands to everyone that they meet, even though this husband was the same person before they even got married. They have their head in the clouds, always hoping that the man will morph into prince charming, and silently resenting their husbands. It's only when they walk away from the marriage and encounter a guy that truly treats them badly that they recognize their mistakes. Too many men split their time and energy between different women hoping to gain satisfaction, from physical stress relief without worrying about trying to form an emotional bond, only to realize that they are undermining their God-given authority as the man of the house. Think about it, if my best friend tells me that I'm getting too skinny, I won't care. If a stranger, or even worse an enemy tells me the same thing, I may take offense. If a man is to have true authority it starts in love and trust. Once he violates trust, everything he says becomes harder and harder to listen to.

Wait, I re-read the quote. He's a fool.