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Politics › Re: #ondodecides2016: Appeal Court To Deliver Judgement Today Friday 18 by neolboy(m): 10:30am On Nov 18, 2016
Akure town will shake and tremble in jubilation if Jegede reclaim his stolen mandate
Politics › Re: #ondodecides2016: Day 2 PDP Substantive Appeal Court Hearing by neolboy(m): 3:28pm On Nov 17, 2016
weldone op
Politics › Re: #ondodecides2016: Day 2 PDP Substantive Appeal Court Hearing by neolboy(m): 9:53am On Nov 17, 2016
following keenly
Politics › Re: #ondodecides2016: PDP Substantive Appeal Hearing Day 1 by neolboy(m): 9:01pm On Nov 16, 2016
engineerboat:
Appeal case for today has come to an end. Court resumes 12noon tomorrow
please keep us updated by tomao. and will judgement be made tomorrow?
Politics › Re: #ondodecides2016: PDP Substantive Appeal Hearing Day 1 by neolboy(m): 8:38pm On Nov 16, 2016
Love this thread. with the way the court are striking jimoh's appeal, it's a bad omen ooo




Cc: lalasticlala; myd44
Politics › Re: #ondodecides2016: PDP Substantive Appeal Hearing Day 1 by neolboy(m): 7:57pm On Nov 16, 2016
franchizy:
Who are the we, please count me out as the updates are mere stories.
Wat is even wrong with you, if this thread have nothing to offer you why not walk out or you fvck off instead of constituting nuisance here
Politics › Re: Japhet Omojuwa's Reply To Jimoh Ibrahim Very Mean (photo) by neolboy(m): 7:39pm On Nov 16, 2016
hmm
Christianity Etc › Re: Will I Go To Hell For Not Paying Tax To Nigeria? by neolboy(m): 11:17am On Nov 14, 2016
Kayleb26:
This reference was supposed to address the issue of whether a believer is to go ahead and honour civil authorities when they make laws that are not convenient.
Rom 13:1-7

Thank you
You are only allowed to disobey a law unless it contradicts the commandments of God. in the case of the three Hebrew men and also Daniel
Christianity Etc › Re: Will I Go To Hell For Not Paying Tax To Nigeria? by neolboy(m): 11:35am On Nov 13, 2016
read roman's 13vs1-7
Literature › Re: Why I'm Leaving USA - Soyinka by neolboy(m): 6:29am On Nov 13, 2016
All eyes on you prof
Phones › Re: Share A Screenshot Of Your Home Screen! by neolboy(m): 6:49am On Nov 08, 2016
jiggar:
"Taps mic and clears throat"
Simple and nice. Temasek custom rom, based on marshmallow.
"Drops mic and leaves"
Abeg wetin be the name of this homescreen
Phones › Re: Share A Screenshot Of Your Home Screen! by neolboy(m): 6:43am On Nov 08, 2016
sod09:
Ihot4 6.0 marshmallow
abeg Wat's the name of this your homescreen
Politics › Re: Alex Iziyon Withdraws From Ondo PDP Case by neolboy(m): 9:44am On Nov 03, 2016
withdrawal upon withdrawal
Politics › Re: Wale Oladipo Writes Appeal Court President Over Ondo Election by neolboy(m): 10:28am On Nov 01, 2016
Na waooo
Them wan do hearing today you write make them dissolve panel yesterday. where were you people since on Friday when the committee was set up
Politics › Re: Student Surprises Patience Jonathan With An Artwork On Her Birthday (Photo) by neolboy(m): 7:17pm On Oct 26, 2016
Good
Culture › Re: Oba Ewuare Rides In His Rolls Royce For Thanksgiving. PICS by neolboy(m): 1:52pm On Oct 24, 2016
Wonder Wat Tonyebarcanister would be thinking after spewing trash and insulting Oni of Ife for recognizing the Supreme God
Culture › Re: Oba Ewuare Rides In His Rolls Royce For Thanksgiving. PICS by neolboy(m): 1:49pm On Oct 24, 2016
BrutalJab:
Thanks giving for the sacrifice acceptedhuh

Tonyebarcanista over to you.
Don't mind the guy who always spew trash thinking he knows things.
Wonder Wat he have to say to this after insulting Oni of Ife
Events › Re: Best Man Proposes To His Girlfriend At His Friend's Wedding - Photos by neolboy(m): 11:15am On Oct 24, 2016
[quote author=9niceguy post=50461787]such a lucky lady... despite that she doesn't have eyes..
that's love for real[/quote


Na you pluck the eyes commot
Phones › Does Anyone Knows How To Root Android Tecno Camon C9 by neolboy(op): 1:46pm On Oct 22, 2016
Has anyone be able to root Tecno camon c9 Cox me can't root using kingoroot and it's hard for me to change its imei to blackberry


Please anybody with a way out
Politics › Re: Osinbajo, Afe Babalola And Fayose At ABUAD's 4th Convocation Ceremony by neolboy(m): 9:43am On Oct 22, 2016
Abbeyme:
Everyone is on tie but this Fayose guy cannot afford to use one. Haba! Smh for him.
SMH for you
Politics › Re: Femi Fani-Kayode Rearrested By EFCC (Photo) by neolboy(m): 3:45pm On Oct 21, 2016
hannyjay:
Good. U must vomit our yam
Which yam you plant wey the guy swallow
Politics › Re: Why Has Fmr President Goodluck E Jonathan Not Made Any Comment On Chibok Girls by neolboy(m): 9:54am On Oct 21, 2016
Mynd44:
Possibly
Regret, ego and ultimately, shame

But then his government almost officially never believed the Chibok girls were real anyway
Don't really understand the way you reason sometimes, must he comment on the issue, has all the former leaders commented on it why always GEJ
Foreign Affairs › Re: You Are A Nasty Woman: Trump To Hillary Clinton by neolboy(op): 9:47am On Oct 21, 2016
This man is gross and dirty
Foreign Affairs › You Are A Nasty Woman: Trump To Hillary Clinton by neolboy(op): 8:00am On Oct 21, 2016
It has become clear from polling that Donald Trump is
struggling with female voters , and his problems weren't likely to have been helped by a comment during Wednesday's debate.

Hillary Clinton was explaining her plans to raise taxes on the wealthy when she pointedly referred to Trump's
possible tax avoidance : "My social security payroll contribution will go up, as will Donald's, assuming he can't figure out how to get out of it."

Trump's retort? "Such a nasty woman."
It quickly became one of the defining quotes of the night on social media.

Within an hour, around a quarter of a million tweets mentioned the phrase "nasty woman". Soon female Clinton supporters - along with a few men - were claiming the phrase as their own.

Hundreds linked the comment to another Trump utterance which inspired online rage, his description of some illegal immigrants as "bad hombres ".

Some of Trump's supporters defended the remark. Diamond and Silk, two African-American women who have built a huge Twitter following through their support of the Republican candidate, tweeted : "Yes she is. Hillary can care less about the betterment of the American people. She had 30 years."

"Hillary is a nasty woman. There are nasty men and nasty women. Uh, is this complicated?" tweeted conservative radio presenter Mark Levin.

Others threw up their hands at yet another presidential debate that descended into personal attacks rather than keeping to the issues


Source :http://www.bbc.com/news/blogs-trending-37711828
Politics › SAFINATU :the Story Of President Buhari's First Wife by neolboy(op): 9:56am On Oct 17, 2016
She was very shy and described as a ‘retiring woman’. Yet, this graceful lady who did much of her activity in the background exerted her influence on Nigeria’s most powerful man for 20 months. This is the story of Safinatu, the first wife of President Muhammadu Buhari.

BIRTH, EARLY DAYS AND BACKGROUND

A Fulani by ethnicity, the late Hajia Safinatu was born on the 11 th of December, 1952 in Jos, Plateau State into a family of 13 children, to Alhaji Yusufu Mani and Hajia Hadizatu Mani. Her mother, Hajia Hadizatu, gave birth to seven out of the 13 children. She is a native of Mani Local Government in Katsina State.

EDUCATION

She was well-educated and was so literate that she could read and write in Arabic, being well-grounded in Islamic education. She attended the Women Teacher’s Training College in Katsina where she obtained her Grade II Teachers Certificate in 1971.

FALLING IN LOVE

Safinatu was 14 years old in 1966 when she met her husband for the very first time. Buhari, then a young major in the Nigerian Army, had paid a visit to the house of Safinatu’s father in the company of his friend, the late Major-General Shehu Musa Yar’adua. They had both gone to see Safinatu’s father, Alhaji Yusufu Mani, who was working in Lagos then as the Private Secretary to Alhaji Musa Yar’adua, the Minister of Lagos Affairs in the Federal Cabinet of the First Republic. Shehu Musa Yar’adua and Umaru Musa Yar’adua (later President of Nigeria) were sons of Alhaji Musa Yar’adua.
What happened during the first visit to Alhaji Mani’s house must have been spectacular because immediately the young major Buhari set his eyes on Safinatu, he was struck by the arrows of Cupid. That was not going to be the last visit to the house of Safinatu’s house. Buhari would later pay numerous subsequent onibaranbolebo visits to the family and like play like play, the two started exchanging letters. With time, both fell in love and they could court for four years and the two love birds would eventually decide to take their relationship to the next level.

MARRIAGE

An interesting thing about Buhari’s relationship with Safinatu was that shortly after the two met, the Nigerian Civil War started in 1967 and Buhari was deployed to the battlefields. This was one of the most tense periods in the life of Safinatu and she would later reveal that she was always worried during the war about the welfare of her lover and would ceaselessly pray for him. In 1971, with the war over, the two lovebirds decided to seal it and they got married. Thus, all through the war, while Buhari was on the battlefield combating Biafran rebels, his heart was not only burning with the love of Nigeria, it was also burning for a young beautiful Fulani girl named Safinatu. She was 18 when they got married.

BECOMING NIGERIA’S FIRST LADY

On the 19 th of January, 1984, Hajia Safinatu Muhammadu Buhari moved into the State House, Ribadu Road, Marina, Lagos State. Nineteen days earlier, her husband had just become the country’s seventh head of state and as the wife of the Commander-in-Chief of the Nigerian Armed Forces, she had to move into the State House. That was her very first time of entering the State House even if she had been on the grounds of the State House at Dodan Barracks before. She arrived the State House with a few of her friends, relatives and her children; they were all received by her husband. But upon reaching the State House, she was disappointed with what she saw. She was expecting to see a presidential palace in all its majesty and glory, and the State House then did not have all the splendour of a Buckingham Palace.
Upon arrival at the State House, she was met by the housekeeper, Mrs. Adela Giwa, who then introduced her to members of the State House domestic staff.

LIFE AS THE FIRST LADY OF FEDERAL REPUBLIC OF NIGERIA

She was heavily influenced by social, religious and cultural factors and this was seen in her conduct and behaviour as the First Lady. She was always quietly by her husband’s side but she concentrated almost all her energy on her children and making the home very comfortable and peaceful for the general. She started her daily routine by reading the newspapers. Thereafter, if she had no engagements for the day, she would receive guests.

It was her habit to take breakfast late, lunch was also late as she took them at about 5pm and rarely took dinners. Even during the Muslim fasting month of Ramadan, her family normally took no meals after midnight and never took the usual sahur at dawn,
sahur is the dawn meal taken by Muslims in preparation for the day’s fasting. Although she and her husband were devout Muslims, they were also considerably liberal in their attitude to life.

When Hajiya Safinatu took her breakfasts, she normally had them alone and her husband would have his own with his personal aides like his aide-de-camp, Major Mustapha Jokolo, his Chief Press Secretary, Mallam Wada Maida and his private secretary. At other times, one or two other people joined him for breakfast.

The head of state usually received visitors till about midnight after which he would then retire to his study to work till the early hours of the morning. A dutiful wife, Safinatu never left her husband in the study alone, she would stay with him, keeping his company until he was ready to sleep. This affected her own sleeping pattern and in order for her to be able to maintain the routine and stay awake with him, Safinatu would have a nap in the afternoon.

Safinatu never interferred with her husband’s official work and did not discuss national matters with him. She seemed to have devoted all her energies into ensuring that the home was as peaceful and as comfortable for the Head of State as possible. She avoided publicity unless it was absolutely necessary.

For this reason, many Nigerians did not know much about her. I hope this piece will shed more light on her person.

She later revealed that becoming the nation’s number one family had a radical transformation on their lives. She said Major-General Muhammadu Buhari had always been a family man but when he assumed the role of the Head of State, he had considerably less time to spend with his children as he would have wished. She recalled that when her husband was the General Officer Commanding (GOC) of the 3 rd Armoured Division in Jos, between November 1981 and December 1983, he would personally drive the family from Jos to Daura and to Kaduna. But once he became the Head of State, it became impossible but he always found time to celebrate special events and anniversaries like birthdays quietly with his family.

Life for Safinatu in the State House was different from what she was used to and she had to adapt. Visiting appointments had to be done via the Protocol Section and neither she nor her children could go out and return as they so desired. Before becoming the First Lady, she would travel to various places within and outside

Nigeria with her husband and children but as First Lady, she never went anywhere with him. On some occasions as First Lady, she paid some private visits to some states within the country but she never travelled with any of the children.

When they moved into the State House, the state of the Nigerian economy was incredibly bad and there were severe financial constraints even on the First Family. She could not handle the renovations of the State House as she had planned. She said that it was so bad that she had to sell her car in order for her to maintain herself and her children.

As Head of State, General Muhammadu Buhari had a private room where he received and entertain guests. Mrs. Buhari was in no way involved with the official guests unless they came with their wives and she was summoned to host them. The provision for entertaining and catering for official guests was always done by the government officials. The catering and household staff at both the Dodan Barracks and State House prepared the meals and handled all the arrangements. As the hostess to the wives of foreign dignitaries, Mrs. Buhari and her personal assistant, Binta Garba, of the Protocol Section, would draw up a programme to meet the needs of their special guests. If they did not have guests, she would enjoy the dinner with her husband.
When Mrs. Buhari hosted the wife of the Gambian President, Lady Jawara, she travelled with her to the ancient city of Kano, where they visited the city walls and one of the markets, in the company of the wife of the military governor of Kano State, Mrs. Halima Hamza. She also played host to the wife of the President of Senegal, Madame Diouf and the wife of the former French ambassador to Nigeria, Madame Drumets. At such times, she left the selection of the dishes for the state occasions to the catering officials and household staff.

Cooking for the Commander-in-Chief

When it came to the traditional dishes, they were always personally prepared by the First Lady herself, assisted by aides. General Buhari loved to enjoy pepper soup made with mutton, chicken or fish. He also loved mutton suya. Buhari’s food was not complete without serving some of these. For his breakfast, he would start with fruit juice then follow it with quaker oats then do a collabo with fried eggs, liver and kidney, beans with toast and tea.

Lunch was usually taken late and consisted of tuwon shinkafa with okro soup or pounded yam and egusi soup dashishi or pankasu. Sometimes, the Head of State would have roasted ram suya or hot pepper soup. Buhari’s lunch was always served with fruit salad. Dinner was light and usually consisted of steak with vegetables or tuwo masara and miyan kuka, which is then followed by a dessert of fresh fruits.

During her leisure time in the State House, Mrs. Buhari would collect and compile traditional Hausa and Fulani recipes. She was of the belief that these recipes were not fully studied, documented or put to proper use.

FAMILY AND CHILDREN

As at the time her husband was overthrown, she had given birth to four children: Zulaihatu (now late), Magajiya-Fatima, Hadizatu-Nana and Safinatu Lami. They would also later have a fifth child, Musa (now late). Following the overthrow of her husband, she left for Kaduna with her children.

THE DIVORCE

Following his release from detention by the Ibrahim Babangida regime, the couple went their separate ways in the mid 1980s. She was reportedly accused of receiving financial assistance from Babangida while her husband was in detention following the overthrow of his government. Buhari would later marry Aisha in February 1989.

DISEASE AND DEATH

In 1998, she was diagnosed to be suffering from diabetes mellitus in Saudi Arabia. For eight years, she battled the disease and breathed her last on the 14 th of January, 2006. She was 53.

HER WORDS, LEGACY AND REMEMBRANCE

As the wife of the Head of State, she said it was important for the First Lady to always remain patient with people and the husband as things were bound to change once they move into the position of power. Her words:

‘… be patient and have understanding with people around you and most importantly with your husband. With the immense responsibilities of State, things are bound to be different from the time when he was not Head of State. Understanding and patience make for better co-existence and for the peace of mind the husband needs to perform effectively. ’

She also expressed herself on other matters saying:
‘ I think that the wives of Heads of State should be given the opportunity to speak on matters of national significance. They should willingly shoulder these responsibilities and serve as mothers of the nation.

They should also aim towards achieving their set objectives so as to attain a feeling of self-fulfillment after they might have left the State House. ’

She also strongly believed that the roles of First Ladies should be properly outlined, their official responsibilities identified and the necessary resources provided for them to achieve these goals and contribute their quota to national development. She also believed that First Ladies should not be made irrelevant or dependent after their spouses must have left office. A quiet but strong-willed woman, the memory of the late Hajia Safinatu Buhari lives on in the hearts of her loved ones. The Hajia Safinatu Buhari Foundation, which focuses on diabetes, was established in her honour.


THANKS FOR YOUR TIME.

Source : Wikipedia
Politics › Re: Breaking News: Court Declares Jimoh Ibrahim Authentic PDP Candidate by neolboy(m): 3:32pm On Oct 14, 2016
with this news, APC has won ondo state next month gubernatorial election
Politics › Re: Obiano Endorses Pete Edochie's "Anambra Film Project" (Photo) by neolboy(m): 7:58am On Oct 14, 2016
ok
Family › Re: Badagry Records 30,000 Failed Marriages In 9 Months by neolboy(m): 10:04pm On Oct 12, 2016
Failed marriage everywhere
Education › Will Your Burn Your Certificates For Just 50 Million Dollars? by neolboy(op): 7:44pm On Oct 09, 2016
In this harsh economy recession, here is an interesting question for the people of Nairaland.

So you were asked to burn your hard earned certificates for just, ordinary Fifty Million Dollars.
(N 15,665,750,000).

Please will you as the money can buy you a car and a mansion

Phones › Re: List Of Smartphones That Will Support GLO LTE Network - Pics by neolboy(m): 3:34pm On Oct 08, 2016
Nonsense
Celebrities › Re: 19 Hilarious Quotes By Pete Edochie by neolboy(op): 7:53am On Oct 03, 2016
Ok

Celebrities › Re: 19 Hilarious Quotes By Pete Edochie by neolboy(op): 7:50am On Oct 03, 2016
More coming

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