LoveUdie: Married people should avoid intimate friendship with the opposite sex! You read that right, close friendship with the opposite sex should be completely ruled out. Why? It's trickish. Things sometimes get out of hand, emotions explode and stories that touch the heart go viral. Heart shocking stories of celebrities, popular men of God, General Overseers, teachers, bosses, colleagues at work and social media friends often litter the places.
There is a thin line between platonic relationship and emotional entanglement. You don't plan affair, it just happens when rules are ignored, boundaries are over stepped and people start doing things they shouldn't be doing to their opposite sex friends for whatever reason under heaven!
How did the friendship start in the first place? Admiration, respect, preference and likeness. You like something about them, you prefer them, you think about them then make them your friend. You talk to each other, you emphasize the likes, something clicks in your heart and bonds you, you enjoy talking to them because they like you and give you attention.
You plan to meet them one on one, you loosen your guide. You don't mind if they hold your hands or hug you, you begin to hold hands and hug frequently, then regularly then you progressed, he strokes your hair because he likes it, you smiled, no big deal because you are "just" friends. He likes your face, then lips and he gave you a peck. His aim was really the lips but he decided to take things slow, next time it will be the lips and then, you are rolling in sheets totally engulfed in the fire of adultery!
You can't handle close friendship with the opposite sex! I don't know why we are so proud and stubborn in this part of the world, we hate correction. Anytime I speak against close opposite sex friendship in marriage, some naive people keep telling me they can handle it, no big deal until they lose their senses and their spouse boot them out of their lives.
You use the language in a beautiful way and your write-up is loaded with wisdom
Look, those people are parts of the connection chain that would carry you to your goal eventually.
God never comes down physically to answer anybody's prayer, he does it through fellow human beings like you. Next time such people contact you after your prayer, engage each and everyone of them to the limit. One of them is definitely sent by God to guide you to that thing you asked of him
Prechgold1180: See what police men at Egba Benin Auchi byepass did to my friends yesterday.
The police men from Egba devision opened fire on my friends almost killing one. They were traveling from Auchi to Benin They got to egba they met policemen at checkpoint. The policemen were attending to other cars and my friends were in a hurry They tried to pass the check point the police man threatened them by pointing his gun, my friends thought it was just to scare them Not knowing that the police man will shoot.
The officer opened fire which almost sent them to grave.
Check pics under
My friend is currently battling with his life
Modified pls how do I report this to the necessary authorities
Modified pls not everybody that drive or own a car are into yahoo.
Fine I know my friends did wrong by trying to go without stopping
But it s not enough reason to shoot
If if that bullet had hit someone else and missed the target.
You don’t open fire anyhow
What part of the body is that?
Don't ever assume an armed policeman is kidding when he threatens you with a gun though, because majority of them are suffering from deep depression, frustration and worse forms of mental illness
idahme: Only someone who critically exuded thought process is infinitesimal goes low to engage another, I don't need to call you dumb you already told me you are more than dumb by asserting yourself in such a way. Last time to reply you MR. Dumb
If you like die , don't take care of yourself the world would never end just a one minute silence will be held in your honour and everyone will ever remembered you existed Mr. Dumb.
idahme: When you guys use responsible I don't know what you all mean by that, until he dies before you know he the one responsible for the upkeep of his family? Truly a man is really a disposable item , you hustle and die no one cares for you.
A man that is taking care of his family is who you refer as not responsible enough I laugh when you use words you can really explain the meaning. Until he goes hungry and dies for his family that is when people like you will type he was a responsible man who does for his family
Abeg rest Mr responsible enough, when e reach your family do as you like , if you like die in your responsibility na you sabi.
Perhaps if you'd gotten the amount of protein your body required while growing up as a kid, you wouldn't have been this badly retãrded
If you married a blind woman, won't you work out a way to prevent her from leading your kids into the path of a high-speed train? That's what responsibility means, dumbass
idahme: This life no get duplicate, that man is working his ass off and making all the sacrifices nothing wrong if he took his time off to replenish himself. Did she say the man abandoned his family? Most times men carry family problems and leave to have a nice time and and holidays leading to them shutting down early. Let him help himself so he can hustle more life no suppose difficult but we dey make an difficult.
He ought to be responsible enough to make sure his kids get required nutrition. Children don't ask to be born.
Gistmedia10: A pretty Nigerian student's room is making waves online for its sheer luxury. The room is like a dream come true, filled with expensive things that leave visitors in awe.
As soon as you step in, you're greeted by a beautiful bed with fancy pillows and covers. A huge smart TV for entertainment, and the room stays just right with a fancy air conditioning system.
But the real showstopper is the home theater setup! It's like having a cinema at home, complete with amazing speakers. And then there are the shoes, bags, clothes, and wigs—all top-notch designer stuff.
Every corner is designed with a feminine touch that shows off her style. Even the kitchen is not just for show—it's stocked with the best stuff for cooking up a storm.
Adding to the allure, her beautiful portrait hangs prominently on the wall, adding a personal touch to the lavish space. Each element exudes a refined, feminine style, including the fully stocked kitchen for culinary pursuits.
People are amazed, but they're also wondering: How does a student afford all this? It's the talk of social media, with everyone guessing about her secret. A notable absence, however, is the reading table and chair, which seem to be missing from the lavish space.
zeusdgrt: Some modes on this platform are very partial and bias,when u get insulted by APC E-WARRIORS and u respond seeing the conversation that u respond to insult more better they tend to ban u and allow the apc e-warriors continue more annoying they will ban u from politics thread so as to eliminate truth counter.SEUN should look into this as my last message was quickly deleted to avoid public view
They ban you and leave the zombie roaming free, even when it's clear that the zombie abused you first
Gistmedia10: Thereafter, he drove his black Audi to a nearby river, where he wrote a note saying, “Call Thomas. Take Me Home – along with contact number"—and hung himself on a tree.
According to reports, Mathebula was working at a local mining company of Platinum City in Burgersfort and is originally from Tzaneen.
Police and forensics took the deceased, while the community is left reeling in shock.
At least he was decent enough to kill himself like he promised
I'd have been so disappointed if he didn't muster the courage to give everyone closure, after all the wahala
gnss: I'm a Fan of Bob ,I intends visiting him at the Ikoyi Prison ,How can I do that ? Will I be given the Opportunity since Bob doesn't know me before .
I have never met Bob before Neither does Bob knows me ,I'm just a Fan and I wish to Visit Bob at the Ikoyi Prison.
No matter ,whatever the General Public Impressions about BOB is none of My Business ,Everyone is Entitled to His or Her Option .
Hate Bob ,Castigate Bob ,Bob is not an Armed Robber ,He is not Caught Murdering,Breaking into anyone's house .
Bob is a Man ,He decides to Dress like a Woman ,Anyone has the right to dress whichever way he or she likes ,It's about Dressings .
Abused as an Homosexual ,No one have been able to bring out any Evidence against Bob as an Homosexual .
Accused as a Bad Influence, There are Night Clubs where Ladies dance Naked ,The Government,Police are aware ,They Fail to do Nothing about this .
There are Pornographic Websites where Teens ,Youths Visits to Watch ,The Government does nothing to Block any of it from our Cyber Links .
There are Prostitutes homes everywhere where Ladies lives in small small Shelters ,At night they come out to Expose there Bodies to Attracts Customers ,The Authorities are Aware .They do nothing about this, Rather they go to Ransack them Collect money and even sleep with them in exchange to free them .
Most Ladies now Sleeps in the day ,At night they Dress up with heavy eye Lashes to hang at night clubs ,Hotels To Get Patronised .Some they call them Hook ups,Oloshos ,Escorts etc .The Authorities does nothing about this .
You hear some Parents Saying Bob is Constituting Nuisance and becoming a Bad Influence on the Youth's.
When did Bob come into limelight ? That He has turned to be the one influencing the Youths .
Your Child has no Tangible work he or she does ,He comes home with Expensive things ,You praise him ,Collects some of those things from him ,He was later Arrested as an Armed Robber ,Hope it's not Bob that influenced him .
How many Youths have decided to Be a Cross Dresser ? How many Youths have decided to go the Bob Way ?
Parents have Failed the Primary Responsibility of Looking after there Children ,Neglecting there Responsibilities as a Parent ,Some have Children in the School ,Rather making Provisions for them ,they Abandoned them , These children takes to Hook ups ,Internet Scams ,Money Rituals ,Armed Robberies,Stealing etc ...I hope it's not Bobrisky that made them so .
Bobrisky Dresses like a Man and so What ?
Bob risky Sprayed Naira ,had it been any of the Politicians and Celebrity that have Sprayed Naira before were Jailed for Mutilating the naira as the Judge ruled ,It would have served as Warnings to others including Bob .
It's Glaring not because of Money Laundering why bob was Jailed ,Some Corrupt Politicians are Walking Free on the streets accused of same .
Personal Hatred for Bobrisky ,For Example Winning as the best Dressed Female ...
The Organisers of that Events Should be faced not Bob ,Bob is a Business Person ..True .as a Matter of facts ,Bob Doesn't joke with business ,Bob would rather do the best in what he knows how to do to Make Money .
Why would any right thinking Person leave the Numerous Activities that Influences the Youths negatively the most , even from Parents and Pick Bobrisky as the Major Cause .
Bobrisky ..Idris Okuneye...
It's just 6 Months ,You are coming out of Prison .
You didn't Mutilate the Naira ,You only Sprayed it and none of the naira you Sprayed got Torned,None got burnt .
All the Naira note can still be Spents and Acceptable as a Legal Tender .
Just like Aisha Yesufu said ..Who Advised you to Please Guilty.
Bobrisky ..Idris Okuneye
Be rest Assured that you have a Fan who wouldn't Castigate you .
I Remain The Rock...No Holds Barred, Unapologetic.
Make sure to register it as a conjugal visit so that he can be granted ample time and privacy to welcome you into the club of Booty Bandits
Metrix147: Abia State Government has vowed to investigate the death of Emmanuel Onyeomereneche, an Abia-born Cadet Officer, who was found dead in the swimming pool of the Hotel Royal Damgrate, Umuahia recently.
Addressing the people of Okwuta-Ibeku in Umuahia North LGA who came to protest the death of the deceased who is their son, the Special Adviser to the Governor on Security Matters, Navy Commander Macdonald Uba (Rtd.) assured that investigations would be thoroughly carried out to unravel the cause of the death. He said, whoever that was found culpable would surely be brought to book.
Navy Commander Uba, who described the incident as unfortunate said he would bring the matter to the Governor while sympathizing with the immediate family and entire people of Okwuta -Ibeku over the death.
ABN TV had reported that an Air Force Cadet, Mr. Emmanuel Onyeomereneche had lost his life under controversial circumstances in the hotel. In response, his colleagues in the military launched an investigation, arresting the F&B manager of the hotel and others. In the course of investigation, he was tortured to death by the military.
The Special Adviser commended the protesters for not taking laws into their hands. He urged them to remain law-abiding, assuring that the outcome of the investigation would be made known to them.
"It is unfortunate that a cadet officer of the Nigeria Defence Academy was found dead in a swimming pool in Damgrate. We know how much it takes the federal government to train one cadet officer.
"We have listened to your complaints. We will take measures to brief His Excellency, the Executive Governor of Abia State on the matter. Whatever has happened has happened. We leave it to God but proper investigation will be carried out to ensure that if there were perpetrators of this act, it will be unraveled.
"This incident has caused other ripple effects thereafter. We will thoroughly investigate the matter, at the end of the day justice will be served. I know how you feel. I was once a cadet, and I know how it would have been for my village if something like this happened.
"I enjoin you to remain law abiding until we revert the outcome of the investigations, including the death of the manager of the hotel. We will investigate all these things and get back to you."
santopelele: THE ANCESTRAL CONNECTION BETWEEN IKWERRE'S AND SOUTH EAST
We have the following Ikwerre communities names in Southeast that has same ancestral connection in pronunciations and meaning. for instance:
RIVERS State IMO state. EBONYI state 1. Omuma. Omuma - 2 Isiokpo. Isiokpo. - 3. Rumuji. Umuji. - 4. Rumueze. Umueze. - 5. Rumuewhor - Umuawhor 6. Rumueme. Umueme 7. Umuike. Umuike 8. Uburu. - Uburu 9. Okposi. - Okposi 10. Rumucrushi 11. Ubima. 12. Afata. Afara 13. Uturu and in Abia we also have uturu. Due to space I couldn't include Ikwerre communities names found in Enugu, Anambra and Abia states. Question: was it also the South Easterners that forced our people to bear this names after Igbo communities in the East? That's for another day.
Since we couldn't find any connections between Ikwerre and Binin in terms of culture, language, behavior and Even location I am giving the Binin people another opportunity to prove their Ikwerre claim once again. I challenge them to mention any Ikwerre Communities that has same spelling, same pronunciation and meaning in Binin like we have seen lots of Ikwerre communities replicated in the Southeast.
Mention just one name and I will backout from this Igbo unification.
I remain the Ikwerre man on a mission to Unify IGBO NATION. #unifyriversigbos TheTribes IGBO EZUE TV Iwhuruoha Voice
Family › Re: Married And In Friendship With The Opposite Sex by NewDea4: 7:56pm On Apr 18, 2024*. Modified: 12:17am On Apr 19, 2024
Because a rich kid would be used to such lifestyle and see no need to flaunt
