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Narrated Abu Huraira
While we were with Allah's Apostle he said, "While I was sleeping, I saw myself in Paradise, and suddenly I saw a woman performing ablution beside a palace. I asked, 'For whom is this palace?' They replied, 'It is for `Umar.' Then I remembered `Umar's Ghira (self-respect) and went away quickly." `Umar wept and said, O Allah's Apostle! How dare I think of my ghira (self-respect) being offended by you?

All Narrations are from Soheeh Bukharee, Book of Virtues of The Companions

Narrated Ibn `Abbas
While I was standing amongst the people who were invoking Allah for `Umar bin Al-Khattab who was lying (dead) on his bed, a man behind me rested his elbows on my shoulder and said, "(O `Umar!) May Allah bestow His Mercy on you. I always hoped that Allah will keep you with your two companions, for I often heard Allah's Apostle saying, "I, Abu Bakr and `Umar were (somewhere). I, Abu Bakr and `Umar did (something). I, Abu Bakr and `Umar set out.' So I hoped that Allah will keep you with both of them." I turned back to see that the speaker was `Ali bin Abi Talib.

lexiconkabir:
The most knowledgeable need not be the khalifa.....

Abi ooo... And he even claims that it's unanimous!!! So Sick and Sickening!!!

The fact that a person knows something which I don't know doesn't make me a stark ignorant. Isn't it only Allah that knows everything?!

Even Musa alyhissolaat wassalaam traveled till he complained of tiredness just because he wanted to get some knowledge from a person who was less knowledgeable than Musa.

And the Messenger alyhissolaat wassalaam even reported narration from tameem bn Auws in Soheeh Muslim.

May Allah protect us from evil creeds.

BETATRON:
to be continued in shaa Allah

A desperate but extremely feeble attempt!!!

Typical methodology of deviants.

Narrated Anas bin Malik
The Prophet once climbed the mountain of Uhud with Abu Bakr, `Umar and `Uthman. The mountain shook with them. The Prophet said (to the mountain), "Be firm, O Uhud! For on you there are no more than a Prophet, a Siddiq and two martyrs.

Narrated `Abdullah bin `Umar
Allah's Apostle said. "While (in a dream), I was standing by a well, drawing water from it. Abu Bakr and `Umar came to me. Abu Bakr took the bucket (from me) and drew one or two buckets of water, and there was some weakness in his drawing. May Allah forgive him. Then Ibn Al-Khattab took the bucket from Abu Bakr, and the bucket turned into a very large one in his hands. I had never seen such a mighty person amongst the people as him in performing such hard work. He drew so much water that the people drank to their satisfaction and watered their camels." (Wahab, a sub-narrator said, "till their camels drank and knelt down."

Continued and Concluded
If they have any reason to walk out of any relationship, they walk out with their self esteem and honour for no guy can mock them that he has 'finished' them. Our world is in shortage of ' bread ladies' today. They are very few!

Hello sister , which side are you? . I offer you hope today, if you are a ' garri lady', you can make a decision to become a ' bread lady' today. Say bye bye to this reckless sexual immoral life.

Those of you who are into courtship and you entered into that courtship as a bread lady but now you have become a garri lady behind the closed doors. Allah is calling you to repentance. Stop it!. Come back into your 'nylon'. Let your dignity be restored. If that guy can't wait till marriage before all those kissing, handling , romancing and sex, then let him go! .

Finally to precious bread ladies, I charge you by the Rahman of Allah, don't allow any one, any guy, any hard situation or momentary gain change you to a garri lady. Thanks for reading and adjusting where necessary.

My sister, you are a garri lady. It does not matter your academic qualifications and social status. If you offer your body in exchange for money, for academic grades, employment, or any other favour, you are simply a Garri lady. If you expose your bobby and other private parts of your body just to get likes and cheap comments on social media, you are a Garri lady.

Guys are feeding their lust through your body. And just like that my friend would do, when that your boyfriend, boss, suger daddy and Facebook fans are done with you, they will dump you. They know you are not good to be a virtuous wife.

On the other hands, we have ' Bread ladies'. If you like, label them ' mumu ladies, or call them ' suegbe ladies' but they are wiser than you if you are a garri lady.

# They preserve their body and have made a vow that who so ever will 'tear their nylon' must be the man that have married them.

# They are not 'outside' like a displayed garri.

# They are inside the nylon of grace, godliness, personal values and integrity.

# They believe in inward virginity ( purity of heart) and outward virginity. They don't toil with sexual sins.

#They run away from every form of defilement.

# They dress beautifully, charming but not provocatively or in an adulterous manner.

# They vote for chastity.Allah is proud of them.

# The world may hate them, but they don't give a damn!

#They may call them different derogatory names, but they don't bother themselves.

# They have seen the future ahead and her grooming themselves for it.

#They will not allow their names to be part of the ' Guinness' book of record of ' Used and dumped' ladies.

ARE YOU A BREAD LADY OR A GARRI LADY?:

Shared From a whatsapp Group

I remember a joke about how someone used to solve his hunger problem in the )days of poverty. He would go to any market where they display different kind of garri for sales. He would price it and take almost handful of each kind of garri and eat it, 'testing' to know if the garri is good.

He said he can taste like four kinds of garri like that, and he won't buy any one. He would just give one excuse either by saying the garri is not sour enough or that he will buy it when he is returning. He said by the time he has eaten four handful of garri, he would just buy a sachet of pure water& drink and he would be okay for that moment.

He was teased that why can't he do that if he is hungry and he wish to eat bread. Then he said 'Eben, you want them to kill me. The bread is inside a nylon oo and you can't take it without first paying and once you tear the nylon, it mean you have paid for it or you are paying for it.'.

This is the inspiration I got from this conversation. We have this 2 kinds of single ladies today. We have 'Garri ladies' and 'Bread ladies'. We have so many ladies today that guys are just using their sexual organs to solve their sexual hunger. You have dated 5 to 6 guys and each of them have had bedroom prowess with you.

To be continued in shaa Allah

Plaitex:
Jazakumllahukhayran

Aameen wa iyyaak

misreal:
this thread should make fp the minute it was created

cc lalastica

Plaitex:
Asalamualaykum. Pls is there any evidence against keeping cats as pets?

No, rather the authentic reports even show that it's a common practice even from the time of the Prophet alyhissolaat wassalaam and the companions rodiyaLLaahu anhum and you know the noble companion called Abu Hurayrah i.e father of cat, he was given the nickname because he had a small cat which he used to play with.
Also, the saliva if cats is pure. So you can perform Solah in a cloth that you carried a cat on.

Please see the following links for details.

https://www.nairaland.com/335245/buying-cat-rearing-it-haram

https://islamqa.info/en/176304

Allah knows best.

Esji80:
ameeen thumma ameeen;I feel honored wt these words of prayers.The boy has been named Mus'ab after Mus'ab Ibn Umair on 24th April,2016.May Allah s.w.t reward you all abundantly.For the married ,may Allah bless ur marriage and for d singles may Allah grant u righteous spouses who shall strive wt u in quest of Aljannatul firadaus ameeen.Barrister Waduda,Sisie and newnas I am grateful.Jazakumullahu khaira

Aameen.

postmann:
@OP That was some sound advice. So many are guilty of it. Especially mothers/women who have failed to realise how the average boy/man sexualize their bodies. Pants have made a lot of women/girls to lose the sense of courtesy and poise, carriage and etiquette. They sit and throw their legs wide about in jeans with complete ignorance what a terrible sight they make with the silhouette of their thighs and Vspot leaving nothing to the imagination.

Exactly, the ugly scene they create on okada also. It's that 'pseudo-knicker'/tight they have under the skirt that gives them the 'confidence'.

To some women, the only time they are nude is when they are 100% free of any covering.

abulbanaat:
مهما كثر كذبكم هنا، يا أبناء ابن سبأ، فاعلموا أنكم على جهل عميق. فلا حول ولاقوة إلا بالله. أنتم سوف تفضحون، لا محال

May Allah reward you with all good in this world and the hereafter for this piece.

babylolaroy:
newnas has answered you adequately inshaaAllah. may Allah s.w.t make the boy the coolness of your eyes, the joy of your life and the mother's, the helper of the poor, the doer of righteousness and a Muhsin... baarakAllahu fiihi

Aameen.

haliruali:
Aslm alkm, Jazakallah khair. U ve reminded me of a lot dat I ve been missing n inshaa Allah I will emulate frm ds reminder. Jazakallah

Aameen wa iyyaak.

bhybhar:
Jazakumullahu khayran，backing ur baby got me laffin though

lool... I can't do it.

oluwadamilola92:
[s]Draw close to God. Only the power of Jesus can save u. All other means of delivering u is temporary[/s]

Please what's the relationship between your comment and the OP?!

The way you Christians behave sef is somehow, a whole section was created for religious issues, go there and preach?!

I'm sure you can't make this kind of nuisance in the bank, so why should you make it in a forum under the guise of religion and 'salvation'?!

The earlier you get civilized the better

nigeriancritic1:
You poured some emotions on this topic that I begin to wonder if you too is affected.

I didn't write it. I only shared it.

Sent as received

HOME MADE SEX VIDEO:

I counselled a young guy who was addicted to masturbation. He told me he can't do without masturbating. One thing that struck me in his confession was when he said, 'my mum caused all this for me'.
Curiosity got hold of me & I asked him, how? He said; he started masturbating since when he was 4 years old. ' my mum dresses up before me, I am used to seeing her unclothedness. I am not moved to have sex with her but I always long to see mature ladies naked just the way I always see my mum dressing up naked before me. I still remember seeing her unclothedness regularly till I was 8 years& my dad do shout on her, 'send this boy out before you dress...' , but my mum would always reply by saying, 'will my son sleep with me? Stop planting evil thought in his heart'.
Anytime I see my mum's naked body, I long to see ladies' naked body, I went into sex at age 10 and till now I am not free from sex& heavy pornography & masturbation...'

Dear parents, I hope you are not guilty of this?
You are dressing up before your 2 years son/daughter & you say he/she doesn't know anything yet? .
Some couples will be having sex while their close to 2 years old child will be in their room with them & they will feel, he can only see, he can't understand.
Sir/ma, that your child does not need to understand. Seeing your unclothedness or seeing you and your spouse making love is enough to plant abnormal sexual fantasies and urge in that child.
Remember, it is a jet world! How will you destroy your own children with your own carelessness?
Don't let your children see your unclothedness.
Don't make love in the presence of your child no matter the age. The scene sticks to the memory& they may want to explore & experiment what they are seeing.
Stop making (unknowingly) home-made 'sex clips or video' for your children to be watching.
Mummy, sit properly. Stop sitting as if you are in the labour room; parting your legs and your son is seeing your inner tight & pant.
Be careful! Daddy, don't wear that ordinary boxer at home that when you sit down & your 'thing' is dangling & your daughter is seeing it.
There are things you should not wear beyond your bedroom, just for your spouse.
Don't say because you want to enjoy your freedom in your house, you now put your children into sexual bondage.
Mummy, wearing ordinary bra around the house in the presence of your sons is dangerous.
Yes, they won't lust after you but you might be increasing their curiosity to see the breasts of ladies outside.
Let's stop being 'pornographic materials' to our children.
Raising sexually pure and impure children begins at home'

My Counsel.

Sissie:
The post was said in a demeaning way, there is nothing wrong in trying to make a proper decision, and older women are not "unsweet"

He didn't mean to demean anyone, I'm sure you know. May Allah overlook our errors.

As for the sweet and unsweet issue, I didn't say older women are unsweet, although my statement might imply it. But no doubt that a young virgin is far sweeter than others.
I'm not talking from experience ooo!!! It's in the hadith, the messenger alyhissolaat wassalaam encouraged men to marry virgins.

Jabir b. 'Abdullah (Allah be pleased with them) reported: I married a woman during the lifetime of Allah's Messenger (may peace be. upon him). I met the Apostle of Allah (may peace be upon him), whereupon he said: Jabir, have you married? I said: Yes. He said: A virgin or one previously marrried? I said: With due previously married, whereupon he said: Why did you not marry a virgin with whom you could sport? I said: Allah's Messenger, I have sisters; I was afraid that she might intervene between me and them, whereupon he said: Well and good, if it is so. A woman is married for four reasons, for her religion, her property, her status, her beauty, so you should choose one with religion. May your hands cleave to dust. (Muslim:3458)

So from the above hadith we see that a young wife is recommended but some conditions are exceptions to the rule.

Personally, I prefer a more mature lady even if she is a little older than me because one of my primary goals in marriage is someone who will give advices when I need to make decisions. And you know that older people are usually wiser and more fore-sighted.

Continued and Concluded, AlhamduliLlah

Akhi, try to have a mini halqah in your home, you are the amir of your house,
teach your kids and wives after isha every evening, let it be the last thing they
do before sleeping, teach them seerah, fiqh, hadith, tafsir, give them lectures to
present, many couples spend their evenings watching soaps and movies, this
won't help your eeman.
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Many husbands are so dry, they frown always and they respond to their wives
in a moody way, but as soon as the phone rings, he speaks in such a lively way
and even laughs with the caller, but he can't remember the last time he gave
his wife a tender smile.
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Many men propose to women but end up marrying their phones, because they
spend most of the time pressing their phones while neglecting the wife, when
you see a married man/woman online at 11pm everynight, you begin to wonder
where his/her spouse is.
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Women, don't dull yourself too, if your husband appears boring or moody, pinch
him in his bom-bom, tickle his feets, poke his nose and spray water on him, he
would begin to laugh and chase you, that's how play starts, don't always wait
for him to initiate, you are not a robot, you can start it too. Many women
complain abt their husband but she makes no effort to make things work!
Aisha radiAllahu anha said, I used to wash the hair of the rasul when I am in
my menstrual period.
.
Abus, compete even in text messages, if she sends a cute text, send her a
better one, hide love notes in her purse, bags, pockets and costume box. If you
do all this, she won't complain when you want to take a mathna.
.
Abu, attimes quickly wake up, do the dishes, sweep and clean all the cleanables
and prepare breakfast, wake her wit a kiss and serve her in bed. She would go
crazy about you. Wash her clothes attimes and change the baby pampers too,
plait her hair and cut her nails, back the baby if you can, if you can't, don't see
it as awkward, I do them and am still alive! Lol.
.
Akhi, you want your wife to always look tushing in the house but you look like a
carpenter, shouldn't you adorn yourself too, you comb your beards once in a
week and you expect her to plait her hair everyday for you? The rasul would
spray perfume and use siwak before going to his wives.
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In summary:
Love comes before marriage but true love comes after marriage, you can make
a poor woman feel like a princess if only you treat her the way you want your
daughter to be treated!
May Allah make you heed this advise without delay, amin
10 hrs · Public

Aboo Banaat
COMPETITION AMONG SPOUSES
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Love is like eeman, attimes It increases and sometimes it decreases, if you
remember Allah, eeman increases and if you remember your spouse much, love
increases!
.
The house of the messenger of Allah salallahu alayhi wassalam was not a mere
house of indomie and spaghetti, it was filled with iba'dah yet the fun that
happened there was flabbergasting.
HE made over eleven women feel loved and cherished that they never shed a
tear once, but many men today can't even handle a wife witout making her cry!
.
Akhi, don't make your marriage like a barren land or dry desert, make it a
flowing river or a garden of roses! All is not rosy though but at all at all na em
bad pass.
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Here are some ways to compete:
1)pick a mushaf, open to a surah, take a paper and a pen and tell your wife that
let's start writing this surah, whoever finished first is the winner! It will boost
her writing skills and yours
.
2)surah baqarah is to be recited every 3 days to chase shaitan away from your
homes, when you recite to some extent, give her to recite too, and then you and
then her to the end.
.
3)if you have a fenced compound, you can run or jug with her every morning,
the fence conceals both of you from the sight of people.
.
4)compete in waking up for tahajjud, if she refuses to wake up, sprinkle water
on her face and viceversa.
-compete in doing chores atleast during weekends, she pills yam, you boil it,
she pounds, you eat, Lol
.
5)compete in memorizing the Quran, help her wit hers and she will help you
with yours.
6)compete in bed too, its a rewarding act, I don't have to explain this, you know
better.

To Be Continued in shaa Allah

Sissie:
Oh please, the sisters will marry themselves or the men are young forever

lool... from my experience, I think some sisters get deceived by their young age and the nonstop influx of proposals. So they just keep procrastinating and bouncing proposals.

Anyway, I understand that for the women the matter is very complicated and a wrong decision for once is most likely a wrong decision for life.

But, Even old men want to marry sweet young girls not women!

STOP DELAYING MARRIAGE!

Gathered by: Abu Mardiy Kewdirôrun At-thaqoofiy

Praise be to Allaah and blessings of Allaah be upon His Messenger and Chosen Prophet.

You should stop delaying marriage, because delaying marriage is harmful for you.
What is required is to hasten to get married, and no young man or young woman should delay marriage for the sake of studies, because marriage does not prevent any such thing.

It is possible for a young man to get married in order to protect his religious commitment and morals, and enable him to lower his gaze.

Marriage serves many purposes, especially in this day and age.

Because delaying it is harmful for both young women and young men.
Every young man and every young woman should hasten to get married.
If there is a man who is compatible with the woman, and if a man can find the right woman.

Now let me ask you!
How about if you realize that marriage will protect half of your religion?
How about if you realize that by getting married, you will have followed the advice of the Messenger of Allaah?

How about if you realize that by producing a righteous child you will have ongoing charity (sadaqatu jaariyah)?

If you raise the child with good morals and faith, and you will be rewarded for your marriage if you seek reward with Allaah for that.
My fellow Muslims!

Marriage is a source of tranquillity and peace, and it is the best of the pleasures of this world.

May Almighty Allaah make marriage easy for unmarried men and women.

Praise be to Allaah.

The majority of scholars are of the view that it is permissible to sell cats, and some are of the view that it is haraam. The latter are of the Zaahiri madhhab and this view was also mentioned in a report from Imam Ahmad (may Allaah have mercy on him). Ibn al-Mundhir also narrated that from Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him).

The view that it is haraam to sell cats is the more correct view, because it is proven that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) forbade that, and there is nothing to suggest the contrary.

Muslim (1569) narrated that Abu’l-Zubayr said: I asked Jaabir about the price of dogs and cats. He said: The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) told us not to do that (i.e., sell them).

Abu Dawood (3479) and al-Tirmidhi (1279) narrated that Jaabir ibn ‘Abd-Allaah (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: The Messenger of Allaah (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) forbade the price of dogs and cats. Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh Abi Dawood .
Some scholars are of the view that these ahaadeeth are da’eef (weak), but their view is to be rejected.

Al-Nawawi said in al-Majmoo’ (9/269): As for what as al-Khattaabi and Ibn al-Mundhir said about the hadeeth being weak, this is a mistake on their part, because the hadeeth in Saheeh Muslim has a saheeh isnaad. End quote.

Al-Shawkaani said in Nayl al-Awtaar (6/227), refuting the majority who interpret the prohibition in the hadeeth as meaning that it is makrooh and that selling cats is not a noble attitude or sign of chivalry: It is obvious that this is understanding the prohibition in a way that is contrary to its true meaning for no reason. End quote.

Al-Bayhaqi said in al-Sunan (6/18), also refuting the majority: Some scholars have interpreted it as referring to cats that are wild and cannot be caught. Some claim that this applied at the beginning of Islam when cats were ruled to be naajis (impure), but when it was ruled that their leftover food and water are taahir (pure), it became permissible to sell them. But there is no clear evidence for either of these two views. End quote.

Ibn al-Qayyim stated that it is definitely haraam to sell them in
Zaad al-Ma’aad (5/773) where he said: This was stated in a ruling (fatwa) by Abu Hurayrah (may Allaah be pleased with him) and it is the view of Tawoos, Mujaahid, Jaabir ibn Zayd and all the Zaahiri scholars, and it is one of the two views narrated from Ahmad.

This is the correct view, because the ahaadeeth which state that are saheeh, and there is no evidence to the contrary, so this is the view that must be adopted. End quote.
Ibn al-Mundhir said: If it is proven that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) forbade selling them, then such sales are invalid, otherwise they are permissible. End quote from al-Majmoo’ , 9/269

And it has been proven that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) forbade it, as in the hadeeth quoted above from
Saheeh Muslim.

It says in Fataawa al-Lajnah al-Daa’imah , 13/37:
It is not permissible to sell cats, monkeys or dogs, or any other carnivores that have fangs, because the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) forbade that and discouraged it, and because it is a waste of money, and the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) forbade wasting money.

And Allaah knows best.

Brothers To Brothers
How many of the people around you do this
Can you see why we have many innovators around
The importance of the understanding of the Sahabah:
Ibn Taymiyyah said: "Whoever thinks that he can take from the Quran and the Sunnah without imitating the Sahaabah and emulates other than their way, then (in reality) he is from the people of innovation!"
(Mukhtasirul Fataawa Al Misriyyah pg. 556)


Their advice (i.e Salaf) was short and to the point:
Abu Al-Aswad Ad-Du'ali married his daughter off, and when she was leaving his house he said to her:
"Honor his eyes, nose and ears." Meaning, by adorning yourself, perfuming your body and saying nice words to him. @almunajjid_En

#copied Being famous is a trial, yet most are desirous for it; being unknown is a blessing, yet most are not content with it.

— Ibn Taymiyyah.

Shaikh Ibn al-`Uthaymeen said:
❝No matter how many good deeds you may have done… Don’t be amazed at your actions.
Verily! Your actions are but a few in comparison to… The rights of Allaah upon you.❞
[Sharh Riyaadh al-Saaliheen (1/575) of Shaikh Ibn al-`Uthaymeen]

I hope and pray that you Repent Before Death catches up with you.

Azumy:
so watelse shld make FP ? all dis vain talks ryt?! May God guide us aryt.

Exactly my sister!!! Vain and non beneficial talks of a celebrity buying new shirt, cooking at home, being nude etc.

Please what is the benefit of those crap to the development of this country?!

It's high time the youths of this nation started reasoning in a better manner.

Allahulmusta'aan.

MarysMeal:
What about those who are born deaf and they go for cochlear implant so as to hear again?


What about those who have some deformation in a certain part of their body and they go for corrective surgery?

You have asked a beautiful question.

It's permissible to alter the features and forms of the body for medical and therapeutic reasons because in reality you are not changing the creation rather you are returning it to its normal form or close to it's normal form.

Examples are breast filling, emptying or complete removal for cancer treatment .

Plastic surgery on the face or other parts of the body for medical sake.

Painting the teeth for medical reasons, or attaching legs for medical reasons.

Lanreylan:
[s]"Knowledge is useless without manners". Imagine, a person that you have NEVER met in your life and you are calling him a loser and even qualified him with bad adjectives. SubhanAllah! Is that what your Islam teaches you?? Calling people names all around, if you could qualify someone who shared some pillars of Islam with you with all these adjectives I wonder what you will do to a non Muslim.

The Quran says Surah An-Nahl 16:125 invite to the Way of your Lord with wisdom and fair preaching, and argue with them in a way that is better. Truly, your Lord knows best who has gone astray from His Path, and He is the Best Aware of those who are guided.

Adab is very important in Islam, many left Islam because the way people corrected them or invited them to Islam was with abuses and na.

[/s]

Not worth replying. The stink of sentiment and bias in it is too obvious.

Anyway; tell your companion the same regarding the mothers of the believers.

Plucking Eyebrows

This is a topic we just want to avoid or hope it would go away although, not thinking about it does not mean that the Hukm (order/ruling) isn't there [and doesn't exist]. And you know what? It is sad to say that 90% of our sisters are guilty of doing it.

But dear Sister, have you really thought about it?
What does Islam REALLY say about shaping the eyebrows?

'Plucking of women's eyebrows is not permissible. The Messenger of Allah صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ cursed the one who does it. It is Haram and is not permitted.'

The Evidence

Abdullah Ibn Mas'ud رضي الله ﺗﻌﺎﻟﯽٰعنه said: I heard the Messenger of Allah صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَلَيْهِ وَسَلَّمَ say:

ALLAH (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى) has CURSED* the woman who does tattoos and the one who has them done, the woman who plucks eyebrows and the one who has it done, and the one who files her teeth for the purpose of beauty, altering the creation of ALLAH (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى).
[Bukhari & Muslim]

*Cursed means 'cast out from the Mercy of ALLAH (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى). It is the Mercy of ALLAH (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى) that makes a person to enter Paradise. He/she who is out cast from the Mercy will not enter it. The curse is not permanent but it is lifted when a person sincerely repents to ALLAH (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى) for this mistake. So one should not feel doomed because they committed this mistake when they were in days of Jahiliyyah (ignorance).

Removing or plucking the eyebrows implies changing the creation of ALLAH (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى) , as ALLAH (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى) tells us that the Shaytan said:

"...and indeed I will order them to change the nature created by ALLAH (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى)."
[Noble Quran 4:119]

Ad-Da'wah I'LLALLAH (سُبْحَانَهُ وَتَعَالَى)

#Note: This prohibition is not restricted to women only. The women were addressed primarily because it's rampant among them unlike men. So a man who does this act might have more punishment than women.

Allah knows best.

nubian999:
I understand it to mean what we put forth in our youth/prime could come back to haunt us. So for example; You have a child and they don't prioritize you or you have money and you can't access it or you have people but you're alone. I think it's another way of saying you reap what you sow and we Must ask ourselves 'what have I put forward as protection from old age. Devil to me, just means negative energy and drive.

Na wa ooo, owishi wishi la o maa ri!!!

So what is God to you? Positive energy and drive?! na -really- wa ooo. Allahulmusta'aan!!!