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Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by woye77: 10:47am On Jan 14, 2010
"Wives, submit to your husbands as to the Lord." Ephesians 5:22 - that's what the bible says but it seems nowadays the world is changing and the whole world is changing. Ladies are becoming westernised and are finding it increasingly hard to submit to their partners. Why is this so? is submission still relevant in modern day climate? Guys what are your views on this?
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by Nobody: 11:06am On Jan 14, 2010
Why Do Men Find It Hard To Love Their Women In Relationships?

https://www.nairaland.com/nigeria/topic-381273.0.html

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by SisiKill1: 11:28am On Jan 14, 2010
Any woman whose husband loves her as Christ loved the church won't have a problem submitting.

Unfortunately, most men do not fulfill their own part of the bargain yet expect their wives to kowtow to every word that comes out of their mouth.

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by Nobody: 11:30am On Jan 14, 2010
Sisi_Kill:

Any woman whose husband loves her as Christ loved the church won't have a problem submitting.

Unfortunately, most men do not fulfill their own part of the bargain yet expect their wives to kowtow to every word that comes out of their mouth.
Two way process baby grin

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Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by woye77: 11:38am On Jan 14, 2010
ibkaye:

Two way process baby grin
there is no such thing as a two way duty. This is the excuse which many women use in order to be rebeliuous. There are so many women who are loved by there husbands yet they choose to disrespect him. As a woman it's your duty to submit to your husband regardless of what what he does. cool
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by Godmother(f): 11:50am On Jan 14, 2010
I love the replies this topic is getting
Sisi_Kill:

Any woman whose husband loves her as Christ loved the church won't have a problem submitting.

Unfortunately, most men do not fulfill their own part of the bargain yet expect their wives to kowtow to every word that comes out of their mouth.

So true.Nigerian menfind it hard to love their women wholly and yet they claim their is no submission
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by 190: 11:58am On Jan 14, 2010
michelline

they are talking to you
be submissive to your husband~ cheesy cheesy cheesy
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by asha80(m): 12:06pm On Jan 14, 2010
Michelin wey be atomic bomb^^^ shocked
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by Spyker: 12:10pm On Jan 14, 2010
This topic is volatile, it can consume the entire world because but male and female fall short of that bible passage about submission. If really women are not submissive, it is as of result of women liberation especially here in Nigeria where women are treated poorly not only by their husbands but also in-laws. So, it behooves on us men to make women submissive by being faithful in all ramifications. Men are leaders and heads of the family hence should lead by examples. (sorry guys if my comment don't actually support guys, mind you, i am a guy and would not support evil).
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by Nobody: 12:11pm On Jan 14, 2010
woye77:

there is no such thing as a two way duty. This is the excuse which many women use in order to be rebeliuous. There are so many women who are loved by there husbands yet they choose to disrespect him. As a woman it's your duty to submit to your husband regardless of what what he does. cool
ibkaye:

Two way process baby grin
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by otukpo(f): 12:18pm On Jan 14, 2010
"Men love ur wives, "

And why is that difficult for men to do?
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by otukpo(f): 12:19pm On Jan 14, 2010
Sisi_Kill:

Any woman whose husband loves her as Christ loved the church won't have a problem submitting.

Unfortunately, most men do not fulfill their own part of the bargain yet expect their wives to kowtow to every word that comes out of their mouth.

Exactly!
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by H2O2: 12:22pm On Jan 14, 2010
Sis, I agree

But man's bad habits does not excuse you from fulfilling God's command.
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by Nobody: 12:23pm On Jan 14, 2010
H2O2:

Sis, I agree

But man's bad habits does not excuse you from fulfilling God's command.



Please go and sit down. What does it cost you to love your wife? Sexist people!
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by otukpo(f): 12:26pm On Jan 14, 2010
Spyker:

This topic is volatile, it can consume the entire world because but male and female fall short of that bible passage about submission. If really women are not submissive, it is as of result of women liberation especially here in Nigeria where women are treated poorly not only by their husbands but also in-laws. So, it behooves on us men to make women submissive by being faithful in all ramifications. Men are leaders and heads of the family hence should lead by examples. (sorry guys if my comment don't actually support guys, mind you, i am a guy and would not support evil).


smiley smiley

H2O2:

Sis, I agree

But man's bad habits does not excuse you from fulfilling God's command.



And wich one comes first? Loving or submitting?
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by H2O2: 12:29pm On Jan 14, 2010
michelin89:

Please go and sit down. What does it cost you to love your wife? Sexist people!
Are you retarded? Ever so sexist. How does that invalidate my entry

Never said I wouldn't love my wife.

And that goes for you too otukpo, I made no reference to love, and I did say I agree with what was said.
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by Nobody: 12:32pm On Jan 14, 2010
otukpo:

smiley smiley

And wich one comes first? Loving or submitting?
They should come equally and at the same time, otherwise it's just like playing a game, I won't do this until you do that, it's difficult but nobody said that marriage was easy, and if they did, they were lying to you and probably don't like you, I mean, who would lie to somebody about that? cheesy
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by Nobody: 12:33pm On Jan 14, 2010
The only retarded person here is you. You have been going around with your woman hating posts, but this time you won't have it so easy. I know that passage myself and before mentioning women, God orders men to love their wives.

What are you if not a selfish sexist man if you want a woman to submit to an idiot who doesn't love her? Must she be the one to play the fool all the time? Is it written in my DNA that I am fool because I was born as a woman?

Enough of this rubbish you keep posting. If you are so smart as you claim, leave this thread and don't come back.
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by Nobody: 12:35pm On Jan 14, 2010
Michellin, he isn't sexist cheesy
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by Nobody: 12:40pm On Jan 14, 2010
ibkaye:

Michellin, he isn't sexist cheesy

Ohhhhhhhhh gosh. He is not? Oh my bad. Maybe it's C2H5OH or HIO4!!! grin grin grin grin
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by H2O2: 12:42pm On Jan 14, 2010
shut up retard.  i will not be used a a token to rid your boredom.
always so boisterous with your senseless posts.
she--goat.

for those who can reason, my post alludes to obeying God's commandment in spite of a man's ills, and was not meant to spite women in any way.
This loquacious f-ool Michelin who is hard of comprehension has made it his business to distract us with her his usual sexist stench.

michelin, i'm going to bed you ingrate. i am not going to continue this conversation with you. you are a known tool.
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by Nobody: 12:44pm On Jan 14, 2010
H2O2:

shut up retard.  i will not be used a a token to rid your boredom.
always so boisterous with your senseless posts.
she--goat.

for those who can reason, my post alludes to obeying God's commandment in spite of a man's ills, and was not meant to spite women in any way.
This loquacious f-ool Michelin who is hard of comprehension has made it his business to distract us with her his usual sexist stench.

michelin, i'm going to bed you ingrate. i am not going to continue this conversation with you. you are a known tool.

You can go to hell for all I care as long as I don't see any other posts from you. Jobless chauvinistic fool!
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by jaybee3(m): 12:46pm On Jan 14, 2010
no fighting cool cool
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by Nobody: 12:47pm On Jan 14, 2010
jay bee:

no fighting cool cool

Sorry colleague! cool
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by HellaBella(f): 12:49pm On Jan 14, 2010
woye77:

there is no such thing as a two way duty. This is the excuse which many women use in order to be rebeliuous. There are so many women who are loved by there husbands yet they choose to disrespect him. As a woman it's your duty to submit to your husband regardless of what what he does. cool

WOW some really daft people on here. So all those husbands that beat their wives and children, and even molest and abuse them should still have their wives submit to them? lol. You're a big time monkey. I feel sorry for any woman that dates you. *shudders*
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by H2O2: 12:51pm On Jan 14, 2010
michelin, you must be innately dumb to think your loud noise will deter me from posting.

what a ninny


imagine i posted one clear sentence and the ediot responded with a 5-page rejoinder, going off on tangents making references to points I never once insinuated.
being a woman does not make you a fool michel.  your difficulty with comprehension is what makes you a simpleton.
i won't be caught dead engaging in bright discourse with you.  Utter waste!

nothing else from me to you for the time being.
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by Nobody: 12:52pm On Jan 14, 2010
Go and sleep.
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by H2O2: 12:53pm On Jan 14, 2010
ibkaye:

Michellin, he isn't sexist cheesy
thank you o
may you never end up like that slowpoke in Jesus name, amen.
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by Nobody: 12:56pm On Jan 14, 2010
H2O2:

thank you o
may you never end up like that slowpoke in Jesus name, amen.

Obviously there was a huge fight in your brain today which caused the death of all your neurons except two. Go and sleep so they can copulate and reproduce more, just enough for a sensible post and maybe to recognize SARCASM!!!!!
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by H2O2: 12:57pm On Jan 14, 2010
roflmaoooooooooooo grin grin God in heaven thanks for the laugh.
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by Nobody: 1:07pm On Jan 14, 2010
Funny how ignorant moofookers remember the bible when it suits them but turn a blind eye when it doesnt suit them. If the woman is loved by the man then she will do her best to make him happy.
Re: Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships? by domwas2(m): 1:07pm On Jan 14, 2010
Why Do Women Find It Hard To Be Submissive In Relationships?
Nice question  grin
Believe it or not, these modern days’ men are very busy likewise some women too, and after every day work there are men out there who don't do pre-intimacy. Those are the guys who are begging to be cheated on. Know this: NO dick alone is enough to satisfy a woman. If that were the case, they'd keep dildos by the bed and you'd obsolete.

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