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Torg77:
You sound smart to dumb people . you can't say the agent is behind it. You don't know that for sure..that's the issue with Nigerians today.bearing false witness and putting people in trouble that's like a policeman stopping you and saying because you are black and ugly ,u must be behind a robbery that just occurred as witnesses said the suspect was black and ugly

Your point is?

Mike4S:
No, I just packed in there

Did you got the house thru agent?
If the above question is "yes" then the agent is behind it.
Check how many keys supposed to be there for every padlock has specific number of keys,the agent can duplicate it even.

Are you for real? How much is Hot8?��

Are you for real? How much is Hot8?��

Michellekabod2:
I am not going to create another moniker for this,i owe no one nothing!

I have spent most of my life single. I tried linking up with people but to no avail. Why? I will not do the blame game here. Is all my fault. I meet someone, get heed over heels for the person but I lose interest easily. When it comes to commitment, when the friendship is to get to the next level I ghost them. I don't know why. At best out of the blue I lose interest and become blank, not returning calls or replying messages, at worst I become disgusted at the fellow for no reason at all then move one to the next male friend. Nothing serious comes out of it...

So I decided to give up trying. My female friends and I go on an outing, some guys approach us and get our numbers. Months (sometimes years) later they are still waxing strong with the males, one of them even got married to one of them. But me? After a couple of weeks I find myself having to ghost the guy that I was head over heels for.

I gave up on love and chose to be single. I have been single for years now.

I met this guy march this year,we bonded like never before. I have never in my entire life felt like this before. It is so strange that each conversation we have all seems anew like we are starting all over.

It's almost ten months and the fire is still intense.
I have never had such a long friendship with a male. People assume we are dating. He gives me so much JOY... He is so awesome, different from all the others i have known. He changed me.

I just figured out i want to end the friendship, I don't know why. I am tired. I want to walk away. The passion is still there but i want to be away. I wanted to get a new SIM but my conscience will not. What has kept me from doing this is because i wonder how he will feel..

I want to walk away. Will i regret this?

Hope you enjoy doing it.....don't worry cos you will soon expired and blame your village people.

davodyguy:
I'm sorry to say, but the other woman that kept a boy in Dog's cage may also be from same state. The question should be why this same Imo state indigenes?

I know some people can be heartless, but they're are more common in Nigeria

Where is Name checker when you need him?

Haddock:
Just imagine the lie this miscreant is pushing forward! Is it not this same governor that's owing pensioners up to 11 months arrears? Is he not same governor that's owing state workers about 5 months arrears?
Arrears stuck in 2017, you think suffering workers will forget abi?

Senatordave1, please ignore this ignoramus. He is either living with parents or is paid to whitewash the otondo governor.

Silly people everywhere...

Some of yu are not afraid to apportion blame.
Don't you think the salaries and pensions were not inherited?

OoniOfIfe:






Clone of a governor.
Why sending her to BSU instead of Harvard, MIT, Californian university or any top foreign university.
Did his own children attended BSU?
Sending her to BSU is d same as sending her back to secondary school.

Benue is not an educational center but a farming center.
I visited North core of Federal university of Agriculture Makurdi nd I gave up on education. I begin to wonder if University of agriculture which is a federal university is an eyesore I wonder how BSU which is a state university will be.



What am I even saying?
A governor that used wheelbarrow to do empowerment for d youths is capable of doing anything.

You have never been to Federal University of Agric...you are a bad liar.
And how does federal University got to do with Benue State?

You have little knowledge of Educational system in Benue state.

Wait for those that graduate from there to speak about it.


Kindly tell us the educationally developed state you came from?

mushystuff:
What do you mean? Isn't he your darling and model president anymore? You and your kind have been unrelenting in supporting him despite his clear antecedents and disregard for human rights and the rule of law so who are the we to stop the General?

It is an offence to withdraw support?

A child out of wedlock.

kodix:
Are you sure you will survive this mess you're trying to put your self in,you have marry and have a child from your wife and you still want marry again I pity you you're just digging your grave, Pls bend down so that your marriage will work for you, why are you still looking at women while you are married,How sure are you that this second lady will be perfect,! I pity you

The road was too narrow for me.

The story is one sided......show us in the chart where the pastor asked for the number just as u showed us the curse screenshot.


She no even fine.


Na lie abeg.

mercyefe200:
A working class woman identified as Jennifer Oseh has taken to her Instagram account to share the screenshot of the chat she had with a security man who confessed that he has fallen in love with her.

Jennifer revealed that she has always been kind to the security man by always giving him tips whenever they met.

However, the man misinterpreted her kind gesture.

In the screenshot the lady posted on IG, the man had texted her to reveal that he has feelings for her.

He went ahead to reveal to her that he would have confessed his love a while ago if he had money.

On a different day after she refused to reply to the confession, the man sent a text, asking if he could come and stay with her.

She replied and told him never to send such messages to her.

He, however, sent another message apologizing and even claimed that he was feeling lonely.

She asked if she should be worried about the message sent by the man.

See the screenshot below:

https://www.instagram.com/theladyvhodka/

https://www.ogbeta.ng/2019/11/security-man-falls-in-love-with-working.html

Bia...how the security man take get your number?

mercyefe200:
A working class woman identified as Jennifer Oseh has taken to her Instagram account to share the screenshot of the chat she had with a security man who confessed that he has fallen in love with her.

Jennifer revealed that she has always been kind to the security man by always giving him tips whenever they met.

However, the man misinterpreted her kind gesture.

In the screenshot the lady posted on IG, the man had texted her to reveal that he has feelings for her.

He went ahead to reveal to her that he would have confessed his love a while ago if he had money.

On a different day after she refused to reply to the confession, the man sent a text, asking if he could come and stay with her.

She replied and told him never to send such messages to her.

He, however, sent another message apologizing and even claimed that he was feeling lonely.

She asked if she should be worried about the message sent by the man.

See the screenshot below:

https://www.instagram.com/theladyvhodka/

https://www.ogbeta.ng/2019/11/security-man-falls-in-love-with-working.html

Is that picture a dull or human?

Otantu:
Chai ancient of days �, is it the 2gig ram?

Ancient of days,and is 32 built in

infinix hotnote.

gwafaeziokwu:
Illiterate ( northernes) desecrating the seat of power with their almajiris mentality. Hausa women are the most insultive and wildest of all badly behaved women in Nigeria.

Remove the log in ur eyes first.

KingAfo:
Abi o. A woman will not tell you her own negative side of the story.

That's my point exactly.

smasher1:
That's not an issue. We all forget important things to buy at times. Even several times at that. It should not lead to arguments.

The woman is at fault... but cannot admit it.

Zhuhilat:
How Do I Deal With This Level Of Disrespect From My Husband

Dear all

I and my husband are just 2years in marriage.

Every time we have issues concerning anything, he is always telling me to pack my things and leave his house or he will say things like you are off no importance to me and you bring me no value and stuff and stuff. But after a while he will apologize and say he doesn’t mean it.

Last month, what caused our fight was because my mum sent some food stuffs to us because she traveled and got them cheaply. He was angry because he felt that was disrespectful. And the argument degenerated to him telling me to leave his house,

i got tired, called his bluff and left the house but everyone advised me to go back and make it work., well except my dad. Mind you, this was the 5th time.

On my return, we talked about it(like we always do) and i thought it was genuine, and i said i was going to give it one more try.

Today, we had an argument because of baby food. I told hime to buy on his way back. I couldn’t go out because the whole road was terribly flooded .

But he didn't buy it, and that lead to an argument. And the next thing he told me was to fuc.k off and leave. Or he is leaving. As a matter of fact, he just left the house now 12:00am.

I am actually tired of it all. and right now, i don't think i have any love left for him or this marriage.
I think he is cheating on me and for some reason i am beginning to look outside and crave attention, love and respect from someone else.

I don't want my child to grow up seeing me treated like this but most importantly , i don't want her to think it is okay to accept being disrespected and under valued like this.

Married people is this one of the challenges in marriage or what?

Why cant we have an argument that doesn’t lead to leave my house, i dont need you, you bring me no value and all

Also we are very very comfortable, i work and he works too.

Emotionally, i am done.

Learn to be a woman madam...with all indication it seems you refused to be a woman cos u work and he worked too,what can he tell you?
Many women has this problem...they can't just keep their mouth when husband is talking.

Now..that is ur own side, can we hear from your husband now?

franchasng:
In as much as we will all try to attack and condemn the lady for saying such, there is lot of truth in what she wrote, and I will explain:

Back in the days of our fathers, there was no GSM, no internet, no cable TV, so it was never necessary for a man or woman to own a mobile phone, buy internet data, buy airtime, pay for cable TV like DsTV or GoTV or Star Times, etc. In fact there was no need to have a fridge/freezer before you get married because there were electricity only in few parts of Nigeria, mostly the cities, and only less than 20% of Nigerians then lived in the cities, and maybe less than 5% of those city dwellers owned a TV set, a fridge/freezer.

There was no need to own a washing machine, only the elites did....there was no need for electric or gas cooker, no need to talk about owning a car to think of maintaining and fueling the car, only few elites owned cars.

Back then, all schools were government owned, private schools were seen as useless schools for dull people, and most government schools then were free, the ones that needed to be paid for were peanuts...so you don't need to stress to send your children to school, all they needed was school uniform and books.

Back then, there were very few private hospitals, all existing reputable hospitals were all government owned and well equipped and competent, today is different....to take care of your wife's delivery and children health, you must pay through your nose if they must get adequate healthcare.

All the reputable schools now are owned by private individuals, and their tuition is on the high side that, someone earning that amount she mentioned can never be able to send his children to any good school, sadly that's the reality not what we wished was the reality


Before you can get married today and have a relatively happy home, you may need to rent a 1 bedroom flat at least, you will pay for electricity bill monthly, buy gas for cooking, pay for refuse collectors, pay estate or community security which was free in our father's time, you may need TV, GoTV which also requires monthly subscription, you must own a mobile phone, including your wife, and who will be buying the airtime, the internet data, maybe Buhari

Honestly, to live a decent life in Nigeria or run a decent, modest home in Nigeria now as a married man, you will need around 200,000naira monthly income, which is why every Nigerian lady now should make it a priority to have a job or a business or a trade or something earning her legal money of at least 50,000naira monthly before she accepts to marry any man.


Gone are the days ladies bring only their body to marriage, ladies your body is no longer enough, you must bring some money too....a monthly income!!!


That guy that replied her and saying he is earning 57,000 and he is married with 2 kids, he should also tell people about other ways he earns money to augment his 50k monthly salary; or he thinks we don't know how corrupt majority of Nigerian civil servants are, collecting kickbacks, bribes, and engaging in all forms of office corruption to makeup their low pay

He should also tell us if he doesn't get one or two financial help from one of his big brothers or uncles living somewhere else either abroad or in another city, so let him STFU that income is not enough to run a family in today Nigeria!!

If you are not earning enough income to raise a decent home, pls stay single, its not a crime to remain single, it is a crime to give birth to kids u can't train or give decent life, they will grow up to become societal problem and easy tools for crime/violence which is why Northern Nigeria and in fact Nigeria is so messed right now!


Stop giving birth to kids u can't train or hoping for your uncle or brother or sister or aunt or friend to train them for u, the world has changed, this is not 1980!!

How old are thou?

kereman1:
I know as it's SARS related, even dimwits will condemn the officers.

Let's tell ourselves the truth, Nigeria criminal need iron hands, even NA will tremble at d confrontation of these criminals,

SARS is the police division responsible for harsh, and brutal movement, they are expendible, that's y they soil their hand, and fight dirty wit criminals.

Most Nigerians condemning SARS operative will be d first to lynch and set ablaze a petty thief.

You are a foool,I swear.

NwaBoy:
You reading this post , Yes you. Do you know I have an iPhone XR and 8+ both 64GB and Chip Unlock for sale . I just knew you don't know . Well you can call me on zero803818757one for more information and pictures.

Derailers will b shot on sight.

Customer care agent....Good afternoon my name is Baji Ola how may I help you?

customer..... Good afternoon.... my name I sam....pls tried withdrawing money thru uba bank but I was blue to get my ATM card without money yet I was debited.

Customer care agent...thank u Mr sam we are very sorry for the inconvenience but ur complain is noted and ur money will be reverted in FIVE working days.



Five working days?

Scatterscatter:
Kindly mention 1 other project he started and commissioned in the last 4years.

If you can mention one that was initiated, executed completed and commissioned by Jonathan ministers in six years
..... I will do same for you.

Hedonisco:
Good. Most likely these Fulani kidnappers that have taken over Nigeria's highways.

God forbid that one encounters these dirty, wicked animals, but if with your wife or daughter, better to drive on (full throttle) and risk being shot/killed than to stop and allow your jewel(s) be kidnapped and debased by these northern bastards.

Look,Fulani gained prominence recently but the people doing the dirty job now is uniform people.


On the 7th of this month while travelling to markurdi along nasarawa to yelwata around 11pm,we encounter this fully armed army boys,they were combat ready.
The rest is history.
We only thank God for our lives.

No interior pics

OgogoroFreak:
Why is the mother's grave bigger than that of her children?
Does it mean that her ghost would also be bigger than theirs?

who leave yaba left gate open?

ashantitope:
Abeg just need enlighten please what should I use the account for and what will the account give me in return as gain

since you don't have idea of how it's work.....I think you should just keep off.