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GVTAsiwaju:
I bought my first car in my present house and married here... infact, everything in the house including appliances are bought here.

Suddenly, neighbors started selling their cars one after the other. I sold mine last. I did agidi to some extent but when it got to a point of no return I had to sell it with tears in my eyes. Things are becoming very tight financially yet the same house. What could be wrong?

Listen.
In your case there was nothing wrong with the house. However if someone who is diabolical parks into the compound AFTER YOU did or in the street, then they can start sucking virtues.

So it can be put before or after you park in, your case verily is a case of after.

Sometimes, someone also in the compund, can go seeking for riches and they tell the person to bury something.THEY DONT TELL THEM THAT ITS THEIR NEIGHBORS WEALTH AND DESTINY THAT WILL BE TAKEN .

ITS WELL

okpaire2005:
Hey guys. What advice can you give to someone whose parent always complains when they see him on the computer coding. I currently don't have a laptop so I use a desktop computer which is situated at one corner of the sitting room. Most times my parents sees me there they aren't really pleased with me they keep on saying im spending too much time on the computer. I need some advice on how to tackle this issue.

My parents once said the same.

Now, they constantly call me up to come teach them something on the system. Lol. Life is funny. Don't give up. One day, they'll come asking you what control A does.

chukuvun:
As the topic said i need a tutor to teach me PHP and Database engineering. Html and css inclusive.

Teaching method is remote and timing can be flexible.

Payment would be agreed upon before starting the lessons. If interested send a mail to adamboilesen8@gmail.com

Thanks

You gat mail

lifeizgood:
I have an issue.
I work as a security guard and as a CSO of the bit.
I find it difficult to give commands without shaky voice. The junior guards are taking advantage of it to disrespect me.
Days ago, one of the guards, a cultist, challanged my command real bad in the presence of other staffs of the organization. I was pained, so pained that the expression on my face was really visible.
He then behaved after doing what he did but I kept my cool.
I reported to the manager of the organization and our security manager.
I was asked to give a query letter to the guy which I did.
He has replied the query letter and you won't believe me that this guy turned everything to look as if I'm the one who misunderstood him.
He denied challenging my order and never mentioned anything concerning it.
Some people na real criminal Ahswear.

If you can't command command and authority or respect among your own junior security colleagues, then how will you effectively command security and guard the vicinity?

I think you are in the wrong profession.

co787:
She is 2 years old my wife is still in detention I will bail her next week I haven't arrested him yet because I am in Lagos there are in nnewi I am planning to go there next week along with my wife to arrest him and I will return to Lagos alone she will stay with her people

Wait, they raped a two years old baby? Pls confirm. 2 years or 20 pls

naptu2:

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gxlj4Tk83xQ

Why do I still feel like crying after so many years.

It's well

I'm sure that even the judge that passed this sentence was laughing as he was saying it, or say April fool after passing this judgement.

They should stop making the law looking like commedy , it's reducing the trust the common man has for it

QuinModah:
Last Friday, I hugged one of my most impressive colleagues goodbye. He turned away, sobbing. I turned away with voice quaking, realizing what a big loss he would be.

Later that evening, I had another get-together with a second friend who relocates this week. While discussing his massive expense, he suddenly slouched in his chair, stressfully squeezed the empty ragolis bottle in his hands and concluded:

"Oremi, this relocation has cost me almost everything"
"You don’t want to know!" He further sighed "You don’t."

Today, with the help and data from three (3) relocating friends, I compile the rough cost (below) for prospective relocating families (focus on UK) and a poem for my friend and Nigeria:

Cost of Japa from Nigeria for a family of 4= 180k
Renewal of Passport
Official rate 22k
Accelerated rate 45k
Some pay as high as 75k

Transcript 75k
Usually, one parent is a student
30-45k for school runs
25-30k to send

Estimated Tuition fee deposit
11,000-18,000-pound sterling
4.5m most schools want 50% deposit

Proof of fund (In deposit)
Family of 4 need 25m in deposited in an accoun 2-3 months

UK Visa 1.4m
Family of 4 pay 475-pound sterling

NHF
Family of 4 pay 875-pound sterling

Flight ticket 2.8m
Depending on booking
700k person x4
Some have booked as high as 1.2m

Arrival Accommodation 4.4m
1st Month shortlet 200-pound sterling per week
refundable deposit of 250 pound
First 6 months at 750 pounds

Total Cost 19m for family of four to UK not Canada or US. It can be cheaper or more

Oremi, I hope we meet again,
as you japa to find fresh grain,
to return if Nigeria again reigns?
God, will any leader ever end this drain?
But prayers will be in vain,
if in 2023, unwisely we vote again.

God bless everyone who has relocated. God bless everyone staying behind. God bless #Nigeria.

The poem at the end made me feel sad, just like the way sound sultan music ...no matter where you go make u no forget area o. (hope I got the spelling right)

So many families have been torn apart, lost forever. This japa will have a significant effect much later. New generations will be formed abroad. Most families will treat incest issues years to come, becos cousins will meet somewhere and start loving themselves without knowing they are related.

The japa rate is very alarming.
It's well.
May God help us.

dealslip:
I want to build two applications - a recruitment and fintech applications/software, I don't know who I should be employing. A developer or a programmer. The features of the applications or software will include - personal dashboard, sign up platforms, payment platforms. I also want to incorporate blockchain technology in the development of the products. Who should I be working with? Please I need guidance. Thanks in advance.

First of all, if you really wanna build a world class software (especially as it's Fintech), you need a project master or most times (a product manager).

It's this person that will be doing this task you are asking of. Because from your question, it shows you don't have core knowledge of IT. So save yourself the stress of employing half baked cakes.

Get a professional in that field to do that job. Don't do it.

Syntaxbyte:
Hi, how can I summarize all user balances in the database, PHP?


I have tried this but not working:

$query = $this->db->prepare("SELECT SUM(balance) FROM Users GROUP BY email";
$query->execute();


thanks in advance

Wait. You mean in your users table, you also included a column called balance?

okoIYAyin:
How can we talk business?

Kindly send me a pm sir.

Rainstormer:
Hello everyone,

I downloaded website files using Httrack, I want to know how to upload them to my own sever...

Is there anyone here that can help ?

Dm me

dannex4adx:
God bless you bro.

Amen. You too sir

bokondogi:
Hello Nairalanders, I will appreciate your comments and advice on this post

I have been married with 2 grown up kids for more than 2 and half decades, 2 months ago my wife got in contact with one of her secondary school classmate, someone she has lost contact with since they left school 3 decades ago.

So they started calling each other, though my wife told me about him and sometimes they talked on phone in my presence but later my wife will go to her room to talk with the guy, most times in the night.

This calls always excite my wife that I could hear her laughing and I begin to get jealous and I decided to get to know what they usually talk about.

They later moved to chatting on WhatsApp and will be doing call at night. I noticed my wife started making sure her phone isn't within my reach, making sure she didn't leave her phone carelessly. We both know each others phone password, One day I get access to her phone and I open her whatsapp. I noticed that my wife is flirting with the guy, the guy wil be refering to my wife as his wife but my wife usually won't respond to this,
They were exchanging pictures, and admiring each others pictures.

The guy was proffesing love to my wife but wiffy won't reciprocate to this advances.
Once a while I use to check wiffy's phone for any new development, and I find out wiffy use to send both money and airtime for data to the guy (my wife is into a lucrative business and money isn't her problem).

So one day a friend of mine send me a short porn video which I showed to my wife, she requested me to forward it to her, (I was surprised by this her request because she usually frown at porn), I sent it to her on her Facebook messenger instantly, but I was suspicious of what she wanted to do with the porn video. 2 days later she called me that she wanted to send the video to a female friend of her on WhatsApp but she didn't know how to forward the video from messenger platform to whatsapp.

I now forwarded the porn video to her on WhatsApp because I was curious what she wanted to do with the porn video, lol and behold my wife forwarded the video to this guy with a vulgar comment. I can't imagine my wife using the word 'toto', I have never heard this word from her
I now find out that this guy has earlier sent to my wife a porn video which she later deleted. I was shocked by these discoveries. My wife that frowns at obscene words is now using one in a chat with a man and even exchanging porn with him.

Even some gift items I kept in the house, I discovered my wife gifted them to this guy.
After these discoveries, I confront my wife with the evidence but she find it hard to deny and she said that she didn't know what she was doing with the guy was wrong that she didn't know the implications,
She told me she did not have any sexual contact with the guy and she swear about this, but I find it hard to believe, though I didn't find any evidence of this in their chats,
I am heart broken, this is a woman I trust so much,
Though she begged me and told me she won't have contact with the guy again, but I find it hard to believe.

I plan to throw her out. Is this the best decision?

Sir, you can dm me for counselling.
Kindly disregard the immature posts here.

I see you are very hurt on as much as you love her very much. Your marriage, nevertheless, is still a wonderful one , that should/will still be an inspiration to other young couples coming up. Just breath, it's gonna be fine.

Dm me let's talk

kelvine:
Take it www.freedomain.com

Delfonics:
Good Morning,

I need someone to make some design to my website. The original webdesigner is no longer available.

The site has been designed and I would like to make some modifications that will include ability for customers to create an account and post information.

If you can work on a logo, it will be an added advantage. The logo exists but it is on a white background.

Please contact me if you are interested.

Thanks.

I've sent you an email.

lessonotes:
https://asknigeria.com.ng/assets/uploads/files/1668707563689-a5cb3b10-484d-4049-aacf-8951e91bf70e-image-resized.png

I love your message.

However, it isn't entirely correct. we need to also understand that sometimes with Jesus, it could also be like the first picture (drowning)
Life won't be all rosy and swimming calmly.

We could also face the storm and almost drown even though Jesus is there...that's God's way of making us stronger.

God bless you.

humility101:
I met this lovely lady (30 yo) online 2 months ago. She is in Nigeria and I’m in the Uk. We have been actively chatting, phoning and having lots of facetime. She’s got all they qualities I need in a wife. She has also gone to see my peeps once and they said nice things about her.

I’m planning on wedding her this Christmas and she can join me immediately (UK can be very lonely without a partner) on a dependent visa.

But sometimes I pause and ask myself, I hope I’m not rushing this whole thing? I hope she is not pretending to be nice? I hope she truly loves me? I hope she is not seeing me as a means to japa? A lot of questions going through my mind. This is marriage and I don’t wanna make mistakes.

Advice me please.

How many years did you school in the university?
How many years did you school in your secondary school?

If these things that are temporary took at least 20 years to study, hoe much more an individual you'll leave with for the rest of your life?

If you've seen a marriage gone bad, you'll bear the brief loneliness to understand the person.

It was those days, you could meet s person this week and get married the next week and things can move smoothly.
But these days.....

Bros calm down.
Good things take time to build.
Pm me for more counselling if you have more to share.

God bless you

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arefrizzy:
Ok let me explain better, I have 4 tasks.

1. I have small issue with the registration page: https://5kcodes.com.ng , after registration, it shows some error code, though it will register, but no email will be sent. I think it's the email configuration. Try to register to see what I meant Summary: configure or fix registration mail

2. Add paystack to payment gateway

3. I need scripts uploaded on that site. It could be that, you create an account, upload, set your price for the script, and we promote, when there is a sale, you get paid and we make a commission.

4. Fourthly, Have you worked with whmcs? if you check https://ngoserver.com , I have two issues.

a. I need reseller module for .ng properly configured such that, if an order is placed, it will auto fulfil, that is: when someone places an order for domain name, I do not need to do anything else, it'll automatically activate the domain.

b. When you sign up and login to client area, I need the login to cpanel button active, it's there but noting will happen when you click on it.

Budget: N5,000

WhatsApp: 08032252044

I'm very sure a developer developed this site for you. You'll keep on getting half baked codes as long as you keep paying cheap fee.

A professional developer will never help correct all these for 5k.
Good luck

naniawini:
Hello everyone and happy Sunday!

I need suggestions on what meal I should be eating to produce enough breast milk. Pap does it for me but I’m tired of it already, I’m tired of rice too. I take tea that’s milo and milk but it’s purging my baby I need suggestions.


Thank you

Quaker oats.
There is also a particular cookie biscuit that helps to produce milk. Lots.of.eater too helps. Then be in a calm ,relaxed mood.

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Use public transport. The drivers know the safest, best and quickest way because they drive it everyday and know the signs to look out for . But last last, it's God that protects, not flight. Commit your journey into the hands of God . It shall be well

Centurion101:
We live in a country where there are no emergency services,so all we have is each other.
I'm here with this story today with a sole purpose, please don't ever stop helping people, don't refuse to lend someone a hand if you're in a position to help, I understand that it's difficult to help sometimes In this country because of the baggages that comes with it, for example some people said I should have left him because it wasn't worth the risk that I could go to jail and the police might lie that I killed him if he dies, which is a bit far fetched to me.
Sure I knew if he died the police would have to detain me till they figure out some details,but personally I would happily spend a couple of days in jail if it means giving a human being Thier life back.

I hope if I was ever in that kind of situation someone that values life comes along and help me too

Let me explain a bit of what you've done.
If this guy you saved, married and has kids, and his kids have kids...all that generation, even if they are a billion all owe their thanks to you.

If that man helps people after today, or gives someone a helping hand, or if any of his generation offers help in any way to someone else, they all owe it to you.

God bless you bro.
You saved a generation, thus generational blessings will be yours. Amen

rexidic:
Good evening, everyone. I (21M) am currently a final-year undergraduate of Electronic and Electrical Engineering at a federal university in Nigeria. I am sorry for the nebulous title of "Am I wasting my time", I just feel I need to get some things off my chest today as I have been feeling very suicidal and hopeless lately.

I have suffered from chronic low self-esteem since I was a child. I grew up as some sort of academic prodigy, but everyone around me profiled me as an idiot due to my sluggishness and social anxiety. I have tried to break out of that low self-esteem box, but it only gets worse when I try to do something about it. So, I developed an escapist attitude towards my problems, gradually losing touch with reality. Admittedly, I also struggle with some sort of egotism (a complex case of being self-absorbed and feeling lesser than everyone particularly) and perfectionism.

Last year, staring down from my "ivory towers", I realized that I have probably wasted 21 years of my life. I have no friends, I don't feel purposeful, everyone hates me, I hate myself, I have no religion, I have nothing to believe in, I am hopeless, I really can't account for the time I have spent on earth. I plunged into a well of severe depression this year, I couldn't continue developing my software engineering skills (despite the ASUU strike) and building my career due to an overwhelming feeling of depression-induced lethargy. Each day, it feels like I am wasting oxygen and being an unnecessary burden on my parents and family.

Now that school has resumed, I can't focus on my studies. I am on a ridiculously strong first class grade (>4. — for an idiot like me, and I feel I might just waste it at this final period, like I have done with my entire life. I really don't have anywhere to run to now, my whole world has collapsed. I know how selfish and stupid commiting suicide is, but I just feel it's high time I left the world to avoid wasting more time and resources.

Please forgive the long and unstructured post, I am sobbing as I write because I really need help!!! my demons are taking control of my mind and I am losing my grasp. I am not a bad person, I just want to live a simple, purposeful, and peaceful live. I will be 22 in April, Am I just wasting my time here, can I still re-start living from scratch at this old age?

You already said you are a first class product in view. And you are also still saying you feel you are wasting time on earth etc.

Can't you see it's just a mind game to make you feel depressed?

You've done very well for yourself. If no one says this, I'm telling you this. What you've achieved wasn't easy for others, that's something to be grateful for.

THE SOLUTION TO ALL THESE ISSUES IS GRATITUDE. START THANKING God everyday for life, for your first class, for your family, food you ate, that you are in good health, that you can breath with oxygen tanks etc.

Then it will dawn on you that you have so much to be thankful for.

THE FIRST ISSUE WITH PEOPLE FEELING SUICIDAL IS SELFISHNESS AND INGRATITUDE. THEY ARE THINKING ALWAYS OF THEMSELVES.
IM NOT THIS, IM NOT THAT.

CALM DOWN. GOD IS IN CONTROL AND HE WILL HELP YOU THROUGH. JUST ASK HIM FOR HELP.

PM ME IF YOU NEED TO TALK TO SOMEONE PRIVATELY. ITS WELL BRO

Humble432:
Thank you Sir.
I tried to pm you but couldn't. How else can I reach you.

You did. I saw your first mail and replied it. Just reply it again