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[quote author=oyinda. link=topic=279706.msg3979452#msg3979452 date=1244161563]surviving as usual and trying to keep myself entertained. u?
[/quote]I dey kampe, i just came back from FL Gators place, where I went to rock her world seriously,

@Gators dear are u feeling alright or do u still need panadol extra

oyinda how u dey jare

FL Gators:
How to get a naija man Like it's a process.
Very easy, my dear.

Poster, if you're jamaican and ghettoish, stalk C2H5OH and bawomolo, they love it that way.

If you're oreo black, try dayokanu and No2Atheism

If you're submissive, try all naija men

@poster please note

I am not searching

By the way I like them "light-skinned" like FL Gators 

@topic

Why not if not

Abeg it is very very possible to find one - infact i know one of them to be frank.


People seem to be assuming that everybody is promiscous. Not everybody is promiscous. Some girls and guys still do their best to preserve their virginity whether or not they are Born Again or not.

The reality however is that only about 50% - 60% would have really had sex before graduation.

Let's Stop the Generalisation People, its not worth it.

TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN
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Usher - Something Special


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TO WHOM IT MAY CONCERN
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Usher - I can't Win


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@poster

I would be frank with u, you do not need to flirt or pretend to be flirting/cheating in other to make her change.

If she is really into you and if she is matured enough she would understand that she needs to distance herself from guys or men that make you jealous. Most especially since one of the guys was once her crush or something.

One thing is obvious from your post and that is - you are jealous and you simply do not trust her.

I am sorry to inform you, but the truth is that a relationship without trust is inherently flawed and bound to be an unhappy relationship that gives neither of the parties the needed peace of mind.

Option 1:
Confront her to ask her what kind of future she wants with you.

Option 2:
Cut your losses and move on.

Option 3:
Are you both in it for sex or something much more serious than sex. If its sex, then u have nothing to complain about cus you got what you asked for. However if it is supposed to be more than sex, then let her know what/who she is about to lose as a result of her immaturity at realising that it takes two to tango and make a relationship work, hence she cannot continue to associate with those guys and still expect you not to be jealous.

Na wa o,  Whitelexi u are really to be feared by the ladies. If i were them i go pick race upon sighting you.

Anyway sha make i just keep my mouth shut  , this one that i have already been villified/insulted/told to mind my own business [/i]by some particular ladies or lady [i]because/even though/despite that i was supporting some other [b]ladies [/b]or [b]lady [/b]against you the other time.

I can no longer talk about this issue after now, because I have at least one personal friend who I know is innocent of your accusations and who's name I cannot mention due to friendship confidentiality issues.

Nevertheless, after all is said and done, Whitelexi wat u did is not good and dats my opinion to you as a man.

@whitelexi wetin u dey take my profile do,

there wuld not be episode 2,

@poster

1. Why are u so particular about getting a Nigerian Guy.

2. What do you mean by get i.e do u mean get as in sex or get as in marriage.

3. Are there no responsible black american men available.

@poster

In addition to what i said earlier,

Please consider that fact that:

1. if he loves you enough he would not want to hurt you.

2. if he loves you enough he would not choose to cheat on you.

3. The fact that he cheated on you before and has started to do it again, implies that there is something he wants which you cannot satisfy for him. Hence it means he simply does not love u enough to overlook those things. This is because love covereth all.

None of us is perfect however love helps us to overcome out imperfections as far as our relationships are concerned.

As a man, I am hereby advising you to:

Please dump him and move on with your life, you will always find someone better

@poster

Your posts shows that:

1. You fell in love with the wrong woman.

2. She does not love you, you are just a trophy stop gap boyfriend.

3. She does not understand the meaning of love and committment, hence don't waste your time with her.

4. Over the course of the 3 yrs relationship you have with her, did you sleep with her (if yes please go an test yourself for STDs and HIV).

5. You just got saved from a potentially loveless marriage.

6. Love is a two way street, hence that you love her is not enough to sustain such a relationship in marriage.

7. Infact the mere fact that she has already started to flirt and have extra-relationships affairs within your 3 yrs of being together shows that she cannot be trusted to be faithful in a marriage that is supposed to last a lifetime.

8. Have you been faithful to her over the course of your 3yr relationship.

9. Your decision to let her go is most probably the best decision you have come to make in your 3 year relationship.



TAKE HEART, MOST PEOPLE DO NOT REALISE WHAT THEY HAVE UNTIL THEY LOSE IT.

You are a man you have a very long shelf life, you do not need to rush into marriage, instead take your time to find the right woman that would love, respect and be faithful to you for who you are.   She as a woman is the one who needs to hurry up and make a right choice because of her ticking biological clock.

My experiences as a person tells me that there is always a better woman, for every woman one calls his partner. Hence don't be too down on yourself that you have been forced to make the decision to dump her.

YOU WILL COME TO REALISE THAT THE DECISION TO DUMP HER IS MOST PROBABLY ONE OF THE BEST DECISIONS YOU ARE GOING TO MAKE IN LIFE.


Stay focused.

Comforter - Asha & Jeremiah Gyang


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OgidiBoy:
My friend I don't think slim would ever interested with someone like you. [/b]No offence I know you a nice guy and all, but I know slim from the old school and I know she has more class you can ever imagine.

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1. I don't know what u think u heard  , but i think u have been mis-informed. Considering that any issue of interest or lack of it or any form of lovey-dovey thereof does not even factor into my equation as we speak. (hence any attempt to conjure up or insinuate any [b]phantom lovey-dovey spaghetti monster is bound to fail)

2. I am not a nice guy [/b]so I don't give a shit about Class, so sue me. By the way, your royal shakespearean dude highness (what the heck do u mean as class anyway can u please define  i wuld love to read ur thesis)

3. Yes I am single, nevertheless [b]I am not interested, I am not available, I am not ready and I am not willing to get lovey dovey with anybody "thoniaslim included". Those who know me personally outside of NL are a priviledged few, which i  technically  prefer to keep like that for now.

4. I rest my case and I expect "thonia's response ASAP" or else.

OgidiBoy:
@ no2Atheism

leave slim alone,haba na by force

Anyways what happened between the two of you, I'm hearing some stories from the grapevine.

1. Yes apology is by force, i deserve it cus she knows what she did.


2. Yes it is true, I impregnated her via the internet and then dumped her in Nigeria before she found her way to where she is now.

So that my friend is the reason for all the beef that is flying around like cold turkey.

Unfortunately, I am all for fair ladies, i have tried but i can't seem to be sincerely attracted to black ladies, i usually end up freaking out in the end.

Remii:
Ok, we are at the spectator's stand now,

thank you

ThoniaSlim:
I see your just what I would term as a drama king. . . . . .well to bad cus I don't waste too much of my time with such straight dudes. . .since its their nature. . . . . .to you know. . . . . .so am not gonna accord you that attention again. . .you wanna keep ranting away like the drama king you are. . .then be my guest! 

Am more than a drama King, how dare you reduce my title. I am more like a drama Emperor - suck on that.

On a more serious note you accusation against me on both occassions was not fair and u know that.

C2H5OH:
lol daaaaaamn no2atheism see wetin this woman dey carry you do .

shssh, I said everybody should leave the room, cus two adults are discussing.

ThoniaSlim:
No2Atheism

Does KL City sound like the capital of Indonesia or anywhere in Indonesia? I can see your even dumber than I thought? lol. . . I guess you whole years of studying or doing a so-called Doctorate degree didn't pay off at the end. . .    

I guess you whole years of studying or doing a so-called Doctorate degree didn't pay off at the end. . .    

Wat the heck, are u giving me double promotion or something. How the heck can i be doing a Doctorate degree, thonia dear i think u are confusing me with someone else.

Does KL City sound like the capital of Indonesia or anywhere in Indonesia?

Yes we both know what BP, Petronas and NNPC have in common.

I can see your even dumber than I thought? lol

1. Now you have 3 things to apologise for.
2. Don't worry i would send Starstruck after you for insulting her bobo like that

sistawoman:
You did the right thing baby.

Dont look back and keep moving forward.

He is one of those guys that likes to have more than one girl in the pocket so that years later when he is ready to settle down he can pick one and leave the other.  Trust me I have talked to a few of those men from here that really believe in double dating and I find it disgusting and disrespectful and selfish.

Dont ever get involved with someone that has gone out with one of your friends.  Dont mix love with friends it never really works out in the end.

@sistawoman you keep amazing me with you insights, you are one of the few ladies on this forumn that seems to be capable of thinking like a man.

Are u sure u are not a nigerian lady.

Your point kinda relates to my own personal view that for a man to be a in relationship, then it has to be that he's already made up his mind, otherwise its just a fling.
Hence a lady that considers herself to be in a relationship show make sure the guy does not have any back up plan otherwise such a relationship is not but a fling for the guy.
Thus i would also kindly advise the poster to move on and wait for another man that would actually mean it when he says he's in a relationship with her.

ThoniaSlim:
Indonesia?

We need to keep the location secret in case of your nairaland stalkers that might be listening in on this conversation.

ThoniaSlim:
Why you making a big deal outta of nothing? Like I said before if you think am gonna apologize. . .then I'm sorry you gonna have to be prepared to wait forever for it. . .cus U ain't getting no apologizes from me!

By the way before i proceed @everybody leave the room, cus Two adults need to discuss.

Dear its you that's making a big deal out of a mole hill.


If its for you - nope i can't wait forever.
If its for your apology - yes i can wait forever.

C2H5OH:
aw it's cute to see you two lovebirds are finally getting along.

@C2H5OH

Please please please am not available, I have already told you that or do you want [i]Starstruck [/i]to divorce me.

ThoniaSlim:
I won't f**king apologize for nothing. . .

Miss Indonesia ( ) , come now why are u using swear words.

Yes you would apologize for something

ibigod:
@ThoniaSlim
can we chat?
my id :ibigod@yahoo.com

@ibigod

Please give us a break, we are trying to have a little bit of adult discussion here. I would gladly leave you to go ahead to try your luck in trying to toast her via your YIM.

ThoniaSlim:
@No2Atheism

Am sorry to inform you. . .I ain't gonna apologize over nothing. . .Cus I don't owe you one and I got no issue with you!

Yes you do, infact twice - (d second one had to do with insinuating that i was trying to instigate sometin with respect to the recent debacle surrounding whitelexi)

I have just kept my distance in order to cool off (and not do or say something rash) cus that's the matured thing to do on my part.

ibigod:
@ThoniaSlim
can we chat?
my id :ibigod@yahoo.com

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C2H5OH:
  make una keep fighting for american baby, wen girls dey village dey find husband.    

Me fight, i no dey fight o, mine is simply that I show the lovey-dovey and kiss-kiss , blah blah blah