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She should simply open up to her husband, confess to him about the matter. Then they both handle the situation together.

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Firstly apply possible personal means, eg meeting her people, friends, family, Pastor or Imam, I am certain this wud yield results.

If after trying the above and nothing showed forth, you may report the matter to alternative constituted authorities such as Justice of peace, associations, elders or village head.

If you dislike this option you can go straight to reporting to the police.

"My husband just broke up with me because I am yet to conceive and he said he doesn't want IVF.
We have only be trying for a year plus."

-- No break up in marriage. Just have to keep trying and explore all medical means since he didn't go with IVF try others, meet a medical expert as regards that.

"This is someone I did a lot of things for and now he has abandoned me.I don't know how to face my family.I feel so ashamed and devastated."

-- Love is sacrificial, don't hold on to that, rather keep doing more to his amazement, infact do more now

"God has really forsaken me... cry cry"

-- Dts not true!!! He said those whose eye on mount Zion cannot be shaken, also said those who look up to him can never be put to shame, so brave up and keep holding unto him, he wud come to your aid.

"How do I start my life afresh because I am so confused."
-- You can't ma, u tied to him forever.

"It is not going to be easy for me"

-- God wud see you through be more prayerful ma

" because I have invested so much in this marriage.I have done so many things because of love.It is really hard for me"

-- Ma it isnt a business venture its love venture

".I am at the receiving end."
-- Could also av been the other way round, and him praying for you.

"Will I be able to pull through this?"
-- Yes, God helping.

God bless.

saydfact:
at the time of report Jude was out of town - but he doesn't want to marry her too.

Provided he is alive, his say can be extracted, very important, after all he isn't dumb.

" Forgive me for my long episode but I really need your help on how to punish him cos I went to his call log yesterday and saw the same girl that made me take the risk to leave with my children to another state calling him again and he is reciprocating the calls..his a very jealous person, he goes crazy when a male friend calls me..I want to make him pass through all the pains I have endured all these years.. What do I do pls? "

Not necessary, wud complicate matters and might break completely down the marriage, a wise woman build not breakdown her home.

That said, firstly I advice you go on your knees to God and then to him, even though u expecting the opposite, try it.

Do good to him even though he does bad, continue in this, you wud see results.

Don't kill urself on it, be calm, take time to build you home, make your kids happy, cook him great meals I mean d family o, but give him what he likes, that reminds me, ensure things are settled before giving resuming unprotected sex, since he has broken vow, ensure he s tested etc

Just continue normal living, work etc God wud come in, just keep praying...

What does Jude say? Let's start from there, afterwards may then try convince dad.

Pls is high time we stopped this, this is unethical, we ought not take justice to our hands, we might be wrongful in our judgement of the supposed culprit, remember the case of the kidnapped pharmacist that led to the arrest of Evans, peradventure he was linched to death wud God forgive us?

Let him be handed to the constuted investigative authorities-- d police, yes we can den follow up, d community as a whole, if u go and sleep, that may b giving the corrupt ones in police the opportunity to make money with the matter, thus justice denied.

Alcohol or drug isn't the main solution, my opinion. Drug can help but alcohol would do no help.

Try this, have a look at true Christianity, sure d entrance is simple, accept him in your heart, declared with your mouth his lordship over your life henceforth.

I tell you that would be all, and I mean all to your nightmare too, trust me. Cheers.

Don't forget HIV which may not b detected early.

Bro thank God.

But there is more to do to consolidate your "good" person and also ur "church goer", be deeply rooted in Christ, read up 2 Colossians, that way you would be far from troubles.

Finally, bad communications corrupt good manners, help your friends repent, u also, or do the needful, else u might have urself to blame next, God saved you for a reason.

Bro your reason to quit mastubation I doubt wud help, so also is ur unreadiness to quit premarital sex wud help.

Try to diagnosed properly and treat any infection diagnosed adequately.

Get married then satisfy urself therein.

If you need help in accomplishing a better living this way that is happy living, I urge u to accept the way that leads to life, the way of righteousness, Jesus.

I understand d dilemma bro, its not strange, don't ever think you d first infact millions are experiencing similarly all over the world even right as am saying this, so don't be alarmed.

Bro its a simple case, its a case of our multi-diversity and multicultural nation, sure you should expect this to possibly occur(don't make mistake of comparing this to someone in another country eg USA, UK or Australia, might not work its lot of different).

In d light of d above, ur case is simple, don't take it too killing lol, just ease her fears @Mum, this applies to u if u serious o- call her, guess u haven't even spoken to her self, lol our conservative nature though, call ur lady afterwards ask her to give her mum d fone, just try to reach her, that is if u can't get to her physically, all your aim is to ease her fears, get them from her and do justice to them, wish you all the best. Cheers.

lisbonabdulahi:
thanks, but the cost of that perseverance though

Actually, dt was a retype of the original message, it failed to deliver, was lazy to retype thus summarized that, was so excited you noted my humble advice thus wud unleash another remix.

Again, I really commend your perseverance and proper understanding of the concept of considerations (seeing ur considerations for ur kids, many won't this far).

I would like to ask you this(rhetoric), would you be very happy if she repent of her ways and be the your amazing wife?

Sure u would and would accept her back, implying the problem is her present behaviours, thus if she changes, you fine, thus the question of the real problem indentified.

Brother, you in a challenging time, its unfortunate but yes u are, its a problem just like an unfortunate ailment, it occurred, what to do now is seeking endless solutions options as you don't know what would yield the exact result you want just like one would do seeking cure for an ailments.

The underlying point is its a life time commitment, no way out. You are in it bro, and forever in the marriage. With this in mind you need to handle this as a man you are, from what I could gather from your wordings, you are a the real man, and be that man you are, saying this cos you would need courage to pass through this, less I forget, more perseverance(s).

So as I said, be less anxious and avoid being radical as some might have advise, a self-controlled person better and more noble and greater than a victorious warrior. Take things calm acknowledge u in a soup lol, but endure it bro, I mean till whenever, I pray and strongly believe won't be long, even God self, seeing this from you would help u out, that's depending on ur motives, but I understand u a sincere one, so he wud help u.

Before I suggest some helpful solutions trials, let me say this, if the situation was the other way round and you see her doing this for you, won't you be elated, I feel we men could b selfish lol, so that is it bro.

Try the following bro,

1. Give her space.
Pls do this, would help her think more, and retrospectively, don't bug her, engaging her in quarrels, pls don't, ensure after it all you look back and beat your chest with distinction.

2. Stop reporting her in ways that she sees as vindictive, judgemental and making her devilish.
Bro, that isn't true, I believe for you to have married her if she was as above, then lol u try. Remember u can explore !more respectful ways of reporting her, let's say her pastor, parent (not junior sisters o, but can be elder she regards, since u said she isn't in good times with them,u might have to suspend that), but try to, to someone mature or elderly she would highly regard.

3. Pray to God who instituted it, and said its a good thing.

4. Be very nice, cordial and thoughtful, you are a very intelligent person (pls don't ask me how I knew lol), and very important creative, get her unaware lol, she won't know how she fell into smiling then laughing, man man man, win her all over again, let her know you dt man that can win her heart anytime, any day and anyways lol.

5. Rebrand yourself.
Bro, if there is something u doing that makes her disrespect you, pls that needs to stop, example example o no be real o lol, let's say the guy is into immoral habits, eg porn, irresponsibilities, late nights, drunkenness, lies, etc this might make her feel she has nothing to lose from the guy aka no respect, so pls bro, I know u don't sound like one, just giving extreme examples yours can b little versions of the above but same family.

6. Bro take it from there.....

In my conclusion, bro you a man, be a man, be strong, calm and calculative, don't blame anything or anyone, also remember her background that might av affected her, I tell u u can change that, give the world a story, make an impact in your generation, let people also benefit from your feats lol not just enjoying and deriving courage from others own. In all be less anxious, have fun(no be wahala bringing type o) infact do that with your kids to avoid her thinking its with another, also that way it won't affect them too, before we begin addressing another in future, God forbid in Jesus name, I pray the Almighty God would see you through, Amen cheers bro.

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I commend your perseverance bro.
My advice is for you to stay put, marriage is an endless commitment, tus ur resolution moves wud b endless too.

While u seek out this ways avoid being distressed, its a trying time.

At the end she wud b back to you, and u wud have d best of her.

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babyfaceafrica:
who asked where you are from?.....must everything be tribal

Did he direct it to you? How was that a problem? He is proud of his origin, good for him...

Oyind18:
I no see reason why I go show them love.

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Why not 'dey ur lane' hypocrite and hater, hope u receive similar treatment on any special day of urs.

Wish the couple, happy marriage life ahead...

Most Nigerians to me are so bad mouthed, hiding in a corner, hidden in the cloak of social media and uttering warp statements from their perilous mind.

Beautiful couple, u look amazing, I admire ur both outlook, great corpers lol, hope u receive the nysc incentive.. Congrat

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Upon carrying her from right below her ass, no pound of flesh protruded. Pancake ass

I bet she's from Ibadan, see makeup

So its only big ass that defines beauty for you, how pathetic?

U need personal reorientation.

Angelstartups: The idea of first choice or second choice needs to be abolished.Candidates should be given the opportunity to select even upto 3 options per institution type,without depicting which is first choice,second or third choice.That way the institutions will receive scores of all the candidates that picked them and take it from there to select top candidates based on merit.
In developed climes,SAT or TOEFL or UCAS (UK) doesn't ask for first choice or second choice or third choice,they allow you select the schools that interest you.In fact,you can still forward your scores to other schools after the exams.Nigeria should take a cue from this and stop limiting Nigerians from been educated.

Awesome, dis fellow nairalander, said all dt ws on my mind, i think jamb is inconsiderate here, are d unis,polys and colleges complaining, i fink d problem wit most agencies in naija is dt, dey fink dier hatched policies for nigerians are automatically correct.

omosebi#1:
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Its a mata of preference, one may like dis, anoda d oda, bt2 say 1 is beta dan d oda is a fallacy.

omosebi#1:
what is d difference btw applied geology and geology, and also geophysics and applied geophysics ............thanks

I fink, d applied prefix, says it all.

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Well said, Mr Daniel, there is a limit to the use of distorted eng lang b it acting or playing.

Emenike.