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freeman67:
First of all, hope you are aware that Stanbic have changed the receiving accounts for their mutual funds? If you have been operating with them for upto a year, just check your email inbox for the message from them from December, 2020 to January, 2021.


If that is not your problem, then you have to check your means of funding again. What I do with them is fund transfer from my mobile app and it has been smooth.

I'm not aware.I tried doing a transfer from my GTB but was told my account number was incorrect
Noted bro... Thanks

I've been trying to fund my stanbic mutual fund account but couldn't. Anyone here know how to go about it

neyohh:
Not necessarily an alpha trait, could also be down to luck, cos I'm definitely no alpha by physical traits but extremely unmoved when it comes to female affair's, i act like i don't want them.

I've had two similar experiences with white ladies on a drunken night, wasn't paid though but they initiated it.

I had it with another white lady on her birthday, she sponsored the date and initiated the sex in her house, never saw any of them after.

One key area which nobody has really spoken about here is that the redpill is really about civilization.

Have you studied extreme redpill doctrine's?

I thought being alpha is a mindset but never knew it was a physical thing also. Please can you explain the bolded

Guys please anyone available for airport trip tomorrow 5am. Pick up is Lakeview Phase 1 (ICAN), Amuwo. Thanks

CaveAdullam:
DAY 67, REDPILL 2021

This is toxic masculinity according to feminism: highly confident, assertive, independent, strong, brave, don't give a f^ck attitude, bold, sexism, Machiavellianism.

What feminism preaches: confidence, assertiveness, independence, strong, boldness, don't give a f^ck attitude, bold, sexism, Machiavellianism .

It's toxic on the camp of masculinity but necessary on women's prescient.

If it's displayed by women, then, it's good and acceptable. But if it's demonstrated by men, then, it's poisonous and the government needs to prosecute such men.

Authority: Shun feminism!

Who still takes feminists and women at large seriously.

They are a bunch of confused creatures. Imagine them displaying their bodies all in the name of body positivity but when a guy displays an unclad women they all start crying foul

Let's just deal with their existence and be focused on our dreams

ihemyoro:
My brothers make una help ooo. I have nebosh igc, ispon 123, iso 9001, experience including offshores,etc. I need job ooo. Name your price please. May God bless you in advance for helping out.

Please can you send me a soft copy of your ISPON HSE 1,2,3 mterials

soulstar09:
I'd be quoting this statement because it's important for Everyman to understand it. I used to think my late dad was lackadaisical when I was a simp.

I've come to realize recently as a redpiller that our mother's manipulation made me thought that way.

He was a natural redpiller and I always thought he was a bad person prior to knowing redpill.

Now I'm learning the ways of a superior man on my own, big thanks to y'all. And its so obvious to the extent that my mother complained recently that I've changed.

She thought she raised dumb simp.

A father's role in a family can never be overemphasized. Unfortunately, our mothers make it seem like fatherhood is a stroll in the park by their innate manipulation instincts for survival. I wish the children (men mostly) can see the sacrifices the fathers make and appreciate them more

Good to know you can see the light now. Cheers

IronPants:
Seems you didn't get it. The father was never present in his life, in his home to start with.

So what is your point? That all fathers are irresponsible and therefore deserve little or no care from their children??

Well your story is just an outlier. We see many responsible fathers who provided for their families and were present in their childrens life everyday being neglected. most times, It is always about the mothers because the children are usually brainwashed and manipulated from a very young age by these moms. Not till i started having responsibilities as a man and became redpilled, i never appreciated my dad's efforts.

Junnior:
I agree with most of your points and disagree with a few. I know these from personal experience.

Number 1. only happens when you're addicted.

Number 2. is false. I could be a able to bed a goddess and still choose to self-service instead. mgtow.

Number 3. happens only if you're addicted. And it's not really your looks but your body build that will be affected.

Number 4 is true. When you eat and take in nutrients, your body uses the nutrients to build cells. Now, when you self-service often, the nutrients will go into reproducing sperm cells and leave little to nothing to produce white blood cells.

5. is a bit true.

6. This happens only when you're addicted.

7. This is true

8. Only if you're addicted

9. A bit true

10. Only if you're addicted

11. False

12. This is true

13. Okay

I'm interested in point 3. How does masturbation destroy your looks?

dru23:
You do well sir , I just remembered, when my Blue Honda civic was giving me several issues, some of those issues were fix and others couldn't be fix .. So I was told to take the car to a Honda specialist in Ladipo .. This Mechanic only deals with only Honda cars only nothing else .......

When I got there the place was full over full with people waiting for their cars to be fix .. I was there waiting with I beg and I beg to attend to me ..

After waiting for more than 3 hours. He was able to attend to me .. It took him less than 1 hour to fix the issue, it was a very simple and it cost me about 3k naira . Few weeks after that another issue arise with the car ,car was taken to the same mechanic.. He was busy he didnt have time to attend to my car .. My driver was there for a full day ,and we was told to come back the next again ..next day came and the same shit ..the guy no get time too many customers etc ...out of frustration of begging and out anger I sold the car .. I wish I didn't and just wait ,but I was so too upset ..looking back now I wish I didn't sell the car .. The car was sold less than 1 week I put it up for sale .......


My point here with hybrid cars that only few specialist mechanics that can attend to it . The hybrid owners will go through 100 times worse than I went through.. If the owners are willing to wait for hours to days to months before a hybrid specialist attends to them . Than good luck to them ..

Keep mind it is not good to be switching mechanics up and down with any cars ,talk less of cars like hybrid...


This is my last topic on the matter .. I owe nobody any apology.. Common logical reasoning sometimes is not common ........ No more talk on this matter again ....

Baba why are you contradicting yourself. First it was that there are no technicians for hybrid cars and now it is the stress and time to get the car fixed

See eh... there’s no cutting corners to excellence. Once you are good at what you do people will always find you. Even people with normal cars don’t mind waiting for long hours to have their cars fixed.

You can’t be wherever you are and dictate what happens here. There are lots of hybrid cars here with plenty technicians also. Stick to what you know

WittyLad:
Elon Musk's net worth surged to over $188 billion, one billion dollars more than Amazon founder Jeff Bezos's net worth of $187 billion, thanks to the continued rise in Tesla's stock price. ... Bezos had been the richest person since 2017. I'm not against anyone among the two Billionaires, but my point is:

If Jeff Bezos had not parted ways with $38Billion as a settlement to his divorced wife, the reversed would have been the case.
Women can bring anyone down, regardless of his position,wealth or power..
That said, it is very Vital to get full understanding of TRP and use it to one's advantage so as not to fall victims of these manipulating creatures..

Well said man. Not to forget the fact that Elon musk is as redpilled as fvck

dru23:

So you still got that picture

This is so petty and shallow to say the least. I hope you heal and grow up this year

LutanFyah:
I'm not trying to derail the thread, I'm only suggesting that in the spirit of the Redpill (which is about helping and developing men),I think we can show the unemployed ones among us openings and where to drop CVs, show them WhatsApp or Telegram group to join to learn coding, how to thread cryptocurrency, point them to agencies that can help them to learn crane operations, forklift maintenance, excavator operations etc.


But if wetin I talk no make sense, abeg no vex.

I support you man. This thread is all about self development as men.

We can also show guys how to become financially stable and not just being emotionally stable as always discussed

This we can do two days a week say mondays and thursdays to avoid derailment from the initial objectives of the thread

Modified: As regards the issue of Ex
There are some ex that you know won’t add anything tangible to your life, so it’s better to just ghost them and move on.
On the other hand there are some ex that even after breaking up helps you in your self development be it career wise, financially. All I can say is there’s no way I’m not grabbing such opportunity after all that’s what red pill preaches SELFISHNESS

luminouz:
That picture said everything.

Have you ever seen such number of females who seem to know one another,sitting together at a table, with a guy(just one bottled water at his front), ACTUALLY paying for their own food?

It's clear as day that he is the one paying bro

Apt

My anger is why simp for a bunch of ugly beeches

radautoworks:
I'm so glad someone who drives for a living said it. In Nigeria I enter "mad max" mentality each time I get in the car to drive

Which car do you drive here?

KingsleyBuubba:
NEW YORK DREAM

You are a real nigga

hstar:
Where my Papa no reach, I go reach and exceed


Where my Mama no reach, I go reach and exceed

(Good places though)

That's the translation
Thank you

Thanks.

Quite powerful and inspiring

osamz007:
Ibi ti daddy mi o de, ma de be ma tu kòja oh

Ibi ti mummy mi o de, ma de be ma tu kòja oh



THIS LINE TOUCHED ME FOR REAL

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TENI MORE HITS TO YOUR NAME

OMOLUABI

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holuwasheyiWGP:
You're welcome bro. I'd like you to tell few things no one told me when I started.
- It won't be easy but that's the point, it's meant to be hard. If it was easy everybody would be doing it.
- Depending on your body type, you might not see results as fast as you like(I'd advice you to look up the types of body)
- Stretch before and after working out.
- Start with the dumbbells, strengthen your arms first before proceeding to benching.
-Your diet grossly influences how fast you gain.
-Never ever ever neglect leg workouts; everyone hates it but it's very important.
-When you start benching, ensure you have a spotter always.
-Google body dysphoria
- If opportune, hit the gym morning and evening.
- Always rest in between programs and after working out
- Sleep
-Drink water
-Don't compare yourself with others but don't get complacent
- Before getting to the gym, have in mind the programs you want to do and the number of sets; don't stop until you complete them.
- Music is important
Lastly
ENJOY THE PROCESS

I appreciate this boss. Well done

holuwasheyiWGP:
Don't just hit the gym anyhow. You can start from doing press up in your room; 5 sets,10 reps each in the morning and at night

valid and noted. Thanks

ubunja:
start at the Gym. That's the first step. Although it's the hardest step for 99% of men.

I’m on that. What are the next steps

CaveAdullam:
Best book ever on self development, and contains appropriate knowledge on how you can finagle your way as an employee, employer or an entrepreneur. Everytime I see my mastery book I smile. It is the monk mode book according to oga @tellyoursonthis/Illimitablemen.com

After Mastery, nothing! No book comes close when it comes to the strategies highlighted in it.

Without much ado, how do you want to receive the soft copy? Witchcraft? Prayer? Teleporting? Gmail? Or........?

I'm done ranting. Lol!

PS: send a mail to watchmanjesse5002@gmail.com

Thanks

ubunja:
to avoid a situation where you have girls that love you but are too low quality for you to like. You improve yourself you improve the class of girls who naturally fall for you.

How exactly can guys improve themselves?

Useless good for nothing hoes

Be wasting oxygen. Bunch of brainless things

A hoe will always belong to the streets. No point trying to change a hoe coz their razz and crass attitude will always remain in them

Moneysoldier007:
I centre my life in this manner
God,
Money,
Women.

God first because on a personal level I always feel I am not alone. I have come to learn to follow my instinct in everything I do cos I have noticed when I go against it, it turns out badly for me, this has built me over time to have a very strong instinct, let me put it, I allow that presence that makes me not feel alone lead me. I have been told by close friends I have a strong instinct. So when I say God, I don't mean the religious God, I mean The God!.


Money: It is next cos in my journey through life, people respect or value you based on how much you spend on yourself(achieve) and not how much you spend on a woman. Call me stingy I give zero fucqks, I rather spoil myself and go broke than spend on a woman and go broke and the reason is as a man when you are down but look around and see tones of things you spent money on and still enjoying them, it gives you a scintillating feeling, but for a woman, go broke and watch her leave you that's when you will realize you've been throwing money in a drainage all along, it's worse when you spent even longer time doing it.

Women: Now for young niggas always shouting relationship, relationship, NIGGAS relationship is a drag back for you yet to achieve anything, you are still eating free food, still saying Mommy thank you, maybe that's why, be a man first then you will know

"You can't find what you are not looking for",

We did that in our Uni days. We go dey School dey form serious relationship, our babe go travel go another state or enter town go konje Big boys wey don already dey soft.

Now I find it very funny when a chick comes for a weekend or a chill and her boyfriend is killing her with calls, that's when you'll know this bitches ain't shit. I slap ass and treat you like that bitch that you are expecting them to take it in a negative way and you are shocked they like it. So please what's the point of a "SERIOUS RELATIONSHIP" when we had sex without us dating, so why should we start dating after having sex?.

Ever noticed the longer you are around a woman the more you spend?, the longer the relationship the longer the manipulations and the more you are being manipulated to invest, both emotionally and financially.

Love does not exist, its just steady youthful puxxxy, vulnerability and too much fondness of her that was fucking with your mind the whole dammmmnnnnnnn time.

How do I get manipulated when I am not even giving you the chance to?

How do you summon the courage to bill me when I owe you nothing?

Well na Niggas wey put women on pedestal, carry relationship for head dey blow bar ontop woman anyhow na em dey fear heartbreak, wetin concern let me see what I can do.

Keep hunting for value, women will come easy, the more the value, the better the women.

For those who value relationships, please make sure she's investing heavily and I mean emotionally and financially, if not na TEARS GO END AM.

This is just me... just that after God & money comes family

Women and relationships ain’t shit I tell guys always. Why buy the cow that comes with baggage when you can get the milk free?

Constantly improving and adding value to self is the best thing one can do as a guy and you must become selfish with your time, attention, energy, resources toward your improvements

Dare to be different!

ElasmoBranchii:
I believe pansophist has done justice to your question. Ignoring is a good way to pass shit tests but sometimes ignoring is not always the best option.

Shit test are simply test for dominance. For example, you might be playing with a child and that child playfully slaps you. That is a shit test how well you react to that situation determines how dominant you are. Will you ignore the slap?

There are many ways women shit test men.
A friend of mine requested my help in loosing her hair. My reply was a simple agree and pressure flip. "I will help you but you will pay me" and she went quiet.

Women shit test all the time but as you keep failing, it becomes more frequent, intricate and psychotic. It might get as severe as assault.

Another important thing is don't try to justify yourself. In other words always resist the urge to shalaye. Avoid answering honestly why-questions.

Illimitable men have a nicely written article on the topic, I believe you will find it insightful.

https://illimitablemen.com/2014/12/14/the-shit-test-encyclopedia/

Great insights man. Noted

True @the emboldened

pansophist:
Oneitis test- Abruptly disengaged from communications and assumed disinterest, to see if he'll chase her, apologise, or act in anyway needy, to determine if he suffers from oneitis. If you persist in your chase for whatever reason, you fail.

Preselection test- Asking you how many women you've slept with, when last you did it, and similar questions to determine if other women finds you attractive to be with. Best response is "no response", but to just play around without giving any definitive answer.

Esteem test- Playfully insulting you to see if you'll accept it. Best way is not to accept it. Tell her you do not find that respectable and that it speaks low of her.

Insecurity test - showing you messages of other guys chasing her to see if you'll act insecure and/or protective. Best answer is to make it clear by your actions (non verbally) that she is free to leave, and that she is replaceable.

This is what I can remember for now.

As a generally rule, a shit test are actions/questions that has ulterior motives, implies presuppositions, aimed at revealing facts that solidifies your frame, or weakens it. Its a search for your weak spot and often unconscious. Women don't even know when they do it. As a rule, the best answer is no answer. You can only loose if you play. So don't play.

You came through as always with concise points

I appreciate your input and Well noted

baiaon:
I don't remember where on this thread it was discussed but from my very little understanding of the concept,a shit test is carried out by a woman either through her words or actions directed at a man/men to discover if he is either unflappable or excitable.In summary,to find out if a man is strong and confident in himself or if he is a grovelling,weakling.
From my experiences,when a woman constantly directs shit tests at a man/men and he/they continuously fail it,she ends up resenting him/them because they come across as weak and nothing disgusts a woman more than a weak man.For example;there are usually posts by ladies on nairaland threads like this-
"All Nigerian men are women beaters and r@pists.Look at their mango heads.Broke weaklings.Mschew"
As an old head in the game I know that is a shit test and I ignore it but many male readers have no idea.So they respond to the post like so-
"Dear,please not all Nigerian men are r@pists.I am not and my father and brothers are not like that either.Please have a change of heart"
*Shit Test Failed*
Another massive shit test was feminism which western women directed at western men and which western men failed woefully and the no romance without finance mantra by Nigerian women directed at Nigerian men which we failed pathetically.There are other examples but let me stop here for now

Thanks bro for your input. This topic is clear now

CaveAdullam:
Children shit test men.
Women shit test men.
Men shit test men.

No matter her real and high value you are, you will be tested. No matter how valuable you're you will be tested. God was shit tested by the devil; Adam by Eve; Elon musk by his wife; Will Smith by his wife, Jeff Bezos by his wife etc. These men are high value men, but because they lack an understanding of the female nature they were drawn into the simp zone.

Saying a real man cannot be shit tested, is a rationalization to cover his conflict avoidance syndrome. It is imbibed in women to shit tests the partner they submit to, this is to determine if he's still in frame and virility. And they will do this both consciously and unconsciously; directly and indirectly.

Women are conflict avoidant, they're always in watch, monitoring negative situations, and devising various media to overcome should in case they become overwhelmed by any. And since women are conflict avoidant; they will hanger to men who are able to smother the storm.

Though, first frame matters as it will titrate the amount of shit tests a man faces, but of itself will not be sufficient if it is neither maintained nor amplified. Yeah, high value men might receive "few" shit tests, but this doesn't make them invisible to shit tests overall.

Masculine men are capable of passing shit tests, so they should see it as an adversity that helps them determine the strength of their frame, and also elevates it alongside. Shit tests makes you see the practicability of your redpill knowledge, and to sum it up: passing shit tests is always fun.

Authority: shit tests though adverse in itself is necessary for maintaining form and dominance. Pass shit tests.

Kindly elaborate the different ways women shit test men

Thanks
Cc pansophist