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newbride: Please i beg you think of the child in her as yours. Even if you want to throw her out please give her where to rest her head till and after the child is born. please for the childs sake help her and let her be comfortable and if after a year or 2 you still can't get over it then let her leave

No one is prone to such mistakes in this life. Life is too short. Yes she made a mistake. Let he who has never cheated on her partner on this site cast the first stone at her and lets see how many people will be left.


Everyone has skeleton in their closet. Please forgive her i wont say forget yet cos it will take time but yuo'll defintely forget soon. Plus you don't knwo what this child might become in future

Its hard I know, but I support newbride advice. Shits happen in this life. Am sure you are not the 1st. I have put myself in your shoes, if i trully love her and she is trully sorry, I will forgive her, take the child as mine.

But if you cant live with it. Take care of her till she put to bed, for the innocent child sake and for the sake of the love u used to have for her. After she put to bed, you can go your separate ways. But Please handle it all QUIETLY.

funny, but not funny.

If you belive there is a God, you must also believe there is a Devil.

If you believe there is a Devil, it means there is evil and if there is evil, then there are evil charms (call it juju or any other name, they exist)

I agree some of these charms(juju) are fake but belive me there are original ones

Also there is this fact: If you believe in God to protect you, then charms(juju) might not work against you. (Because u are protected by higher Spiritual Being). I know there is juju, but it will not affect me because I am protected by God.

No way.

Emi o ni fi owo osi juwe ile baba mi.

hope Soludo wins, if not want Ngige to win. Think Obi is slow.

Will the embago campaign from Yar'adua make any difference?

welcome!

I might not be pushy on the 1st visit, except I read the sign 'come get me'. but from the 2nd visit i will have a very high expectation for it. except if we are just into some cordial friendship thing.

The man is stupid. I know is not new. but will advice both the mother and the child to leave the man with immediate effect. Just that abortion is wrong and sinful, will have advice them both to get rid of the pregnancies

Age is only a number. My friend's wife is more than a year older him, believe me, they are wonderful couple.

It depends on her; If she will respect me as her husband and if she possesses all the other good qualities a man want for a wife, I will marry her. (especially if she doesnt looks it)

these thiefs are just too desperate they will not repent.

Fhemmmy:
i feel u, but a giant living like an ant is a useless giant

Yah, on that I agree with you.

Afam:
Claims? I have witnessed people being shot at close range (less than a meter) severally without the bullet penetrating. Is this a newspaper publication?

It is sad how people twist information to justify a position.

The bible records that Jesus raised Lazarus from the dead after 3 days. Does this obey or disobey the physical laws you seem to respect 100% of the time?

Jonah was reported to have been swallowed by a fish only to be delivered where God wanted him to go. Is this a violation of the physical laws?

Sarah gave birth to a child after menopause. Does this obey the physical laws?

No one is asking you to practice juju. But denying its existence simply based on the fact that you have not witnessed it is unfortunate.

What would you do if you see someone being shot several times and nothing happens? Believe in juju or explain it away as another flavor of the spiritual laws?

Thank you afam.

You cannot explain spiritual with the physical law. I dont know which part of the world RichyBlack lives, but am sure he has not lived part of his adult life in africa.

@ poster
I dont know about the 20% and 80% statistics.

But i agrre with all your five reasons.

One of my friends has the sixth one. "Asawo no need toasting or long love story, na only "how much?" and 2 min after you are on the go ( i laugh tire)

iice:
[color=#9900ff]I'm there. That's enough for him [/color]

Not enough. do what the poster says. Na woman like you.

sweetpie23:
ok I have done many insane things in the name of love but the one I remember most was doing his birthday you wouldn't believe what I did
I went totally naked in front him and both of us agree to not have sex till we married, poor guy I really do not know what I was thinking but I couldn't think of any birthday present, we didn't have sex but I will never forget what he told me

Whao!. Sorry if i may ask. what did he tell you?

ifiyoma:
@ poster

i heard about that but not sure how true it is though
anyway in my area its forbidden

but who knows

You are also not far from becomming one soon.

lovemoi2:
@ galatico
no offense meant but are you gay? u said u detest seeing a girl naked

Galatico said guys not girls. so he is not gay


Not every girl has form of lesbianism in her. But I think you do, wont be suprised if you become one soon.

Fhemmmy:
Common guys, inasmuch as he ought to be aware of his loans and all that, a man of his caliber can easily not be aware of such, cos he ought to have people capable of handling his biz and his affairs, that will brief him to be able to make the best decision, he need to fire his reps and pay more attention to his affairs

We are talking about 100m. Not aware? Guess someone took the loan on his behalf then?

Fhemmmy:
if you want to name a giant just based on their population, then, how come India is still as terrible as some 3rd world nations?
Nigeria is no giant at all, and if ghana has the kinda money that Nigeria and South African has, it is a matter of time before they tell Nigeria when to shut up.

I think it’s a matter of definition. If you say economic or politial giant, then I will say Nigeria is not. But where population and natural resources are concerned in Africa, Nigeria is an overwhelming giant.

@ RichyBlack.

Its ok that Mr. whitehouse did it and nothing happened. That has not made juju a fraud. (if there is a fake, it only proofs that threre ia an original). Its also like saying there is no devil. If you truly believe that juju is a fraud go to all those wiches/herbalist infested villages in Nigeria and tell them juju is fake.

Dont Get me wrong, I am a practising Christian, but i know there is a Devil and there are juju. I have seen enough of evil done to man to know that there are Devils, Evil spirits, evil men/women, charms (juju). Even Chinese and Indians know this very well.

"Omode o mo ogun o npe ni efo." "Ti omode ba de ibi eru, aru a ba" anyone can help me translate.

I dont believe it. For the simple fact that none of the aspirants (bloody Nigerian politicians) in the Nigeria setting I know would have rejected N35m offer. So Soludo never gave it.

forget!

I wonder how many other people's debts he has not remembered to settle.

Can someone help me remind him that he is owing me millions of naira. my share of the PTDF funds.

There is nobody in the doubt that south africa economy is the best in Africa right now. But what make a nation a giant is not just her economy, Nigeria is a giant because of her potentials. Human, material and natural resources. Its just that Nigeria is a sleeping or should i say a sick giant.

1 out of every 4 african is a nigerian. if Nigeria should fall today, which african country can trully rescue nigeria (accomodate, provide aid, or enough military assistance)? None. not even 5 of south africa.

gadogado:
cheif emeka, a few points of correction for you
1) IBB is not a monogamist, the daughter in question (after her marrigage with abacha's nephew fell apart) married the zamfara state governor and she's the third or fourth wife.
2) i have never seen a hausa or fulani christian, they just dont exist and im from the north, your cousin married someone from a small tribe in the north, there are many of them there and they are treated as 2nd class citizens like katafs from southern kaduna,they speak hausa with funny accents and have their own languages. hausas are about 98% muslim

3) you can tell when a group has feelings of racial superiority by how protective they are of their women.case in point.african american men couldnt even look at white women in the 40's and 50's otherwise they'd hang them but whites had regular sex with black female slaves freely and even after slavery. example.emmett till

Lets just say I agree with your 3rd point for comments sake; now, white girsl just cant have enough of blackmen di-cks, it therefore means a time is comming when hausa girls pu-ssy will be cheap and easy all over the south of Nigeria. Not that it is not available or cheap now, it's just not open yet. I did my NYSC in Sokoto, and I cannot count how many fully blown hausa/fulani girls my guys fu-cked, especially the very young ones that threw away thier virginity at us just like that. So get the superiority complex out of ya head.

tpia: some people (they know themselves) have already started carrying gong and megaphone in annoyance. That upon all their efforts to destroy Nigeria via Nairaland, this kind ranking still dey.

So kindly check this site for a different set of statistics. NL is number 395.


http://www.big-boards.com/

It depends on the criterium you are using. still on the same site(http://www.big-boards.com/) if you sort by membership nairaland is 121

ok o. I don hear. congrat.