BetaThings: Certain Shia practices will ALWAYS annoy Sunnis If they will stop holding events to slander the wives of the prophet (PBOH) If they will stop cursing the companions of the Prophet (PBOH) There will be less friction
Note that Iran was a sunni country - it was converted by massacre, intimidation and torture into a shia country by the safavid regime Today you cannot build a sunni mosque in Tehran (the capital) Sunnis cannot pray eid in the same Tehran
Let me ask you this: if some "Christian group" regularly held processions to curse Peter, Mathew, John etc would you as a Christian love them?
In closing, look at this video of the duplicitous ways of the Shia
Now i know your grievancies,and this is the way most sunnis(if not all)sees this zaria massacre and i have been vindicated.To your question,religious tolerance is an edge we christians have over you muslims(most especially Northern muslims),we have different christian faiths,for instance,Catholic church believe in seven sacraments while Anglican believe in two sacraments,different doctrines for different penticostal churches,have you heard us killing each other because of that.We don't fight for God because we believe that our God is more than able to fight for himself and that every man will give account of his stewardship here on earth on the last day.I think the earlier the muslims(more especially the Northern muslims)learn how to tolerate other faiths,the better for us all because it is not possible for us all to believe in one thing even prophet Muhammed(SAW)lived with the christian,persias,pegans etc.
This our pz??,during the comfrontation with the millitary or before?.Before,not true but during or after,it might be possible because they feel agrieved.Note i am not holding brief for the shiites nor exonerating them but what i am against is the extra judicial killings.
shidof: ua still asking, tot dt u said dt ua living in d same area with El-zakzaky. Ask d people abt what transpired btw d shittes and ramalan yero. Gudnit
I don't need to ask because i witnessed it,they have their fault but my point is that,that their fault is not enough for the masacre,i also feared about the likely consiquencies because boko haram started this way.El-zakzaky might have his grievancies for the governmet but they don't harrass people of Zaria.Sunni muslims hate them a lot and they can't please them and i don't think i will change your perseption about them because a typical Hausa Muslim(which i believe you are)doesn't respect your religion once it is contrary to his.
shidof: what abt blocking a major road, prohibit people frm entering a particular area with a ride except dere leader alone. Are dose ones part of dere peaceful manners to you?
Which public area did they prohibits people from accessing?
ALISMILE: Yea! But Yar Adua was sincere in his effort to suppress them! But my broda GEJ saw an opportunity to take advantage of their senseless slaughter!
Are you sure GEJ is your brother,all i see in your comment is sentiment so,the extra judicial killing of Yusuf in police custody was in order,the North not speaking up at the early stage of boko haram when they (boko haram) were killing the christian and bombing churches every Sunday,they(the North) forgets that when there is no christian to kill and no church to bomb that they(boko haram)will come for them(the North)was in order.I renembered vividly how Abdul my neighbour celebrated the Wusasa bomb blast(because church was bombed and christians died).Buhari saying that an attack on boko haram is an attack on the North,was also in order.The Borno elders accusing GEJ of genocide because he is fighting boko haram was in order,the scam called chibok girls was in order.Would your view about the massacre of shiites be the same if GEJ were to be in power(despite your hatered for them).You calling GEJ your friend gave you away as a hypocrite and all i can say is that you need to go and get a life.Quote me again and receive spiritual slap from Amadioha.
shidof: u simply said ol dis because ua igbo ( anti-buhari) . I spent 4 yrs in Zaria also and i can tell u dt shittes are not wat u claimed dey are
I have problem with your type because you can't sustain an arguement,i argue to learn because of that,i back my arguement up with facts,do you have any?.
ALISMILE: That is not gonna happen! Jjus take what am about to tell u! BH was deliberately allowed to fester by a highly corrupt and clueless govt! That govt deliberately starved its army of vital weaponry and other resources needed to extinguish BH! That govt became serious only 3 weeks to election but then it was late! The moral of d soldiers were low and too much damage had already been done by BH! However, now its a completely different ball game entirely bocs we now ve a govt that ll not for any reason sabotage its own war efforts and money meant for d purchase of weapons will nolonger be diverted and shared! BH will soon be history in Nigeria!
I hope so,but for the sake of history,boko haram started in 2009
ALISMILE: A wailer can never ever change! A wailer is alws a wailer! What about d video we saw in which top military offc were pleadin wit them to allow them passage! Know when not to wail!
Is there no tear gas,is there no rubber bullet since what you are asking for is access to road.How i wish you still remember the genesis of boko haram.I am not wailling but saying the gospel truth,i am from the east a christian but i pray that they will not toe the path of boko haram but if they do,it is only then we will know who is a wailer because they must have decimated you before coming for me in the far East.
andyanders: They should tell Falana who is defending them and calling on The Federal government to bring the officer to book for his action.
People should realize that there is a government and no single individual or group should hold the country to ransom.
Shitti or whatever they call them should not confront any security agents on official duty.
Falana should listen to people who live in Kaduna what they are passing through on the activities of this man, while he is in the comfort of his office in GRA asking the Federal government to bring the officers to booking thereby inciting the group to stand for their right.
You are a liar and a hypocrites that allow his hatered for the shiites to cloud your sense of reasoning.Which part of Kaduna are you to start with?.The problem i have with Nigeria as a country is that we never learn from history,when the Yussufyya(which is boko haram now)refused to wear helmet in 2009 and the police clamped down on them killing even the cripple amongst them,Yusuf was murdered in detention to prevent him from talking was there no government in place.Have we not spent billions of dollars and still spending and calling on the international community to come to our aid.That is my fear with this shiite problem.They tried to assasinate COAS by blocking the road,is there no tear gas or rubber bullet??,why did the on slaught lasted over four days,was the COAS in zaria for these days.
vanunu: If the shiites are bad as u people claim, how many people have they killed in their over 30yrs of existence. Do u know that in nonprimitive societies , if you kill over 300 animals, animal right groups must make sure that u end up in jail.
My observation during my short stay in nigeria is that nigerians especially those from the north, don't value human live at all , the believe in brutalizing the weak in their community.
Bro it is more than a thosand that lost their lives,i was on ground,the millitary didn't allow human righ access to Gyallesu,they(millitary)carried the bodies once they kill them.On sunday when they made an announcement that we should leave bodies littered streets from Turaki road to Benadine store not to talk of those that are the El-zakzaky's house.
adioolayi: "We no longer report Shiites to the police because they will never honour police or security invitation.“These Shiites are authority unto themselves; they don’t respect authority, security and so on. We are Muslims but we discovered that Shiites activities are contrary to Islam. They carry dangerous weapons openly molesting innocent people in our areas. "
I've been thinking seriously on this issue...truth be told, if the Shiites are actually law abiding citizens as people claimed, the normalcy at the Northern part of the country would have been seriously jeopardized....series of violent protests would have been going on till now. But, the case is different as the immediate community hosting the Shiites is claiming peaceful atmosphere since the Army intervention..In all, peace of Nigeria is all we want
You are wrong bro,sunni muslims(which is the majority)hate shiites with passion because of the way they(shiites)practice the religion.Shiites are more peaceful(to me) than the sunni,i was in Gyallesu zaria in 2011 as a studeny when we had post election violence,the shiites were going about with their ambulance picking the injured and taking them to hospital.I know of an Igbo man that stays at Rimi Tsiwa estate that was pursued to a shiite's house and he(shiite man)saved his life,a lots of christians ran to El-zakzaky's house and were fed and protected.I personally stayed in my house while others were running to the barracks because they did not allow the bad guys(mainly sunni muslims)access to Gyallesu.They can deal with you if you insult their religion or El-zakzaky which is normal to me because all of us are guilty of it.
odeh1: I want to thank God for delivered us from those people, I leave in zaria, we close shops for whole day BC of those tout, I know last month we all close our shop BC of them, now we are free, $thefallofmightyzakzaky#
You are saying this because of the hatred you(sunni muslims)have for shiite,You are lying,i spent 6 years at Turaki road,Gyallesu(the same street that houses El-zakzaky's boys(you should have known the place if your claim of being a zaria base is true),they never harrassed me or i heard someone complain of harrassment from them.In fact,they saved a lots of lives during the 2011 post election crises,i didn't run to barrack like others because they did not allow those miscreants access to Gyallesu,mind you i am an Igbo(christian).All the things said here by this group even the elders are all lies,which business are they talking about,zaria commercial activities is driven by students,once schools are in session there is business in zaria not El-zakzaky.
Ogatitus: I have read through your writeup severally and I am a bit disappointed with you.
The whole turn of events is really painful, but as a doctor you need to be careful cos if anyone decides to take this to litigation, trust me you will be the first to go down.
You obviously just lost your first patients and the bitter truth is that you may likely lose more even under worse scenario. Your duty as a doctor is to do your utmost best and move on.
Coming online to display your emotional fragility and indict your superior is ethically wrong.
cosmatika: Tears run down my cheek as I type this. I went into d medical profession to Save lives, but today I watched a patient die and I could do nothing. It was around 11am today, 26th Dec 2015, I wz in the emergency room as the only Dr & House officer on call in a state Specialist hospital wen a peugeot wagon followed by a police van drove in. They opened d doors & trunk and started bringing out Accident victims. I did a quick triage & saw dat d 2 in d trunk were in a more critical condition, So d immediate plan was to refer d 2 to FMC wia dey hav better hands and equipment to handle it. So I asked d policeman who d driver is so dat d 2 will be rushed to FMC & he said he died at d Accident scene. I ran outside to buy airtime to start calling other HOs, b4 I could return, dey had dropped d 2 & drove off. I called other HOs, only 2 showed up, others had travelled. To my greatest suprise, I called a medical officer who is a snr colleague in d proffession, she said I shud nt touch anyone till dey paid. That I shud Infact refer all of dem. I was incapacitated, d patients were in pains, crying, calling on us to help, some already unconscious, but we couldnt help cos we have an order frm above. Within 5mins, 1 young lady in her early 20s died. Abt 10mins later, another police van came and carried d remaining 7 to FMC. This evening, some road safety corps came to inquire if any Accident victims were brought to our center. They had retrieved d manifest frm d vehicle and contacted d families of d passengers. Dey came wit d relations of one of d patients, and wen I told dem 1 of dem died, dey asked for d Description of d 1 dat died and I showed dem d pix of d gal dat died, behold she was d 1 dey were looking for and right there was the gal's fiancee. Their traditional wedding was to be in 3days tym I want to use this medium to call on the govt to make policies dat"ll enable Drs treat patients in such condition. Let's Save the human race
It is a pity an i feel your pain bro but i think you will achieve little or nothing here,why don't you put these down on a paper and address it to the appropriate authority.Ministry of health(state and federal),the national assembly.It is wickedness from your superior and against the oath she took,how can an accident victim or an uncontious man make deposite before getting medical help??.Bro,you have a good cause to fight and i believe you will win.That your superior needs to pay for her crime or you can furnishe me with the details at Obynolee@gmail.com let me take it up from there.Thank you.
aly123: Hello Nlanders,i need your advice as am in a confused state of mind. I have a guy who loves me so much that I wonder if I could ever get such love from anybody else again and I also love him as well but the issue I have with this guy is that I am an introvert and he is also one. Prior to meeting him,i had always wanted a guy that is outspoken, bold nd courageous but on the contrary, my guy is a very shy person (more than I am), not bold, cant face a crowd which I also can't do which makes me wonder what happens if either of us is to do something of such in future amongst other things. Please I would like to know if introvert/introvert relationships work. Please matured minds or married ones here who has been in this situation should let me know how they dealt with it. Cc : lalasticlala
Being shy doesn't neccesarily mean being introverted,you guys need to work on yourself to boost self cofidence.I am an introvert but not shy and i married introvert and we are happy.I never wanted a talkertive because it makes me real uncomfortable.So,the marriage can work.
samocholi: Greetings to u all,please I need a candid advise because am fed up and confused at same time.It all started in 2011 when I met my wife through my collegue in the bank. I used to work in operations and hardly have time to truly search for a wife that is what I thought back then.so I had this collegue of mind who appears responsible and is also a church worker in a responsible church,not all these money making churchs.so I confided in him , so one day he came to me that he has this lady where he normally goes to worship atimes that he will take me to meet her ,that she is God fearing ,a church worker and her father is a pastor in one of the northern states,which he did and introduced us and gradually we started dating,
I even took her to see my parent.to their amazement she woke up around 4am and swept and cleaned the house before we could even wake up for morning prayers.when my Dad saw this he was really please and was like this truly is wife material.but my Mum was like don’t conclude oh as per girls of nowadays that we should keep praying.at first I wanted us to do our traditional marriage in April 2012 and after that white wedding but she started indirectly pressuring me that we should do trad in August and white in November,2011.i thot about it,and with my naïve mind said to myself that since she seems nice and am ready to marry.
I agreed and we got married in 2011.we did both court and church marriage.immediatly we came back from honey moon my life has been one hell of a life or another.it began when my former collegue in the bank sent her sister to bring her cv to me incase we are recruiting so that I can submit for her.so the lady called later to thank me for the assistance and my wife was with me in the sitting room.it was around 7-8pm.after the call my wife started quarreling,that who is that lady calling me that am cheating on her,she went inside the room and brought out our wedding cert.that she will tear it and that we should go our separate ways.i became shocked ,I then told her that she can take the lady’s number or I can call the lady in her presence.that I don’t even know the lady. I did not even have the lady number in my phone,the lady collected my number to follow up and that is all.
I left her with my phones and entered the room.this was happening barely a month and a half after our wedding.as the days go by she started bringing different quarrels and problem.after like a year two month into the marriage,one faithful Friday night after I came back from work and I was fast asleep she woke me up around 11pm that we should talk.and I told her that if we can leave it till morning knowing fully well that the next day was satuday unless if the matter is btw life and death then I can wait.she said it is not btw life and death and was insisting that we talk before I knew it she brought out a knife and wanted to stab me so I manage to collect the knife and threw it into the wordrobe.
By then the sleep in my eyes cleared immediately and I was like what is the matter what is wrong or what wrong have I done to her,my people up till tofday she has not given me an answer.so she stood there speechless so I assume all is well then as I was going tom bed she took one of her high heel and struck me behind my head I fell down and went blank.after a while I woke up and saw her looking at me.so I got up and entered my car with blood all over me to her uncle’s house and showed them and told them what happened.before I continue we live in Abj,so the uncle called her parent and her mum came to Abj the next day.before then I had written and taken my divorce letter to the pastor that am not doing again.
After that the pastor and her people intervened and talked to her. I went to that my colleague that introduced her to me that what does he know about her that I may not know so he said she told him in confidence that she was in cult in the university and that her boyfriend then was the capon.she also told him that the boy friend was shot in school then and died in her arms.when I confronted her she down played everything and wanted to pick a quarrel,so that one died down.
Before I continue,am a banker ,and my wife has a boutique that she sells men wears in Abj. She hardly laughs but b4 we got married she was always laughing.i havs severally asked her what the matter is but she will say it is nothing. Before now I did not know that my wife is a runs girl,after our baby’s birth in Dec 2012 my wife went and did family planning without my consent,it was in the evening when the stuf started disturbing her that I got to know. In August last year that is 2014,I was watching news when she came back by 9:30pm,she started making it a habit of coming late in 2014 and that has caused serious quarrel btw us. So when she came in she droped her phone on the center table and went inside to take her shower.as I was watching the television I now said let me go through her gallery because she likes taking pictures.after that I now checked her messages.i was shocked what I saw.
She sent a text to a married man,saying that she cursed him with the sperm he pured inside her and the man said it was mutual that she is the one came to his house to collect money for the shoes and shirts he bought,he also said he will curse her with his children’s life that she is not the only one that has a child and insisted that it was mutual.at that point my hands started shaking and before I know I she jumped out of the bathroom with soap on her body to take her phone.immediatly she came to the sitting room and saw me with her phone she frozed for like 15seconds not knowing what to say after that I asked her who is the man and she said that I was one of her friends from owerri that used her phone to chat the man.
when I checked the chat history it was not just one day chat it spans four days becos the chat was very lengthy. So I was pissed off, I reported the issue to the pastor where we got married and he down play it that she cannot do such a thing.. My wife has quarreled with all my neighbours in my compound of 8 flat,she has also quarreled with our security guards at the gate to the extent that they have refused to wash her car.On 25 of dec 2014 after returning from the church my wife spreed her cloth under the sun and my neighbour’s puppy came and played with the cloth and tore part of it.the next day she went to tell then but she did not grt a good response so she went behind and boiled hot water and pured on the puppy. My neighbor’s wife went and call police for her the next day being Sunday.but their aim is to keep her in cell till Monday to teach her a lesson.unknown to them my uncle is a top police officer so I called him and we were able to bail her putting Monday date.since then small thing my wife will start saying things that she is suspecting me , that am having am affair.i now told her how,she now said a man that does not drink alcohol and does not smoke will surely womanise.i then asure her that I have done nothing of such.and truly since I married her four years ago I have never looked at any woman aside her.
To cut a long stry short,February this year as usual during valentine I to her to a shop and asked her to pick whatever she wants.then she picked cloths and shoes worth 70k and I paid. After that February ending I usually give her 50k for upkeep so tha day I had keep the 50k but there was a plumbing problem that I had to take 5k out of it to solve so I gave her 45k promising to bring the balance home or I credit her,and that faithful morning we were having a meeting in which a top official is coming from head office and my head of operations was nor around so I was sitting in for her.
so I asked my wife to help me take our daughter to sch that day as I have to rush to the office b4 time. After giving my wife the 45k she threw it on the floor that it is not enough and started insulting me that what kind of useless job is that ,unknown to me she had gone and locked the entrance door and taken the key,as I was about to go out I discovered that the door was lock,so I called her aunte to talk to her,as she was on the phone with the aunt I went through the back door. As I was about to drive out I saw my wife rushing to close the gate with only pant and singlet,I mean pant and singlet not bump hort or rapper.i was surprise,but before she could close the gate I had already passed she now took a big stone and stared running after the car. she threw the stone at my suv ,it sounded like a bomb very loud.at first I did not know what happened untill I saw her running towards the car so I stoped,she now came held my side mirrow and started breaking it so I had to drive off. I was devasted and could not make it to work,so I called someone in the office that I won’st be able to make it to the office that am having some issues at home.
She went back to the house and called my Dad that if I come back she will kill me.so my Dad called me and I explained to him immediately what happened. so he said I should not go back home that day, I went and slept in a hotel In town .so the next day her mum came and I went home.Now it is not that am afraid of her but because I respect women and will not want to beat ofr fight her,I am far biger and taller than her if I decide to cough she will vanish so is not that am afraid of her am only respecting the marriage institution. When I got home the second day to resume work the third day I discovered that she had tore all my cloths,my shirt both office and casuals,all my suit including my wedding suit,.so I had nothing to wear the next day.so I missed work wednesdy,Thursday and Friday,during all these happening I have been in touch with my office and told them am having some family issues and could not make it to work.
I resumed the next Monday to work and everything seem to be going well, then on Tuesday I got a sack letter from human resources of the bank.unkonwn to me. the new manager that was posted to my branch got a querry for myself and the head of operations not being around for the initial meeting. so he was angry and he wrote to the bank’s human resources and when they checked that I was not logged on for the three days I was sacked,all because of my wife.most times she sends abusive texts messages to me while in the office.For instance if am attending to customers and she is calling and I did not pick on time she will now send a nasty text that I delibertly don”t want to pick her calls.i have even told her to come and see how we work in my office.so since march am yet to get any serious thing to do. I January I had 2.5m I paid our rent 1m and part pay for a land 1m and the remaining 500k lasted us from march till june.as usual with banks I was not paid anything.so when my savings finished in june the major financial burden fell on her,with little coming from me now.Since then my wife has made my life a living hell with all sorts of insult. For example in November,there was nothing in the house so she went to southern fries and bought rice and chicken for herself,then bought a watery oha soup with out meat that I should make garri and eat with it.it was when I wanted to microwave it that I discovered that it was watery and has no meat.i did not say anything.
Most times I stay back at home unless I have an appointment or an interview just not to spend unnecessary .so I was checking one of the cupboard in our room and I saw somethings she got from a native doctor,they include a bottle of concosion with the label witches and wizards destroying oil,the second one was two of her bathing soap with burnt candle on it when I looked at the soap closely I saw small cross buried inside,the third thing I saw was the complimentary card of the native doctor.All these things I just mentioned are real and I have their pictures that I snapped.i picked them and went to her uncle’S place to show him and he was mad,he immediately called her parent to come to Abj immediately and I called my parent to come becos I told them I don’t want the marriage again. Both parties came and the meeting lasted from 5pm to 12 mid nite and continued again the next day.
she could not defend her sellf and I said am not doing again and everyone started beging that I should give her one more chance.and it seems the issues was resolved.i started my investigation and discovered that unknown to me my wife is a runs girl even b4 I married her and after marriage she continued .that is why she went and did family planning without my knowledge so that she can be sleeping with me with out condom.and this days she dresses sugestivly.i have reported to the pastor ,her parent about her dressing but she has not changed.presently she is fighting with a lady in her former church the lady is a leader in the church.she said the lady has been attacking her in the dream and anytime they lady sees her the lady calls her prostitute.She told me that the lady is sleeping with her pastor.My wife has bad mouth and insult at every provocation,she hadly laughs always moody but when some kind of men call her she will be laughing as if tomorrow no dey.
Today being Christmas as we were preparing to go to church,she was noW feeding our daughter who just turned 3 last week.becos the baby was being slow to eat she started shouting that if the baby does not eat quikly that she will injure her.when I heard that I came and told her that such statement to a baby is not good,I have cautioned her severally not to be telling the baby that she will injure her.because there was a day I was playing with our baby and the baby was telling me that she will injure me.so becos of that I cautioned her.that was all,instead of her to take corrections she started insulting me.that am useless,that the whole burden is on her that she regrets marrying me.that she will surprise me one of these days.
My dear brothers and sisters in the house especially the married ones I frankly need ur candid advise as I am tired of her ,her bad and unrepentant character and her evil ways but am only looking at the term Christian marriage in terms of divorce as I ultimately want to make heaven just as every one.
Thank u for taking ur time to go through my ordeal.
You want to make heaven? she will make your dream come true soon. I blame you for not divorcing her since till she caused you your job.I am married for four years, (though my marriage is heaven on earth) but I don't believe in,"God hate divorce ".If I were you I would have divorced her since.Divorcing her now will only prevent your untimely death but if truly you want to make heaven, don't divorce her,you know you can't go to heaven alife.
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janvier27: Sit him down. Discuss your fears & your decision, and seek a mutual understanding and agreement. He is not likely to force you to hang on if you don't wish to. And make up your mind quickly before another pregnancy comes. Be more careful and diligent about the choices you make.
He will use jaz to keep you once he is aware of your intention,you are lucky that you are still thinking aright.I believe that you are now a muslim by virtue of your marriage and it is allowed to have four wives in Islam so,expect more two.Deal with it because this is what you get when sell your birth right to a plate of pourage.
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preciousMI1: she should be happy. she owe that to herself.. it's not an issue of rape... I'm talking from a religious injunction not a Nigeria thing
"Religion" is a pure Nigerian thing,Nigerians are too religious but they don't know God(both moslems and Christians) and i hate them for that.You are seeing this way because you are a Nigerian and i bet you they don't give a Bleep about religion.
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.We don't fight for God because we believe that our God is more than able to fight for himself and that every man will give account of his stewardship here on earth on the last day.I think the earlier the muslims(more especially the Northern muslims)learn how to tolerate other faiths,the better for us all because it is not possible for us all to believe in one thing even prophet Muhammed(SAW)lived with the christian,persias,pegans etc.
